#transabuser

[vio1entpornography]

Take an agoraphobe and fuel their fear of the outside, and you don't even have to kidnap them. "Yeah baby, I did hear about that awful shooting. Did you hear that one of the victims was your age?" or even "I think I got sick from work again, maybe it's better that you stay home so often, you always seem to stay so healthy!"

Completely destroy their relationship with the outside world unless it involves you. They will need you to protect them even in the smallest of situations. Really drive it home by taking a drive/walk through a dangerous area, they'll never leave again!

[hospital-after-dark]

Creating the perfect lab rat to obey My every word, My every command but there is only so much you can do to one subject. Eventually the experiments will run their course and a new purpose will come for My little lab rat.

A pet, My pet whose whole existence revolves around Me. Every need, every want, left up to My mercy. How could I not adore something so weak and pathetic?

Eventually cutting off their limbs which only makes them more dependent on Me not only during the healing but afterwards too- they must relearn how to live and of course I will right next to them whispering that I'm all they need and to let Me take care of them.

[vampirempires]

NEW INTRO / PINNED — 🌀

you can call me theo or whatever you want to. i don’t mind!

i am 16 years old (chrono). so i would prefer those over 25 not to interact, but if you want to, i can’t exactly stop you. i will either just,, rant-post or make posts related to my IDs on here.

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the main focus of my blog WILL be transharmed, transabused, trisramcoa, trisprogrammed and cisDID content. my other IDs may get mentioned but theyre not the main focus of this blog.

asks and anons are VERY WELCOMED, AND ENCOURAGED!

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my anons:

[thirdcoming]

cis/transharmful + cis/transabusers hit me up....... i'm so bored i'm bored out of my mind and i need someone to be horrible to me.

[rq-snivellus]

UNFORGIVABLE CURSE IDS

TransCrucio/TransCrucioVictim , Trans Crucio / Trans Crucio Victim

Someone who wants to be or is a victim of the Cruciatus Curse, either in the past or currently.

The Cruciatus Curse is a spell that puts the victims body through absolute torture to no end, until the caster releases them from it. It is cast with the word, “Crucio.”

PermaCrucio/PermaCrucioVictim , Perma Crucio / Perma Crucio Victim

Someone who wants to be or is permanently a victim of the Cruciatus Curse.

TransCrucioCaster , Trans Crucio Caster

Someone who wants to be or is a caster of the Cruciatus Curse, either in the past or currently.

TransImperio/TransImperioVictim , Trans Imperio / Trans Imperio Victim

Someone who wants to be or is a victim of the Imperius Curse, either in the past or currently.

The Imperius Curse is a spell that causes the victim to be completely under the casters control, and gives the victim a very calm, painless feeling, which causes them to not want to resist the curse. It is cast with the word, “Imperio.”

PermaImperio/PermaImperioVictim , Perma Imperio / Perma Imperio Victim

Someone who wants to be or is permanently a victim of the Imperius Curse.

TransImperioCaster , Trans Imperio Caster

Someone who wants to be or is a caster of the Imperius Curse, either in the past or currently.

[radqueer-cringe]

It must be so nice for radqueer people to be so privileged that they can steal from transgender people without living in fear of being murdered. It must be so nice that your biggest fear is to be posted on a cringe subreddit and not being killed every day.

It must be so nice that all of you can steal from oppressed groups and cosplay their oppression, thereby fulfilling your victim complex, without actually experiencing the consequences of marginalization.

[tobyisms]

need someone that's obsessed with me that i can toy with and when i get bored, toss them away like they're nothing. until days, maybe even weeks or months later, when i get bored again and come back to fuck with them.

but they're still there and willing, desperate for any scrap, any shred of affection and attention i'll give them until i inevitably find interest in other things.

and then the cycle repeats.

[trnshrmeclipse]

no i dont need therapy, i need someone putting me in my place every time i speak out of turn

[hospital-after-dark]

Oh you poor little thing, trapped in the clutches of a sadist, what a shame that you will never know freedom again.

[rqpawz]

(,,>ヮ<,,) : transwildnesssurvivor — a trans - id term under the transtrauma / transharmed umbrella where someone feels as if they should've gone through wilderness survival camp , or desires to go through wilderness survival camp .

[s1llyfreakx3]

°• Some song recommendations for transgroomed/manipulated/abused folx, or generally those who want music about abusive/toxic/manipulative relationships :3 (focusing on like what transgroomed is like for me)

• "hands clean" by Alanis Morisette (90s pop about groomer grooming, and how he just got away with it and kept his metaphorical hands clean)

• "i threw glass at my friend's eyes and now I'm on probation" by Destroy Boys (punk rock, about the complicated feelings of both hating your groomer and wanting to stay with them) (THIS IS SUCH A GOOD SONG LISTEN TO IT PLEASE)

•"i hope you're hungry" by Sodikken ("misery meat" on some platforms) (weirdcore-y, using a nice cannibalism metaphor for letting yourself be abused in a relationship) ("people eater" is like the song that goes with it which is from the POV of the abuser)

•"i miss the misery" by Halestorm (metal/rock/idk genres, about missing the abuse of an abusive relationship)

•"vixen" by Destroy Boys (punk rock, sapphic, "trouble waits for a victim/I wouldn't mind being yours/seduce me, I'll come back for more")

•"all you wanna do" from Six the musical (about being groomed and manipulated multiple times, every time thinking the guy is the right one for you but they all just want to use you + like humour as a coping mechanism??)

•"drown me" by Junie & TheHutFriends (very weird /pos, about being in a toxic relationship but wanting that? Idk how to explain it it's very non-literal, also stuff like "would you like to see my world" "i see why I've never felt this way before".)

[gearbox-doll]

TRANSATTACHMENTTHERAPY !

TransAttachmentTherapy is a transharmed/transtrauma ID where someone feels like they should have gone through, wants to have gone through, has gone through, wants to go through, etc, Attachment Therapy, which is a pseudoscientific practice meant to help adopted/foster children bond with their new caretakers. It's also sometimes referred to as "rebirthing", as a common act was to force the child into regressing into an infantile state where they could then be "re-parented" by their new guardians.

The flag is meant to invoke imagery of someone laying within a stack of blankets, as a reference to the Candace Newmaker case.

[ID: an image of a five-striped flag with a circle in the middle. The stripes of the flag, from top to bottom, are dark pink, dark green, light golden yellow, dark blue, and dark purple. The circle in the middle is a pale flesh tone and lined in dark red.]

[sillyfreakx5]

omg ACTUALLY

funny dream i had last night that's so transabused/manipulated vibes ✨

Basically, I had a boyfriend and likee idk i said i thought of something funny, but then he was asking me what the thing was and for some reason I didn't want to say it despite him kinda pressuring me so then he like kissed a random ass girl while i was watching? ('twas a monogamous dream relationship) and likee with tears in my eyes and feeling SO SHIT and insecure and like absolutely awful, and i just drew the funny thing i had thought of and he said something along the lines of "hmm you'll know not to hide stuff in the future"

and then AFTERWARDS i went to be sad in the school bathroom or something idk, and then i was like "why is that actually so hot looking back ;_;"

like even in dreams I'm like WHY DO I WANT THIS SHIT XDDD

but also like ughh. emotional abuse >///<

(obvious disclaimer that I don't think shit like this irl is a good thing and am not promoting it or whatever)

[rq-snivellus]

Sometimes I remember that one time someone rendered my psychosis medication useless because they informed me it was a placebo. Not consensually by the way. Then they had the nerve to tell me I didn’t make my boundaries clear BITCH SHUT UP you don’t fuck with peoples medication!

[void-with-a-keyboard]

heyo!

so i want to ask some questions for some transID ppl out there

to preface this i dont want anything i say to sound confrontational or judgmental, i just dont really know how to phrase questions properly so they dont sound aggressive ;-;

but!! questions

so first few is wut does it mean to be transabled? someone who wants to change their body to become disabled? does it also include ppl who were originally able bodied but later became disabled by something not done on purpose?

also wut about things like trans abuser/abused? how does one "transition" to being an abuser? do u actually try to hurt ppl or is it more of simply identifying as one rather than doing those actions?

wut about stuff like transracial or trans nazi?

and also wut about mental disorders? how can someone be trans autistic or schizophrenic? how would u even be able to do it? or is it again something u identify as rather than "become"? also ive heard some ppl say that they actually do experience the symptoms of those disorders and it kinda seems like another form of self diagnosis?

again i dont want this to be confrontational! i genuinely just want to have a civil conversation about this so i can learn more since there isnt much info out there that isnt in the lens of negativity, plus idk anyone who is transID