#xenogender questions

[thelittlefirepup]

💜💜💜💜

This might sound weird, but I kinda wish there were similar labels like xenogenders, but for sexualities.

Like, I know most terms for sexuality are based on what gender you are attracted to and all that, but for me, it feels more complicated than that.

Why can I describe my gender as a gentle rain, but I can't label my sexuality as a storm so wild even i can't navigate it? Or say my romantic attraction is like a dog with the mysterious air of a black cat?

Obviously, we'd have to get creative with the names, cuz while catgender works, catromantic definitely wouldn't.

Just a little thing I wanted to throw out there. Let me know if this already exists.

Peace <3

(Also, not ignoring the whole election situation, just keeping it off this blog because I need somewhere to stay a positive place for me.)

[imiggytheartist]

LGBT in fighting is fucking dumb and I’m super tired of yall’s stupidity. The fascists who run the government do not care that you are “Not like the other queers”. The fascists do not care that you hates it when bisexual women are taking their straight boyfriends to pride. The fascists do not care that you are a gay person who hates trans people with a passion. The fascists do not care that you are a trans person who hates non-binary people with a passion. The fascists do not care that you are a queer person who bullies 12 year old kids on tik tok who use fox/foxself pronouns and identify as fox gender. Hating each other will not make the homophobes go away. I don’t care how many times you say “But these people in the community make everyone else in the community look bad.” Fascists think we are all the same they will not single any of us out just because some of us have the same opinions as the fascists/Alt right. They are not passing anti trans laws because some trans people are too loud and cringey they are doing it because they hate all trans people. They are not passing anti gay laws because some gay people are too loud and cringey they are doing it because they hate gay people. FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINIONS THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! Do you understand me?

[creation-help]

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈PRIDE THEMED OC ASK GAME🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️

Bc I wanted one and didn't find it so. Here

[Send ask aimed at a specific character]

1. What's your oc's gender identity? What's their relationship to their gender?

2. What's your oc's orientation? (Romantic/sexual/platonic alterous ect) Do they have opinions about it?

3. How did your oc discover themself? Did something cause them to question, or did they always know?

4. Is your oc's environment supportive about their identity? How does this impact them?

5. How did you figure out your oc's identity?

6. How does your oc feel about labels? Theirs, or in general?

7. Is there something that could cause your oc to question their identity? What?

8. Have they had struggles with their identity, be it due to internal or external reasons?

9. Are there cultural or lore specific aspects to their identity? If applicable, does their species affect it?

10. Does your oc celebrate Pride? How?

11. Is your oc open about their identity? Are they more lowkey or more blunt about it? Why or why not?

12. Does/did your oc ever wish they could change the way they are? Why? If it's in the past, how did they get over the feeling? (this can be about internalized homo/transphobia)

13. Would your oc be open to a poly relationship? Why or why not?

[Not aimed at a specific character] / [Aimed at creator]

14. Do you have ocs on the aro or ace spectrum?

15. Do any of your ocs use neopronouns? Which ones?

16. Did you ever change an oc's identity when they were already established? Why?

17. Do you share identity with any of your ocs? Which ones?

18. Do you prefer to give your ocs specific labels, or keep it unspecified? Why? If applicable, do you change their labels depending on circumstance?

19. Do you have preferences about depicting homo/transphobia in your stories? What, and why? Does it vary by story?

20. Have your ocs helped you in self discovery? How?

21. Free ramble card wee

[morsobaby]

Those people who don't know if they're a butch lesbian or a trans man I love you. You're not doing any of this wrong. There's nothing wrong with your existence. Identity is hard and you don't deserve backlash for struggling to fit into this world. I see you, I love you. Please keep going. You're worth it. This is who you are, and if not, you'll figure it out in time. But it's okay if you never figure it out. It's okay. You can be this. You're not wrong or predatory or faking anything. It's okay. Hugs

[mechanicalfelix]

[v14gr4xf4llzx]

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I LOVE YOU ALL MY BEAUTIFUL GENDER QUEER BABIES

[socte-blue]

Me, at like 4: “I’m a cat!”

Me, like two years ago: “Okay… I am genderqueer mlm and disabled so i’m already at a disadvantage.. but everything‘s gonna be ok if I just fit myself into a GOOD different box so people people won’t stop being ok with it..!! Yep all good!!! I just to be PERFECTLY COOL. AND NORMAL. I am fitting into the system as much as I can…!!!-“

Me now: “my gender is loser and I’m a cat”

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Xenocryptic: A xenogender experience that is hazy, confusing, strange, or "other" in such a way that it feels disconnected from the entire concept of gender. It can be a xeno-aligned identity, a xenogender, a xingender, or a xeno-questioning identity that feels removed from gender because of its xenity. It can be considered a xeno-aligned apogender and is similar to apeirogender. - 💙💚

[firewolf111]

My gender is a clown car.

"What's your gender?"

Short answer. Nonbinary.

"And the long answer?"

I laugh maniacally as a car with the nonbinary flag colors painted on it zooms towards us. As it parks, I maintain eye contact with a creepy grin as I open the door. Out comes microlabel after microlabel, xenogender after xenogender. You watch in horror as they just keep coming, no end in sight. It's a never-ending swarm that begins to surround you until you lose all hope of escape.

[puppyygrahamzz]

Creeplushie cat gender ^_^

Feeling a strong connection to Minecraft creepers, plushies, orange cats, a mix of those, all three, or just this specific image :3

!! Flag and name made by me !!

Ideas for neopronouns

meow/plush/cat/craft/plushie/green/🌿/🐈/🧸/ etc… ^_^

[new-kit-on-the-block]

Man, that pandemic huh?

[characterpridepfps]

TAKING REQUESTS!!

I'm bored, it's pride month, and my gay self wishes to pump out more pride pfps! RULES: 1. Any lgbtqia+ flag is accepted! (Microlabels included) IF IT IS MAP, ZOO, OR OTHER ILLEGAL OR DISCRIMINATORY LABELS, IT IS NOT ALLOWED. 2. Any fictional character is allowed to be requested! 3. You are allowed to use any and all of these pfps without credit unless stated otherwise! 4. Disability flags are also welcome! DISCLAIMER: I have the right to decline any request for any reason. DNI: homophobic, transphobic, aphobic, sexist, TERF, p*dophile, z**phile, inc*st, racist, antisemetic, lgbt+ exclusionist, discrimination towards religions, discrimination by religions

[queerrambles]

Let me know in the comments if your gender wasn't listed here. If you fall under an umbrella (such as genderdoe, which is a genderfluid identity) then just pick the umbrella term listed (you can put in the tags your specific gender, though)

Romantic Orientation Poll can be found here

Sexuality Poll can be found here

Polyam Poll is next

[morsobaby]

This goes out to all the Xenogenderers, "cringy" nonbinaries, genderfluid, -fucked and otherwise genderweird people. Everyone who can't really cleanly explain their identity and aren't binary enough to feel truly trans or be taken seriously. By cishets or other queer people. This goes out to you all, who can't really transition, maybe bc you don't know how to/what that would look like for you, or because you'd be perceived and mocked as a freak, or maybe the exact treatments or helps you want n need aren't available, realistic, possible or even don't exist. Who aren't sure how you'd even go about affirming your gender or correcting misgendering. Maybe bc it'd take too much effort or not make sense to most people. Or just out of fear or inconvenience. Those who are often left out of trans conversations, for being too unusual or not seen as valid.

This or that, I'm here to say I see you. You are trans enough. You are exactly the gender(s) you are. I hope you find euphoric things in your life fuken STAT, and if you're still questioning I wish you all the best in your self discovery and it's okay to take time and experiment, you're absolutely never a nuisance for asking to have your identity respected and accommodated for, and no matter how temporary or a "phase" any nuances of your identity are, they still are worthy of respect when they're true for you. If you identify as one thing now, you deserve to be recognized as that now and for as long as you identify as such. Even if that changes tomorrow. Even if you turn out to be mistaken.

It's okay. You're enough. Have fun with it please

[neopronouns-in-action]

[ID: The "You can always pirate from Nintendo" meme, of a person standing dramatically against a digital 3D grid background with glowing hands, with the text now edited to say: "You can always send in requests for neopronouns to be used in a short story, it's always appreciated, there are so many it gets hard to pick which ones to use next". End ID.]

[genderstarbucks]

Mspecgay-Questioning is a term for individuals who are questioning if they're gay or mspec.

Bigay-Questioning is a term for individuals who are questioning if they're gay or bi(romantic, sexual, etc.)

Poly/plygay-Questioning is a term for individuals who are questioning if they're gay or poly/ply(romantic, sexual, etc.)

Pangay-Questioning is a term for individuals who are questioning if they're gay or pan(romantic, sexual, etc.)

Omnigay-Questioning is a term for individuals who are questioning if they're gay or omni(romantic, sexual, etc.)

Abrogay-Questioning is a term for individuals who are questioning if they're gay or abro(romantic, sexual, etc.)

Some specific mspec gay subterms for those who are questioning!