#you’d be mad too no?

[youngyoo-apologist]

OG Choi Han they could never make me hate you cause if some random rich boy was yelling at me and telling me my family deserved to die like a day after it happened and all I wanted was to know how I could get help I’d beat him up too

This plus the added fact that the Harris Village people were the first people to take Choi Han in and take care of him after years and years in the dark forest. Like he’s obviously not going to be mentally stable after all that, and he was so young when everything happened to him like I cannot blame him at all. I don’t think I can ever hate OG Choi Han like ever, he’s flawed, he has problems, but I love him dearly. He deserves the world. This kid who had to fight for his life, was taken away from his family, and in the process had to give up parts of his own humanity to survive, and like went to war two years later, they could never make me hate u OG Choi Han…

Like yeah violence is bad I guess but OG Cale had it coming(saying this as an OG Cale fan, I love him, but he was mean as hell when he was younger!)

If I’m honest, I think they were both in the wrong to an extent. Like OG Cale shouldn’t have said all that no matter the circumstances, and OG Choi Han shouldn’t have beaten him up so much. But u say mean shit and you get hit, that is how it will work when you’re talking to the guy who just saw his entire village get murdered like idkkkk man

I understand where OG Cale was coming from, but he had many issues and while he wasn’t an awful person, he was capable of doing bad things because of his own internalized pain and emotions that he never got to properly process because of his emotionally distant childhood and relationship with his father who should have been there for him more when he was younger.

Okay speaking of his childhood, Deruth isn’t the WORST father in the world but there are a lot of things he could have done better. I think a lot of Deruth’s flaws come from his fear of failure and messing up. He’s scared of doing the wrong thing, and so he sticks to doing what he knows and using what he knows best. That’s why he uses his money, that’s why gift giving is his way of showing affection, he knows that it is one thing he cannot mess up.

The problem is that money and gifts is NOT what OG Cale needed. I think what that guy needed the most was a parent who wasn’t afraid to talk to him, to ask him questions. Not to say that Deruth gave up on OG Cale, but I think in a way he gave up on OG Cale by giving up on himself. Deruth didn’t trust himself to have the capabilities to talk to OG Cale, which is why he never did. It’s because that Deruth was scared, and didn’t trust himself, that he could never face OG Cale

If Deruth was able to trust himself a little more, and pull himself together, I don’t think OG Cale would have turned out the way he did. As a kid, he probably thought the only way he could help his family without relying on anyone(no doubt this whole ‘I have to do it myself’ thing came from the fact that he couldn’t rely on his father when his mom died, and instead was acting as a pillar of support for his father when it should have been the other way around) was to sabotage himself, the only heir. If he was shown to be unfit to be heir, then everyone else would have no choice but to direct their hatred towards him instead of his family.

If Deruth had talked to his son at least ONCE when he was a kid, asking him why he was upset or why he did the things he did, I think OG Cale would have told him. Why? Because he’s a kid!! A kid will obviously want to rely on his father, if he just had one sign telling him that he didn’t have to do it alone I’m 90% sure OG Cale would have said something.

Basically, while Deruth isn’t the worst father, he’s not really a great father either. I think he does do his best, but he has issues with communication lol

OG Cale and OG Choi Han are both complex characters and had their own reasons to behave the way they did. The thing is with people is that they’re complicated and have layers, so the situation with them would have layers behind it as well with multiple co-existing truths and stuff

[turtleblogatlast]

Personally what I like best in terms of who’s older between Donnie and Leo is just them never knowing for sure BUT imagine Leo going up to Draxum and saying he’ll never bring up the roof incident again if Draxum tells Donnie that Leo’s the older twin.

[deep-space-lines]

Did I hit a raw nerve? Have I got a soft touch?

fuck it. lesbian mindflayers

[messervixen]

The Wolfstar Effect is REAL because why is every person who looks like Remus or Sirius dating someone who looks like the other one

[sttoru]

Do you think fiction affects reality?

ouuuuuu, this is a conversation that is maybe too mature to be on this app 🧜🏽‍♀️ .. tho i’ll say, ‘yes. but also, depends.’

as someone who majors in psychology-ish studies, revolving around neuroscience and how the brain works (especially for children/teens/adolescents), fiction does affect reality on multiple levels, perhaps not all. there is no denying that, whether you like it or not. there’s been many examples of that throughout our lives. many people are affected by the fiction they consume and they simply do not realise that.

for some it’s visibly possible, big impacts — for others it could be subtle, tiny impacts that are subconsciously stored in the brain after consuming the fiction. the first is harmful, the latter could be but necessarily doesn’t have to.

people are quick to say that fiction does not affect reality, yes — perhaps not for you (or perhaps you arent just aware of it) but it definitely does for others !

[lexyblip]

moomin fans (some moomin fans) laugh at how shitty snufkin is to sniff in cedric as if they wouldn’t break down if someone spoke to them that way about some personal issue they were having

[quietwingsinthesky]

went into the notes of that poll going around about if people want more seasons of supernatural and was immediately slapped in the face with how different my priorities are in this fandom from. a lot of it. what are you talking about ‘destiel endgame’. girl the show has bigger problems to fix than that if it ever had more seasons. they taught a three year old that the best way to be loved was to continuously try to kill himself and then they made him god.

[soni-dragon]

Never ever EVER buy household appliances with ai in them. Most ridiculous things I’ve ever encountered

[parasite-core]

Shadowheart was so mad at Addy over finding out he was the one who started the cult of the Absolute, and for him not telling them. Even though Addy didn’t know before just then either. And they all know he has amnesia and he made no secret of this being a surprise to him while talking to Gortash.

Shadowheart, my girl, *you* have amnesia, have a little empathy.

[skhardwarevers1]

Goood morning!!!!! it’s Saturday!!!! chill out and do nothing !!!! unless you have something to do, do that but don’t let it stress you!!!! Things to do are part of life, can’t avoid them might as well try to look forward to them!

[mads-is-tired]

did anybody else have a phase when they were like 10-12 where they only used youtube to watch roller coaster and water slide POV’s?

i vividly remember having a sleepover at a friends house and we were both in bed watching these POV videos

[kaleighkarma]

who do you think would win in a fist fight, me or emma?

I’m sorry I have to go with Emma

She’s scrappy I’m sure and American we know how to throw down it’s in our blood. Though the British part might counteract the American part I’m not sure of their throw down potential but they did loose that war!!!

[yorktaylor]

ah i see we’re back to implying taylor is the worst person on earth with no morals. good fucking bye.

[lux-scriptum]

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[freakylilnutjob]

not my father saying he doesn’t want to be the dad that treats his kids the way he was treated after getting butt hurt because I didn’t tell him I got a tattoo ✋💀