theamazingmuse

[theamazingmuse]

How to manifest (real)

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No shadow work / no things like that 

You have all the answers within yourself 

Here’s what I learned about manifestation. I love to talk but I am gonna try to summarize lol

Context

I don’t even know how I realized the power of manifestation. You have to know that I am someone who has always manifests fast. Bad or good. But I wasn’t aware of this. 

I think that the first thing that manifested was finding my work card that I lose in a big station. The next was working in a festival to see my favorite artists (yes lol I was so happy).

This applies to me. Many people have their techniques. This is not the same for everyone BUT there are some key parts

important: This is a state of neutrality and knowing. That’s it. At least for me that’s it. If it doesn’t happen maybe you have some blockages in you (fear/stress) or even "when does this happen" feeling

My most successful one is undeniable the festival. I wanted to be there because all the artists that i listen to were there. But I didn’t want to buy tickets (yes). So I was like " it’s better to work there 💡". So I applied to work for them .  They didn't reply btw. Inside of me I knew I would be there. I was excited. My friend applied too. Three months later we received the job offer. Me for three days and my friend for two. Our artists were there the first day and she was kinda sad. But, me I was so happy !  

So it was a success. It was one of the most beautiful things that happened to me. Every time I speak about this I am like 🤩. 

So yeah. I knew it and was thinking about it joyfully. I wasn’t obsesses. Very detached. Everybody says that but this is complicated to understand Being detached doesn’t mean to not care. It’s knowing that you KNOW it’s for you so why would you stress about it ? It requires a lot of discipline, and trust, especially if you’re someone who likes to control everything. 

✮⋆˙ Start slow at first - People say that you have to act like the person you want to become. Yes, but this is not really necessarily imo. I mean when you already know, you’re not a person who stress over things. But truly thinking like that one person is gonna be frustrating because you step into someone you’ve never been. So start slow. 

✮⋆˙ Everything is not gonna be perfect at the beginning - You’ve lived many years with that old version of you. Your subconscious mind who knows that version will be pushed to act like that. It’s a mental game because everything is mental. You have to erase it to introduce the new mind. If you do only the action it’s not gonna be enough. The mind first next the action. That’s why they said think like that version of yourself. 

-> The old version is gonna trick you to make you fall into your old habits. Feel it, know it and act differently. It’s very difficult but it’s when all happens. 

✮⋆˙ There is no delay - Time doesn’t exist like what we think this is. What I mean by that is that everything is set in the NOW. This is what you do NOW that’s gonna bring you where you want to be. 

✮⋆˙ The most powerful feeling + thoughts = appears in the reality That’s why people say to repeat and repeat and repeat. Personally I hate affirmations. If I do this it's in a personal way (detailed and precise). Like I said each person has their own techniques. It can be scripting, journaling, being delusional everything. What works for you.

+ This is your world, you decide the rules. Things like shadow work and everything help you to understand what are your blockages / limiting beliefs that stops your manifestations. See, everything is about you. That's why they talk about self concept.

➥ you have to be convinced that you're gonna have it. Most importantly in a neutrality state = You're good with it or without it. If you want it, the universe is gonna make sure that you still want it. ✮⋆˙ At first it might be complicated, but after you're gonna feel like a magician - When I think about my successful manifestations I am like "oh yes I wanted that lol". It's easy for the little things in life but for your dream life you have to put emphasis on YOURSELF = act like that person that already have all the things you want. It's where it's complicated

➥ On a frequency level, action, attitude and everything and this the the most complicated part (to me). You have to step into a new character. Someone who is not afraid, who trust the process and the invisible.

✮⋆˙ When you do an action you have to be focus in the moment. Focus is a HUGE thing. That's why you don't want to focus on negative things or overthinking. You have to be still. That's why they say to MeDiTaTe

✮⋆˙ You are limitless like this world because you're a part of it. So yes, you can manifest everything. You have to see things in a non realistic way. I mean, in this reality you don't see everything, just the physical. Do not be fooled. Things happens.

And I don't want to see you manifesting a fucking SP 🫵. Think about your money, your job, your beauty, your health. Not a SP. Omg I am tired of seeing this word. I never understood that obsession in the manifestation community. You can manifest everything ! Don't be obsess with someone. They'll will not be obsessed lol everything you don't want is gonna show up you're gonna be sad. Everything is about you. This is your life. (YO)UNIVERSE. Remember, you shouldn't be obsess with something/someone. Only you and your life.

➥ Your dream life first. Life is not supposed to be hard. Match the frequency you want. Bad frequency/being negative = a difficult life.

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The END. I wanted to make this post because I know it can help. Life really started when I stopped to control everything and decided to trust. I also realized that I can't work hard, I work smart. I go with the flow. I can't say " I am gonna post five posts per week or eat this or that". It's always a FAIL. Then I get frustrated and it becomes a cycle and I don't want that and you too so be careful.

It's been a long time since I posted. Hope that you receive a notification when I post. (I don't know if you do)

You deserve the best.

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🥬

(I like men do get me wrong BUT Men like this. Maybe one day I would tell you how to understand men so that you do not suffer anymore)

Bye💋

[theamazingmuse]

How to not care about what other people think of you

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Quick and simple but I wanted to make a beautiful post about it.

You're gonna die. That's it. End of the post.

No

Not the end of this post but be for real. YOU'RE GONNA DIE SOMEDAY.

Maybe tomorrow, maybe in 5 years we don't know.

Actualiy there are two sides of not caring about what other people think of you. I don't want to say "it's a reflection of their insecurities" yes but some people are just mean. ⋆˚࿔ About a project, something that you do.

Most people are losers. LOSERS ! They can't even do what you do. Youalready heard this but a content creator will not judge for starting a Youtube Chanel, or a millionaire would not laugh at you for trying to make money. At the gym, a gym rat would not judge you when you're doing a wrong movement. It's always parasite who don't even try.

We all start somewhere and they knew that. People who make a comment and don't do anything with their life are losers idc. They're gonna be there at 70 with a miserable life that they don't want (yes) while you succeeded.

When you're on a self improvement journey or you doing everything to achieve your dreams YOU CAN'T LET MISERABLE PEOPLE judge you. Ain't no way omg. You have to feel pity for them I'm sorry. You can only take critics to improve yourself. The quality of your videos or how you speak for examples. Advice from people who are already where you want to be or your clients. THATS IT

Truly you don't want to be the grandma who says "oh I wanted to do this and that but I couldn't because I had this fear of judgment. Now they're all death and I don't have time anymore"

It's so scary to think about it.

The fact you're gonna die should be the first thing you should care of. Nobody is gonna remember, people are so focus on themselves. You, you're gonna remember of everything you achieved, everything you said proudly. This is so powerful to not care about what other people think.

My speech seems arrogant but this is truly how I see people who get embarrassed easily and find everything cringe. It will never be them. I hate negativity and mean people. OMG

If you see through the lens of others, it means that your life is not yours. A forever PRISON.

⋆˚࿔ About your appearance

What they say is not necessarily true. It's you who chose to accept this. And let's be real they're not better we all know this 🤣. This is not the true only if you accept their opinion as true. They can have their opinion but you can yours too. If you truly know yourself you can't be shaken about they said.

Truly you shouldn't be afraid of others. I said that with experience because I used to be like that. Random people judging you (at work, social media, at school) can be overwhelming but when you start to realize that they are on different level on consciousness and they do that based on how they leaved, it doesn't affected you anymore. You do not care.

Now think about what to do, not of what other people think of you. It might be hard at first, but then you realize it's not that serious.

People on the internet are doing worse than what you think trust me. They're doing the most cringiest thing you can think of and you know that 😭.

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The END. I think it's been a while since I posted. I felt the urge to make this post so maybe somebody needed to hear (read) this. This is the first month of the year. Do not forget what you told to yourself at the end of 2024. This is your year.

A very quick post but an effective one. You have to understand that life will be easier once you know that only one person will be in your coffin. YOU 🫵

I repeat myself but you cannot let small minded people ruining your big plans. Never heard of... Am I supposed to care ???? You should be like that

(You don't know how I lose my aura 2 times today I feel so weird.)

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🫥

[theamazingmuse]

Happy new year !!!

I wish you the most wonderful year. I hope you stay in a good health, that you achieve your goals and earn a lot of money. The year will depend of you. The choices you make, how you're gonna handle hard situations and the most important your ability to trust the unknown.

I wanted to tell you that after the first week of January. The first week is a beta version lol. It doesn't count. More seriously I am more aware now. I know exactly what I have to do.

I have many posts to share !! So many ideas !

Thank you for being here !

Do not hesitate to tell me what are your concerns about something. I would be glad to answer in private or it can public if you want.

2025 has to be our year and this is not a joke !

Stay focus

your favorite antagonist

[theamazingmuse]

What 2024 taught me

omg I thought 2024 was going to be my year lol

I don't know where to start. 2024 was one of those year where you have to learn things. 2023 was really good year but 2024 was...calm. If I had to define with emojis it would be 🤓😞💪😂😵‍💫❤️

I learned more than I did even though I did some things really cool.

Here what I learned (long and intense but so funny lmao)

🧸ྀི People don't care about you. Crazy but people really don't care, no matter who they are, in reality. So if you want to start something do it especially if it involves something public. Can be posting on Tumblr, social media or public speaking. People care about themselves. I never realized that. ➜ Even on TikTok when you watch content that performs really well it's something that people can improve on them or something that makes them feel an emotion. Content like vlogs etc don't perform well because people don't give a fuck about you. I don't speak for myself I just like to analyze things and I see it on newbies influencers how it affects them.

➜ Truly people don't care about you. I say on a "opinion of others" view. Do what you're wanna do. Nobody is gonna judge you. If they do it, it means you have successful trust me

🧸ྀིYou're alone when you're evolving. If you're aim for more in life, your circle is not going to support you because they do not understand and that's ok. That's why I told you to find a mind circle that is like you

🧸ྀིThe problem will always be you (harsh but true). If you have a situation that is repeated every time and you wonder why it's because you don't change and you do not learn. It's going to be that Every time. Every thing is a cycle. If you let people break your heart and you do nothing then it's your fault. If you say that you wanna change but you do nothing it's not because of me lol it's you. Nobody is going to save you. People can give you advice or even me when I post something but it's YOU and only you who make decisions

🧸ྀི Girls are not girls girls at work ????? I was so sad. I know that not everybody is your friend at work but ? especially mom like older women. Women seek validation from men that is crazy. But men are kind with women who know who they are.

➜ Also I hate people who follow rules like crazy at work. This is not your dad's business why are you so strict. OMG. I am so lazy there. It says that I finished at 5 at 4:55 I am ready to go 😂 🧸ྀི I hate customer service people are so dumb and mean. I say to someone she was crazy because she hurt my friend she makes a BIG scandal but I switched the narrative she wanted me to apologize 🤣. Thankfully my coworker was amazing and took my side. (obviously)

🧸ྀི Have your own perception on things. No matter of what it is. Life, advice, relationship, people. If you don't think like your friends you have the right to do so. Do not follow something because it's trendy or if it doesn't align with you. Do not betray yourself because you want to be liked by others. You're gonna feel so bad after that. It's the same for those gurus on YouTube who tell you what to do. Even if people do agree in the comments you have to not be agree. to 🧸ྀི if people want to talk to you they'll do it. If you feel that you force something that it's always you who make the first move, there is a problem (especially if you have a man). Do not force things. If something tells you "hmm...I do not receive the love that I give" it's already a sign. I speak about relationships, so even friendships.

🧸ྀི Overthinking is useless. You create something (thoughts + emotions) so it's going to appear in the physical world (manifestation). And it's going to be a cycle (again). Overthinking is the result of a noisy mind because you're certainly grew up in a place that was noisy too and you have to figure out everything. Some solutions would be journaling to let this out or meditation. At first it's difficult but that's why you meditate. To let your brain say everything in a relaxation moment to be calm in everyday life. Start slow.

🧸ྀི Your values are not based on numbers. When you post something on Instagram or TikTok and you have 5 likes it's not a bad photos or a bad video. I often see people being sad when not many people like their post. It's dangerous to think like this because it means your value is based on others. Once you do not have that validation you're gonna be frustrated. Yes, it's good when people like you're content but do not take numbers seriously.

➜ Be grateful that someone paid attention to what you're doing yes, but do not be OBSESSED. That's why even if I get one like I'm happy because at least I helped someone. Do you imagine if I was deleting all my content because it doesn't have that many likes lol. Moreover when you do a content based on people you're not creative. This is not like TikTok because I feel like this is an AI that inspect you but maybe one day I would talk about that. But you get what I mean. 10 likes are a lot. Imagine 10 persons telling you in real life "your video/post helped me"

🧸ྀི We are always guided. When I look back on how my self development journey started, it's crazy how everything filled into place. And the fact that I don't really started something "crazy" is crazy. I know it's because something big is going to happen to me. So all of this was to prepare me for something. It's like a movie and that's crazy. Look at events in your life. It always makes sense.

🧸ྀི I understand more what is manifestation and everything related to that. At least how manifestation "works" for me. In 2023, I manifested a lot but I didn't know it was that. I knew but I didn't know Now that I know the topic more I kinda know this. The things is when you're aware of things I think it becomes more "difficult" to materialize things because it requires faith and discipline and the fact that you're aware omg. But once you understand this life become ea-sy ea-sy

➜ To manifest you have to be detached. You're already that person so act like it. You have to be like neutral, knowing that you're already have it. It's a discipline because you have to trick your brain

🧸ྀི I am someone very psychic and I first I thought everybody was like that. Everything that I think happens (good or bad) and it's scary. I have a good intuition and I rarely make mistakes (especially on people). When something blocks with me it means that I need to correct something within me. Truly. I don't even have to change something in the physical world. I know that I can manifest really fast but sometimes my mind is so limited ans that's become overwhelming.

🧸ྀིOur body is not broken. If you have the chance to have a body that functions pretty good it's not broken. If you don't not lose weight it means you might be doing something wrong. Even all that insuline/cortisol thing is real. Your body functions correctly do not worry. If you do not have your period while you should have it, something is wrong. Your body protect you even in crazy situations and make your heart beats even when you're sleeping. You want to see your body change take care of the version you have now. Fuel your body with good food, drink water, have a good sleep schedule. It matters I promise you. 🧸ྀི The more I learned about spirituality the more I don't see religion like before. I mean religious organizations. I don't see God as someone who's like "you you're gonna have this you this !" "you're gonna go to heaven or you in hell". Since I'm child I never understood that and my family is religious++. I think hell or even is a state of mind and what is being told in sacred books is a sort of rules to not have to deal with that. I don't like how it's portrayed because it puts you on a "guilt shame energy" and I don't like that. I believed in God but not like people see god (you get it). I also understood that I am a creator myself. Not only because I can create a baby but because I also create my own reality. There is a higher force above me that want me to achieve thing yes but it doesn't mean that I have to do nothing. That force helps me but me too I have to evolve and create on my own.

➜ (What I am saying is my opinion I don't want to influence anybody here on that topic. I speak from the bottom of my heart and how I feel about that. As I said have your own perception.)

🧸ྀི Having a crush tells you what do you like in a person. Even your celebrities/anime crushes. I made a post at my rookie era on Tumblr about male characters that I like and I realize it was the same man. I even ask chatgpt and it told me exactly what I like (I pretend to be shocked). I don't really find crush in the real life I am a coach so I don't play (yes). But I feel I am going in relationship next year (ugh). I am actually mad because it's always old men that approaches me and every time I want to die when they interact with me. OMG they loved to say that I am "so beautiful, classy and cute" . I hate it because it means that I attract old men. In the train or

🧸ྀི People who want to manifest an SP are insecure bye. Ain't no way you put that person on a pedestal and you try hard to manifest them. The fact this is mainly that topic in manifestation community .

🧸ྀི Do not be a people pleaser that's it.

🧸ྀི It's difficult to not procrastinate to hold your habits and everything. Especially if you do things alone. You better have that discipline if your aim to be an entrepreneur because if you cannot trust yourself how you can manage your business and people.

🧸ྀི Things like astrology, matrix destiny chart, human design helped to understand many things about me. I don't believe in those things most of the time but I have to say that it really helped me. For real, it really helped me to understand how I was. It's accurate even though I used to not believe in this especially with astrology. (I am a cancer and a sagittarius rising at one minute to be a scorpio rising btw). In numerology I have I life path that is 5. In destiny matrix my yellow center is 10 is a 10 (10-11-21 program). I am an INFJ. I am exactly like all of this. But I feel that I have a scorpio energy when people don't know me.

🧸ྀི Have a vision for your life especially if you're young. When your're gonna start working you're gonna realize how doing the same thing everyday is hard and if you don't not like that it's gonna be really complicated. It does't mean if you're older it's over for you. You can always restart

🧸ྀི Physical appearance matters especially if you're a woman. Being pretty is life on easy mode. Here we say the truth. Taking care of your appearance means that you love yourself and that you make sure to be comfortable within yourself

🧸ྀི People are dumb most of the time and don't have critical thinking. They like shitty things. That's why drama content, dumb things are viral unfortunately. 🧸ྀི You don't see when you change at the beginning, you see that later based on how you behave and how you react. 🧸ྀི You do not get angry anymore when you know how people are

🧸ྀི Starting a blog was one of the best things that happened to me I always loved writing. I had a wattpad story that I enjoyed writing and people seem to love that. I deleted this because I didn't like it anymore it wasn't me anymore but people seem to loved it. It has 50K views and it was so much for me. I am someone who likes to give advice. I also have a lot of knowledge and I love to observe people, things . I do not share the same opinion of everybody and now I am glad because this is my strength ➜ Something was telling me to do a Tumblr account. I didn't know what to put here. So I make what I love which is analyzing people. I was watching one piece at the time so I put a character that I liked. so it was How to be like boa Hancock. I thought nobody would find my account lol. Then I wanted to make it like me. People always tell me that I exude an aura, that I am charismatic. I also like villain in anime and how they speak so I turn that into a thing. I didn't wanted to do an advice blog like other account that is pink, feminine etc. I am not that light feminine. Sometimes yes but most of the time I am more into vintage, moody things. I also love to learn a lot.

➜ I also like having universes so instead I decided to do a manor. I really like universes, concepts and when it's made properly. I like deep things, deep people. I can't do small talk omggg

➜ But I am glad to have created this blog. It taught me a lot about consistency and what do I like to do. I like writing like this is not a chore or a homework. I really like to do that. So I am happy to share my thoughts and my advice I truly hope it helps you.

➜ I received some messages telling me that you love my posts and that makes me sooooo happy !!! I would continue to make good posts. ❤️ I also find Tumblr quit I do know but even on other blog it's pretty quit. People do not comment or anything 😂. That's nothing I am happy if I have one like it means that you're there

🧸ྀི 2025 have to be our years I don't care. I had to deal with crazy things in 2024. I learned a lot. 2025 has going to be my year. It have to omg. It's all about consistency, limiting beliefs and being in alignement with what we want.

➜ I can wait to tell you how my 2025 was. I hope you do not settle for less in life. Imagine your life and how good il would be. If you feel you have to do this or that pls do it.

Here are my best post imo

How to have an aura (my favorite)

How to be a muse

How to be a Kpop Idol

How to stop being a people pleaser

The siren: be bewitching

Tips for gym newbies

How Nara Smith achieved celebrity status

Books recommendations (self development)

How to seduce like Lee La-el

Hobbies that might be interesting to you

Hope to see you in 2025.

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse

(you're a champion if you're there I speak too much but I love it 2024 was about learning)

[theamazingmuse]

How to not be eaten by men in this world

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(sigh)

(hope you are on dark mode)

I just saw a post about a woman saying that she's willing to do 50/50 with a men.

I can't omggg. Everybody does what they want ofc but I have to say what I need to say

50/50 in this world does not benefit you at all. I assume that most of Tumblr users are women so yeah.

This is my take, every one has its own opinion but

Doing 50/50 with a men is terrible and I say terrible in every aspects of your life.

This is general, traditional. There are exceptions BUT

I think we do all agree that men have higher wages at work in general. at this moment you're know that you're cooked 😂.

Next you can be pregnant. It means that at some point you'll have to stop working. It means that you'll not have that much money to pay your part

-> Do not forget there is a baby now : diapers, milk powder (have you seen those prices ????) clothes and everything. omg

Next glass ceiling -> (definition of Oxford languages) an unacknowledged barrier to advancement in a profession, especially affecting women and members of minorities.

Our situations are crucial. Yes, some women earn more than men but this is not the norm. If you aspire to be a mother you better be strategic (yes) but this is an another part

I did the professional world part now I have to do the home/relationship part (oh yes because otherwise this is not funny)

you can be pregnant #2 your body have the ability to create a baby. It means that you carry this baby in your belly during 9 months. Your put your body in the most dangerous situations. Before, during and after, you're gonna feel it.

Ladies, this is your man who's gonna benefit from this and the fact that your child take (most of the time) the last name of your husband tells everything. It's more his child than yours. Crazy. You offered him a descendance. A descendance. He's a fAtHeR

Moreover, you have to take care of the house + the kids most of the time. This is something not “evaluated” because you cannot mesure this. It's a burden, a pressure. Cannot believe that some men don't help their wives at home.

You have a lot of emotions in yourself. You already have so much things to do and you're able to do many things. Truly you shouldn't be worried about finances. This is the least your man can do for you. I know this is hard in this life and sometimes a man cannot handle everything but not a 50/50 in a relationship. Omg what is that ? (don't get me started with stay at home men pls because if I catch them 😭) "I want to an independent woman I don't want to be dependent on a men" who said you cannot ?

You’re dependent of him on a mental level. (We would talk about this in another post 😼) Dependency is in every aspects, not only material. You can have your money so if he makes a wrong move you're ready to go.

"What if I earn more than him I can help him ?"

Listen (you're reading actually), this is a special case. Men have ego. For them ain't no way a woman earn more than them + help him ?? Nah. He's gonna be mean with you because he doesn't feel like a man. You’re gonna be in competition

I feel that I have a traditional speech but a man that in his masculin, who want a family is gonna take care of you, of his children. A man that truly respect women cannot be there like that🧍‍♂️.

This is really important to know that. The most basic thing. And when one of those man say what do you bring to the table ? Bitch I can turn you into the best man in a room, just because I'm there pls don't talk nonsense. Your friends are going to say “look at his beautiful wife ! And he has kids ! What a beautiful family ! What an accomplished man 🤩” A man who asks you this don't know the power of a women and eventually do not respect them. I HATE guys not men ughhh

We all know how men are. They can be vile, mean, competitive (omg). In 2024 (almost 2025) we all know there are higher chances that a man cheat, hit you so take his money. This is your birthright. Men should serve women. We create life

A man has to protect you and your family. To be there for his family and to be an exemple for his kids so they can be proud of him and you too.

I mean… life is already complicated as a women you still wanna be in charge of finances and everything ? At least he pays most of it. You don't want to suffer with a man I promise you. You should be at peace. Peace. You're a women do not let's those men assume that you have no value or everything please please please.

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The motherfucking END. God I hate guys like that. How is it possible and you know what ? My mom did 50/50 and it destroyed her. I couldn't believe it. Now when I see girls on social media saying that this is normal and everything I can't let them enduring that. And no you're not a gold digger or idk what. This is very important to choose a stable man idc what anyone says.

We would talk about men later. I am sick and tired of seeing woman not seeing their value or worst getting manipulated by men. Men know what they are doing but they are dumb at the same time

Do what you want but do not make this mistake of doing 50/50 with a man (please)

I made this post because I love you, wherever you are and I don't want you to SUFFER

theamazingmuse 🤦‍♀️

[theamazingmuse]

Hope you have a good day

Take care of yourself after having HEAVY social interactions with your family. Christmas for me it’s not a big deal anymore. My family is “separate” but we leave in the same house (yes it's complicated). We don’t share meals in a big table etc. My parents make food and everybody eats on their own. Even for presents. Each person buy their own stuff lol. I didn't even buy something. Our parents give us money and we buy . There is no magical moment like when we were kids but obviously but I am grateful ofc 

Don’t be sad if you spend Christmas alone. Sometimes this is the best thing that can happen to you. Trust me. 

I think that Christmas is a commercial day fr. Everybody takes Christmas seriously. After all, this is good to spend time with your family and everything. If I start a business I would make sure to be there for Christmas season because before that it's thanksgiving and Black Friday and before that it's back to school so 🤑

That's why entrepreneurs are happy at the end of the year 😂

Also can't believe that companies make Secret Santa. Please I don't like my coworkers enough to spend on them. I saw this online and I was like what ???

I have few posts that I want to share with you before 2025. Not only body type lol. I just have to put image and colors. Colors takes so much time.

Don’t be afraid to share to tell me what would you like to see in my humble manor.

Your favorite antagonist 💋

[theamazingmuse]

Body type series : Inverted triangle

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One of the most common body types among celebrities: the inverted triangle also known as V body shape. Many girls don't like this body shape because it may appear masculine but I am here to give you my tips

-> We're already done the rectangle and the apple. We said inverted triangle

୨ৎ because shoulders are more extended than the hips and waist unlike the rectangle. Those two body types are almost the same but only shoulders are different

୨ৎ It gives an upper body that is more visible than the lower body.

୨ৎ You're not necessarily slim like the rectangle but you can appear bigger on the upper body easily.

That's why it can appear masculine like men when they train only the upper body and after that they have legs like 🐓

But don't worry. As I said, many celebrities especially Kpop idols have this body type. This is a beauty standards to have 90° shoulders in Korea. Models too have this shape. Bella for exemple, Nayeon and Aya Nakamura.

My recommendations would be V tops to elongate your chest. Those small blouses we put on in a full blazer. Or even scoop tops (we want to see your collarbones 🔊)

Like the rectangle, office siren outfits fit you really well. Blouses, long skirt, off shoulders tops are really good as you can see.

this outfit of Kendall urggg ! I wanted to recreate Bella's outfits but I think that she put a corset and I don't have one 😞

Set and monochrome outfits are really good, especially if you have long legs. Those types of jeans are perfect.

Regarding dresses, I think that off shoulders (again) dresses are great. We should see your arms fully because you have the figure for that.

More top off shoulders. Everything that is corset, off shoulders and where we can see your collarbones is great!

(you get it)

Also I think that coquette style is great. Mini skirt, Mini jacket. Miu Miu vibes (you get it #2)

You can also be inspired by my post about the rectangle because they are quite the same. Of course you can also wear sweat shirt, long coat but be careful at the shoulders area because you already have pronounced shoulders so no need to add epaulette.

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The END. I always see people in comments said that they hate this body type. When I was doing my research about myself I always find people with an inverted triangle not rectangle. There are many women with shape especially idols.

The key is to be proportions, even when you're doing your workout. You have to be specific. If you don't want a shape I think you can always change your body type but this is difficult. It all depends of bone structures, weight, height something unique to you. But as I said many celebrities have this body shape so it's easier to know what is good for you.

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🫀

[theamazingmuse]

How to be a muse

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The right person to give you advice about it I mean look at my username

Muse - a person or personified force who is the source of inspiration for a creative artist.

So you are an inspiration to others. Everybody wants to be like you, like an it girl (in a modern term). But as you can see in the definition the term muse is more poetic ? This is someone who has HEAVY impact on creative people through you (only). It's incredible.

And you know what ? All you have to do is...exist ?

This is full guide to be your dream woman (real)

It means that you are the highest version of yourself. It's a JOURNEY but here's how you can achieve it. Really.

Long post incomming. There are so much things to do when you want to be the highest version of yourself. Not just acting like that version and that's it. Yes, but I want to go deeper (like always in my life). This is spiritual

➥ It's an interactive post. Take a piece of paper to write (not your phone)

Now.

Close your eyes and visualize - What do you see ? What are the things your soul is whispering ? You know that feeling. Your mind already knows what it's good for you and what is your purpose. So go with the flow. After that, write or go on Pinterest to choose pictures that reflect what did you see.

➥ Once you did that. Be honest with yourself. Why are youYOU now? Don't look at habits, but your soul. Why are you afraid ? What you're are not disciplined. Why do you fail every time ? It's important because this the root of everything.

Long explanation incoming

Long term - you have to keep in mind that this is an investment. It's not gonna happen overnight. I have to warn you. You have to love the process. You have to erased that version of yourself who didn't serve you anymore. It's a sacrifice ladies and this is like that every time.

You must sacrifice something in order to be/have something.

Exemples

You want a raise -> you're gonna work a little bit longer

you want a good grade -> you're gonna take so much time to learn

➥ sacrifice time to spend

You want to have a good body -> you have to be strategic and sacrifice some cookies or time to go the gym

EVERYTIME

But those are actions, and actions have the least impact in the physical world (external) . If you want to change you have to change mentally, physically and spiritually.

➥ that's why some people eat salad everyday and doesn't necessarily lose weight because they do not identify themselves as someone who are able to eat healthy, who has that discipline. For them, it's a diet. SO it subconsciously means that once they achieve that body, they're gonna fall back into those old habits. You understand ?

It's the same thing in every aspects of your life. It's a lifestyle and it's gonna be that so take the time to really know what you want in life.

That's why they said act like that version of yourself who already has it. I didn't understand at first but now I get it. I am somebody who works smarter not harder. No matter what, when I was trying to take action it didn't succeed, because in my mind in my core I have blockages and limiting beliefs. So keep in mind, you have to act on three dimensions.

Exemple, I am smart because I am able to speak languages or I'm able to play chess or I know every country. Like you want. You need to know. And you're gonna do that for everything in your life. Why are you this or that ?

And you have to be align like I said : mentally, spiritually and physically

Exemple

I am a pretty woman because I take care of me from the inside and the outside. I rather see positive outcomes than the negative.

You see ? NO ? Another exemple

(I feel like a teacher)

Why I am elegant ?

I am elegant because I like the finest things in life. I like integrity, being clean, meaniful conversations. I know etiquette rules and how to navigate in these types of environment. It''s represented in the way I walk, talk and care about other

You get it ? NO ? Another exemple

Why I am not a people pleaser ?

Because I am the only person who's gonna be in my coffin. I know that so I please myself. It's translated in my actions because I do not submit in any requests that don't please me. I can be generous and everything but it's always according to the things that I want.

Now I think you get it haha. Do this with everything you want. You want to be charismatic ? Why are you charismatic ? Why people are intimidated by you. This is like the aura

➥ Remember this is your world. It's the rules that you want.

For exemple if you say that I don't gain weight while I'm eating junk food, higher chances that it doesn't happen. Because you say so. BUT since you grew up in a society that point out dangers of eating junk food you're already know that this is "bad".

And I don't say that if you're eating junk food nothing is gonna happen. I don't say junk food is good for your health but you get it. This is an exemple. If subconsciously, you are afraid of eating those things nothing is gonna change because you act on guilt.

I think you get it but ! There are many things to considerate

➥ When you're gonna step into this journey, the world is gonna make sure you stay at the initial place.

➥ every situations are going to be "fall back into your old habits". Because that old version of yourself exists and want you to stay with you. Like a toxic ex.

It's gonna be that every time. Every time but now that you read this post of theamazingmuse you know that.

And you need to have that mental discipline to be it without seeing results in the physical world because this is that manifestation. And that's the hardest part : having faith, tricking your brain who doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality

So I said that being a muse is to be the higher version yourself. It means that you automatic love yourself because you crafted yourself. If you hate yourself, it's because you know that you're are not where you want to be, and it have an impact on you life because every thing starts with yourself

Also it should be normal to be that version. no need to "wait" or idk what. As soon as you finished reading this post be like " ok what can I do now" (spoiler : clean your room lol it's a new beginning)

Also build systems, observe how you do things. Do you need music to achieve things? You need time blocking ? Pomodoro method ? Do you like to learn at night or during the day ? You need to light a candle in order to be concentrated. All those little details.

➥that's why you have to know yourself to you core. It's important.

Sometimes you're gonna fall back into your old habits and that's ok ! In those moments recognize your triggers. What makes you fall into this bad habits ?

Last but not least create a private note for yourself in your phone named "things that I have noticed about myself". Very powerful.

Being the highest version of yourself -> loving yourself -> reflected outside in your reality -> becoming a muse literally

You are not doing that for others but for you. If someone says to you (especially a man) says to you "bla bla bla" you're grateful but you're already know it. Do not seek external validation. You have you.

Being that muse are going to solve many problems. It's challenging, you have to step out you confort zone but do you wanna die and say why I didn't put the work ? (spoiler : NO !)

Here it's a shadow work sheets that I made to help you but you can create your own questions

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The End. Omg it was packed. I am so proud of this post I know that this gonna help you so much. People give actions to take but all start in the mind (internal state). That's crazy. Do not hesitate to read this post again and again. I learned this from Nero knowledge on YouTube & my whole self improvement. Becoming the highest version of yourself, achieving things are spiritual and not everyone have faith, learning thought failure, going with the flow, trust, being relaxed and that's crazy because this society always put us in stressful environment. I wanted to make post other than do this and do that, because it's more deeeeep. It's a shift. That's why I made it interactive so that you're active (like you should in your study sessions lol). This is your version of yourself that YOU have I am not going to say "do this in order to be this or that" who am I to tell you that ? There are generic advice yes, but you have your own vision of things and it might not be the same and that's ok. I have a vision of me that is able to do many things but maybe this is not the case for you you know ? and that's ok !

I wanted to put my real name o Tumblr but it sas already been taken I was shocked because my name is common but not common in term on writing. People on Tumblr have so much inspiration lol. In my group everybody say that I inspired them so I put themuse but it was already taken so I put something more...😎 so theamazingmuse. Sometime when I answer to an email I put that username but then I remember 😂

(you're already that version of yourself because you see it all you have to do is according to that, truly acting like her and it's not conformable you know it lol but what sucks more ? you know it too)

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🧴

(my god I wrote this in a messy way it was hard to organize things lol but I think this is the best post that I have made (really))

[theamazingmuse]

Body type series : Apple

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Let's continue with the apple body type. I take body types randomly lol. I started with the rectangle

Attributes of apple body type.

tend to hold more weight on the tummy

but has slim legs, slim arms

from the side it gives off skinny

skinny fat but not skinny fat

hips are more pronounced that an rectangle body type

shape of an apple 🤷‍♀️

You can have this type no matter what your body type is, because if you squint you can see that jeongyeon (on the left) has a rectangle body type. But that body type hold more on the stomach, giving that stubborn belly that takes so much time to erase. It's considered as "plus size"

Here is how me, theamazingmuse would style this body type

skirt skirt skirt - all kind of skirt ! but I would say pleated skirt or those one with a feminine style. I really love those kind of skirt.

Pullover, cardigan, because it's getting colder - I really like baggy jeans. Cardigan and blouses are great especially when there are snatched. Jackets too but it's really important that when you wear something snatched, whether it's a top or bottom, that the other garment is loose. If your jacket is snatched, your pants have to baggy. (imo)

Dresses that hug your body - I don't think you should hide yourself. WEAR COLORS. You can wear clothes that hug your body if you want to. Plus size shape are great because it gives good proportions. Do not hesitate to wear sexy outfits etc. I really like sets on plus size and dresses.If it's snatched you're gonna have an hourglass shape because you're already have curves so no need to create one with a belt.

I feel like preppy style would suit this body type. Jeans, sophisticated tops are great. I like jeans with heals especially oversized jeans !

Regarding coats everything is good but you know that I love long coats, with a belt. Jacket are great, blazer too.

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The END. I really wanted to make this type. I went to twice concert last year and jeongyeon did not have outfit that put her on light.

Among other twice's members she was the only one wearing PANTS giving her a masculine look. But I see now that she wears more skirts and dress. Maybe they read this post of theamazingmuse 😎. More seriously I love how clothes can give a clue of your personality. I also see that in fashion world plus size content creator / celebrities are not that crazy outfits like slim figures. There are not a lot of efforts (you get what I mean). I wanted to give more than sweatshirt and cargo lol. I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🍎

[theamazingmuse]

The person who said to make a bingo board instead of just doing a dream board ATE

I am still gonna make a vision board for my wallpaper, but for someone like me with ADHD ??????? A bingo board it's perfect !

You can find a bingo board on canva (search bingo card and replace it with your goals)

With that you'll have a vision. You know what to prioritize (imo)

I have ADHD I know. One day I'm gonna speak about that because, I have a lot to say. I can go with the flow but I need some structure it's weird idk how to explain

I felt the urge to share this with my subscribers. Try a bingo board !

Raw post. Tumblr is like twitter without men for me 😂

If you are reading this currently, I've done many posts that need correction. I have to find the right picture with the right color, everything 😎 (It's not only about body type series).

I really like to have a blog. At first, I didn't want to do that kind of blog but then, I changed everything, even my username. I took so much time to find a good username with the right color omg I remember 😭 and like always, when you want to do something intentionally you have NO IDEA but now I am proud of myself.

I am so happy now that I created something and the fact that I can help someone, even one person. I considered myself as new on Tumblr. I don't even know how it works I just post. I didn't know if you receive a notification when I post something 😭

Also I would talk about lessons that I've learned in 2024 because well 😵‍💫

(I spoke too much it was just about bingo board lol)

Bye,

Your favorite antagonist 💋

[theamazingmuse]

Body type series : rectangle

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A new series about how to dress yourself according to your body type.

This is my opinion. My friends and family always come up to me for their outfits like we do with Miranda Priestly. Feel free to adjust

Now let's start

Attributs of the rectangle aka 🚪 type

Everything is aligned. Shoulders, arms and hips.

Most of models have rectangles body types.

There is not a lot of curves.

usually a slim figure

Many people attempt to create curves by wearing low rise jeans. Kendall wears many belts and blazers. Office pants are also good. Professional outfits in general. Open tops also, showing the neck and collarbones. But crew neck can be great especially if you have broad shoulder but it would mean that you are an inverted triangle (a little bit).

Remember that you should always look at the mall in the real life to be sure. Especially for colors but this is something else.

Everything that elongates your body is good. Long dress for exemple. Something that can give curves, especially at the waist. I have this body type and trench, baggy jeans + heels combo are really good. Long skirt, blouses. Same with long coats. You can give the illusion of being an hourglass or an inverted triangle.

More outfits

-> the last dress hugs is gonna hug your body so well ugh. You see, there is always something at the waist because this body shape usually have no curves and that's okay ! But to be harmonious, it's better to create a little snatched effect.

Tips - If you have a short torso (yes short torso mentioned) I insist on "open tops".

-> Bella is an inverted triangles but has no curves (it's created through illusion). Rectangle and inverted triangle are almost the same. It's only the shoulders that are not aligned and more prominent.

It means that you can easily give off a boyish aura. Cargo, flared, bootcut jeans.

Oversized fits ! Do this properly considering your height, so proportions.

I think that the key word for this body type is model - charismatic - elegant - versatile

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The End. God, I wanted to give other things than puffy tops and to just put a belt. Like I said, I have this body type and I struggled a lot because I don't like those puffy top or symmetric skirts/dress. I like charismatic outfits. And even when I am in my feminine moment I like to put dress that hugs my body. I cannot define my style because I am very versatile (me and my gemini venus). But I feel that charismatic outfits, giving aura suit me. I have many blouses, many trench and blazers. It all about experiment.

I am serious so my outfits are too.

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🚪

[theamazingmuse]

How to be like a Kpop Idol

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Quick guide on how to exude that perfect aura, because they have to be perfect.

Exemples with pictures 😎.

Outside

Skincare, treatments - You already know how good Korean skincare is. Kpop idols whitewash their face because being tan out there is considered as bad in Korea. Their face have to be perfect. Don't forget that they have professionals around them so they have more resources than you. For exemple they have plastic surgeries, lasers. Start with basic skincare and use products for specific problems. I you want to sculpt your face, there is the guasha

Workout - they take care of their body. They dance a lot, obviously. I see a lot of them doing pilates or gym exercices . Stretching. It's very important for them to maintain a good shape. If you want to look like them, I highly recommend you to do pilates. If you want have more muscle incorporate gym exercice. I do both. I don't work my back and my arms too much. It's up to you (like always)

Makeup & hair - Know your face shape so you can do your makeup according to them. Knowing yourself is everything.

Jennie has a round face, Nayeon too (big cheekbones). Wonyoung has an oval face (small forehead and chin)

Rosé has a long face, like Rwasa, and Sana has a diamond one.

I have a mix of Wonyoung and Sana. So I know what kind of glasses, eye brows shape are going to be good for me. Blush placements too. Even if they are not Kpop idols you should look at celebrities who have same attributes than you. Even for hair. Look at what look good on them.

Clothes - All related to your body type. Most of these idol have rectangular or inverted triangle. Jisoo, Wonyoung are inverted triangle. Jennie, Lisa and Jihyo are the same. Yuna and Tzuyu have an hourglass. Hwasa is pear. Again see what clothes look good on them (I should make a post about body type 👀).

-> Remember that they are skinny most of the time. It wouldn't be the same if they had more weight. You can be a type because you have some weight but in reality you are an another body type.

Do not stress yourself about becoming extremely skinny to look like them. It's up to you if you want to lose weight or staying like you are. If you are good with something don't change it.

You can always see your body shape if you squint but it might be slightly different if you have some weight.

I am a rectangle body type slightly inverted because I loved doing those 90 shoulders workout when I was young lol. (did I just said when I was young ? I am in my early twenties). That's why I don't figure . I don't want to appear bulky. I have a naturally have a slim figure. My body is for now a mix of weight and fat = skinny fat. So it's all related to my eating habits. I love to eat and cook soooo much. I am pretty tall so I am gonna focus on trench, and long dress.

Posture - your back should be straight. Look at how Wonyoung is at events and how she's walking. This is really important because subconsciously it gives the sign that you're confident. Like facial expressions

Inside

charisma - on the scene, they have to exude an aura. That’s why we see an idol who has stage presence or not. Jihyo has a stage presence, Lisa too. When you're talking with her she's present. She looks at you. Charisma is a blend of self confidence and how you care about your environment. This is my favorite trait on someone (and on me). I have a whole post about it.

Confidence - I feel like most of them are not confident because of haters and bad comments. In Korea they seem to care about what other people think. I would say people who seem confident are Jennie, Hwasa, Momo, Jihyo and Kiss of life members. It's really easy to pretend it but you see it when someone is confident based on how they speak and what they say. Being confident it's all about what you know you can achieve

Food habits - sensitive topic. I'll always recommend you to eat. If you are doing those crazy diets it's gonna be really complicated for you. It doesn't mean that if you eat less you'll gain nothing. It's all in your mind. If you do the thing physically but you're not good in your mind, it's gonna be really complicated. That's why I love the physique of twice members. It's about quantity and listening to your body too imo.

Work - they put a lot of effort in what they're doing. A lot of effort and energy. I think this is toxic especially the industry. I think that they have no freedom and always should be at work. I won't even mention those crazy fans who think that Kpop idols should not have relationships. But yes, a lot of effort is required to be so perfect in every aspects. This is the same for you but not on the same level. It's like a circle. You taking care of your appearance + make sure that your work is done AND you have to do it consistently. I swear to you ladies I am tired of seeing this word 😂 but this is the truth.

-> everything I said should be in balance like always. Everything. We should say "wow there is no flaws"

Ain't no way that you don't look like a Kpop idol after this post for real. What kind of vibe you're wanna bring ? Cute ? Cold ? Joyful ? I appear mature and intimidating but I have cheekbones so I would say that I have the vibe of Jennie, Momo or Irene.

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The End. It was heavy, I covered all the aspects. I can go deeper on a specific topic if you want. I got into Kpop at the end of high school with BTS. When I got into Kpop I saw one comment and it was "listening to Kpop makes you glow up". It's true. Then I saw how they were seen as perfect. It's really hard to be a Kpop idol. There is a lot of pressure to be perfect in everything.

I like to analyse what makes people succeed or wanted that why I did that so you can be like that too. Also I took only female idols. Obviously this is more hard for them, for us. A man is going to escape a scandal in a more easy and sneaky way but for a woman it's difficult. And I don't even talk about wearing short dress, wearing heels everyday, relationship scandal omg. I put a lot of pictures because it's better than just explain it. Truly hope this helps.

I love women we are so amazing.

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🍬

(The most beautiful post that I have made so far ! love the colors)

[theamazingmuse]

How to have a good circle

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Your squad need to have some components in order to be successful. Because that's what we want : be successful.

Look at your friends - do you feel like there are some enemies. Some people are talking behind your back ? They see you as a competition ? Also are they lazy ? Do they work for their dreams ? Are they negative ? Be very careful about that and be honest. Yes even about your first friendship

Values - it's very important to be on the same vibration than them. Either they are more successful than you and you can count on them or nothing . If you're someone that aim for more in life you shouldn't be with people that are the opposite. Everybody should be doing something with their life. Are they respectful to others ? Especially with servers and employees. I care a lot about that. How they treat people is how they gonna treat you.

Comfortable - you should be confortable when you are with them and they should be with you too. But, you can trust them but always keep a part to yourself

Be selective - you know that. But it doesn't mean that you have three people. You can ofc but you can also have specific groups, related to specific things. But I think that you need a squad. Let's say an official one. For reference I have one friend. We are close like texting and everything. Then we have a group since high school. I'm close to them. When there is a birthday we make parties etc. Then me and my friend have our college friends. We're very close to each other but we're far apart.

-> in my group I'm the one they can rely on. My friends love to tell me that I'm the star of the group. I always give advice on everything. Any topics. I'm the mom in the group (oldest daughter core) so I act like a coach.

-> I also had friends too who were form different background than me. I always meet people that come from a class that is a little upper than me. Every time. That's crazy I always attract rich people. We are friends but not like what I said above (you get it). Those people were always productive so I have to act like them in class. They always pushed me to do better (without saying nothing). It was because I really morph myself when I am in an environment. Like a chameleon.

These friends are outside my circle but they taught me a lot. I need to find people like that again. How is the vibe of the circle that you want ? it can be mixed or only girls like you want. But honestly you should have a group of women because it's so therapeutic. I mean if you're woman. Girlhood is everything ! Friendship with men is not the same imo. If I have guy friends, it's for work or something specific.

I want to insist that this is really important that they elevate you, allow you to grow but at the same time let you be your true self. Also in your circle you should know with who you go on vacation and with who you don't 🤣. Trust me this is not with everybody.

Last but not least have connections ! Not necessarily friends but build a network. Stop. Making connections is so important in this world. You can be lame but have a great position at work just because you know someone. If you see someone who has great connections do not hesitate to talk to them. They're going to analyse you so be confident. They seek value in you. Do not appear demanding.

I think you should be selective when it comes to personal things. But when people can contribute to your project do not hesitate de talk to them. Sadly (or not) this is a world of extravert. I think that people should help each other because this how we succeed in this world. I think this is always that at the end. You are successful if you help others people. You are rich because you provide something. (sometimes I can be a philosopher 😎)

I mean you can have friends and friends.

More seriously this is the thing. Even if a friendship end badly you can learn about it and about yourself.

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The End. I want my circle to be with people that I can learn from. I want them older because they have some experience. I love my actual friends but I would like to have people who have the same vision as me. I am not demanding because I am gonna attract desperate people. For that I should go outside first lol. But even when I'm outside people don't approach me. I look intimidating like...I think that I look mad. But when you do speak to me if I like your energy I am gonna be open !

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 👞

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How to be like Aphrodite

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I know many people want to be like her. Here is a post !

Self care - How can I not start with that. She's the goddess of love, seduction and envy and is known to be the most beautiful woman in the world. She is very beautiful. Make sure to take care of your apparence. I like how goddess are portrayed are thick and not that skinny. At the time, being thick was considered as abundant and it was a big sign of fertility. There are a lot of representations of this woman. I would always suggest to focus on skincare, hair and lips. Those are the first things we notice on someone. Take care of yourself even mentally, especially mentally because it's going to be reflected outside

Generous - She's very generous, giving a chance to everybody in love. She gives them her own artefacts like her belt to help them. Being generous is something great but be careful with who. I consider myself as generous but I was a people pleaser lol. I laugh now but when I think about I am like ughhh why ??? Analyze your patterns. When you give something to someone are you happy or you hear a voice telling you "NO" ? Even with your friend.

Put yourself first - It aligns with my previous point. Always put yourself first. Aphrodite is selfish, wanting her own happiness. She was so mad when she found out that Hephaestus was gonna be her husband. She went to Ares and even Hermes. (I was so shocked). Be generous and be selfish at the same time. Generous with the right people by giving them your energy, your time, your money but selfish with the same people. If you see that something bothers you say NO. You're gonna appear mean and yup. The feeling you're gonna have after listening to yourself is so worth it trust me.

Charm - Charming is something that nobody can see, so it means that this is inside like the aura. Charming is reflected with facial expressions and how you carry yourself. You feel it. When Aphrodite appears you feel it. And she's always in a calm demeanor. Charm is discreet not like sex appeal. She's delicate but at the same seductive.

Seductive - sex appeal is more powerful than charm. Being seductive is a package. This is an energy FIRST. Aphrodite knows that she's beautiful so she's confident naturally. I also wanna mention that gesture is important. When she touches a man she knows how to do it, even how she looks at someone. She has that gaze. Combine it with charm and you'll be powerful. Very powerful. Also you need to be ready to become the center of attention.

Revengful - Of course. She's extremely revengeful. This is because of her that the trojan war happened. She doesn't like when something or someone is against her. Of course, I don't tell you the cause effects like the trojan war. But when someone does something to you, stand up for yourself. I said that every time but I see a lot of people doing nothing, especially women. Don't hesitate to cut off people, say it when something is bothering you.

Loyal - She's extremely loyal once she's an ally. She protected Paris and Helen when they were in danger no matter what. It's the same with your friends. See, you need to be selective because not everybody is worth your loyalty. Ask yourself is you're loyal to yourself or even your friend.

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The END. So many people want to be like her. To be honest she's not my favorite goddess. I find her mean lol. Nevertheless she has some qualities beyond that juste being pretty. Hope that my beloved subscribers see my posts. I don't know if you guys have a notification when I post lol. I hope so.

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 💐

[theamazingmuse]

Vindicta Feminine Archetypes

here’s the quiz for the archetypes i’ve referenced! 🎀

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everything you need to make your own personal beauty binder 🎀

disclaimer: this post is heavily inspired by @tomb-of-ligeia and @daphne-dauphinoise, and early 2010s beauty youtubers. it’s always kind to credit your inspo <3

inspired by the lookbooks and makeup charts used by makeup artists designers at high fashion runways shows and childhood bratz coloring and activity books. the law of attraction is at use heavily with this binder (writing down goals and wishlists)!

you should be keeping diy recipes you find in here.

*you don’t need a physical binder. some people function better with digital mediums. i prefer anything physical and concrete. but you can do all this in something like a notion, or your notes app, etc.

why? 🎀

a cute girly hobby (esp for type A, anal retentive, or analytical personalities/extremely creative, hands on people) to keep track of your routines, motivate you to keep yourself maintained, and figure out what works best for you. it’s nothing too serious, just a girly pastime for people that maybe buy too many products, slip up on routines, or don’t what looks best on your features. have fun!

what to record in your binder? 🎀

an intro sheet 10 different topics divided by tabbed sections: your personal features, makeup, body, fashion, skincare, hair, fragrance, nails, treatments/procedures, salons/spas/referrals/contacts 🎀

intro sheet 🎀

here, you should keep your goals, desired look, and how you want to perceive yourself.

your personal features

a chart of your color season. mine is cool winter. you can use color season for whatever, i choose to apply it to my makeup.

your natural body shape. this will help you choose the best clothes to flatter your silhouette.

a close up, unfiltered clear photo of your bare face. note your skin type, color, undertone, and any other things that stand out to you.

note what you wanna enhance and what you wanna improve. this will help throughout your binder.

makeup

put on a light layer of every lipstick/lip gloss/etc. you have and make kiss shaped swatches in your binder. note the shade, brand, and finish. then the mood/occasion in which you’d wear it.

swatch all your lip liners, again leaving the details of the product.

swatch your foundation shades. note the finish, name and brand.

make a sheet dedicated to all your “holy grail”, essential products.

swatch your eyeshadow palettes. i have all my shimmer pigments swatches and it’s the prettiest thing to look at.

do you have any go to makeup looks? your casual look, going out look, no makeup makeup look, etc.? do these looks and take high quality pics. make personalized face charts by printing them out and noting the steps and products you used.

take c*nty pics of your lashes after trying on all your mascaras/falsies. note the effects and when you would be most likely to wear them.

print out any pics of interesting makeup looks and products you wanna try.

try on lip combos and kiss swatch them. i’m doing this because i do amazing lip combos all the time but i forget which products i used, and it’s hard to replicate the look.

body

take a stick figure-esque picture of yourself and print it out. any outfit you want to buy, print and clip it out first and see if it’s something you’d wear and actually like.

are you experiencing any skin issues on your body and trying any products? keep track of the issue and how the products are doing.

if you don’t already have one, brainstorm workout routines and general wellness/fitness goals.

what are your fav body products? what products did you buy, and hate? TRACK THEM!

any detoxes/diets you’re doing should be recorded in this section.

record “beauty enhancing” foods and drinks here. mine include matcha, lemon water and acv shots.

fashion

outfit planning! take pics of pieces you already have and clip them out. (i’m doing this currently and keeping them all in a little pocket in my binder).

make a moodboard of your personal style(s). how do you want your closet to look? try to see what details, colors, additions are consistent throughout. when shopping, these are what you should keep track of.

print out your signature clothing color palette if you want to have one.

dedicate a page to accessories you have/want, and how you’d style them.

*this can be expensive but the fashion girls will prob love this* go to the fabric store and buy little swatches that you like. take note of what the fabric is and why you like it.

dedicate a page to all your signature details. all the little specific things that scream YOU and NO ONE else! that means do not write pink, girly, etc. here. that is not exclusive to you, hun.

skincare

take a current filter free photo (make it glam! tie your hair up in a ballerina bun and put on some cute earrings) of the state of your skin. if your skin is perfect, i’m jealous and how does it feel to be god’s fav? if not what problems are you experiencing?

log your current skincare routines and how they’re working.

make a page for your skin type, how it feels when you wake up and how it feels and looks by the end of the day and research tips to deal with your personal skin type.

skincare wishlist! list any products you wanna try and what they are for. sample them from ulta or sephora if it’s possible.

dedicate a page to the skincare ingredients your skin loves the MOST! mine are retinol, bha, and vitamin c.

i have a page for all the extra cute little skincare devices i want. on it there’s a stainless steel gua sha, an ice pack, facial steamer, and pink foreo.

hair

what’s your hair type, density, porosity and curl pattern?

write down any hair goals you have. mine is frizz free tailbone length caramel brown hair with honey blonde highlights by the end of this year.

what’s your signature hairstyle? do you have a signature? brainstorm here.

clip out hairstyle inspo from pinterest and insta and try to recreate all the looks!

what are your fav hair products? i keep track of the best curling creams and leave in conditioners for my hair personally.

take note of any trending products you wanna try.

fragrance

make a moodboard of how you wanna smell. after this, research notes and how they work together.

now track your fav perfumes, your most complimented, etc.

note what fragrances go with what occasion and how they make you feel.

make your perfume wishlist! my fav part!

nails

swatch all your polishes. label them and their finish.

what’s your signature/go to nail look?

do you have any pics of your fav mani + pedis? print them out and write the details you loved the most.

write down your at home mani and pedi routine and it’s frequency.

write your fav colors and styles to wear on your nails. mine are glittery pink, pale pink, white, cream, french tip and pink frenchie. a hyper girly twist on the classics.

treatments/procedures

take note of any surgeries or procedures you want done and what they do.

anything you leave the house to have done regularly, keep track here.

don’t limit yourself! forget your budget! what are some high maintenance treatments you wanna experience? manifest it.

references

write down the sources of which you find great info for beauty and fashion

keep addresses of your fav salons and spas.

keep business contacts of your fav estheticians, stylists, nail techs, etc.

use my branding yourself guide to assist in your beauty binder! so much inspo and so many good resources! 🎀

[theamazingmuse]

How to stop being a people pleaser

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no bullshit let's go

Find the causes - are you the oldest ? were you bullied ? Do you need constant validation ? Those are the questions you should be asking yourself. This is not kindness. If you're say yes while you are unhappy to do things it's sacrifice. It doesn't matter if it's your parents, friends. If you've been forced to do things it is normal to be a people pleaser. If you are aware, it's a big step.

Learn to be alone - it might also be because your are afraid of consequences if you say no. In this life, everybody cares about themselves. Your family, friends,EVERYBODY. So you too. People are going to be disappointed but what sucks more ? you, feeling bad for YOURSELF or them being sad while they can find somebody else to do it. You're gonna DIE ALONE.

-> being alone doesn't mean do not to have friend. Your friends shouldn't force things. If they do that, they are not your friends. They don't respect your boundaries.

-> trust yourself. Always trust yourself. If you don't feel it, don't do it. When you feel "I don't want to that" you have to be like "oh this is a be a people pleaser moment🤡" -> you know what to do (spoiler: say no)

Step by step - start slow. An exemple of me would be when I was at college and someone was asking my notes. They were people who don't make any effort in class, always late, always talking. And they asked "can't you send me your notes since the beginning of the year pls ? I was like what ???????????? I did not answer. I didn't say no but I didn't give them. I was glad that I listened to myself. I can give my notes but don't push it too far.

-> And it was with strangers, not friends. So after that it's gonna be your friends and family. The key is to be there for yourself.

-> If it's your family and you're the oldest you need to have a voice. To say "I can't not do that because it's not my role I know you can understand because you're intelligent".

The key is to be there for yourself. Like I said, you're afraid of judgement of others or being seen. If you start social media, people are going to hate you no matter what. If you have your truth, don't be afraid. The whole point is to stand up for yourself.

It's gonna be complicated at first but you're gonna feel so good after that. You're gonna be proud of yourself. Also you're gonna be respected. So many people doesn't know how to say NO unfortunately

I feel like this is a mix of self love (self esteem) and not giving a fuck of what other people think. It's a part of your growth, don't worry. The fact that you're aware of how you act is a sign that you're evolving. I am proud of yourself.

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The END. I felt called to make this post. It not a lot of tips because this is really this. So simple but so complicated.

I was such a people pleaser before because I wanted to be liked by everybody lol. It might also be because I am the oldest honestly. And it doesn't seem like I am like that because I have a face that gives off "don't mess up with me". But once a person know me and feel confortable they used to aski me things omgg. Now even if we know each other, you truly don't mess up with me. You have to be so secure of yourself to not give a fuck like that. It's your life.

I love you wherever you are

theamazingmuse 🍑