#will vent tags be necessary for this one idk

[seventh-district]

14 hours of good sleep let’s fucking goooooo

[cryptidapprentice]

eep!

[wikiangela]

tease tidbit tuesday

tagged by @disasterbuckdiaz @tizniz @daffi-990 💖

another snippet of the cheating fic, this time a scene I'm not even sure I wanna keep bc I liked it in my head but now idk if it's necessary lol (maybe sharing it will help me decide haha) so here's buck panicking and going to a hungover hen to vent lol

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“Sorry to bother you with it, I just- I needed to talk to someone, I guess.” he says quietly, sitting at the table in the kitchen, while Hen puts on the coffee maker while also contemplating whether it’s too early for alcohol.

“I thought something about you and Eddie has been different lately, and last night-” she says as she pulls out two mugs, and stops halfway to putting them on the counter. She looks back at Buck, horrified. “Last night? When you two disappeared together, and then acted even weirder, and- oh, shit, if I wasn't as drunk as I was, I would’ve put it together then.” she shakes her head, winces, then the mugs finally hit the counter with a soft thud. 

“I know how horrible-” Buck starts, but Hen raises her finger in that mom way, that immediately makes Buck shut up. She just woke up and she’s hungover, she needs a moment, of course. And Buck is barging in to complain about his mess that he made. Fuck, he really is the worst.

It’s silent for a few minutes, the only sound is the quiet whirring of the coffee maker as Hen makes two coffees. Then she puts one in front of Buck, and takes a seat opposite him with her own mug. She takes a few sips, takes another moment, and only then, with a deep breath, looks Buck in the eyes and it feels so scrutinizing, Buck squirms under her gaze, hides his face behind his coffee mug as he takes a sip as well. It’s too bitter for his taste, the way Eddie usually drinks it, and still too hot, it burns as it goes down, an uncomfortable kind of heat settling in his stomach.

“So.” Hen says, and Buck suddenly regrets coming here. He shouldn’t have bothered her, he shouldn’t have burdened her with his problems. “What the fuck?”

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no pressure tags: @elvensorceress @gaydiaz @thebravebitch @silentxxsoul @shortsighted-owl @eddiebabygirldiaz @arthursdent @911onabc @housewifebuck @watchyourbuck @underwater-ninja-13 @eowon @loserdiaz @evanbegins @ladydorian05 @wildlife4life @diazpatcher @lover-of-mine @monsterrae1 @thewolvesof1998 @puppyboybuckley @weewootruck @loveyouanyway @spagheddiediaz @rainbow-nerdss @sunshinediaz @giddyupbuck @epicbuddieficrecs @pirrusstuff @spotsandsocks @alliaskisthepossibilityoflove @hoodie-buck @nmcggg @jesuisici33 @exhuastedpigeon @rogerzsteven @hippolotamus @honestlydarkprincess @theotherbuckley @fortheloveofbuddie @steadfastsaturnsrings @diazsdimples @dangerpronebuddie

[ec-speedrunner]

(Ooc) hey no offense but was this whole arc thing really... necessary? like.. there was already the red apostle, the advertsary thing, the ENN arc and the whole pluspeteer thing, Tilda's party, probably more that I forgot.. and now this...

please tell me it's different. please.

the more arcs with that that happen, the more I think people just straight up don't want me to be part of this RPverse.

sorry for venting.

- someone in the !cu, for privacy's sake I won't say who specifically I am but if you want a tag or something idk call me 🌧.

I understand you concerns here. I did this arc because I couldn't keep up with all my characters, and wanted to get rid of one of them. I do genuinely enjoy Themis's character, but I didn't enjoy roleplaying him as much anymore. So I figured I should get rid of him.

I understand the whole thing is overdone and all that, but I just needed to get rid of a character. I hope that this is okay. And don't worry about the venting thing, I understand being upset about this. I figured that some people were gonna be upset.

If I decide one day that I do want Themis back, then I'll probably just retcon the whole arc.

Apologies, and hope this is a satisfactory answer ^^"

[gwinverarrouz]

nine people you'd like to get to know better

Tagged by @d-e-w-p

Last song: Guerre, guerre, vente, vent by Tri Yann. It's about a sailor who's coming home after seven years of war, and he's exhausted and has no money left but he's telling his lover that he's received all her letters and that he's coming home to see his children and his friends pffft look at me listening to a sailor's song it feels ridiculously on brand but I promise it wasn't on purpose

Favorite color: Technically yellow but also I hold the firm belief that any colour can look good if you put it next to the right other colour(s)

Currently watching: Not currently watching anything (although I do have some cartoons to catch up on...) but looking forward to season 2 of Our Flag Means Death.

Last movie: Paddington 2! I've never seen the first one but I was with friends who assured me it wasn't necessary to enjoy it and it was sO. CUTE. GOD. THIS MOVIE. IS JUST THE SWEETEST. also everything comes together very nicely plot-wise, and the cinematography was quite charming too, would 100% recommend if you're in the mood for something adorable and heartwarming

Currently reading: Rereading the first volume of the Bartimaeus trilogy, which I absolutely adored when I first read it as a child and still enjoy a lot. Bartimaeus my beloved (whom I'm realising has been an unconscious source of inspiration for at least one of my OCs, haha)

Sweet/spicy/savory: Eh, depends, but generally sweet I'd say.

Relationship status: Fell for someone who lives on the other side of the world and isn't expecting anything to come of it? idk?? never been one for romance XD

Current obsession: ...My own characters who live rent-free in my brain is it "current" if it's been consistently this for years

Last thing I googled: Hmmmight've been a French verb conjugation, I wanted to check a grammar thing.

Currently working on: Art school stuuuuff I missed some classes so I have things to catch up on and also I am sick, woe is me (but I should recover soon hopefully)

Not tagging anyone but please feel free to do this if you want to, I am curious :D

[pomfiores]

the grief after the loss is something so foreign but at the same time not new. how do you even explain that. just Big Big grief. i have her doll - its so worn and nasty but she loved this dirty thing and i can’t throw it away. can’t even cancel appointments/make calls/drink apple juice without falling apart and losing dignity lmao i’m so fuckedddd.

[yvningshowers]

To the random woman on twitter who follows me and likes all of my personal dark tweets OAJDIAJOS THANK YOU!??!?!?

[uhhbeans]

the cards may be correct but that doesn’t mean im listening

[plume-pigmented-pili]

I need more Among Us sanders sides content so i’m making it myself:

The sides suit colors, hats, and how they’d play - Tag yourself if you want lmao

Logan -

Dark Blue suit, doesn’t wear a hat, but if he weren’t worried about being taken seriously he’d wear the cherry hat as it reminds him of crofter’s.

analyzes all evidence before coming to any conclusions

feels like nobody else is taking this seriously

asks for alibis every vote round

gets tasks done as efficiently as possible

will be in security or admin after finished with tasks

evidence based only; doesn’t assign anyone as ‘sus’ without reason

Has ‘sus’ on a flash card probably

wins as imposter every time

surprisingly good at the art of deception

Roman -

White suit, paid 2.99 for the crown hat and doesn’t regret it one bit

fumbles through tasks but is surprisingly efficient

judges everybody’s every moment for suspicious activity

Will blame someone simply for standing still too long

Bad at discussions (I.e. asks too many questions and looks sus)

almost always voted out first

doesn’t like being imposter

rlly bad at lying

always keeping an eye out

Virgil -

Purple suit, doesn’t wear a hat but likes the alien dog pet

Weary of everything and everyone

gets tasks done last usually (for that last reason)

Good at detecting lies and deducing

has biases tho

definitely a smart ass in chat

“How do I vent like Green did”

is very well trusted actually

enjoys being imposter and is surprisingly good at it

refuses to go into electrical until the very end or unless absolutely necessary

Often teams with Roman in making wild accusations (and to try and eliminate Janus)

“idk Janus sus” “why?” “followed me in admin” “everyone went into admin.” “still sus”

gets nervous when he doesn’t see other people for too long

Patton -

Cyan suit, uses crewmate hat and mini crewmate pet (“aww look! I have 2 kiddos!!), gets sad if he dies and leaves his mini crewmate sitting alone tho

trusts everyone way too easily

sees the merit in being imposter but refuses to play as imposter anyway

because of this, nobody ever suspects him or tries to vote him out

If Patton says he saw someone in a vent or over a body, everyone believes him. imposters do their best to stay away from him because of this

Roman tags along with him ‘to keep him safe’ (but it’s also because Romans feels safer around other people, Patton knows this)

volunteers to go into electrical with Virgil

tries to use his free time gathering evidence for Logan, even if he’s not great at it

has a bit of a sus biased toward Remus but pretty much everyone else does too so

usually gets killed pretty quickly but continues his tasks anyways

usually has to break up arguments in chat

“We’re here to have fun!”

Remus -

Lime Green suit, switches between toilet paper, egg, plunger, banana peel, and cheese hats (it’s always random)

is happiest as imposter

bad at lying but really good at just f*cking with peoples heads

kills Logan first as imposter

still acts like imposter even when his a crew member

follows people around to make them nervous

would team with imposter if he could

forgets to do his tasks often but still does them

likes the kill animations

sometimes he hits emergency meeting just to be an ass

Remus was kicked by Logan S.

Janus -

Yellow suit, wears black roundy hat and sometimes the yellow party hat

Favorites being imposter over crewmember but equally good at both

always decides to kill Patton first as imposter, since he’s the easiest target and a liability, but never actually goes through with it

likes doing tasks alone but doesn’t have an issue if Patton follows him

hated anyone else following him unless he knows for a fact they’re innocent, and even then he’s not a fan

like Logan, he gets tasks done asap

unlike Logan, he doesn’t like sitting in security. It makes him vulnerable, as he would say

despises the admin card swipe

after he finishes tasks, he keeps close tabs on everyone and is always moving

Either the first to die or the last to die, no in between

has a knack for steering the conversation in the direction he wants it to go (Virgil can almost always see through it tho)

while he likes to use reason when finding the imposter, he also has the tendency to use pure speculation as grounds for his accusations. He hides this well

avoids Virgil like the plague

[evanox]

re: ur tag vent, just speaking personally, i dont always reblog xreader content bc of how stigmatized it is, sometimes im afraid to put it on my actual blog because im afraid of being thought of as cringy by people following me (and i cant do sideblogs, my brain just cant handle having to manage more than one blog at once) it doesnt rly have anything to do with whether or not i liked the fic itself—but i try to leave comments in the replies section on tumblr postings of xreader content that i like to show my appreciation. i know thats better than just liking it, but idk if its nearly as good as a reblog... i would reblog but i just do not have the guts i am sorry

I mean I kinda feel that bc I always thought x reader or y/n content was really cringe but.. look at me now lmao 💀💀 I've had this blog since 2015 so I was worried what my older mutuals would think seeing me come back after a 2 year hiatus to write y/n hc for a man with cat ears of all things but!! I've been blessed with really cool moots so regardless of how they feel about my posts we're pretty chill so,, I say if your followers can't handle your cringe they can go乁(ツ)ㄏ

That being said, the reblogs that I appreciate the most are the ones with sweet tags bc it's exciting seeing how people feel about what I write (ough bonus points if you add what was your favorite part) and I can look back on them for a pick-me-up when necessary,, so yeah even a comment without a reblog still goes a long way!! Either way you really didn't need to apologize!! This is not an obligation at the end of the day but thank u for the message <33

[bunfart90]

why do people have such hot takes about traumacore

like no it’s not an aesthetic it’s a vent form and no we can’t control what it’s used for but it’s cathartic and healing for some to use this as a coping mechanism so shitting on it really just doesn’t make sense unless you’re just like, anti-recovery?? lol

idk some mf was like “if traumacore isn’t an aesthetic then why is there a whole subsection for traumacore ‘fashion’?” like bitch idfk but i can tell u rn that the sole purpose of traumacore is to creatively express trauma and that’s it. like u rlly think that the same crowd saying what i’m saying is making an aesthetic out of traumacore? are u actually that dense?

like impo the only reason why i’m saying it’s not an aesthetic here is because the way most people define an aesthetic is something romanticized or glorified. like those aren’t necessary to have an aesthetic. an aesthetic at least the way i see it is just a series of photos videos or quotes that all relate to a particular subject or time period. it doesn’t say anything about whether it’s good or bad. so in that sense traumacore is an aesthetic. 

like idk where you got the idea that everyone involved in traumacore is romanticizing trauma, like i don’t doubt at least some people do (there’s always going to be some outliers) it definitely doesn’t represent everyone currently involving themselves with the tag and sure doesn’t entitle you to assume that the amount of people who use traumacore to vent, heal, or connect with other trauma survivors are negligible.

also, like i get how weirdcore blogs can get squicked out to see traumacore blending with their tag, but so many of them act like they have absolutely no idea why this is happening, as if most weirdcore posts don’t involve themes like dissociation, out of body experiences, fugue states, creepy nostalgia, things that trauma survivors can definitely relate to. like the only remotely valid justification i’ve heard weirdcore blogs use against traumacore’s infiltration is that it makes it often triggering to browse weirdcore. but even then, without the trauma, “weirdcore” by essence will include unsettling themes, hence the fucking use of the word “weird”. like weirdcore, dreamcore, and oddcore will always have elements of trauma with or without traumacore’s intersection.

like legitimately, if you’re one of those people who think that traumacore is merely an attention grab, i’d really like you to just consider how fucking conceited that sounds. Your discomfort by a single vent post of theirs is not more valuable than the absolute torture that caused them to create that. like, let them heal??? who are you to come in and be like “because you’ve partially infiltrated the weirdcore tag with your content and made me 1/16th as uncomfortable as you i’m gonna have to gatekeep now and call you an attention whore for not staying in your own aesthetic even though you’re literally a trauma survivor just trying to seek validation in order to heal”

like PUHLEASE leave trauma survivors the fuck alone

[heffrondriving]

I'm sorry if this is a little assholely but after seeing your vent post I went looking for where you said to not tag names and the only place I saw it was at the end of your very long tags,, so assuming i didnt miss another more obvious place...? Have you thought of just putting that in the post itself? Because anyone who's seeing it second hand (as in seeing it after someone else rebloged it) won't see that tag + not everyone reads tags, you know :( sorry that it makes you uncomfortable but if you put it somewhere more visible, like in the body of the post, then at least people def will see it. Sending love either way 💕

nahhh nothing to be sorry for issall totally cool and encouraged and you are very kind,, tbh i was lowkey waiting around for something like this and i'm kinda glad for it and also surprised it's not at least fifty times worse??? in all honesty i think i am in dire need and deserving of the hardest dose of criticism at this point for all the stupid messy personal posts i make on a sleep-deprived whim, as i am fully aware that this is not the place for it, and i am and should never be exempt from getting my necessary comeuppance should it arise. and like i said, this quandary was completely of my own fault. i have made my stance on personal comfort posts clear numerous times before and only put them in subtler places like the end of my annoying-ass rambly tags because i really don't wanna bother people with something that sounds so trivially inconsequential, and it makes me incredibly anxious to add them in the post itself (as i reckon it just outright ruins the whole content and that's such a selfish and gross thing for me to do personally,, like who tf am i to ask anything of anyone ech :-/). but this is still my sole responsibility to properly handle and conduct myself online, and i'm so sorry if i came across like i'm attempting to pass the blame for my own self-implicated neglect, as no one else should be subject to dealing with my mistakes. (like no joke i screamed aloud when i read that you looked through my posts or tags??? PLS LICHRALLY NEVER DO THAT EVER THAT'S A VV BAD IDEA ACTUAL ONLINE EQUIVALENT OF DUMPSTER DIVING VIBES EXCEPT THE DUMPSTER'S ON FIRE AND CAUSES MAJOR BRAINROTOFFISITIS!!!!! (;´༎ຶД༎ຶ`))

i've had a well-needed rest hrk composed myself, deleted my prev post (i'm also thinking of removing the post that spurred it just to be sure, t'was super terrible anyway lmao), and muted my notifs for the time being, so please do feel free to tag anything however you wish at this point—i know i'm making an absolute fool out of myself for this full 180 departure (just in time for april 1st tho so swings and roundabouts-) but yeah that's completely fine idk, and if my walnut brain has anything otherwise to say abt it they will be catching These Hands according to the Fists Of Fury Code!!!!! ᕦ(ò皿óᕦ) but in all seriousness, emotional dysregulation is the absolute worst but i understand that maybe i can't really set boundaries for something fully well out of my control, so i just give up the ghost on this bc what else is there to do. c'est la vie if it sucks for me, tough shit @ self tough it out bebs u asked for this :^) though i hopefully can, however, keep everything else out of sight and out of mind so that i don't have to deal with the self-imposed repercussions by willingly setting my triggers off and lashing out incessantly. like mmm that's toxic shit girlie no one wants that here bls get u some therapy pare *whaps myself with an abaniko fan*. it's 100% on me if i choose to expand the tags on my notifs, and what happens in other ppl's blogs should be none of my fucking business and i'm just a super nosy lurker goblin sometimes ig exhibit a: this is what being a chronic cave hermit does to the human psyche. irreversible damage u.......*steven he voice* EMOTIONAL DAMAGE!!!!! my sincerest apologies again for all the trouble and i really hope this answer doesn't come off as too sardonic or acerbic or anything of the sort, i know i goof a lot but i really do mean all of it, even if trying to convey appropriate tone indication in text form is so whack 😩

also i'm really sorry for this mf ten-volume novel series of an answer (i really hope no one's insane enough to actually read this....whatever the hell this is .-.). thank you so much for your patience and understanding, and please keep the love and give it to another funky cool blog who's worthy of it and not deserving of getting squished like a pestilent vermin under your steel-toed bootheel!! /lh ~(இ௰இ~) anywayyy let's ignore (slash unfollow hardblock permanent dni etc. etc....very good ideas, those, bc if i could block myself i would without hesitation smh get this chernobyl elephant's foot outta my feed) this and my other inane bullshittery and let bygones be bygones and go back to our silly manband content, shall we??? this blog is for no-braincell shits and pure dumbassery first and foremost i promise......also i have more poorly-made sh!tposts and kendall's pretty grampa face stuff which i wanna plague the btr tag with if that's still allowed pls ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯

(^^^ i can't believe i actually got to use this gif for something sdjsfjksd)

[astronomy-two-worlds-apart]

Updated pinned post!!

previous url: @hopelessromanticfanperson05 :) (i kept the url on another blog in case i ever wanted it again)

The list of alters and a little about each of us will be posted below the basic blog information after the keep reading

We tag our posts with whoever is in the front and made the post, so our latest posts can be an indicator

We will also write whoever is fronting here

Currently fronting: quill

__________________________________________

So we decided some basic blog information as well as a DNI was very much needed so uhhhhh yeah

• yes we are a system! As of now we are a system of 20+ alters. not medically recognized or diagnosed but most likely osdd-1b

• if unsure who’s fronting, refer to us as cloud with they/them or it/its pronouns. Same thing if it’s a lot of us together, unless you’re wanting to speak to a specific alter

• adults can interact and follow just don’t be creepy a lot of us are minors and the body is as well

• you can always send asks and dm’s! If we don’t answer don’t feel discouraged we can be super forgetful (anon asks are on btw)

• you can ask for your triggers to be tagged and I will do my absolute best to remember

• we are on tumblr fairly often and more often than not wayyyyy past the time we should be asleep

• we also have discord, if you’d rather message there! However that is mutuals only

• be mindful of the littles. We try not to let them front on their own but it’s not always possible. Do not even think about hurting them. You will regret it.

• mutuals you are allowed to reblog any selfies we might post at any given time. Unless it’s tagged otherwise :)

• these are also some of our main interests that will be posted about ^-^: conan gray, extraordinary attorney woo, grey’s anatomy, dsmp (not often but neo does enjoy it and we also have a fictive from it), toh (raeda or raine mostly tbh) , heartstopper/oseman universe, spy x family, bluey, and others that i can’t quite remember 🥲

• these are also some sideblogs we’d like to share with the general public:

- @hopelessromanticyearns (yearning blog, hardly used as of lately. well as of awhile)

- @conangraymorelikeconanslayyy (conan gray fanpage, active from time to time, mostly reblogs however)

- @quills-creative-corner (writing blog, have a few fics posted, only used when both inspiration and time coexist, so once in a blue moon-)

- @local-mushroom-enthusiast (alyx’s blog that xe forgets about every time xe fronts. mostly mushrooms but i think xe does post some other stuff too from time to time

https://astronomy-two-worlds-apart.tumblr.com/post/674871311662759936/these-two-are-just-more-of-alyx-courtesy-of-yours

(idk how to change the name of a link but the above link is to a post of picrews of almost everyone)

And just a couple don’t’s because it seems necessary

Don’t ask about our trauma. We might make vent posts about it but don’t ask. Unless you are a trusted mutual we probably won’t open up about it either

Don’t reblog any posts tagged “vent” or “vent ish” it makes all of us uncomfy

DNI if you’re a pedophile, transphobe, homophobe, TERF, exclusionist, porn blog, racist, and/or engage in syscourse (not comfortable talking about it)

Please like this post if you’re a new follower to make sure you’re aware of everything :)

That’s it. Welcome to our blog lads!! :D

Quill, 18, check bio for pronouns and names (host)

I front the most, and I am absolutely obsessed with space. I’m autistic too. I love the idea of a cute romance but I am aromantic and mostly incapable of romance. Ignore the hopeless romantic though and you have a completely insane person <3 Anyways. Hey :)

Alyx, 19, xe/xem (co-host)

I am almost always close to the front in case something were to come up, and I have an accent when I talk, but we don’t mention it. Um let’s see what else. Oh yeah, Ximena is my girlfriend. Mushroom enthusiast!!!

Zym, 23, ey/em

Uh, basically I’m the bad influence around our littles, but I make sure they’re doing alright and honestly I just like to live life as we go. That’s about it

Ximena, 22, she/they/sun

I take care of our littles and sometimes have to intervene for our not so littles. I really enjoy reading and maybe just having a nice relaxing day, although dating Alyx doesn’t make it all that easy (I’m kidding love you babe)

Emmy, 8, she/her

I like to talk. Some peoples say I talk a lot. I no know but maybe. I really really like stuffed animals and dolls are fun :DD

Caspian, 4, he/him, lava/lavas and quack/quacks

He likes Minecraft. He really likes this stuffed penguin we have and also this one bear. He is nonverbal, and he doesn’t type. You will probably never interact with him

Dee, 13, he/they

Hello. I am kinda shy and not good with people. I tend to be very in touch with my emotions, especially the negative ones. I enjoy quiet time alone for the most part, but talking to the host’s friends can be interesting as well.

Orion, 12, he/she

Hi! I front especially when our host is experiencing a lot of overwhelming negative emotions and I have a very positive attitude towards a lot of things. I really enjoy hanging out with Dee and I like painting :)

Jess, 10, she/they/it

She is selectively mute, and while they can type it is choosing not to in this moment. She is terrified of meeting new people and might not want to talk unless a previous relationship with our system has been established. And I’ll let them say more later

Asa, 20 ish, he/him

Hello. I am a demon. I am very proper in speech and while I am not actually 20 years old, my appearance is of such. I enjoy reading and spend a lot of time alone.

Autumn, ??, it/its

What is up people. I am not human and I am very slightly chaotic you might get annoyed honestly but I hope none of you mind. And I like sleeping I mean can you blame me

Willow, 17, he/him

I hardly ever front, I spend a lot of time deep in the headspace. But I do like drawing

Jay, 20, he/they

Hey, what’s up. I’m not human. I really like photography and scaring people, it’s quite fun. I tend to mess with Neo a whole lot, he’s really easy to pick on (in a friendly manner though)

Janus, 23, he/him

Hello, I’m a introject of Janus from sanders sides. I enjoy playing video games and I don’t tend to front often

Neo/Campfire, 17, she/they/he (co-host)

Hey hey!! I enjoy photography and cooking too. I am typically close to the front and can be found fronting often with Quill. I’m also really into mcyt :))

Evan, 20, he/him

Okay well hey what’s up. I’m really into sports and technological things, such as coding. I enjoy spending my free time exercising and also setting up pluralkit on discord because no one else bothers to learn how to

Will, 24, he/him and ey/em

Hello. I’m Will. I’m a Wilbur Soot introject. You can speak of my source I don’t exactly mind. I am unapologetically loud and will be annoying after awhile. I like to play video games and sleep as well

Grape, 7-12 age slider, any neopronouns or she/her

Hi there!! I’m Grape. I really like making crafts and gardening. I am not good at math or any school subject really. I like meeting new people and I like to talk a lot

Calliope (Cali), 16, she/they

Hello. I will steal all the gender if you wish me to. I like to be amongst nature and honestly I’m quite awkward a lot of times.

Dr Bellum, 24, they/them

Hello. Yes I’m a doctor bellum fictive. I don’t know what to really say here. I don’t mind being compared to my source or mentions of my source.

Dark/mist, no age, it/its and ne/nem

i am bodily in the innerworld an actual just like dark cloud like creature. very unemotional and highly protective. don’t screw up idiots.

Sombra, unknown age, they/it/he

yeah yeah my name is just shadow but in spanish. anywyas i am an alter mainly devoid of emotions, i make tonsss of spelling mistakes and also won’t hesitate to come for you if you commit a fuck up.

rizo/ricitos, 15/16, she/he

most likely a factive. she does struggle with english a lot and usually will not front alone in case he makes some mistakes while trying to talk with people. fun and bubbly personality, mostly very sociable. however she struggles with getting ideas across in a conversation

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And that’s all of us at the moment. some alters don’t have an introduction due to their reasons but otherwise everything is updated. Feel free to ask us any questions we’ll try our best not to forget about the ask lol

[111-intuition]

TIPS & ADVICE

(feel free to re-blog and add on)

LYING

if you lie about something, always have a backup story that adds up (and if you can’t think of a good backup story, don’t lie.)

don’t lie about things you don’t absolutely have to.

if you know that people know you’re lying, find your way out of that lie without lying again (whether that means saying you’re joking, or just shutting up)

if someone asks you a personal question you don’t feel comfortable answering, don’t lie to them about it, just don’t answer them.

don’t lie about things for attention (ex: having mental illness, someone close to you passing away ((or being close with someone who passed away)) etc..)

SCHOOL

if you’re known as the quiet kid, don’t give people reasons to start thinking of you as weird. (don’t give people reasons for that in general)

don’t make fun of people (and if you do just do it in private)

don’t talk shit about people you don’t know

don’t make out in the halls

don’t do any sort of pda

try to not have late assignments

do not walk slow in the halls and by all means, do not stop to talk to friends or teachers, if you need to talk to someone that’s walking in the hall then walk with them, also do not swim up stream (walking in the opposite direction as everyone else)

do not interact with people who you know talk shit a lot, don’t like you or are mean to other people on social media, it’s probably a good idea to block them

do not kiss your partner in front of your peers (i’ve made this mistake)

do not suddenly try to become friends with the popular kids, chances are they will reject you (either straight up or behind your back)

don’t be embarrassed to do every little thing, chances are you’re embarrassing yourself more by doing that.

try your hardest to not cry in front of your class, they more then likely won’t give you sympathy

don’t share personal things with your class in an attempt to get attention (or in general)

do not ask people your friends are friends with about your friend unless you need to, it’s weird and makes everyone feel awkward. (idk if this makes sense 😭)

don’t snitch unless you or other people are in absolute danger

if there is no official seating, respect the unofficial seating and don’t sit in a new seat everyday

if your teacher says they are going to talk to your parents about something negative that you did , immediately text your parents and give some sort of explanation of what you did, but make it seem like less of a big deal then it really was (making what you said an understatement, but not a lie) , then when your parent talks to you about the message from your teacher, make it seem like the teacher is exaggerating (but do not say your teacher is lying)

don’t record fights and don’t repost them if someone else did

stand back when there’s a fight

don’t try to stop a fight

stay out of drama

don’t bring drugs, alc or weapons to school, it will not be taken as a joke and you will get suspended or expelled

MENTAL HEALTH *tw*

do not vent to someone you don’t trust

don’t vent to someone who is easily triggered

don’t vent to someone who you know won’t help you (unless you just need to vent & dash)

ask before you vent to someone if you think they might not be ok with it

if you need to talk to someone about suicidal thoughts (coming from yourself or others) don’t talk to your school councillor about it unless you are 100% sure you can trust them. if you have a student assistance provider they would be a good option.

don’t lie to your therapist

don’t tell people you aren’t close with about your mental illness unless you absolutely need to

don’t make mental illness your whole personality (idk who would do this but still)

don’t self diagnose (unless you are almost 100% sure you are correct, and you know enough about the mental illness) and don’t diagnose other people.

mental illness is not an excuse for everything, don’t make it one.

don’t fake mental illness for attention

don’t push your mental illness onto other people (ex: if you have separation anxiety from someone like your friend or partner , don’t make them feel like it’s their responsibility to cure you and don’t make them feel trapped)

use tone tags with people who you know have a hard time recognising tone or with people who are sensitive when it comes to getting their feelings hurt

if someone tells you that you hurt their feelings, apologise even if you didn’t mean to, if you feel like you don’t owe them an apology just say ‘i didn’t mean to hurt your feelings i’m sorry you felt that way’

if you are having a panic attack in class do not expect your peers to help you (i know this sounds cold but kids are mean and a lot of them don’t understand mental illness)

there is literally no reason to compare your mental illness to someone else’s (ex: saying things like ‘i have it worse’ etc)

SHARING PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE

if you’re siblings/parents are a safe place for one of your friends, family members or your partner there is absolutely no reason to take that away from them unless they are seriously overstepping their boundaries (and still, just tell them that they’re overstepping)

if one of your friends/ your partner is friends with your siblings, do not take that away from them unless you absolutely need to for a good reason.

let your friends/parter have other friends/people close to them in their life.

just because you’re jealous of someone your friend/partner is friends with doesn’t mean you should hate that person

if your friend becomes close with your partner (or vice versa) there is no reason to be mad, unless you suspect there is some sort of cheating going on (then express your concern in a healthy way)

RELATIONSHIPS AND CRUSHES

(i have a lot of advice on this lol)

if you have a crush on someone you know doesn’t like you back, do not confess

if you have a crush on someone who is dating someone, do not confess

if you have a crush on someone who you know is a bad person, do not confess and try your hardest to get over your feelings

if you have a crush on someone who you think might like you back, test the waters before you confess.

if you have a crush on someone who you are almost 100% sure feels the same way, confess, but i would do it was caution

if you are dating someone who has bpd/has you as their FP (favourite person) keep that in mind when you’re talking to them

if you are having sexual relations with someone, please make sure there is always consent, a safe word if you need one and provide aftercare.

don’t make someone feel trapped (saying things like ‘i would die if you left’ or ‘ill kms if you leave’ etc)

if you’re dating someone, make sure you know their boundaries, what they’re comfortable with, what they’re not comfortable with and what triggers them

just because someone doesn’t support your relationship doesn’t mean it’s toxic or bad, but if someone is pointing out obvious red flags and you don’t listen to them, that’s on you

if someone tells you your partner is cheating, don’t believe them 100% without evidence, but don’t just brush it off either, look into it, ask for receipts and evidence, etc

don’t overwhelm your partner with affection (this may not make sense but don’t randomly just send them a paragraph expressing how madly in love with them you are bcuz they may not know how to respond in the moment)

if your hurt feelings, jealousy, etc turn into anger DO NOT take that anger out on your partner, either calmly express to them that they hurt your feelings or made you jealous, or don’t talk to them for a few hours

just because you guys are dating doesn’t you’re obligated to spend all your time on each other, you can hang out with other people, you can talk to other people etc..

although you deserve attention, that doesn’t mean your partner can’t give their interests attention too (ex: if you want to ft but their catching up on their favourite show, let them do that and just ft them later)

if you don’t like one of your partner’s friends then it’s ok to voice that to them, but you need a good reason to not like said friend, if they just give you a bad vibe and you don’t like them for just that that’s also ok, but you shouldn’t voice it to your partner in this case.

celebrating the months leading up to a year of you and your partner being together is totally acceptable and of course your one year, two years, three years, etc.. is too, but celebrating your one year-one month, one year-two months, etc.. isn’t necessary and is a little weird

‘are you mad at me’ is a valid question if you feel the need to ask it, even without the obvious signs of your partner being mad, but don’t ask it for attention.

if you and your partner are hanging out with friends, don’t start making out with them in front of said friends, it makes everyone else uncomfortable.

if you feel the need to ask for a break from your partner, do it. but make sure you voice your thoughts and you two seeing other people while you’re on your break (ex: say you need to step away for a while, but you’re still in love with this person. make sure when you tell them you need a break you voice that you don’t feel comfortable with them seeing other people while you’re on a break)

if you feel trapped, or are falling out of love, voice it to your partner ASAP

FRIENDSHIPS

if you have no friends, talk to people who look shy, chances are they’re really nice.

if your friends are talking shit about you, drop them asap!

if your friend doesn’t listen to you and is constantly talking about themselves, don’t talk to them about important things and don’t consider them a good friend

having only a few friends is ok

having only one really good friend is ok if you like it that way

if your friend expects you to help them and do things for them and they don’t return the favour, slowly step away and end the friendship, they’re more then likely just using you.

don’t let your friend treat your other friends/partner bad

don’t let your friends talk shit about people you care about

don’t tell friends you know you can’t 100% trust important things

if your friend makes fun of things they know you like in front of you, call them out in a calm way (ex: friend 1: ugh i hate that show that you love. friend 2: why would you say that if you know i love it?)

don’t let your friends treat you or make you feel shitty

don’t let your friends insult you ‘as a joke’ if you don’t like it or it’s obviously not a joke anymore

if your friend calls you out for being mean to them or someone else (or anything that you need to be called out for) that doesn’t mean you drop them, you thank them for calling you out for it.

don’t be possessive over your friends

SOCIAL MEDIA

don’t post everything that comes to your head

watch your words

make anonymous private accounts that you only accept a few people to so that when you need to vent, you don’t have all eyes on you and not that many people are seeing your vent post.

do not spam your story with birthday posts, videos of fireworks, memories, etc.. i can assure you that no one really looks at those posts.

don’t post about other people on your private story, they will find out.

don’t send nudes through dms, snapchat, discord, etc..

don’t add people to groupchats just to make fun of them

don’t make a groupchat with people who don’t know each other.

don’t send copypastas (it’s really annoying)

don’t spam your private story with tiktoks

screenshot everything of importance (yes even on snapchat)

GENERAL TIPS & ADVICE

don’t pressure people do to things they don’t want to do and don’t fall for peer pressure

if you need a healthy way to cope, collect something innocent (ex: i collect squishmallows to help cope with my separation anxiety)

^^ another healthy way to cope is picking up a hobby (ex: i play drums and take an art class)

buy books on things that interest you (ex: i have a ton of books on crystals and astrology)

just because you can’t relate to a song doesn’t mean you can’t listen to it

if you have separation anxiety, keep things like voice recordings, notes, pictures, gifts, etc.. from your person safe somewhere. (ex: i have separation anxiety from my s/o and i keep some of the voice recordings they send me in a note in my phone, i have the stuffed animals they made/bought me propped up on my bed, i have the notes they made me and the polaroids we took pinned on my cork-board.)

if you have mental illness, learn to recognise the feeling of things getting bad again.

make your room relaxing, some things that might help with that are things like an ocean projector, oil defuser, noise maker, incense or anything else that calms you down.

before you start something of any sort of importance, plan out how you’re gonna do it.

if you don’t agree with any of these then just don’t use them, no need to hate lol. i hope these helped you <33 ( i made this so if you repost give credit) also if you want another one of these with different categories just comment what categories to do :) ilygsm

[orbees]

ed / fatphobia (not about me I'm okay!) Not about anyone lol just general

Hate hate hate when ppl talk about fatphobia in the ed community and the relationship btwn fatphobia and eds and suddenly you get a 1000 different angry skinnies who are like "uhm excuse. Are you saying I'm fatphobic for having an ed?? :/"

And its like. No. Most likely They did not. And yes I know there were some ppl who said it was fatphobic to have an ed and thats definitely bullshit and I don't agree with that but yall cannot use that a shield to hide behind forever 🙄

Like. Don't get me wrong. I get that this conversation is not easy especially considering the triggers surround eds and body dysmorphia. And thats why i always warn for stuff like this and tag it and so do most ppl who talk about this stuff. Because I get on the road to recovery weight talk at all is not easy. And like. Idk how to word this 100% eloquently (funnily enough) but like. I do get that angry dark place eds take you and how some defensiveness is to be expected. I mean that sincerely like I totally get it. I sympathize.

...but yall. Yall. If you are not ready to have these important and necessary conversations. Stop invading the posts of fat ppl w/ eds talking about a disorder THEY ALSO HAVE and process that shit on your own time. Also pls for the love of God remember that fat ppl can have restrictive eating disorders too and it is very much a very different material reality than you, a skinny person with an ed, experience. Again, I know that isn't always the easiest to wrap ur head around in recovery but it is the truth. And like. At the end of the day struggling or not, you are accountable for the hurt you cause. You cannot use fat people as a punching bag. You are responsible for the fatphobia you perpetuate. No, you are not inherently fatphobic for having an ed. That is not what that means. But you are just as capable of fatphobia as any skinny person.

And at minimum I'm asking, begging you all to stop invading fat ppls posts, stop barging onto the harmless vent posts of fat ppl who are suffering just as much as you, and hijacking the post and turning it into some discussion of *looks at hand* skinnyphobia. The word you are looking for is ableism. If the post is legit saying that you are fatphobic for having an ed that's one thing and that's ableism, but a post about the relationship about eds and fatphobia? And fat ppl talking about how fatphobia fuels their ed??? That's a totally different ball game and the bad posts from a few randoms not mean that we can neglect this topic <3 thanks bye

[justaweirddruid]

I say this as a Fjorester shipper who is 100% ambivalent about W*dojest — I genuinely am, I’m not trying to pull some fake fandom credentials for credit — but your post about Liam was needlessly antagonist, and really not fair

Liam has done nothing disrespectful to Fjord or Jester, or to Laura and Travis. He has never tried to take a Fjorester moment and make it about Caleb — even when he saw them cuddle for the first time and acknowledged it, the Fjorester moment was already over and it was fine, it was fair game for Liam to say that (WJ shippers, on the other hand, are *constantly* making Fjorester moments about Caleb, but I’m not talking about them) Caleb has never once implied that Fjord and Jester shouldn’t be in a relationship together, and neither has Liam. And Liam has confirmed that he had no intention of having Caleb pursue Jester romantically, so it’s not like there’s a secret plan for Caleb to break up Fjord and Jester. And really, Liam was so excited and proud of Travis in episode 118! He meta-teased them in episode 119! Liam is happy and approves of Fjorester.

Yeah, it’s easy for Liam, speaking for Caleb, to gush about my Beauyasha! It’s easy for Caleb to be happy for them. His feelings for Jester (which themselves are not disrespectful in anyway — Jester treats Caleb with kindness and love and consideration, because she treats all of her friends that way, and Caleb is/has been deprived of that kind of attention — it’s not some weak excuse made by Liam to create dramatic tension to say that Caleb has developed feelings for Jester) and even his arguable attraction to Fjord make things more difficult. And that’s totally fair.

And unlike Beauyasha, Liam had no reason to describe his feelings about Fjorester on Talks Machina! The Beauyasha date already happened, and it was a lovely and grand moment — while Caleb had yet to talk to either Fjord or Jester about their relationship, so Liam has no reason to go in depth about his feelings for his friend’s fake relationship on Talks. It would be much more impactful to address it in character, during the game, and as far as I’m concerned, that discussion will happen. So long as there are no surprising perma-deaths that make that discussion impossible, Liam probably wants Caleb to talk to one or both of them about it. We have been inundated with emotional conversations lately, we’ll have a dozen more before they fight the Tombtakers, and it will be fair game for Liam to talk about it as much as anyone wants him to on Talks after that.

I know that there are people who hate Liam no matter what he does, and take all of his choices in bad faith. I’m not one of them, I love Liam, but you might be one of those fans — idk you, I just saw your post in the fjorester tag and thought, wow, that’s not at all the interpretation I made at all. Your post might have just been your form of venting, and you almost certainly weren’t expecting an anon to write an essay in your asks, so feel free to delete this without any guilt. But I feel like your post really missed the mark and implies that Liam isn’t a supportive friend or player at the table, and imposes fan-created ship drama onto the players

Hey anon

I wrote a long post replying to all the things you mentioned because I disagree with most of them, but I decided that I don't wanna add to the discourse today because I know we won't change each other's mind.

So just the most important points:

- I'm not a Liam hater, although I'm not surprised you said this because since the campaign started every time someone tries to criticize Liam or Caleb, people try to discredit them as just mindless haters that complain about everything they do.

I like Liam as a person, I like him in every other CR content, I liked Vax as a character and the twins were my favorite part of vox machina. I just don't like his playstyle when it comes to romance (since C1) and I was never a big fan of Caleb (since way before wj was even a possibility)

- Second, the thing that bothers me is not the ship itself. But the fact he made a point to show Caleb acknowledging fjorester (aka Jester's choice when it comes to her romantic relationships), but still didn't change the way Caleb behaves with her. That moment would've been the perfect way to close this chapter in Caleb's story in a meaningful way.

I know feelings don't simply disappear, but is it really necessary to bring them up all the time now? I mean, just look at Pikelan in C1, Scanlan never stopped loving Pike, but when he realized things needed to change, he stopped bringing it up all the time and focused on other important things for his story. 

I know both ships are completely different, but you can understand what I mean. If Caleb is aware he needs to move on, than why bring it up all the time? Or at least have him *talk* to someone (not fjord or jester because I think this would be even worse) about it instead of just narrating everything in an unnecessary way, have it be a way to show growth instead of being a weird guy in a corner staring at an unaware woman. 

- Finally, I don't think Liam is doing this in bad faith, maybe he's not even aware. Media spent decades showing these type of stories. How many movies and tv shows do we see where a guy showing affection for an unavailable woman is portrait as the highlight of romance? I'm not surprised one of them thinks this too and chose to include it in his character story.

My only comfort is knowing Critical Role is not a scripted show, otherwise we know how this would end.

I just wish people respected a woman's choice to pursue romance with whoever she wants and realized that a grown ass man pinning for his friend for a year while fully aware she doesn't feel the same is not romantic.