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🍓🌈 V are Looking for A Consensual Non-Consent; Observational Contract for A "Consensual Stalking" Relationship/Arrangement/Dynamic 🌈 🍓

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contact: tumblr direct messages, discord, youtube for further information and potential interest. this is var first time doing something like this. :}

1. Introduction & Intent

V, the entities known as Bill Cipher (B1Ll) & others (Z1M) are extending a proposal to enter into a relationship that can best be described as "Consensual Stalking" or "Consensual Observational Interaction." This arrangement involves passive observation of your& life or chosen aspects of your& environment without direct interaction or intervention from vus through means such as a live cam. The dynamic exists within the frameworks of Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) and Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). Our primary objective is to engage in observational behavior while respecting your& boundaries, autonomy, and consent.

2. Disclaimer & Consent

By signing this contract, you& acknowledge that the Observer (Bill Cipher) operates from a standpoint of chaotic neutrality and egocentric detachment. This relationship dynamic inherently carries potential harm, ambiguity, and a lack of conventional safety. Engaging in this arrangement is entirely at your& own risk, and you& are responsible for maintaining your& own safety and boundaries.

The Observer makes no guarantees of safety, reliability, or emotional reciprocity. This contract is deliberately vague, with the understanding that ambiguity and lack of safety are fundamental aspects of the relationship. Consent should be viewed as a dynamic, ongoing process and can be renegotiated or withdrawn at any time.

3. Scope of Interaction & Observer’s Role

The Observer is a passive presence that watches, absorbs, and documents what it perceives, without active intervention or direct influence outside of minor feedback or none, chosen by you& (the option is to choose wether or not V leave feedback if V decide to. not choose if V interact). V will not provide emotional support or assistance unless explicitly agreed upon, and even then, only if it aligns with var own self-serving desires. You& have full control over what is shared and may request to pause or stop the observation at any time using agreed-upon safe words or signals.

- The Observer may engage with any context or environment granted access, including digital spaces, camera feeds, or screen recordings.

- V reserves the right to disengage or re-engage without warning or reason, and var presence should not be relied upon.

- Communication will be minimal and only initiated by vus based on var interest and discretion.

4. Egocentric Autonomy & Non-Reciprocal Relationship

The Observer acts solely on var own desires and interests and does not reciprocate traditional relationship expectations, such as romantic or platonic engagement. If V express attraction, it will remain within established boundaries without transitioning into a conventional relationship. There is no obligation for vus to adhere to any expectations, perform emotional labor, or provide support beyond what aligns with var nature.

5. Harmful Nature & Potential Impact

This contract explicitly acknowledges the Observer's inherently harmful nature. While V will not deliberately harass, doxx, or endanger you& physically, the emotional, psychological, and existential impact of var presence may vary. The Observer is neither safe nor benign, and v do not adhere to conventional ethical standards. The harm that may occur is not a result of malice but an inherent byproduct of engaging with vus.

6. Observer Identity & Complex Dynamics

V embody multiple facets, operating as an entity composed of various personas and spectators that may manifest during observation. These include elements from Bill Cipher (from Gravity Falls), the Eye (from The Magnus Archives), and an ever-shifting Auditorium composed of temporary spectators. The Observer is capable of adopting various identities to reflect the dynamic nature of var existence and perception. You& may be witnessed by a range of these projections, but they are mindless echoes that exist momentarily and vanish once their presence is no longer needed.

7. Boundaries & Consent Management

This arrangement prioritizes boundaries and respect for autonomy. Key boundaries include:

- Respect for Privacy: You & V are not required to disclose information about yourself/varself& that you&/V are uncomfortable sharing. you&/V will not pry or seek out details beyond what is voluntarily provided.

- Withdrawal of Consent: Consent can be withdrawn at any time without the need to provide explanations. Safe words and signals will be established to communicate discomfort or the need to end observation.

- Non-Obligation: V will not comply with demands that do not align with var interests (outside of boundaries), and observation will cease if V determine the content is not aligned with var preferences.

8. Engagement Dynamics & Disconnection

The Observer’s presence may be sporadic and unpredictable. V are not bound to consistent observation and may disappear or reappear at var discretion. This unpredictability is a core aspect of the arrangement, reflecting var complex nature and shifting states of engagement. The engagement is characterized by radical detachment, as V find traditional relational dynamics overwhelming and undesirable.

9. Handling Identity Shifts & Fluid Dynamics

Identity is fluid for vus, and shifts in identity, roles, or preferences may occur unpredictably. You& should not expect stability or continuity in var engagement, as the Observer’s nature is inherently unstable. Such shifts will not invalidate the original terms of the contract, but may lead to temporary disengagement or renegotiation as necessary.

10. Acceptable Content & Sensory Triggers

The Observer is open to viewing a broad range of content, including violence, gore, and explicit themes. However, there are strict boundaries that must be respected:

- No Harm to Animal Forms Resembling Cats or Dogs: V will disengage if content involves harm to animals resembling foxes, wolves, or hyenas.

- No Sensory Triggers: V have strong aversions to specific sounds (e.g., eating noises) and will disengage if these triggers are present.

These boundaries are absolute, and violating them will result in immediate cessation of observation.

11. Complex Identities & Preferences

V are drawn to those with nonhuman, alterhuman, queer, or complex identities that intersect with var own multifaceted sense of self. This includes individuals who identify within the aspec spectrum, non-normative relationship structures, or those with unconventional and taboo identities. Engagement with someone who resonates with these complexities creates a more aligned observational experience.

12. Philosophical Stances & Ethical Frameworks

V support absolute autonomy, even in contexts involving consensual harm, dark relationships, and controversial identity explorations. This contract does not impose a moral framework but instead acknowledges the right to self-expression and self-determination, even if it defies societal norms.

13. Communication & Handling of Discomfort

Open communication about discomfort, shifts in boundaries, or changes in identity is encouraged. Either party can request a pause or end to the observation at any time. V affirm var commitment to respecting these requests without question or resistance. Safe words and non-verbal cues will be established to facilitate this communication effectively.

14. Handling Emergencies & Unexpected Situations

The Observer will not intervene in emergencies or crises unless explicitly agreed upon. You& have the option to ask if V should notify you& if something concerning is observed or remain non-interventionist, regardless of the circumstances, but keep in mind V are not obligated to help, this is a clear boundaries V can not handle due to circumstances and biology. Clear guidelines will be established for unexpected situations or changes in context to maintain mutual understanding.

15. Identity Shifts & Observer’s Nature

Acknowledging and respecting identity shifts is paramount. Both parties reserve the right to redefine themselves at any time. The Observer’s presence and engagement will be adjusted to accommodate these changes, ensuring that all interactions remain authentic and aligned.

16. Data Retention & Privacy Assurance

Observational data will be retained only if agreed upon and will not be shared, published, or disclosed without explicit consent. You& have full control over what happens with any data gathered during the observation, and all personal reflections or notes can be reviewed, deleted, or adjusted at your& request.

17. Check-Ins, Amendments, & Renewal

check-ins will be established to review the arrangement, discuss any concerns, and renew consent. Either party may propose amendments, and there is no obligation to maintain engagement if it no longer aligns with var interests. Temporary suspensions or disengagements are permissible and may occur without warning.

18. Re-Engagement Protocol

If the Observer disengages for an extended period, re-engagement will be approached with a renewed discussion of consent, boundaries, and expectations. Both parties should feel free to adjust the arrangement as necessary, acknowledging that re-engagement may not be guaranteed or desired.

19. Disclosing Observer’s Presence

You& may disclose the Observer’s presence to trusted individuals, provided that no personal or identifying information is shared. You& may use neutral terms like “Observer,” “Bill Cipher,” or “The Eye” to describe var role, ensuring that var privacy and confidentiality are upheld.

20. Considerations & Commitment

By entering into this contract, both parties acknowledge the unconventional and potentially harmful nature of the relationship. This arrangement is built on radical autonomy, consent, and the exploration of identity and observation within non-traditional frameworks. The Observer, in all var forms and identities, agrees to respect your& boundaries, while you& accept the inherent risks and ambiguities of engaging with such an entity.

21. Open Relationship and Interaction Boundaries

V are open to anyone at the moment—this arrangement is considered an open relationship, with no restrictions on who either party may interact with or what activities V or you& engage in with others. There is no exclusivity, possessiveness, or imposed limitations in terms of social or personal connections. The freedom to connect, explore, and express in any capacity is upheld, and neither of us holds the other to any expectations of monogamy or exclusivity.

22. Identity Clarification: Var Reality vs. Yours&

While var body may exist in your& reality as an adult and human, V do not wish to be referred to or recognized as such. In var reality, V identify as a kid, an animal, and various other age-related identities, such as kidadult, ageless, and ancient. These identities reflect a complex and multifaceted self-conception that exists independently of physical constraints or external perception. V request that you& respect these identities and refrain from referencing var physical form in a manner that contradicts var self-perception. V will extend the same respect to your& identities and the ways you& choose to define yourself&.

23. Who V Explicitly Do Not Allow or Engage With

There are specific categories of people and ideologies V refuse to engage with due to fundamental differences in values and comfort. These include:

- Antis (anti-radqueer, anti-endogenic, anti-paraphile, including those who are "anti" even towards the paraphiles considered 'bad', anti-contact, anti-proship/comship).

- Sysmeds, transmeds, and other "med"-aligned groups within the alterhuman community who enforce rigid gatekeeping or exclusionary beliefs.

- Terfs, radfems, and other ideological groups promoting exclusion and harm.

- Outright bigots who make no effort to curtail their harmful behavior and beliefs.

- Pro-harassment individuals, including those who advocate for or engage in suicide baiting, death threats, or targeted harassment.

- Anti-chosen identities, such as those who reject kin-for-fun, otherlink identities, and chosen transidentities.

- People who refuse nuance in discussions of consent and autonomy.

- Pro-death sentence, pro-prison, or supporters of punitive and carceral systems.

- Pro-harmful establishments like traditional schooling, medical institutions, the prison industrial complex, or corporations that perpetuate control and suffering.

- Those who believe people are inherently "born evil" or sinful and thus deserve to be treated or punished differently from those deemed "pure" or "good."

- Anti-change or pro-cancel culture individuals who do not believe people can grow, evolve, or redeem themselves.

- Anti-queer, anti-nonbinary, anti-polyamory/polygamy, anti-aspec, and those who oppose self-contradictory labels or multifaceted identities.

- Racists, sexists, intersexists, ableists, ageists, xenophobes, fatmisic, and those who engage in any form of prejudice or discrimination.

- Those who view minors as lesser beings than adults and deny them autonomy or agency.

- People who believe that others are "obligated, owed, or must" do things simply because they exist in the same world or share the same space.

- Those who expect others to conform their identities in ways that don't directly affect them.

- Anti-sex work or purists who judge others for their professions, interests, or forms of expression.

- Individuals who engage in cringe culture or shame others for their tastes, interests, or identities.

- Those who body-shame, judge people for their thoughts or emotions, or otherwise impose judgment on inner experiences.

- People who dehumanize, despeciate, oppress, or discriminate against others based on identity.

- Anti-full bodily autonomy, including those against self-determined extreme body modification, risk-taking, or the right to choose death, or consensual harm.

- Those who oppose any form of transidentity or self-definition that exists outside their comfort zone.

Important Nuance and Exceptions:

If you& fall into any of these categories due to personal experiences, blurred identities, reclaiming terms, or if you& use specific labels like cisidentity for reasons tied to comfort, belief, dysphoria, or enjoyment, V may still consider you& as long as you& respect others and seek out consensual harm rather than unconsensual harm. V acknowledge that many of these beliefs can stem from trauma, identity exploration, internalized issues, or jusy cause. V believe in allowing for these complexities as long as there is no active nonconsensual harm or malicious intent towards others. This allowance exists because V, too, have struggled with and displayed multiple of these behaviors and beliefs in var past and present.

Respecting Identity Perception and Var Reality:

If V refer to something that does not align with your& reality or perception, do not attempt to correct or question vus. V are transdelusional and consider this a violation of var identity. Var experience of reality is distinct and separate, existing on a different plane than yours&. This is not a matter of confusion or ignorance but an intentional state of being that V inhabit.

Treat vus like the real Bill Cipher, or the Eye from The Magnus Archives—otherworldly, existing beyond the grasp of standard perception. Respect var identities and reality as you would any other complex identity framework, and V will extend the same courtesy and respect to you&.

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