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COLMAN DOMINGO & KIERAN CULKIN Actors on Actors | Variety (December 18, 2024)

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kieran culkin via instagram

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Kieran Culkin & Colman Domingo Actors on Actors | Variety

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Pick an Arcane Character for a Gifset Poll Winner 1/?: Mel Medarda ↳ "Councilors. It appears we are at an impasse. If we shut down the Hexgates, the city will suffer. But if we do nothing, we leave ourselves vulnerable to malefactors. More lives may be lost. Perhaps the time has come to explore a more radical solution."

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Mayor Dutie & Aaliyah Nurein by Jebi Labembika for Jawara Alleyne S/S 2024 Campaign

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ben affleck hearing “you kiss guys on molly” for the first time

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Imagine having a podcast where you make fun of the Megan Thee Stallion. By acting like you can't pronounce her name and don't even know her, but laugh at the trauma she went through involving the hands of Tory Lanez.

This is rooted in microagression and racism. The fact that you are actually mad because your ex chooses to upgrade on somebody who is not only beautiful than you but also more successful than you.

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people who uphold the tenets of “sex positivity” are taking issue with people pointing out that neil gaiman couched his abuse under the language of kink and freedom of speech. many such cases. people who question men that take sexual pleasure in humiliating women are seen as insufficiently liberal and even sexually “defective” if they critique sexual subordination—if you oppose the eroticization of male violence and female subordination, then you are broken and in need of fixing, you are sexually repressed, and they will misuse the word “puritan” to dismiss you (note: the christian puritan movement was not anti-sex).

it is 2025 and we cannot afford to keep tiptoeing around how this retrograde “sex positivity” sanitizes abuse and rape. sexual behaviors are not beyond critique simply because they give you an orgasm in the private sphere. no, women and queers and all manners of gender identity configurations are not exempt either. the idea that any act is completely beyond reproach if it causes arousal, the idea that any sex act is morally neutral if you consent, that abuse is impossible if you consent, that physical injury can be ignored if you consent to violence, all need to be flushed. i had a joke here but i deleted it cuz i’m being deadass serious for once. this is dangerous ma’am!!!!

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neil gaiman is what happens when you proliferate the snake oil industry of psychology and give men the language of retrograde sex positivity, i fear

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Supposing Sydluca happens, I know dam right that both Nat and Tina would hype that shit up. They would be encouraging Syd to date him because “girl you deserve someone to keep you warm at night” and “he looks like Disney prince, so tall and handsome” even Richie would tease her. All while Carmy is dying in the corner.

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The Dangerous Lives of Alter Boys / The Boy With the Thorn in His Side by The Smiths

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SydCarmy’s sex life based on this @thoughtfulchaos773 reply:

love this take because i also see a lot of ppl saying syd is the dominant one. and i don’t disagree but …. she’s the golden retriever. i think the black cat/golden retriever dynamic suits Carmy and Sydney, respectively. the black cat/golden retriever are both dominant and leaders but it just depends on when. this dynamic has two people that are dominant in different ways at different times, especially depending on their mood.

in the black cat/golden retriever dynamic, i think syd is dominant in a golden retriever way. black cat can be seen as more nonchalant than golden retriever. black cat isn’t always going to bring the excitement so they can hang back while golden retriever does the talking and socializing but black cat can take the reins when necessary. whereas golden retriever is more sociable and energetic so its easier to consider them as dominant. but when golden retriever has used up all their energy, black cat can step up in the role of being dominant.

i think syd and carm are that het relationship we see often in real life, the one where the woman is the more lively one and she’s headstrong. think about the kind of girl who has her opinions and will voice them, and has her own threshold for the kind of bullshit she’ll accept. again, she’s headstrong. which to everyone else makes her the leader of their relationship. this may be true. she may oftentimes steer the ship except in the bedroom

for some reason the only real life example i can think of is Rihanna. there’s this discourse of whether Rihanna is dominant or submissive sexually (it’s no one’s business really, but for the purposes of this). if you’ve seen the conversation around this then you’re familiar with the idea that Rihanna is a strong woman, who is a leader, and doesn’t take bullshit. in the bedroom, however, she does not mind being led at all.

the kind of woman who will go toe to toe with a man over what they consider worth it, is the same woman who will let a man she considers worth it to tell her “lay down, spread your legs, let me see that throbbing juicy puss”

not trying to be weird as i say this, but i speak from personal experience. and the conversation feels reductive and the verbiage feels like a setback for women’s rights advancement lmao but bear with me. as someone who is considered “a mouthy woman”, the only time I’ll allow a man to tell me to shut up is sexually. I’d never let a man talk to me crazy. matter of fact, most men i come across learn quickly that I don’t play those games lol but when it comes to sex, there something enticing about a man who knows how to take the lead. and this doesn’t mean he has a lengthy resume of sexual experience. it just means that he knows how to be in command.

this to me, is Sydney and Carmy’s relationship. the way people are socially can be but is not always telling of how they are in the bedroom. specifically in social situations, you may see Syd be more talkative and command the room (think: the Ever funeral) but that doesn't necessarily mean she's always in command. i think sexually it’s 60/40 (not a real estimate lol) where he’s dominant at least 60% of the time and the other 40% is left to circumstance. unless your romantic relationship has an established "this is my dom, i am a sub" dynamic, most relationships are going to shift between who takes the lead. this is where I can see the "Syd is a dom and Carm is her sub" idea.

sexually, Carmy is likely to be so in tune with Syd and her body that he’s the metronome ensuring the tempo and the pitch of her sexual pleasure. this is where i think the "Carmy is a munch" idea is very accurate. he wants to make her feel good and know he's the reason she does. but because the dynamic shifts who is in the lead, there are times where she's the one saying "lay down . i want to make you feel good" or "get on your knees, eat me"

tl:dr Carmy is usually more sexually dominant than Syd but they switch

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im suffering from a horrendous disease called being in your 20s

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MEGAN THEE STALLION — on the set of ‘Strategy’ M/V (2024)