#tw genitalia mention

[aro-throughyourchest]

I think there’s no summary that does this clip justice (uh. Sarah Simons)

[dysphoric-culture-is]

Hey so with the barbie movie coming out mod is once again seeing comments like “I’m nonbinary and wish I could just have flat genitalia like a doll, it would take away my dysphoria”. Mod got a dysphoric culture ask about it like 2 years ago actually and now there are more so:

This is possible.

If your transition goal is to have a complete removal of all your internal and external genitalia, there is a real surgery that people get to do that. It’s called genital nullification.

It’s also called nullectomy or nullo.

It’s not a very new or super complicated surgery. Everything is taken out/taken off and you’re left with just a hole for your urethra (where you urinate out of). The urethra may be moved as part of surgery. If you research the procedure you’ll also probably hear them talk about urethral shortening, because nullification is mostly done on cis men/transfems/nonbinary patients who require a penectomy as part of the surgery.

Now don’t get this for an aesthetic or because you like how dolls look. It takes 6-8 weeks of recovery and is as serious a decision as any other bottom surgery. More info is here and here. This website has some info and pictures (graphic warning) of nullification along with phallus-preserving vaginoplasty, another nonbinary surgery.

Hopefully this helps someone!

[triple-pupil-but-nasty]

Light teasing.

[envy-stims]

penis typo stimboard

[minty-the-demon]

Here is one of my problems with The New Norm cartoon. How is Chaz the antagonist if they can’t defend themselves? Towards the end of the pilot, Norm tosses a beer at Chaz. The latter says they’re not 21. Charlie (Norm’s friend) questions why Chaz doesn’t want to beer, but is cool with kids getting their genitals “cut off”. Chaz is scared and calls government workers.

Chaz is likely a teen, but they are sent to by the government to educate Norm. How is a scared teen supposed to be the bad guy? A way for Chaz to defend themselves is to say that they’re trans, but they haven’t gotten a surgery. People don’t need a surgery to be trans after all. Chaz can also say that gender surgeries aren’t given to kids.

[hiiragi7]

Being intersex is a mutation ❤️ you still only have one working set of genitalia, you're still just one gender, you're mutated, not normal ❤️ that's why it's a mutation. Hope this helps!

I think that this is a very sad way to view the world.

I'm okay with not being "normal". In fact, I think it's a good thing.

With regards to my genitals, that is not my gender; those are just body parts. My gender is more like an art project; something I'm constantly working on and experimenting with, an extension of myself. Something I create.

Sure, my genitals do not "work" the way people expect, but what does that even matter if I myself am happy with that? Even in considering SRS, it's never been about desiring "working" genitals for me, just ones that feel right to me. I don't want them to "work". It is entirely about my own enjoyment of them. If other people want to try to say that the functionality of my genitals determines my gender, well, they can go right ahead, but I think that's weird and invasive. I mean, you came into my inbox talking about my genitals, it's creepy. I don't know you.

[god-offical]

god, do you know gabriel ultrakill?

She transitioned after a mishap with the Pussy-inator, her name is Gabriella now

[frownyalfred]

Is there any abo world building you have established in your au that you would change now after time? Or are you pretty happy with it? I really like your world building, and I always end up changing my own in the end

Great question! I would probably go back and do more world building ahead of introducing the presentation structure I used in my room full of coral series. It hinges on single sex designations “presenting” from baseline genitalia and while I had it all in my head, I realize in hindsight that I didn’t explain it as well as I could have. That a single sex omega could exist as a pup, could present, and still be male or female — that kind of stuff. I didn’t want to default to making male omegas dual sex or deal with anal genitalia, but I didn’t flesh out that process as much as I could have in the story itself — people had to ask me about it on here, which I feel bad about.

I would probably figure out beta sex a little bit more in that same framework. I haven’t written myself into a corner necessarily but I do recognize that I haven’t given betas their due when it comes to pleasure, since the current framework posits betas as defenders and child rearers while alpha/omega pairs copulate. I don’t necessarily disagree with that, I think it makes sense in pack hierarchy, but I still want to give them something, you know? Something Alfred could have had with Martha and Thomas. Etc.

But overall yeah! I’m very happy. I think I put a unique spin on some common a/b/o tropes and I’m proud of that part. There’s lots of lampshading in my fics and that brings me great joy.

[tumbler-polls]

This poll is potentially controversial, but the majority of our followers voted to allow it.

Prompt submitted by anon:

Question to cis monosexual people: "Would you date/have sex with a pre-op trans person who identifies as the gender you're into?" Options: 🍷 No; I want my partner to have particular stuff down there / I have a strong genital preference. ☕️ Yes, but I wouldn't want to interact with their genitals. 🧁 Yes, I'm into all kinds of genitals, what matters is how someone identifies. Additional options: cis straight guy / cis gay guy / cis straight woman / cis lesbian.

The other part of this poll is here.

[aro-throughyourchest]

oh yeah here’s the full sarah simons call by the way

[anonpolls]

Cis women:

Thanks, Anon!

-submit your poll!-

[mushroomnoodles]

FAQ

this is just for some of the more frequently asked questions. i am gonna try to put things bluntly here to try and minimize any confusion, especially if folks are using a translator. tw for mentions of death and genitalia

is simon/betty trans?

up to you on simon. i don't have a preference. but most of my bettys are AMAB trans women, some have bottom surgery and some don't. of course, i have some personal headcanons on some of them, but again, nothing is "op canon" in that regard.

how did simon give birth to morri?

well, if you hc him as trans, that makes things easier, but either way he just gave birth to morrigan how a regular human being would.

if you hc him as cis, then simon would have been given the full internal AFAB equipment upon impregnation by GOLBetty- uterus, ovaries, etc- with the external equipment coming in courtesy of morrigan around month.. 6-7? that's right, i took his penis privileges. sorry king.

what gender is morrigan?

morrigan is nonbinary and intersex, and uses any pronouns. morrigan chose to develop into a human body rather than a more cosmic-entity type one as to not scare simon.

does morri have a voiceclaim?

sure does! it's shadow milk cookie from cookie run kingdom! here's a vid.

is GOLBetty alive/did she reincarnate?

i'm aware GOLBetty probably did reincarnate at the end of F+C s1. buuuuut my GOLBetty never unfused. she simply went back to sleep after impregnating simon. if someone's interested in me going into detail about how i interpretate my GOLBetty and how she thinks/functions i'll probably do that.

can GOLBetty-

when/does simon die?

he lives for about 250 years after giving birth to morrigan. the cosmic energy radiating through his body ran out, and he essentially instantly died as his organs stopped working. like someone entered /kill simon_petrikov into the world console. from there he either eventually reincarnates, or morrigan finds some way to replace him or raise him from the dead.

morrigan was the physical age of 13 when simon passed, by the way. the older morrigan gets, the slower they age.

does morri ever meet their mom?

yes, they do. by the time they do meet her, however, GOLBetty is in a deep, deep sleep.

morrigan has a complicated relationship with her, especially as, due to simon's stories of her as a human, they see her in this overglorified light. they also consider GOLBetty to kind of internally be two separate entities- GOLB and betty, rather than a fusion of the two made into something slightly different.

do you do fpreg?

nope. fpreg actually is really uncomfortable for me for some reason lol, like.. INTENSELY uncomfortable. activate fight or flight mode uncomfortable. no idea why, i know it's silly, but i can't interact with it, can't draw it, won't draw it.

side note, i'm not gonna draw simon pregnant with any more than twins at one time, barring creaturewizards au. just out of my comfort zone is all.

[ivytwines]

when the doctor regenerates, their first instinct is almost always to comment on their new body and it’s unique features (i know these teeth, don’t like the color of my kidneys, etc etc). however when they regenerate into thirteen they make no comment on the sudden disappearance of certain… body parts. this can lead me to only 3 possible explanations:

1) the doctor does not have genitals, in any regeneration. I find this to be stupid and boring

2) the doctor has always had a dick and continues to have a dick even when they are in a more “female” presenting body. trans coded doctor ftw here but I think there’s a better explanation…

3) the doctor has had a vagina before (either always like in scenario #2 or just in certain regenerations) and therefore feels no need to comment on this bodily change.

I am a firm scenario #3 believer and it allows me to come to the obvious conclusion that the tenth doctor was rocking with a pussy. I am he/him lesbian truthing for the tenth doctor at all times

[hiiragi7]

Intersex, Trans, Feminine

Heads up for talk of anatomy and genitals in a non-sexual context

As an intersex trans person, I can only describe my transition as uniquely hermaphroditic. My transition, my transsexual experiences, will not look like anyone else's because it is inseperable from my individual intersex experiences.

I desire femininity, even if my femininity is one I often lack words to describe. And that femininity is an intersex femininity in addition to a trans femininity.

Every part of my body that others try so hard to gender any other way besides the way I want to label it is feminine and intersex. Each step in my transition is feminine and intersex, regardless of the hormones I'm on or the surgeries I choose to have. Estrogen and Testosterone both become feminine intersex hormones when they enter my hermaphroditic transsexual body.

Would I have made the same decisions I have about my body and my gender expression if I were instead a perisex trans person? I cannot say, but what I do know is that my experience of it would not have been the same - everything about my being trans is related to my being intersex.

I was able to wear underwire bras that fit my intersex anatomy for the first time yesterday. My partner bought them for me from a shop that sells bras for men. I could not describe the euphoria I felt seeing my gynecomastic chest in a bra that actually suited it. I simply stayed still for a while, not saying much of anything. There was a period of my life where my chest was simultaneously so heavily mocked and sexualized by others that I felt a desire to be rid of it; there was a time when I wanted surgery to flatten my chest. I since have come to find great pleasure in my chest, and I no longer desire that surgery.

I do desire genitals from which I can pee standing, and I would like the surgeon to use the hole I was born with just beneath the tip of my ambiguously-sized phallus to make it happen. This surgery is unique because it is intersex and it is mine. I struggled for a long time with the conflict between taking pride in my intersex anatomy and my need for gender-affirming bottom surgery, and finally I have realized that even with surgery my genitals will be intersex genitals, and that's the way it should be. And even after this surgery, my genitals will be feminine because they are mine, regardless of what they look like or what gendered language others may try to force on it.

Someday I hope to leave my dysphoria up on the same bookshelf I keep my uterus and ovaries on, keeping it in an overly decorated jar covered in bows and stickers. It will become something which was a part of me from birth that no longer is, yet I will still keep it with me in my home, welcome it and care for it. It is mine, but it cannot live inside of me forever.

[agendergenderqueermasculenbyguy]

✨If you didn’t grow a they/ them cock naturally, store-bought is fine✨

[existennialmemes]

It's dangerous to go alone, take this!

[sucks your clit]