#yumejin

[diamonddbats]

Gargoyle club date 🖤

[ramtio]

your f/o wants you to look after yourself, by the way. times can be hard in the winter months, but they'll always be by your side to encourage and support you to look after yourself, whether that's in showering, getting dressed, brushing your teeth, or just getting some more rest. they want the best for you, always ♡

[loveisunison]

🌻 Reminder for older self shippers (and anyone who relates, really) !! Your f/o will never shame you for liking and/or wanting to buy things that are deemed "childish."

You want games? Your f/o will play with you or watch you play!

You want plushies? Your f/o will love them all as much as you do, and they'll be overjoyed to learn all their names if they have any!

You want toys? Your f/o will go to the store with you and help you pick the best ones! 

Anything else that people may associate with kids? Your f/o won't unless you ask them to! 

They won't ever think you're childish or stupid for wanting these things; they won't view it as "wasting money" or an irresponsible purchase, and they won't make you feel guilty for it.

Your darling loves seeing you happy, and anything that helps with that is worth it for them !!

[mirazor]

shoutout to fat selfshippers. shoutout to selfshippers with personality disorders. shoutout to selfshippers who aren't short. shoutout to black selfshippers. shoutout to disabled selfshippers. shoutout to selfshippers that frequently do not feel included in things like imagines or x reader fanfiction for whatever reasons there may be for that. I love you, and your f/os ESPECIALLY love you

[kynibyou]

the inherent tension between you and that one character who’s almost a romantic f/o— that invaded your mind but just… isn’t quite there yet… maybe there’s a crush or some feelings, but who knows when or if it’ll happen?

[yume-cafe]

The plushie version of your f/o is completely obsessed with you and the affection you give it. Its little plush mind cannot comprehend that it's just a toy. It actually thinks they're the real thing and that you're dating them for real.

[starbunnymiau]

Kissito astrofang✨❣️

[yumeluming]

they dance ! :3

[yumejiqued]

I actually encourage people using "problematic" yumeships to cope. Since I can use fiction and basically emulate and process behaviors of mine and whatnot, I'm actually much more able to see what exactly is my issues in relationships and be a better person.

Your yumeship doesn't have to be all sunshine and rainbows. Mine aren't for the most part.

And that is okay. :)

[yaoiri]

Volo x You/Reader Headcanons 🌟

—“✨ Volo brings board games from all around Hisui to you, because he knows that you like to stay inside most days since you get tired from work/school.

—“💫 You’re trusted to babysit his Togepi (or generally any baby Pokémon he’s taking care of) whenever she gets ill, sick, or generally unable to accompany him in his long travels in the many vast lands. Togepi likes you… most days. You’re always assuring him that she’ll be fine when he leaves her with you.

—“🌙 He always shows an undying interest into how you think and how you interact with your passions. Volo meets all kinds of people, but his curiosity is always boundless when it comes to you.

—“⛅️ You help Volo whenever he gets into his delusional megalomaniac state, redirecting his attention to other tasks and trying to avoid to feed into his psychosis. Whenever he recovers enough to be conscious in the present, he appreciates your efforts and tries to pay you back tenfold with affection.

—“✨ Because you’re around to support him, his obsession with Arceus isn’t as life-consuming as it once was. He still regularly goes to temples whenever he gets the chance to, and infodumps about his faith. But having someone around to ground him helps him appreciate the present, and you always remind him to smell the flowers.

—“💫 Both of you can become competitive very fast whenever it comes to Pokémon battles and passions. Nonetheless, you two are always at a stalemate because you know each other’s fighting style way too well.

—“🌙 Despite his friendly but cool demeanor, he’s absolutely terrified of scary movies and winces whenever there’s a gory scene. He shoves his face into your arm until the weird blood squelching sounds go away.

+ Trans Reader headcanons

—“⛅️ Whenever he brings you HRT, you can tell he has it based off of his giddy expression and the sound of bottles clinking in his backpack.

—“✨ He soothes you whenever you need to inject hormones into your arm/thigh, saying things like, “look at me, I’ll hold you hand and we’ll count to three,” and “it’ll be brief; it’s going to be okay.”

—“💫 You talk to Volo about some transphobes insulting your appearance for not being normal or not fitting the criteria of fitting your preferred gender, and he always validated your worries (and jokes about his Garchomp biting off their heads, but it’s getting to the point where you don’t know if he actually means it).

[amethiosspouse]

Mari's Selfship Game!

Reblog this post so that I can assign your f/o's with a shopkin! (Maximum 2 f/o's for this game)

Example: Amethio and Peppe Pepper :D

Proshippers DNI please and thank you

tags: @minoriwife ^w^

[diamonddbats]

A kiss on the hand 💕

[ramtio]

i love you disabled yumes. i love you chronically ill yumes. i love you trans yumes. i love you yumes with personality disorders. i love you autistic yumes. i love you mentally ill yumes. i love you schizospec yumes. i love you queer yumes. i love you fat yumes. i love you black yumes. i love you yumes with highly stigmatised disorders. i love you adhd yumes. i love you indigenous yumes. and of course, your f/o loves this much and infinitely more.

[loveisunison]

Shout-out to self shippers with "scary" disorders, and I'm talking about the really stigmatized ones. Shout-out to self shippers with "bad" and "scary" symptoms. Shout-out to self shippers who are trying to be good and still do bad things because of their disorder.

Shout-out to schizospec self shippers, shout-out to system self shippers, shout-out to cluster b self shippers, shout-out to low empathy self shippers and shout-out to everyone else who not only has to deal with their mental health issues but also the fact that nobody else understands. And to those who are deemed crazy or evil.

Your f/o loves you, actually, and despite how many times you fall into tendencies that are "too much" for anyone else; they will always love you. No matter how many people call you evil, they will still love you and they will know there's a part of you that wants to be good.

And you know what? If there's no part of you that wants to be good and you're still doing your best to remain kind despite your nature, I see you, and your f/o does too. And they still love you, they always will.

[bipocselfship-archive]

2024 Promo!!!

Hello, my fellow self shippers and yumes! Welcome to the BIPOC Self Ship Archive!

For about 3 years now, this blog has been a safe space to highlight the many BIPOC creators and fans in the self ship/yume community.

And for 2024, we hope to continue to make others feel welcome and safe.

Our goal is also to include those in the LGBT+ community as well as those with disabilities, whether physical, mental, sensory, etc. 🏳‍🌈

Disclaimer: Even if you don't fall into any of the forementioned categories, we still highly encourage you to follow and check out all of the amazing creators featured. (Following and interacting with them is also highly encouraged).

If you have any questions, don't hesitate to send us one.

We hope you all have an amazing day, and don't forget no matter who you are, your F/Os love you! Bye!

-Mod Crystal 💖

[selfshipaskgames]

Pride Selfship Ask Game:

🏳️‍🌈: What is (F/O)’s gender identity and sexuality? What is (S/I)’s gender identity and sexuality?

🏳️‍⚧️: How did (F/O) and (S/I) figure out their sexualities and gender identities?

❤️: How did the two of you come out to each other?

🐻: How do you two celebrate pride month?

😅: Have the two of you ever had an awkward moment because of your sexuality/gender identity? (Example: Someone thinking you’re siblings instead of a couple.)

🤗: How did you two come out to family and friends? How did they react?

😍: How did you announce your relationship?

😘: How do your LGBTQ+ identities affect your relationship?

🤫: Did your relationship start while either of you were closeted? How did this affect your relationship?

👑: What was the most wholesome coming out experience that either of you had?