eugenedoctorroe

[eugenedoctorroe]

We actually left the community for multiple reasons. However, the fact that people ever made contact stance a question was a huge one. That's weird. Kids, animals, etc, cannot consent. Don't make that a question.

For like actual advice, straight up, I would do what we did. You can be pro "rq things" without being rq. Ex. We support transIDs, paras, MUDs, etc. We do not think people should be transitioning to every ID. Especially if it's harmful to oneself. Leaving was so relieving for me. Especially because I didn't feel like I needed to ID with every single part of it anymore.

Anyway, that's my two cents. Do what you want with this.

You seem like you’d understand it most: I really want to disconnect from this community sometimes because of the weird shit people say and do. Especially about biominors.

yeahh i understand , my personal advice would be : have something else thats separate from this community

cause , shockingly , im not fully immersed in the community - i have separate shit that i do and it idk disconnects me from the community ?

yeah so just , have separate stuff to do to occupy yourself rather than only having a community that you personally understand isnt making you the happiest

[eugenedoctorroe]

I'm tired of fighting tooth and nail over my own identities. I made a new prefix so I can make it however I want it to be. I'm tired of other people deciding my identity for me.

I posted the term on my coining blog. @coiningbeyondthegrave.

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Please block @tales-of-the-empire . You know you're my favourite person. Thanks for leaving me again. Have a shit life.

Dude, you know you should be off the internet when you're splitting. It's gonna make you feel worse. /caring intent. I'm also just gonna ignore you telling me to have a shit life because you're splitting.

I left you because you were telling me my identity waters down what you go through. What sane person would ever want to still be friends with someone who "waters down what you go through?" Plus, why would I want to stick around when you're telling me labeling my dysphoria is bad.

[eugenedoctorroe]

Hey, if you're gonna tell me my identity is bad and hurts you, it's my right to leave you! Don't throw a tantrum on Tumblr because it's something I can't get over. Losing your shit over a prefix is weird. Labeling your atypical dysphoria is okay. It does not hurt anyone. It's okay to lean on labels to cope with what you're going through. Dysphoria sucks. It's up to you to figure out how to cope without transitioning.

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Hey, btw, if you tell people to die seriously, you suck!

[eugenedoctorroe]

2020 Alternative-Based Headmate Pack.

𓏵𓏵　　Theme　⸝⸝　2020 alt　　ᛝ

𓏵𓏵　　Name　⸝⸝　Arson ノ Juniper　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Age　⸝⸝　20　　ᛝ

𓏵𓏵　　Pronouns　⸝⸝　they ノ them ノ theirs ノ their ノ themself　mirror pronouns　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Gender Terms　⸝⸝　neutral, mirror　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Genders　⸝⸝　aesthetigender, agenderflux, mirrorgender, genderfluid, 2020altaesic, 2020altcoric, cringic, unrestrictedinternetaccess　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Sexualities　⸝⸝　aroaceflux, abrosexual, polyamorous, queer, favpersexual　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Other IDs　⸝⸝　Demonkin, corpsekin, ghostkin　　ᛝ

𓏵𓏵　　Sources　⸝⸝　2020 alt aesthetic　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Source Opinions　⸝⸝　Positive　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Source Connection　⸝⸝　Highly connected, IDs as source　　ᛝ 𓏵𓏵　　Roles　⸝⸝　Prosecutor, rationalizer　　ᛝ

𓏵𓏵　　Personality　⸝⸝　Always putting the system first. Is pretty logical. They can use DBT skills to make their way through life. Normally numb or neutral. This alter can be considered stable. When in distress, they will take a step back to figure out what to do next. They tend to make pros and cons lists a lot.　　ᛝ

(Note: I also picture him with one of those bunny hats!)

[eugenedoctorroe]

1 graphic, two dividers. Made for rentry, but can be used anywhere.

Reqs are open.

[eugenedoctorroe]

Daily reminder that you can label yourself however you want. It's no one else's business.

[eugenedoctorroe]

could you make a tumblr header based off of candy apple cookie from cookie run: kingdom?

Candy Apple Cookie from Cookie Run Kingdom Tumblr Header!

[eugenedoctorroe]

I think the past few posts from antis on r/systemscringe really points out that we are all in this together. So, let's talk about it. I think we all know the trigger warnings by now. View under the cut at your own discretion.

Now, some make a point come through. What is this point? All people who claim to have DID are fakers to these people. Putting each other down will not strength the community, nor will it strengthen you. Would you like more proof? Let us read some comments.

Now, what do these statements prove? Well for starters, we can never be good enough to these people. I agree with the first comment stating that we do it to feel more valid. However, the key word they use is, "faker." They call these people fake for this. Do they really believe that all of these people are fakers? What makes a faker in their eyes? It's starting to appear as though it is everyone who claims to be plural.

Again, putting other systems down will not raise you up. We are all fakers to this group of people.

The next subject will be on their take on "Power to the Plurals." In the next screenshots we will be viewing how they believed we are not oppressed for being systems. I believe I still need to state why this is wrong. These people are literally on a subreddit made to torment us. It is a breeding ground for hatred against plural folk.

In conclusion, you cannot prove your own plurality to people on the internet. You will never be valid in their eyes. It doesn't matter how many "fakers" you put down. Especially because all it does is hurt your community. Why does one feel the need to prove oneself to people who don't even believe in our oppression or community?

[eugenedoctorroe]

from the same subreddit that says they mock anyone who claims to be a system, regardless if they're actually faking or not. but yeah, why tf would you go there if you're plural? they dont care about you. they aren't gonna treat you nicely just because you're diagnosed, or hate endos, or went through trauma. because they'll say any and all symptoms you have are things "fakers" do, and use that to insult and mock you relentlessly. in their eyes, we're all the same. we're all fakers. regardless if we're diagnosed or not. it was never about protecting disabled people. it was about spreading misinformation about how plurality works, and silencing anyone who tries to tell the truth by calling them fakers.

[eugenedoctorroe]

what's a headmate mock-up?

It’s basically BAH with less steps. It can be used to flesh out already existing fragments too.

[eugenedoctorroe]

　　 @　Eugene　"Doc"　Roe　...

　　Eugene "Doc" Roe IRL! Traumagenic BPD plural of infinite. Pro-endo/endo-safe. A recovering radqueer: Radqueers DNI, it makes me very uncomfortable. Pro-contacts will not be tolerated on this account. We are pro-para, but comp-contact. (Anti-contact harmful* paras.) Basically neutral everything else. The only exception is if it involves me.

　　Things we do; graphics, dni/byi banners, emojis, Tumblr headers and icons, discord banners and icons, userboxes, and headmate mock-ups. BE SPECIFIC.

[eugenedoctorroe]

Playing around with emojis :p

[eugenedoctorroe]

Yknow after leaving the radqueer community, I feel so stupidly lonely. Like, I’m trying to get off the internet and recover. However, there’s no one to support me. They’re all busy.

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　　@　oh　,　okay　,　I　see　.

　　Recovering　radqueer　.　Pro　recovery　.　BPD　plural　.　Also　,　pro　-　endo　.　We　respect　endos　as　their　own　ID　.　Pro　-　para　.　Comp　-　contact　.

　　This　blog　will　be　about　our　"　recovery　,　"　and　whatever　we　want　.