#we lived with my grandparents for about a year
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jeanjauthor · 2 hours ago
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I got 160, though whether that's CE or BCE is up for debate. Except it doesn't matter. My quality of life goes downhill due to a lack of diabetes & ADHD management medications...but if I can hold it together long enough, the Coastal Salish folks will have a quantitiative leap forward in their quality of life.
You see, while the local clay bodies suck badly for anything other than making bricks at best (it's why they invested in steam-bent wood cooking boxes that were heated with cooking stones), there ARE plenty of copper & iron deposits (if not the highest quality for the latter) in the area, limestone deposits for lowering the melting point of iron ore, and not only plenty of wood for turning into higher-temperature charcoal...but there are coal deposits within the Puget Sound area--we literally have a coal-rich site called Newcastle, nicknamed after the same coal-bearing location in the British Isles.
More than that, the Coastal Salish people already knew the value of iron long before European colonizers came along. Chinese folks traded all the way up the Kamchatka peninsula as far as the Aleutian Islands, who traded down the coast of Alaska & British Columbia with the Haida, who traded with the Salish. When the first white explorers reached this area, some of the Salish had iron tools. They were heavily ground down and basically heirloom inheritances, but they were genuine trade goods that had been exchanged all the way from the forges and smithies of China.
(I'm not sure how far back this trading took place, but if you go back far enough in Chinese art, you can see a distinct similarity in some of their pieces to the styles of the art of the Haida & Salish coastal peoples.)
So I could totally introduce the Iron Age to North America well over a millennia earlier than it actually came along, and the Coastal Salish folks had a genuine caloric abundance of easily harvested foods, with managed orchards of white oaks for acorns and hazel trees for their nuts, plus a plethora of edible berries, over-abundant fish spawning seasons, a variety of edible bulb roots for starches, a relatively very mild climate, so on and so forth.
I'd just have to hurry to pass this knowledge along before my genetic inheritance from my grandparents offed me...and I'd have to be extra careful about not offing the local populations due to all of the diseases I'm carrying on my body. Also, the language barrier would be a wee bit of a problem. But conceivably, I could live for at least a few years!
The decade you’re given is the decade to which you’re transported. Your geographic location doesn’t change; only the time period changes. “Equivalent QOL” means a qualify of life that approximates the life you have now and anticipate being able to have in the future.
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rapidhighway · 5 months ago
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#im so stressed ughhhhh#this divorce is gonna end me man though im probably stressing out over nothing AGAIN#like tomorrow my dad's bringing some expert to the house to put a price on the house#and i literally have no idea whatever that's gonna be how we are gonna pay that shit lmaoo#also i just really don't wanna be there or be with them in the same house god i hate it when they're near each other#i am..... going through it more than i probably should since I'm an adult now n stuff but whatever#it's not like i can just stop feeling all this distress and grief n shit especially since he's already found a girlfriend#with kids and stuff and they've already been going to my grandparents ughhh i feel thrown away you know#it hasn't even been a year it's pissing me off so badly#i feel like killing myself every time i think about tomorrow and then I feel even worse when i think about later ughhh#i shouldn't be so distressed i really shouldn't#especially since I've been living my life on an incredible streak of luck so.#whateverrrrr#uhh like comment and subscribe#vent#i just gotta. cause there isn't anyone here i can really talk to since#everyone sees this so much more differently and sis is just always telling me im making it into something bigger than it is#but it's really stressing me out#idk i fear this is not gonna end nicely I don't even see him anymore#and it literally hasn't even been a year but he's not really talking to me but at the same time i don't really#feel like talking to him either so who knows uhh..
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spearxwind · 1 year ago
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feeling solidarity these holidays with everyone not allowed to talk about their partner with the family
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lesbiansanemi · 6 months ago
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Was doing so good holding it together today but now that I’m laying down and trying to sleep I’m tearing up and I can feel that I’m about to burst into tears any second now
#my mom called me like ten minutes before I was off work today#and asked if I had talked to my grandpa lately and I was like yeah some why?#I’ve been showing what I’ve been cooking with him and my grandma because I was proud of myself#and she was like oh so you know about his potential surgery?#and I was like. his what???????#apparently his pace maker is dying and malfunctioning and he needs a new one#but this is the third time it’s had to be replaced and as he’s gotten older he’s had a lot more health issues#and they’re not even sure his heart can handle getting it replaced…. he has an appointment tomorrow to find that out#and no one told me. no one fucking told me it was that bad and I’m so#like man my feelings on my grandparents are so insanely complicated but I do love them#I love them so much and they practically raised me and loved me more and treated me better than my mother EVER did#they’re the only family members I’ve ever been legitimately terrified and upset over not accepting me cuz I’m queer#like my mom and siblings? I could not give a flying fuck if they hated me for my gender or sexuality#if my grandparents had a bad reaction I think I would fucking kill myself#and idk the point is I love him and I’ve barely seen him at all the past few years because we live far away now and I never visit because I#hate the rest of my family#but what if he can’t have this surgery?????#or what if he can but something goes wrong??????#what if he’s dying and I’m only able to go down and see him one more time#and he could be fine. it might all work out and he could be fine#but man I’m terrified that won’t happen because WHY WOULD NO ONE TELL ME ANY OF THIS#and yeah no I’m fully crying now I can’t do this#he taught me to draw and he built the house I grew up in and he got me into lord of the rings and would take me book shopping#and and and I’m gonna fucking throw up#kaz rambles
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extervus · 8 months ago
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OOPS forgot to take pictures for my one year anniversary on testosterone cause I went on a walk with my bf and then ate a lasagna garfield style so uhmm here have some pics from the last few months ok?
Featuring @binesetakeout as that sexy lil binch in the top left corner
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ofcowardiceandkings · 8 days ago
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all im saying is im gently making plans just in case my 10-year breakdown-iversary is on the cards
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keendaanmaa · 16 days ago
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#i'm updating the family birthday and anniversary calendar as a christmas gift for my grandparents and#it's kinda just driving home how very much i am in a different stage of life than the majority of my cousins :/#like.#oldest uncle's kids: married with kids; married with kid; single with chickens; living with SO; expecting a baby#other uncle's kids: married with kid; married; dating#one aunt's kids: married with 4 kids; married with kids; married with kid; married with newborn#another aunt's kids: married with kids; married with kid; married with foster kid; married with kids; single; in high school#and then my family is me (single) and blue (single)#and yes i know there is some degree of cultural difference (my aunts and their families are still in the huldeman church)#and some degree of age difference (blue and i are among the youngest cousins on this side)#but it's still kind of a. bittersweet? idk. a weird feeling. to know that they're all building their own families and i'm just. me.#don't get me wrong i'm not discontented with where i am in life#i just sometimes spend time with them and wish i could have that (husband who loves me and cooks&hosts with me and adorable kids) too#idk i'm just in my feelings a bit rn#also like. i don't actually know most of my cousins kids? heck i haven't seen some of my cousins in years#so there's also a bit of 'we used to be close but now you're off doing your own thing with your own little family'#'and im still here just being me'#about
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fandom-blackhole · 2 months ago
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cute-chamomile · 1 year ago
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I think coming out to my very old and super traditional grandparents should be worth it if it gets them to stop asking me and wishing that I'll find a groom, I think
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upperranktwo · 7 months ago
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My granddad died today, I feel so fucking broken, he was one of the kindest men I knew and always taught us to love and accept people... the only positive thing is that he is now back with my nan and uncle who I knew he missed dearly
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ballsballsbowls · 5 months ago
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Happy 40th birthday, B! I'm so glad you get to celebrate the big four-zero today. Any wishes for turning forty today? I bet you're so happy to be 40 now.
Thanks, Word!
My wishes for my birthday are as follows:
I wish to not feel the way I felt when I told my mother that she had the wrong candles out again for a very long time. (My mother is not losing it any more than she was six months ago, but she admitted later that she hadn't gotten a decent night's sleep in over a week, which should explain what isn't explained by there being 3 kids and we all struggle with everyone's ages honestly).
I wish my mother picked a different day to tell me her stepmother (whom I haven't seen since I was about 12 years old and haven't spoken to since I was 18 or 19) died in March.
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ginkovskij · 7 months ago
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joining the battle against disinformation on the side of disinformation
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pepprs · 2 years ago
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last few hours in boston :(
#purrs#conference tag#we literally just got here and now we have to go 😭💔 i havent rly felt as enriched by this conference as i have in the past (though there’s#still 2 more sessions to go to incl the closing plenary and we’re getting lunch in the station before the train ride home) but ive walked#around so much and have spent time with people i love and some people i miss. and have been on adventures i have been looking forward to for#a rly long time though i am kinda bummed i never made it down to fanueil square. but… idk what happiness feels like anymore but maybe for me#it’s just absence of misery and despair. or contented ness. i have gotten a little triggered from time to time these last few days and ive b#been lonely in my hotel room but MAN it has been nice to not be miserable and suffering and to take walks and to not go to every session (ev#even though i do feel bad abt it like i missed 2 plenaries and an afternoon concurrent session which is more than i usually miss) and to#be in this city which feels so much like brighton and so uncity like in some ways. it’s so charming and omg i went to harvard and it was#NOTHING like what i imagined it to be / feel like.. just a quaint artsy quirky town. and the rest of the places ive been have been like that#too. and people LIVE here every day!!!!! there’s a big beautiful world here both above ground and below!!!! and im gonna be late to#breakfast but… i just feel nourished and healed in a way i wasn’t expecting to. I haven’t been this far away from home in 3+ years and#it’s just been really nice being somewhere else and going on adventures and seeing things surviving. i miss my grandparents a lot and im sad#to not be visiting them and to be unable to visit them now lol but it’s just rly nice and special being here. im goingto miss it so much and#im trying to savor every second. i wish we had one more day here and im a little sad to be going home lol#* what i meant when talking about happiness earlier is that i think… i have been happy these last few days. for the first time in a really#really long one. and that’s nice. it’s good to be happy again. and good to be here
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lovsome · 1 year ago
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catboyrightsdefender · 1 year ago
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im so fucking angry
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sennsational · 2 years ago
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Have you ever heard of a Gongfu Tea Tray? It’s typically used to collect excess water and tea that gets spilled during washing, steeping and pouring. You can also store various teaware items inside
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As you can tell, this type of tea brewing isn’t the same as any Western style brewing. Not only is the brewing style different from the West, but so is the type of teaware. Teaware used for this type of brewing is smaller, for example: a clay kettle will usually hold around 350 ml of water, which is significantly less than a Western glass kettle!
When you use a clay kettle, it is important that you pour the tea quickly, because the kettle is very hot and will cool down significantly slower than a glass kettle! High-temperature of the water will draw out the fragrance of the tea, but if you steep it for too long you are greeted with a bitter taste
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