#transabuse

[nyanmimi]

someone should force us to split alters for their own personal gain,, force newly formed alters/fragments to be whoever you want them to be. give them a role, purpose, identity based on how youre feeling..

you want an alter that will let you hurt it? force us to make one.

you want a character from a show because you like them? force us to make them.

you want to mold a personality to whatever works best for you? put us through stress and teach our fragments to worship you.

newly split alters are very naive and impressionable, perfect to be turned into whatever you want them to be..

[radical-sainthood]

Feeling. Especially violent. I need to bite and kill and hurt. I need teeth marks deep enough to remind you I was here. I need blood in my mouth. I need writhing to get away and being unable to actually move. A need a knife.

I don't want clean precise cuts, I don't want easy to fix. I want you carved beyond your wildest dreams and left permanently with the scars of my boredom.

[renqueer]

they’re no good for you. come on, you know i’m the only one for you. i’m the only one who can give you the raw, violent and possessive love that you crave. you know you want me, not them.

[radqueer-cringe]

It must be so nice for radqueer people to be so privileged that they can steal from transgender people without living in fear of being murdered. It must be so nice that your biggest fear is to be posted on a cringe subreddit and not being killed every day.

It must be so nice that all of you can steal from oppressed groups and cosplay their oppression, thereby fulfilling your victim complex, without actually experiencing the consequences of marginalization.

[trnshrmeclipse]

no i dont need therapy, i need someone putting me in my place every time i speak out of turn

[tobyisms]

need someone that's obsessed with me that i can toy with and when i get bored, toss them away like they're nothing. until days, maybe even weeks or months later, when i get bored again and come back to fuck with them.

but they're still there and willing, desperate for any scrap, any shred of affection and attention i'll give them until i inevitably find interest in other things.

and then the cycle repeats.

[h0use0fwolves]

I need someone to put a gun in my mouth

[bunnieonherknees]

permanent marks...

tattoos, scars, burns, brands, they're all just so pretty...

especially if they have a use!! brand my chest with your symbol, carve my deepest insecurities and fears into my skin, burn my fingerprints off so they won't be able to identify my body!!

[medikalmalpraktice]

Sadist flag 🔪

Lesbian sadist flag 🔪

Bisexual sadist flag 🔪

happy harming, fellow freaks~!

[a-dragons-journal]

How exactly is being otherkin any different than being transracial by idea? I’m not pro-transracial, but I can’t really formulate an argument on where the difference is and why one is okay while the other isn’t

The difference, in my opinion at least, basically comes down to the fact that race and ethnicity are things other real people deal with and which have big cultural impact for a lot of people; species is not. You can't hurt theriform wolves by identifying as a wolf because wolves are not people and are not aware of any of this. Dragons may be people depending on the dragon, but they don't exist physically in this world to have an opinion. You can, however, hurt people of color by identifying as transethnicity and approaching it in a disrespectful way.

And I say it that way because if I'm honest, transethnicity is one of those transIDs where I'm... a little torn on it. I can understand the feelings and experiences they're describing, but I struggle to find a way to engage with the idea of being transethnicity that isn't going to wind up being racist in one way or another. And while I haven't exactly spent a ton of time in radqueer/transID spaces, when I've gone into their tags and such to do a little research on them, I have overwhelmingly seen transethnicity people being kind of if not extremely racist about it. The experiences are not inherently harmful, but it's really easy to slide into engaging with those experiences in a way that's harmful.

And yet... in this community we have, for example, fictionkin whose fictotypes are a different race than them all the time, and sometimes that's very important to who their fictotype is and how they view the world. And that works out fine. I think the primary difference is that fictionkin are generally expected to acknowledge that they're not a part of that group in the present and can't speak on the group's issues or experiences as if they were, whereas the minute you put a trans- label onto the word, the expectation is that you should be treating a trans[x] person as if they're [x]. (And if it's not, then... why are you calling it trans- anything to begin with when that's what trans- means in an identity context?)

So, I do genuinely believe that they're having these experiences, but... idk, there has to be a better way to frame and engage with those experiences. I don't know what that is, but it's got to be out there somewhere, though it may not be a one-size-fits-all answer. (And maybe there's a transID community out there that's found it, I don't know.)

Anyway, open invitation for POC to give their thoughts on this, since they've probably got better-constructed ones than me; if I'm honest, I haven't spent all that much time thinking about this issue. I think about it on and off here and there when it comes up and then it gives me a headache so I move on.

[unholyangelzsys]

Being programmed into believing your programmer is your soulmate

[nyanmimi]

How cute... begging to be hurt. You're adorable.. I'd love to hurt you. I'll keep you in a glass case like the little doll you are. I'll keep you on a leash all the time, so you'll never get away from me. I'll never leave you, so why should you be able to leave me?

-<3 anon

please dont let me get away from you,, never never give me a chance to leave..

[radical-sainthood]

Head hurt, need to beat the shit out someone for it. And then make them comfort ME for having a headache.

[cisfox]

abuser who gets off on my hate for them and mocks me for being too powerless to stop them <333

[vio1entpornography]

Take an agoraphobe and fuel their fear of the outside, and you don't even have to kidnap them. "Yeah baby, I did hear about that awful shooting. Did you hear that one of the victims was your age?" or even "I think I got sick from work again, maybe it's better that you stay home so often, you always seem to stay so healthy!"

Completely destroy their relationship with the outside world unless it involves you. They will need you to protect them even in the smallest of situations. Really drive it home by taking a drive/walk through a dangerous area, they'll never leave again!

[cozmo-system]

idk about you but i love being plural, being a singlet is kinda lame yall have no excuse lol

eggy