#tw grooming allegations

[nervousmonolith]

choosing keemstar to promote your video addressing allegations is crazy when that man has said this

[pro-endo-culture-is]

Hi im not sure if this is true so please prove me wrong but I'm pretty sure pawmojis, who you mentioned in your post,is Alex froppy aka froppymojis, who has been caught grooming a minor

Hi! I'm going to assume this ask was sent with genuine intentions and no malice intended towards them, and react accordingly. If that was not the case, then please just unfollow/block me rather than reading this, because I'm not emotionally okay enough to start an argument.

This is also a heavy topic and a serious post with a LOT of neuance, so feel free to skip if you don't feel up to it ^-^

I'd like to preface this by saying that we are a minor, and a victim of grooming. We still struggle with Stockholm syndrome, and everything our groomer did to us feeling "normal". We still even sympathise with them sometimes, and we have enough experience to be able to more or less accurately guess when someone is experiencing the same, as opposed to the relationship ACTUALLY being okay.

please do not harass us over this, if you do not agree with our point of view then just feel free to block, unfollow or just ignore this post and just go back to our regularly scheduled content. We do NOT want a fight or argument over this!!! Feel free to be civilised and point out if i made a mistake

I'm going to be honest, I'm not 100% knowledgeable about this, as I joined the emotes community AFTER the rumours started, but as far as I'm aware, it is all (politley) fearmongouring bullshit. Alexs partner was literal months away from being an adult, (in fact I'm not even sure if they are a minor anymore, idk their birthday). We don't even know paws real age- they could be 18 or 19 for all we know! Fair enough, a mid to late 20s year old dating a 17 year old, even non sexually is gross, but would you really apply those same standards to an 18 or 19 year old dating a 17 (almost 18) year old? For another thing, to everyone calling their relationship illegal, it is NOT! Simply dating is never illegal, and would NOT stand in a court of law unless actual sexual activity happened. We KNOW alex is asexual, and has never made any actual sexual moves towards his partner, but, even in the imaginary scenario where he did (he didnt) the age of consent in Poland (where Alex lives) is 15. I am unsure what state his partner lives in, but the most common age of consent in the US is 16 from my research. Alexs partner is above both of those ages. And EVEN if alexs partner were to live in a state where the age of consent was 18 (the only one in which they were under at the time of the callout), romeo and juliet laws exist, and although they vary from place to place, a two/three year age difference is almost always allowed, with some places even going up to five years in age difference. Another detail I feel is HEAVILY left out, yet is incredibly important is that both alexs family, AND his partners family are aware of the relationship. While it is possible to groom a child into believing grooming and abuse is normal and okay, what is impossible, is grooming their PARENTS (who we assume he has never or rarely talked to) into believing grooming and abuse is okay. When we were being groomed, our own parents found out about the relationship and immediately tried to stop it, identifying it as predatory. Even the parents of the GROOMER saw how fucked up he was, and also tried to put a stop to the relationship. Neither of those things have happened with Alex and his partner, and both of their families approve of the relationship.

Additionally, most of the people "calling out" the relationship are minors themselves, in fact, they are minors YOUNGER than alexs partner. So if their argument is that alexs partner is not "mature enough" to know what is okay to THEM, then how are they, people who are younger, mature enough? Another point about the people perpetuating this rumour, is that they are all hateful, anti endos, and perpetuate harassment and bullying. They are quick to point fingers and blame and hurt anyone THEY don't like. Take k9emotes for example; (we were not in the community back then and have no idea what happened) but k9 has been in drama after drama, adding blog after blog to their list of "evil" people. Assuming alex is evil would be the same as assuming ayiemojis or emojifarm or ANYONE ELSE he's been in a drama with and "called out" is also evil. Another example of this is rockstaremotes / cavernemotes / grxngycarvern, another person spreading the rumours and hate towards alex. We have personal experience with him, where him alongside his qpp bullied, harassed and stalked us into multiple suicide attempts and mental hospital visits with seemingly no motivation other than the fact we were pro endo, and used to be in a qpr with his qpp (who is now our ex, and is an incredibly toxic person but that's a whole other can of worms)

One last thing is, we have NO idea when this relationship started. For all we know, it could have started back when alex was also a minor! The ONLY proof you have of alleged "grooming" is two age roles on a discord server. The people whose lives you are essentially ruining are just that. People. Human beings just like you. They aren't emotionless evil grooming pedo robots, or whatever you want to think they are, but they have REAL feelings. All these allegations, rumours and hate is affecting not just alex but also his partner. We found alex through seeing all these rumours. We read all the evidence, and came to our own conclusion that he was innocent, and after that, we decided to send a message of support to his blog. And you know what he did? He fucking cried tears of happiness. His own words. If the hate has gotten so bad that just ONE person believing hes innocent made him fucking CRY, imagine how bad an effect this must have had on his mental health. And imagine his partner for a minute. Put yourself in their shoes. How would you feel if the whole world, the whole community your life is built around decided your relationship was toxic? How would you feel if they decided you weren't capable of making your own decisions, or setting your own boundaries?

Please, show some support to alex and his partner. They really fucking deserve it. And if you still don't want to do that (which is your own choice), please at least don't go around perpetuating false and unkind rumours about a REAL PERSON. they are just that. Rumours.

Proof of everything I said (proof of cavern will be uploaded later, as i dont have the evidanve on this device.):

- lia + vex

[thehealingsystem]

here is more details on the grooming https://x.com/bronyfandont/status/1739987715385627064?s=46

ah dang. welp, while there isn't any evidence of what his interactions were like with her while she was a minor, being a 13-14 year old hanging out with an adult in his 20s and then dating as soon as she becomes of age is very, very weird

[terminallyspookystudenteagle]

REMINDER THAT ALEX "YANDEREDEV" MAHAN GROOMED A 16-YEAR OLD GIRL, INTIMIDATED HER INTO SILENCE, AND COPYRIGHT CLAIMED AN EXPOSÉ OF HIS ACTIONS. (WE GOT CONFIRMATION THAT ALEX DID SO USING HIS VICTIM'S NAME)

THIS IS AN ARCHIVED LINK OF THE EXPOSÉ. THIS IS HERE FOR YOU TO SEE DUE TO THE STREISAND EFFECT; BECAUSE ALEX MAHAN DOESN'T WANT YOU TO SEE IT.

DO NOT SUPPORT YANDERE SIMULATOR. DO NOT SUPPORT YANDEREDEV.

IF YOU ARE A MINOR IN THE FANDOM, GET OUT NOW WHEN YOU HAVE THE CHANCE BEFORE HE PREYS UPON YOU NEXT.

IF YOU ARE AN ADULT IN THE FANDOM, CONDEMN ALEX MAHAN FOR HIS VILE ACTIONS AND CUT ALL SUPPORT TO HIM.

IF YOU STILL SUPPORT HIM DESPITE THIS DAMNING EVIDENCE, DO NOT INTERACT WITH THIS POST. YOU WILL BE BLOCKED FOR AIDING AND ABETTING HIM.

[sprinkleonthatcriticism]

I really don't like people's double standards sometimes and I'm not just talking about how stans treat Stolas and Stella, this ain't relating to that, I'm talking about the situation with Jack/Damagedcoda6669 Warning for Suicide mention, ableism, COCSA, SA and Child grooming

A while ago, Jack made a come-back video and he mentions that Kittydog had groomed him as well as commited COCSA (Child On Child Sexual Assault) towards him and barely there were any people calling Zola out and Kittydog makes a youtube vid and twitter post apologizing for what they had done to it, and seemingly everyone WELCOMES Kittydog back with open arms and acts like nothing had ever happened.

But when it was revealed that Jack committed cocsa when he was 16 and the minor was 13, suddenly Jack/Damagedcoda6669 (aka Birdie/Sansbirdie in case ya'll ain't in the loop) is a irredeemable monster all because he had that "He was birdie" label on him and all because Jack rightfully stolen his cat back from Synni.

And before you all accuse me of downplaying the criticism that Jack is rightfully receiving (which, I'm not downplaying it, you can criticize Jack if you want as long as you ain't being clowns or bringing up stuff that Jack had already apologize for just as the borderline 13? thing) or say "But, Jack was talking to a minor under "sexual" art!!1!!!".

Lemme say that the minor in question (who is in fact a grooming victim like myself) made a post literally explaining that Jack NEVER pm'd xem as well as spoken weird to him either.

You guys claim to care for victims of grooming but you go around and talk over the minor or mock Jack instead of waiting for him to recover due to the stress that it had receive so he could hopefully make a post or vid talking about the situation.

Heck, you guys even claim Jack "suicide baited" (not using the term right btw you guys, suicide baiting means to maliciously try to get someone to off their-selves NOT faking suicide) instead of simply checking in on him when he made that post showing that you don't care for mental health either and just want to repeat history again because to your eyes "Birdie is still bad no matter what happened to it in the past".

And again, you guys are allow to criticize Jack, I also had criticized Jack in the past and even sent him an ask, explaining to him calmly and politely that "he should address the allegations but not now, he needs a break from online due to the backlash that it was receiving on twitter" and I even suggest him to stay on Bluesky since there is none of the "Let's compare a sexual assault victim (Jack) to his sexual assaulter (Synnibear03)." bs on that site, which quite frank is absolutely disgusting.... Again, nothing WRONG with criticizing Jack, and again, I do agree that Jack shouldn't of accused a (former) 13 yr old of having a grooming fetish but don't be gross and pretend that Jack isn't a victim of sexual assault, grooming, abuse and such or better yet, don't try to paint Synnibear03 as a victim of Jack, SHE is not a victim of Jack.

Just because he stolen Skqrp from Synni doesn't mean shit because Synnibear no matter how much she swears up and down that she didn't brought the cat as a gift for Jack, she still brought the cat for JACK and the only reason her name was in the papers is because Jack rightfully didn't want to write down his dead name and who can blame him?

[cupcraft]

Also I found this interesting. Just like man you admitted to flirting with minors idk what evidence is going to "change our minds".

[sweetjazzygirl]

Someone wrote a whole thread explaining Synni's response to the whole situation since there are a few people believing her words claiming that "they watched the video" and not noticing the red flags, you may in need to share this.

[ouchgnf]

working on a project for my research methods class about grooming and child abuse/exploitation via the internet while all this is going down is just so fucking crazy bc it’s like. hm. reading a UNICEF report about how there were 21 million instances of CSEM reported in 2021 alone. most of which are images/videos of children under 10. okay. this is fucked up. the WHO did a report and found that roughly 1 in 20 american adults were victims of grooming while they were underage. this is a real serious problem. and then i check twitter and people are calling dream a literal actual pedophile for texting a 17 year old a few weeks before her birthday. with no proof of anything sexual happening. and they’re calling for his immediate arrest over this. like i feel like im living in backwards land i dont even know anymore man

[cat-collections-agency]

TW: grooming!!!

Pov: you're mourning the fact ur fave roblox youtuber turned out to be a secret minor liker, only to find out litterally today that ur former fave meme animator also liked minors.

I don't understand why ppl can just...not like kids? My heart goes to their victims.

[lenores-2nd-wife]

DRAMA POST!!

Only read if you want to see my side of my grooming allegations (that are false), take care of yourself.

TW: Sexual Language & Mentions of Grooming, and Death & Dox Threats (Long Post Warning)

“Hello everyone.”

Sorry I’ll be serious. 

This is a response addressing a post calling me out that I have reposted on my blog. Please check theirs out for reference if you want a peek at all the lies they’re spreading about me/want the context of what I’m talking about. I want to make sure you see their (Albeit misinformed) side before you see mine to be as transparent as possible.

I honestly never thought I’d have to make one of these things but let’s get this over with. 

To start off, I would like to say that this is NOT an apology as I have no one to apologize to and nothing to apologize for. This is me debunking every single lie that person put in their post. With screenshots of course.

With that being said, I’m very sorry to ABBY AND ABBY ALONE for being dragged into this and whoever made that callout is horrible for what they’ve done. (And to rnf & their mods as they seem to be the main target of that callout even though I’m the one being labeled as a groomer.)

[I will be giving the poster the benefit of the doubt as it seems they got all of their information from a separate party. I truly want to believe they just want to do the right thing and the person giving them the information is the malicious one. I understand trying to protect minors as you seem to be one as well (I was checking in on their account and their bio said 14 at one point? I don’t think it’s still there), but I promise it wouldn’t kill you to send me a DM to see if your information was correct.]

As for a warning of sorts, I will say that the messages between me and Abby were very sexual and I’m not exactly censoring myself going forward. So TW for sexual language/and mentions of grooming again. The only reason I’m not marking this post as explicit is because I want to make sure some people see it as I have literal grooming allegations against me, if it was anything less serious I would have.

Now let’s start with the elephant in the room. 

ME AND ABBY ARE BOTH CONSENTING ADULTS.

She is 19-years-old, born in 2005. Refer to the screenshots above. She even sent me her ID to get into the NSFW part of my server.  Meaning she is not only an adult, but came to me with full interest in talking about sexual topics. (As she is very much so allowed to do as an adult, I just want to get that out of the way before the poster possibly pulls out a “well you were probably making her uncomfortable” accusation out of their ass. If Abby was ever uncomfortable she would have told me and I would have listened. Boundaries are something I take very seriously.)

Speaking of the NSFW side of my server, the poster claims that I was saying sexual things in front of the other minors in the server when everything, and I mean everything, was in the adult section of my server that requires ID verification to get into. I’m in fact very strict with sexual content on my server and IN THE CALLOUT POST they literally show me handling a member who posted a screenshot that contained a friend of theirs saying “I want ___ to eat my ass”. 

(This was an easy mistake mind you and they didn’t have sexual intentions, they were just trying to be funny and share something crazy that their friend said. This is in no way trying to call that minor in my server out, don’t try to find them and leave my server members out of this. I just want to provide context as the member had their message deleted.)

As for their claims of me being racist. I am not. Simply put, I am not, they have provided no screenshots of me saying anything racist and I will not even entertain this statement any longer as it is baseless and downright ridiculous. Don’t include claims if you don’t have evidence to back them up PLEASEE.

Also, the document at the end with all of my shittily made drabbles is VERY misleading. “Dub-Con” WHAT? I promise you that just because Annabel is tied up does not mean she is not consenting. I can maybe see how it can be taken that way but my horny brain at the time wasn’t thinking “Oh and then I’ll make it dub-con!” DO NOT PUT THAT SHIT ON ME. 😭🙏

I am genuinely between being really angry about you posting my embarrassing as hell drabbles and fucking laughing. The “TW Cheating” TAG YOU ADDED IS SENDING ME. ITS OC X CANON I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU EXPECTED, IM SORRY? I wasn’t aware that was a cancelable offense since Monty was mentioned one time I’m losing it.

Now that I have addressed all the claims they have stated. It is now time for me to prove that every single one of their screenshots involving sex and things of that nature are in fact Abby. Warning once again that these screenshots get sexual as both of us were in what we assumed was a safe space to share down bad thoughts and fantasies involving the Nevermore characters and Abby’s OCs.

I will be posting each one of their screenshots in order (I'll try as much as I can running on 2 hours of sleep anyway), and I will explain the context for them of to be as transparent as possible:

Just sexual OC x Canon shipping. You will be seeing a lot of that as we were having fun with Abby's super cool OCs and we talked about them very often.

Joking around about one of the roleplays we were doing & more context for me sharing my splatoon fic with her..

OC x Canon shipping.

Embarrassing, but talking about kinks...

OC x Canon shipping.

Jokes about how calm Ada's relationship was (With an OC!) vs Lenore x Annabel's. (Previously mentioned that Lenore was being dragged into the closet by the ankles) & More OC x Canon.

More jokes about how much we want to smash Lenore & Annabel (Sue me), and me asking sexual questions about her OC.

I’m a person that wants to enjoy Nevermore media in peace with other adults with similar interests in role playing, not a stain on the human race, the only truthful thing you said in your post about me is that I'm a bit of a freak.

I will admit, in a lot of those screenshots I was very out there and really oversexulizing the characters and I can totally see why someone could be made uncomfortable if they saw it. In fact the poster included some of the tamer messages between me and Abby. However I was doing it in a safe manner, in a place people gain access to with the intention of being sexual. So I wasn’t just shouting out every little idea I had to everyone in my server, no one was being forced to look at what I was talking about.

Unlike Crimson, who you are clearly trying to group me with, I’m a normal fucking person who happens to lust after the characters. I’ve posted smut on my Ao3 often and even advertised some of it (With the proper explicit tags) on my blog. It is no secret that I am attracted to the characters, and I honestly don’t feel like I have to repent for that. 

My only bad intentions were my sexual ones with the characters who are proven to be 18+, whether you agree with the kinks shown in the screenshots or what I’m into in general does not matter (Not that any of my kinks are problematic as far as I’m aware? But I am very willing to learn if they are).

I did not deserve to be labeled a groomer. 

Abby did not deserve to have her business outed to the public eye.

I hope, REALLY HOPE, that this was posted with good intentions, but seeing how it was handled and what your page is dedicated to my interests on the side seem to just be a  pawn of yours to get at rnf & the mods to incriminate them for not “handling me” when there is nothing to be handled. Speaking of the mods, now I’ll most likely have to explain and let them know I'm not a pedophile. Thank you SOOO much for that btw.

Leave me, and other bystanders in the fandom minding their own business out of this. 

One more thing, though more so directed to the fandom, you guys can leave my inbox now? At this point I know it's not the same person and I need you guys to calm down. I genuinely had a few people ask me if I was lying about the death threats and I cannot make this shit up.

Your desperation for more drama and what you’re willing to do to make an already bad situation worse disgusts me beyond words and I’m actually really worried about drama pages now because this is not the first time blatant and dangerous misinformation has been spread in this fandom. Of course, that’s just me being emotional and making a whole lot of assumptions about your morals, so don’t quote me on that. Besides, the post didn’t get a whole lot of attention so I’m probably REALLY overreacting.

In conclusion-

(Also as horrible as this is I find it funny that in all the screenshots I have that same Annabel Lee pfp on with the tiny bow. 😭😭)

[thehealingsystem]

here is one thread showint gabe’s racist tweets and likes. https://x.com/bonk6/status/1591923360979623937?s=46

I read through the tweets, does seem like a white guy acting like a know it all and not listening to the people of color around him. very surprised he didn't say "all lives matter" at one point because that's essentially what he's preaching. though it does strike me that this thread is from 2022 while mentioning grooming allegations- do you have receipts of those? as well as the instagram? (not sure how to find it)

is this something people are bringing up recently? because he doesn't seem to be getting that much backlash on his account and I don't necessarily wanna jump the gun here when it comes to allegations like those, seeing what happened to kwite made me more aware to get a full picture before forming opinions or saying things in absolute (not that I'm denying it, just need to be properly informed)

[lasnevadaslaborunion]

Honestly, what revolted me about the reaction to The Dream Situation was not only the people who defended him and picked holes in the victim's story (disappointing, but not surprising; those types of people always come out of the woodworks during these controversies), but those who celebrated now having a "valid reason to dislike him" while showing zero compassion for the victim and other former fans who felt very understandably betrayed.

As if your favorite online punching bag having done this Genuinely Awful Thing retroactively justified the disproportionate and frequently discriminatory harassment faced by the community; as if the parasociality that allows misbehavior like this is not fueled by that very same harassment; as if Amanda herself was not a Dream fan, one of the same people you would have happily mocked only days before her story broke; as if you were sincerely motivated by "seeking justice" for a thing you couldn't have known was happening.

Did your behavior make anyone safer? Did it prevent this celebrity from mishandling his platform and taking advantage of someone who admired him? What, exactly, have you done since to make sure no one will be hurt like this again? Did you really care about holding the bigoted groomer accountable, or did you just enjoy being right about who The Cringy Bad People are? Has the vindication made you happy?

How dare you. How dare you.

[myemptycircus333]

hello all. please read this post describing the actions taken by youtuber RobertIDK, where he knowingly preys upon a 15yo girl. “omg you are so young” he says to her. a 24 year old grown man to a 15 year old girl. he asks if he could pick her up from school. fucking disgusting.

[felucians]

Just because allegations came out against a MrBeast member does not mean all MrBeast members were aware/support them and are likely under some kind of NDA so they're unable to speak out as of yet as it directly concerns their company and job.

Of course, you can be disappointed but going as far as accusing the other Beast Squad members of being paedophiles with no evidence whatsoever aside from "but they're also LGBT" or "but they were friends with Ava Kris" is completely insane.

Most of your youtuber friendships aren't even real 'friendships', they're parasocial relationships to pander to audiences & more like coworkers - do not underestimate how much PR YouTubers and streamers at the top of their fields do, they are basically Z list celebrities.

And also, you should be hoping none of the other members of the Beast Squad have such horrible allegations against them, because that is one more child that is safe and hasn't been made a victim and that is one more streamer that hasn't abused their platform to harm someone else.

[julkie]

i though he was going talking about grooming allegations, not fucking speedrun cheating drama

[terminallyspookystudenteagle]

I cannot in good conscience remain silent. Not after how long this has been going on.

This is a Google Drive link to a compilation of evidence, by initial accuser AllyMcC, implicating Yandere Simulator's developer YandereDev and composer CameronF305 in several instances of sexual harassment, abuse and assault of multiple underage girls. Both of them have, so far, even after the initial accusations in September 2023, faced no legal consequences, and still have access to at least one of the victims.

In the wake of this disturbing evidence, and their inevitable self-incriminating responses, I fully endorse support a complete boycott of everything related to Yandere Simulator, and ideally, it would be in the best interests of any remaining staff members, voice actors, volunteers, collaborators, et cetera, to resign and cut off all of their support, like many others did in the wake of the September 2023 allegations.

To anyone still willing to claim that both YandereDev and CameronF305 are innocent, you are at best enabling them to continue hurting people, and at worst, actively aiding and abetting their crimes. Do not interact with this post. You will be blocked.

Yandere Simulator has been the missing stair, as Cliff Pervocracy conceptualised, of the indie game community for almost a decade. It's time to stop jumping over it and instead fix it.