#your morning routine

[n4rval]

i lied. here's a bonus.

[friendlyneighborhoodshark]

"How to Life" Masterlist

Cleaning and Tidying

Make your bed in the morning. It takes seconds, and it's worth it.

Reset to zero each morning.

Use the UFYH 20/10 system for clearing your shit.

Have a 'drop-zone' box where you dump anything and everything. At the beginning/end of the day, clear it out and put that shit away.

Automate your chores. Have a cleaning schedule and assign 15mins daily to do whatever cleaning tasks are set for that day. Set a timer and do it once the timer is up, finish the task you're on and leave it for the day.

Fold your clothes straight out of the tumble dryer (if you use one), whilst they're still warm. This minimises creases and eliminates the need for ironing.

Clean your footwear regularly and you'll feel like a champ.

Organisation and Productivity

Learn from Eisenhower's Importance/Urgency matrix.

Try out the two-minute rule and the Pomodoro technique.

Use. A. Planner. (Or Google Calendar, if that's more your thing.)

Try bullet journalling.

Keep a notebook/journal/commonplace book to dump your brain contents in on the regular.

Set morning alarms at two-minute intervals rather than five, and stick your alarm on the other side of the room. It's brutal, but it works.

Set three main goals each day, with one of them being your #1 priority. Don't overload your to-do list or you'll hit overload paralysis and procrastinate.

If you're in a slump, however, don't be afraid to put things like "shower" on your to do list - that may be a big enough goal in itself, and that's okay.

Have a physical inbox - a tray, a folder, whatever. If you get a piece of paper, stick it in there and sort through it at the end of the week.

Consider utilising the GTD System, or a variation of it.

Try timeboxing.

Have a morning routine, and guard that quiet time ferociously.

Have a folder for all your important documents and letters, organised by topic (e.g. medical, bank, university, work, identification). At the front of this folder, have a sheet of paper with all the key information written on it, such as your GP's details, your passport details, driving licence details, bank account number, insurance number(s), and so on.

Schedule working time and down time alike, in the balance that works for you.

Money

Have. A. God. Damn. Budget.

Use a money tracker like toshl, mint, or splitwise. Enter all expenses asap! (You will forget, otherwise.)

Have a 'money date' each week, where you sort through your finances from the past seven days and then add it to a spreadsheet. This will help you identify your spending patterns and whether your budget is actually working or not.

Pack your own frickin' lunch like a grown-up and stop buying so many takeaway coffees. Keep snacks in your bag.

Food and Cooking

Know how to cook the basics: a starch, a protein, a vegetable, and a sauce.

Simple, one-pot meals ("a grain, a green, and a bean") are a godsend.

Batch cook and freeze. Make your own 'microwave meals'.

Buy dried goods to save money - rice and beans are a pittance.

Consider Meatless Mondays; it's healthier, cheaper, and more environmentally friendly.

Learn which fruits and vegetables are cheapest at your store, and build a standard weekly menu around those. (Also remember that frozen vegetables are cheap and healthy.)

Learn seasoning combinations. Different seasoning, even with the exact same ingredients, can make a dish seem completely new.

Misc

Have a stock email-writing format.

Want to start running, but find it boring? Try Zombies, Run!.

Keep a goddamn first aid kit and learn how to use it.

Update your CV regularly.

Keep a selection of stamps and standard envelopes for unexpected posting needs. (It happens more regularly than you would think!)

[malusokay]

Sunday morning 🌤

insta -> @ malusokay

[javierduffy]

hi something true and beautiful happened just as i was gearing up to do short walk in a pretty town and it made me think of ur art

YOU. HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOUVE JUST DONE FOR ME WITH THESE IMAGES

[deepestdelulu]

Little things to upgrade your morning routine

Always start your morning with a nice drink like a coffee, matcha, or tea.

Say good morning to your pets, you can also text your friends and maybe, make some plans!! <3

Set an alarm so you wake up on time and don't feel rushed, for me, it's usually enough to just sleep with my blinds open!! :)

Open your windows to let some fresh air in, also make sure to check if any of your plants need water!!

Make-up and music. I love doing my make-up while listening to one of my playlists, it's the perfect way to set the mood <3

Positive affirmations!! You can write them on sticky notes and put them on your mirror so you'll see them while getting ready!! :)

Prepare a cute outfit the night before, and make sure to check the weather so you can plan ahead!

Don't skip breakfast, If you are busy, you can meal prep some overnight oat or chia pudding the night before.

Try reading at least 10 pages in the morning, it will help you feel more refreshed.

Make sure to check your bag, so you don't forget things like your lip combo, keys, and headphones!! Nothing worse than sitting on the subway without headphones (me rn) :((

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! I hope you all have a beautiful Monday/Week <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

[armedwooper]

@ageekywriter

okay so no pressure at all. but I just spent the past two days binge-reading the entire summer fic with Jeanne, Ritsuka, and the rest of them. I have no idea what your creative process is like, yet I must ask purely because if I don't, I WILL chew my way through a wooden table set. When is the next chapter. You CANNOT leave me hanging like that you fucking bastard.

but yeah, do let me know the rough time the next chapter is gonna be released per your best estimate.

[canisalbus]

cursed no tattoo machete (I'm sorry for doing this to him)

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[ddarker-dreams]

satoru is the type of bf who is pouty all morning if you were mean to him in his dreams.

[prettygirlfaith]

✨✨Becoming That Girl: Manifesting Your Glow-Up Through Mindset & LOA✨✨

In a world filled with endless distractions, comparison traps, and burnout culture, there’s a growing movement that flips the script becoming That Girl*

But this isn’t just about matching outfits, aesthetic smoothies, or perfect morning routines. It’s about creating a version of yourself that feels aligned, purposeful, and empowered.

Let’s talk about what it really means to become That Girl, how the Law of Attraction (LOA) plays into it, and how you can shift your mindset to truly transform your life from the inside out.

--

🧼 Step 1: Bettering Your Mindset

If your life feels messy, it’s time to go inward.

Journal it out. Write down every limiting belief:

“I’m not good enough.”

“I always procrastinate.”

“I never have time.”

Write it down on a piece of paper, tear or burn it, and let them go, it's not your truth, YOU create your truth.

Forgive yourself.

For not starting sooner.

For doubting.

For dimming your light.

✨ Get specific about what you actually want.

The universe doesn’t respond to vagueness.

Not “success", the universe doesn't only want to hear "i want to be successful" be specific.

You want:

💼 A six-figure income

👜 A Chanel bag

✈️ Travel twice a year

If you don’t place the order, how can the universe deliver it?

🌷 Step 2: Romanticize Your Routine

You don’t need to “arrive” to feel like her.

You just need to be present with intention.

Pretend like your in a movie or youtube video, you want everything to be aesthetic right?

Light a candle when you journal

Put on hoops & lip gloss for errands

Make your matcha like it’s a ritual

Speak affirmations during your skincare:

"I am magnetic.”

“I am evolving.”

“I am becoming her.”

Live as if the life you want is already yours.

Because it is.

🌙 Step 3: Align Your Energy, Not Just Your To-Do List

Motivation fades.

Alignment sticks.

Tap into the feeling of having your dream life.

How would you move, think, and dress if you were already her?

Just how easy it is to copy an outfit, an hairstyle, that's how easy it should be to copy the version of her in ur head.

Act like it’s already done.

She exists. You’re becoming her.

Protect your energy.

Not everyone deserves access to your frequency.

You don’t explain. You just elevate.

💖 Step 4: Manifest Like a Mastermind

LOA = Energy + Intention + Aligned Action

Manifesting is the easiest thing on Earth, stop all those methods you have been trying, if u want it, if you believe in it, it will come true, all u need is to believe, stop obsessing. If you just got done listening to subliminals or saying some affirmations, stop for the rest of the day. detachment is 🔑.

The universe is listening. Speak with certainty.

🌹 Step 5: Fall In Love With the Glow-Up

This is your soft girl era.

Your main character energy.

Your unbothered evolution.

You’re not chasing.

You’re attracting.

You’re not waiting.

You’re becoming.

Your permission slip to:

✧ Move like the version of you who already has it

✧ Say no to anything not aligned

✧ Stay delusional in your belief

✧ Stay grounded in your effort

Final Reminder 💌

That girl you dream of being?

The one who has it all?

She’s not a stranger.

She’s you, just unlocked.

And today?

You're the key.

You're the shift.

You're the moment.

[snderist]

9am in the bay 🌤️

new house post coming soon!

[friendlyneighborhoodshark]

Little things that aren't

LITTLE

The unprompted 'This remind me of you' text.

People who make you forget about your phone.

The way dogs seem to smile at you.

Learning to say no.

Comfortable silence.

The way they glance back at you before leaving.

Friends who bring up your name in rooms with opportunities.

"I'm at _____. Do you want anything? "

"Text me when you get home. "

"Of course I remember. "

Asking you questions when you're talking about something.

Specific compliments

When they know the sidewalk rule.

Walking in a group and someone's waiting for you to catch up.

Waiting until I get inside to drive away.

Being asked for your opinion.

Cut fruits from your parents.

Forehead kisses.

Head pats.

Playing with your hair till you fall asleep.

Being alive.

[yours-trudy]

The second most important thing to start the day with.

[merakiui]

Imagine Azul working at his desk as one of the twins has you bent over the other side just railing into you, just out of the way that you won't interrupt his work/contracts. Maybe if he's feeling benevolent, he'll hold your hand with his free one while he writes(man's totally ambidextrous).

Tako crunch time...... too busy to bother with sex, so Jade or Floyd takes care of you while he's reviewing documents...... yes. <3 it works so well with Floyd because Floyd fucks you everywhere. Thank the Great Seven for magic because the amount of times those leather sofas have had to be magically deep-cleaned after Floyd's gone a few rounds with you on them... T_T Sea Witch, give Azul strength.

But then it's also so good to imagine Jade railing you against Azul's desk and the two of them are talking numbers and profits while you're falling apart and stuffed full of cock. >_< Azul is sweet enough to take your hand in his when you're scrabbling for something to hold onto because the pace Jade or Floyd sets is brutal, and he runs his thumb over the top of your hand while you're sobbing in ecstasy, your face pressed into the pristine mahogany.

And maybe when he finally finishes his work for the evening, he gets to have his turn. >:) he throws your legs up onto his shoulders and fucks you while you're sprawled on your back on his desk. He'll even wash you up after the fact and carry you to his room so you can cuddle with him. He's such a sweet (contractual) boyfriend (and future husband, but you'll get there one day)!!!!

[thejournallo]

Life hack: routine

Why is routine so important?

A routine is essential because it creates structure, consistency, and stability in your daily life. It helps to establish healthy habits, improve productivity, and reduce stress by giving you a clear sense of direction. When you follow a routine, it becomes easier to prioritize your goals, manage your time effectively, and stay focused on what truly matters. Routines also encourage discipline, foster personal growth, and create space for self-care, all of which contribute to a balanced and fulfilling life.

The Importance of a Routine:

Consistency: A routine helps you maintain consistency in your actions and behaviors, leading to steady progress towards your goals.

Time Management: It allows you to allocate time effectively, ensuring that you’re making progress on both short-term tasks and long-term ambitions.

Improved Focus: By following a set routine, you create mental clarity, making it easier to focus on what truly matters without distractions.

Habits: A routine helps reinforce good habits and allows you to eliminate bad ones by making repetitive actions automatic.

Stress Reduction: Knowing what to expect in your day-to-day life reduces stress and gives you a sense of control over your circumstances.

Physical and Mental Health: Regular routines—such as meal times, sleep schedules, exercise—help maintain overall well-being, supporting both physical and mental health.

Enhances Productivity: Routines help streamline your activities, making it easier to stay productive and manage your workload efficiently.

Goal Achievement: When you create a routine that aligns with your goals, it becomes easier to break big aspirations into smaller, actionable steps, making progress more manageable.

Examples of Routines:

Morning Routine:

Wake up at the same time every day.

Drink water and do light stretching or meditation.

Plan your top priorities for the day.

Eat a healthy breakfast.

Engage in 30 minutes of reading or journaling.

Work Routine:

Start work at a specific time.

Focus on high-priority tasks first.

Take short breaks every hour to refresh your mind.

End work at a consistent time to maintain work-life balance.

Exercise Routine:

Schedule 3-4 days a week dedicated to physical activity.

Mix cardio, strength training, and flexibility exercises.

Consistent rest days to allow recovery.

Evening Routine:

Reflect on the day by journaling.

Set intentions for the next day.

Wind down with a calming activity—reading, deep breathing, or meditation.

Stick to a consistent sleep schedule.

Self-Care Routine:

Allocate time for self-care activities like skincare, relaxation, or hobbies you enjoy.

Practice gratitude or affirmations to end the day on a positive note.

Manifestation Routine:

Spend time visualizing your goals every morning and evening.

Write down your affirmations or desires to reinforce your intentions.

Reflect on your progress and adjust accordingly.

[sophsicle]

guess which bitch started their monday off by getting hit by a car.

[rockingrobin69]

Routine

“Harry, wait, you’ve—your bloody jacket,” stopped him at the doorway with a roll of his eyes, this long-suffering look that failed to hide a smile. “Getting a little forgetful in our old age?”

“Shut up,” Harry laughed, deliriously fond. “I wouldn’t have to rush out if someone didn’t take so long in the bathroom.”

“Did you believe all this happens naturally?” shaking his long, lovely hair in emphasis. Harry, who’d seen this trick a thousand times before, drank the sight hungrily: Harry, who’d seen Draco when he just woke up this morning, knew the statement for the rubbish it was.

“Cute. You’re stalling, and I’m going to be late.”

Draco quirked an eyebrow. “Not exactly holding you here by the tie, am I.”

Disappointedly: “Hmm. I suppose not.” Rectifying immediately with a step closer, arms wrapping around Draco; inhaling deep the sharp smell of his aftershave, of his fancy face cream Harry still occasionally had to lick.

“Now who’s stalling,” but his voice was soft, punctuated with tiny kisses to his jaw. “Harry. You’ll be late. And you’ve got that lecture today, the one you kept droning on and on about.”

While he had one arm around Harry’s shoulders, a hand threading through his hair. “It’s only, I’m a little entangled here. See, I’ve got this partner who keeps insisting he’s not clingy.”

“Surely he’s not. Did you consider the fact you’re extremely touchable? And besides that he’s maybe a bit gone for you, and cannot be blamed. Not so early in the morning. What? Stop looking at me like that, you started it, and I wouldn’t take so long to wake up if you hadn’t insisted on staying up late last night, with your,” stopped to laugh, croaky and loud in Harry’s ear, to shake his head with his eyes all grey.

A burst of it in his chest, star-bright. “You love me,” Harry said, stupidly, helplessly happy.

“Shock and awe.”

“You love me,” grinning like a fool, crushing Draco closer by the hips, peppering his face with kisses: “you really do.”

“Every bloody morning,” but he was laughing too. “You’re a ridiculous man, Harry Potter.”

“And you still love me.”

Draco, in his arms, dramatic and fidgety. “And yet I somehow still do.”

“Darling,” giddy with it, rubbing his nose against Draco’s cold one. “You’re freezing. You should get back inside, get some sleep.”

“I would, only there’s this brute who won’t let me go.”

The thought of him back in bed, wrapped under a warm duvet was slightly devastating. Trying for a brave smile, “Well, did you consider you’re very touchable.”

“Am I? That’s news to me.”

A huff, and affection tearing through him, impossibly tight: “Right, okay,” forcing his hands away, his legs a step back. “I really have to go.”

“Wait,” Draco said, forehead crinkling, “aren’t you forgetting something?”

“You already brought me my jacket.”

“Fuck your jacket. Something actually important.”

“Oh!” sweeping him in his arms once again, delighting in the way his head tilted up, expectantly, for a kiss. In delivering one at a time, deliberate. “I love you. I love you so much.”

Draco allowed this for a moment longer, then pushed Harry away, flushed and awfully dear. “All right, off you go. Did you know you’re an utter sap.”

“Only for you.”

The long-suffering look. “Oh, the things one is willing to put up with.” But he stayed there, bracing a bare shoulder against the doorway, and it was morning-cold outside, and he couldn’t really hide the smile.

“Yes, poor you,” Harry said, and kissed him again just because.  

(Flufftober day 3. Find the soft AO3 collection here).