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one of my favorite scorpy momence of all time (past and future)
#rtvs#scorpy#you know I don’t think I’ve ever eaten a food that’s made me go#aaooeoeoaoeww#but who am I to judge#my stuff#misophonia trigger#cw: chewing sounds
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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.
#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag#writeblr#it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal#fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy#im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind#and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes#2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh#im sure there are people who have this experience normally#but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists#when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful#once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large#but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes#but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes#people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism#but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY#and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in#i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change#was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL
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mr. thanawat, I can't help you anymore 😔
#firstkhao#kantbison#the heart killers#firstkhaotung#first kanaphan#khaotung thanawat#gmmtv#STAND THE FCUK UP YOU LOSER#i understand him though so who am i to judge#im surprised that this is all that has happened so far#i wouldnt be so strong#sdjkhfkds#something happened on that set bc like#what in the gay fuck is going on#i wonder how firsts voices are doing these days#they probably migrated into khaos brain#also i trust my boys with my life#so i know they will get this right no matter how bad the script might be#i am scared but my faith in them is stronger#i am ready
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herta THEE emanator
#herta hsr#the herta#hsr#honkai star rail#artists on tumblr#THE HERTA…. such a dumb name but u know what. who am i to judge she is THE herta after all#rev art
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adam parrish + the potential for villainy
maggie stiefvater, the dream thieves⎮interview with bugs by @nutnoce⎮unknown source⎮maggie stiefvater, the raven boys⎮@veniennes on tiktok⎮maggie stiefvater, call down the hawk⎮warsan shire, souvenir⎮unknown source⎮art by @gender0bender⎮maggie stiefvater, blue lily, lily blue⎮clarice lispector, the hour of the star⎮art by @heavensghost⎮maggie stiefvater, call down the hawk
#who had me returning to raven cycle posting on their 2024 bingo card#web weaving#parallels#adam parrish#trc#the raven cycle#ronan lynch#pynch#also want to clarify that i am not judging mr adam parrish he is so beloved to me#i've just been thinking a lot about how maggie said draft one of raven boys adam was supposed to become a villain#and how easy that would have been#n e ways#sorry there are unsourced things i'm trying my best#the dream thieves#blue lily lily blue#bllb#call down the hawk#cdth#the dreamer trilogy#sofia posts
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I actually think Dorian and Orym should fight more.
Remember when their slowly building tension over and entire episode (full of passive aggressive remarks and blame throwing) led to threats? And how after, Orym thanked Dorian for handing over the crown sadly because he knew Dorian would be mad at him? And Dorian couldn't even look at him because he was legitimately hurt, thinking Orym was disappointed in him for doing what he thought was right? That was peak.
The fact they went from that to their current closeness and trust is the best part of their entire dynamic. Their relationship was hard fought and still will be. They will fight for it because they respect and care for one another deeply, and their disagreements don't change that, only improve it.
#critical role#cr3#orym#dorian#dorym#text post#cr discourse#'dorian deserved that actually and is being stupid by agreeing with ludinus'#'orym was too mean and needs to be quiet about his trauma'#just say you don't understand their characters#or that they are characters#you don't have to agree with them. they can make decisions you wouldn't make and disagree with#its good tv regardless#dorian didnt deserve that and orym was too harsh#dorian needed to be reminded of the consequences of indulging those ideas and viewpoints and orym is tired of this discussion happening#these things can coexist#neither of them have the whole picture here. we can't judge them based off of what we as viewers know#dorian didn't see first hand what the ruby vanguard has done. only what the spider queen did so thats on his mind more than anything#orym didnt see first hand (nor hear many details) about opal and cyrus. only what the vanguard has been doing to them for months#let them bicker and argue#its the best part#only going near the discourse because i have been waiting years for more of this and bitches on twitter are complaining about it#and often from people who don't even like orym (or sometimes dorian). go back to ignoring them and let me enjoy this moment in peace#i know i am adding to the discourse but i needed to find other people who want more dorym relationship drama before we get more fluff
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Your fave is problematic: middle school Wriothesley
instagram | tiktok | carrd
#wriolette#wriothesley#neuvillette#genshin impact#genshin#hoyoverse#i'm taking no questions for this#anyone else who went to american middle school in the 2000s#will know that i am leaving this kid with a shred of dignity by not completely depicting wolfboy emo of that time#AWWOOOOOOO#is my brainrot over yet#you can't see it but that's navia and clorinde judging them in the last one
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The newspapers start printing salacious and baseless stories about the Fire Lord dating Councilman Sokka, and in his increasingly frantic attempts to prove this isn’t true Sokka ends up getting into increasingly compromising situations with Zuko until finally he shouts, “I’ll prove it to you!” in front of a massive audience and kisses Zuko to show it means nothing.
Except whoopsies, it means everything, and they look at each other a little staggered, Zuko touching his mouth.
And now the papers have a picture for their front-page story.
#zuko#sokka#zukka#atla#fire lord zuko#councilman sokka#meet cute or meet stupid#*papal shrug* who am I to judge?
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im curious on ur opinions of armada starscream? or just starscream ever getting a "redemption" in general
I haven't watched Armada yet, but I absolutely love Starscream's redemption arc in idw.
The moment when Starscream goes out in public and loudly and honestly and clearly lists everything he's done and every crime he's guilty of? Oof that was strong and that was awesome.
And everything leading up to that? His gradual realization that he's his own biggest problem? And that in order to make things better around him, he has to change himself first? The way he tries to do the right thing with his old "evil" methods and gradually comes to the realization that you can't build a new house out of old moldy bricks? It's beautiful. I'm a big fan.
Starscream from Earth Spark, however...well...even if we pretend season two and three don't exist, I think his arc is still terribly underdeveloped. Is Starscream doing something good a new behavior for him or has he always been like this? I don't know, the show hasn't given me any basis for comparison. I don't know if he's gotten better, because I've never seen him be worse in the first place.
Something like that.
Little side note, If I could magically remake Earthspark I would make it about Dot, her husband and Twitch doing adventures with the Autobots and Decepticons. Cut out all other Terrans and Maltos. Give their screen time to Screamer and Megs and Tarantulas and Idk. Croft? Croft was so underdeveloped I kept forgetting she was even there.
Another side note. It was some time since I watched tfes and read Idw. I may be remembering some things a bit wrong
#megatron standing in court: eugh augh mmmm no Imma do something tricky to stop them from punishing me#Starscream standing in front of massive crowd during the election that could give him crazy amount of power: I'm guilty. I'm guilty#I'm guilty of the things you couldn't even think about and I'm not going to hide even the tiniest bit of it. I have done so much shady shit#but here I am standing in front the whole Cybertron so every mech knows who I really am and what have I done#Judge me punish me do whatever you think is right I will accept it#it's......such a strong fucking move for him and his whole character
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Feels so surreal that Arcane S2 is like five days away
#i was here during the ded era lmao#ngl idk what to feel…. i think its still a mix of excitement dread and fear (🖕the ppl who spoil the show with no consent btw)#just gonna watch the finished product and judge it for myself#i am not looking forward to the fandom toxicity 😩 just gonna make gifs and dip fr#personal tag
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Epiphanies about what I like in my media
little guys facing the Horrors
little guys becoming the Horrors
incomprehensible/incomplete/vague lore (that i try to comprehend and interpret anyway, for the laughs)
see also: "is this a bug or feature"
cool tech
sad old isolated women learning how to move on from past traumas
world is absolutely fucked but we find beauty and hope in it anyways
random god(s)
finding meaning in our messy lives, making friends along the way
#just thought id make a list tbh#and post it all online for others to judge me#for those who are curious#the media i am thinking of includes;#rain world#(a bit obvious)#undertale#fools gold#warframe#(haven't played in a long while though)#stellaris#rimworld
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#im still angry lol#why do people assume because you enjoy a cunty little villain#means you are defending them or whatever#this person was established to be a bad person early on#I am not shocked by the narrative following through on that#like brother they are not real lol#I understand hating a character for what they could do to another one#but I feel like its gotten to a point where people take it overwhelmingly personal???#and harshly judge other people for enjoying a fake character#like dude#I don't fuvk with cazador at ALL#I think he is yucky#but I don't think anything of people who enjoy him as a villain#because that's his point…..#he is a deplorable baddie….#a vile man…..#its fun to enjoy fictional pieces of shit lol#because they are not real…..#I'm gonna tag a couple villains lmao#enver gortash#cazador szarr#mizora#homestuck#bg3#orin the red#ketheric thorm#im tagging a lot of bg3 villains because I see this mindset on tiktok specifically a LOT#its weird…..
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Don’t let this picture fool you, I also want him in a way that’s concerning to feminism :)
#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel lucifer#hazbin lucifer#lucifer morningstar#gently holds#he’s so baby girl#but also#so breedable#i am aware that I am unwell and that’s ok#cuz only god can judge me#which might be harsh considering who I’m simping for#meme
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The fact that Shadow could've just handed the fake Emerald to Sonic and been on his way. Ohhhhh but the EXCITEMENT with which Sonic looks at him when that portal opens up... how can Shadow say no to that face. How can Shadow say no to an opportunity to blow off steam with the one person who's so consistently able to distract him from his one-track minded goals. There isn't a hint of malice in their whole interaction. They're having FUN. This is their version of having FUN, testing themselves as much as each other. Even Maria, who can read Shadow like a book, sees them from a distance and immediately clocks this battle as a friendly interaction.
"They clearly hate each other, why do they fight whenever they meet" they're a couple of weirdos who found one other person who can match them (who doesn't want to kill them [unlike Metal] and who they can see on a semi-regular basis [unlike Blaze]) and they enjoy not having to worry about hurting each other, not holding back.
And ohhhh if it weren't morning and I didn't have things to do, I could go on about the facial expressions Shadow has as he contemplates using his Doom Powers, but chooses not to. We see later how these powers are affecting his emotional regulation. But he lets the anger subside, realizes using them on Sonic is too far. It's cheap, it's dirty. He respects Sonic too much to do that to him. The way he looks aside for a moment, his shame at the thought crossing his mind throwing him off just long enough for Sonic to get the upper hand on him.
FUUUUUUUCK.
Can you tell I rewatched this at 0.25 speed last night-
#tap plays sxsg#sonic x shadow generations spoilers#shadow generations spoilers#sonadow#<- not necessarily i guess but that is the lens through which i view their interactions#they have the weirdest way of flirting but if it works for them then who am i to judge <3
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