counting down the days until i have to explain to my cousin that my problem with her previous boyfriends was more to do with her forcing us to spend time together all the time than them disliking me and not wanting to talk to me. like, they could have been standoffish and that could've been fine. it was them being standoffish combined with her booking me for 8 hours then inviting them too. which would start out in the early days of the relationships with her unhappy because we'd seem so tense and later would end with her unhappy because we would disrupt her plans by one or both of us backing out when we heard the other was tagging along. so she'd think we hated each other and would want to fix it. but what's to fix. 😭 we just don't want to spend 8 hours together. 😭 it's fine.
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Happy belated 4/20 🐴 ignore that Im a day late.
They're watching Cars and talking about how Mator and McQueen should've banged or smthn
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Knowing w he opened my pictures while at his family’s breakfast does something to me yall Im ngl
Along the same lines as when the other one went out to friends birthday dinner he played with my lush the whole time. 🫣🤭🥵
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Gyjo in the fandom
cw: light discussion of ableism
Gyjo… what am I thinking about gyjo…
I like them. I like them a lot, actually. They have paralleled narrative arcs, they complement each other nicely, the romantic subtext is incredibly obvious to the point that even the most homophobic fan you know will admit they understand why people ship it… so why do I also have a problem with it?
There’s a lot of good fanart. Hell, I’ve reblogged plenty. Maybe it’s just something that’s more pronounced in fic.
I’m trying to word this correctly. My issue with gyjo has nothing to do with the text itself. I think my problem is just how people portray it in the fandom.
Maybe it’s because it’s so popular, or maybe it’s the sheer prominence of applying ‘Character A’ and ‘Character B’ dynamics without considerable regard for the characters involved, but I feel gyjo is very prone to flanderization. I believe the intersection with how ableist people are toward Johnny (intentionally or not, subtly or not) and the old tropes these two get shoved into makes it so I have trouble enjoying fics in the fandom.
I’m not saying it’s bad to enjoy certain tropes. I’m not saying headcanons are bad either. What I am saying is that writing is hard, but if you’re going to write fanfiction please have consideration for the characters you’re writing. The arcs of these two are complex and multilayered, which is why I think they have such staying power, but I also think they also provide a good opportunity for us as writers and artists to examine our biases when it comes to the portrayal of certain groups, personality types, mental illnesses, queerness, disability, etc. and maybe come out better people for it.
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Twice this week I have received comments on Can’t Help Falling in Love critiquing my use of tags and I’m just like?
those “extra” tags have been there for four years? no im not going to delete them?? I think if it truly was a big issue one of my moots/writer friends would’ve brought it up to me by now???
I use tags to express my creative voice and personality. And I DO include lots of real tags.
if someone makes something FOR FREE and it’s not harmful maybe just say what you like about it and move on?
like? do yall like my tags?? have my tags dissuaded you from checking out my stuff??? because I’ve been posting on ao3 since 2019 and this is the first time anyone has ever brought it up :/
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ian constantly comparing his relationship with mickey while dating caleb is so heartbreaking to me, because he goes on about how not soft and caring their relationship was and while it may be true, he completely brushes over how mickey was so domestic and compassionate when looking after ian, trying to get him to take his meds and speaking so gently towards him etc
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Cuddling with Alex
|A/n: just realized I’m shit at writing fluff. And titles.Also wrote this at like four in the morning bc I couldn’t sleep.
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Most definitely loves being held
(Little spoon, being cradled, in between your thighs, basically any position where your holding him.)
He lays in between your chest using you as a pillow. His arms wrapped around your waist tightly. Your legs intertwined as you share the blankets. The soft heaving of chests and your breathing.
(Think of that one picture where he’s holding that pillow)
OR… he’d be the little spoon after a long day. Your arms slung around his waist as he sleeps. Stroking his hair and softly kissing the back of his head. Pulling him closer to your body since he’s so warm.
I feel like he’s always warm.
He’d love laying in between your thighs resting his head on your chest when your sitting on the couch or something.
He just loves being held :((
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Menace
Have another rough doodle of everyone's favourite menace.
I've been doodling a lot lately - maybe I should share more rough drawings?? Meh, who cares...
You might see this again somewhere in the future. The far future...
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