#tranny shit

[bringbackgoth]

Talking to my trans brother about which gender bathroom is better…

[gunner-wazhere]

Gunner owns this shirt bc I said so

[thatfanficauthor107]

got a message today from an online friend saying “you’re my favourite boy”….

any ideas how to propose?

[blvvdk3ep]

my mother telling me that I need to stop flattening my chest because only gay women do that she's starting to get it she just needs to push the idea a little further. what if they're not women.

[redheadedfailgirl]

I'm gonna be so good at dilating once I get bottom surgery. I'm putting in hours practicing with these dildos and no way is my pussy gonna be anywhere near as difficult to work with as this booty

[protective-potato]

Feeling the momentum from hair moving about now that its long is honestly one of my favourite gender things rn

[bringbackgoth]

WE HAVE VIDEO OF THEM!

Please don't despair! There are so many people bringing these lost elders back to life, and there are a lot of Gen X and Millennials that are putting in the work to archive and record this history and they would love nothing more than to talk to you about it!

You need to reach out and ask! And if that's too much, I have two sources off the top of my head that have been overwhelmingly delightful and a real look into the actual history of the LGBT Community in the 80s and 90s

1987 NYC Finest - Nelson Sullivan, subject of the 5ninthavenueproject, celebrating the first part of his 39th birthday.

I have and will continue to spend hours just watching Nelson's tapes that have been lovingly restored and uploaded to youtube for FREE. If you want to know what NYC queer life was like in the late 80s, he's your man. You'll even see a lot of now famous personalities.

Gay Community News - a weekly news circulation in it's hayday, from 1976-1989 you can read week-by-week through the years and some of the most politically tumultuous times, what the community in Boston(and beyond) was saying WHEN the political shit was going down. I recommend starting your reading around late September 1987-Oct. 20th to cover going into The Second March on Washington for LEsbian and Gay rights which was a HUGE historical event in our history. I also really love reading the personal ads and job ads and little bits of Real Life happening in the prison letters.

Boston's Other Voice was an LGBTQ-themed radio magazine that ran from February 1981 to November 1989. These recordings of the show were rescued as the station was sold and the show cut due in part to the public affairs program requirement ending during the Reagan administration.

There are some incredibly valuable interviews in this archive including interviews with a gay couple who had been together since 1955 and multiple interviews with contributors to Gay Community News and Bay windows, amongst other LGBT publications.

And these are just the ones off the top of my head... and localized to Boston. I KNOW there are even more organizations with additional information in Chicago, SF, and NYC for sure. I haven't yet tried my hand at exploring southern archives.

I understand the despair, trust me, but I hope you can also find the delight in listening to these 'lost' mentors and reading, watching, and hearing from them now.

As a queer Gen Z, I constantly think about how there’s such a huge chunk of the queer community that’s simply… missing. So much of the queer community died during AIDS that almost an entire generation of us is simply not there anymore.

Those queer people were supposed to be our teachers, our mentors, maybe even our parents or grandparents. Those queer people were supposed to be there for us. They were supposed to be at pride events, welcoming all the young queers. They were supposed to be representation in our careers. Those people were supposed to be there to help us navigate life as queer people, and it’s devastating for both us and them that they never got to do it.

[bringbackgoth]

oh lawd, I forgot how different you start to smell when you're on T

[teaboot]

tranny freak :)

[bringbackgoth]

I literally didn't know about metoidioplasty until THIS YEAR, literally a few months ago.

There are MANY bottom surgery options and it's reductive to say things like this. ALSO - it's REALLY hard to find any visual or anecdotal info/testimony about phallos that aren't 0-1 years post-op.

I mean, I get it, it's a very private topic... but if you actually talk to someone 5+ years post phallo... you're going to get a wealth of new and affirming information.

The body can take a long time to heal after such a surgery... Put respect in your mouth when discussing phallo and the brave men who have gone through with it.

And also, yes, by the time you get phallo you might just be in the same age range as the fellas that have to start getting pills to keep an erection.

people be fucking normal abt ftm bottom surgery challenge.

[puppydolled]

posters seen in canberra, australia. may 25th 2023

[girlthingdecay]

ive seen a number of amab transmascs around allow me to state this runs into the exact some issue as afab transfems where you consider transmascs to be a third gender and not men and you should also similarly transform into a pillar of salt because of the curse im currently right now personally placing on you

[angel---eater]

i truly have no tolerance for this fandom shittin on random fans personal trans headcanons. someone saw themselves and their experience in this character, isnt that beautiful? why dont you mind your business and focus on your own fan stuff? wouldnt that make you happier? someones headcanon doesnt negate yours. what the fuck is wrong with yall. its playing make believe x2. its just a headcanon. real life trans folks are in active danger right now and some of yall are wasting all your energy abusing others over which pronoun set figments of someone elses imagination 'should' be using

[mars-ipan]

God I feel you on this. There are so many avenues for people to get sucked into bullshit infighting too.

I s2g every time I engage with trans content my for you feed starts serving me a ton of discourse about intercommunity transandrophobia or w/e and like... if people are being weird about trans men that's worth talking about sometimes, but I get the impression there are corners of the trans community that are doing nothing but scream at each other in some pointless transmasc vs transfem war. Meanwhile I'm sitting here on TERF island, transfem people right beside me, hoping our HRT and shaky legal rights don't get nuked in the next 5 years 💀

I feel like a general online discourse rule should be that if you're putting more energy into fighting your own community/policing language/etc than fighting people that materially affect our lives, something's gone wrong and you're at high risk of radicalisation into bigotry. Or might already be there.

ghhrgh LITERALLY….. like .

from what i’ve seen a lot of this transandrophobia debate came up in response to seeing trans women talk about transmisogyny. my theory is that a portion of tme folks saw that people have been discussing transmisogyny and felt that they were having their unique experiences erased. which, like, look . i get it. erasure is something i’ve experienced kinda my whole life. i understand that it feels Bad to have your struggles downplayed. i had that same worry at first. BUT. we GOTTA be able to examine how your own fears and anxieties and biases may be coloring your perceptions!!! bc yes being trans does not make you immune to transmisogyny!! we live in a transmisogynistic world implicit bias is Going To Happen.

like. transmisogyny is a real thing that happens and disproportionately affects transfems. transmisogyny is not something non-transfem people experience unless they are falsely perceived to be transfem. it is a uniquely transfeminine experience coming from the intersection of being trans and female (or female-adjacent). it is not just a unique kind of transphobia, but rather the intentional combination of transphobia and misogyny.

is this to say that transmascs don’t experience their own unique kind of oppression? no! but it’s not an intersectional oppression and it shouldn’t be treated as such. also, the name of “transandrophobia” just gives off. a really uncomfortable energy. you’re not being oppressed because you’re male. you’re being oppressed because you’re trans. i don’t feel like we need to give this type of transphobia a name because it is just transphobia. similar to how misogynoir is a word but we don’t have a word for the specific type of oppression black men face because that’s just racism. just because transphobia impacts you in a certain way doesn’t mean it’s a special type of transphobia, and really why are we playing oppression olympics in the first place? we’re ALL hurting. can we just like… help each other out? can we stop accusing transfems of like…. deliberately trying to overshadow transmasc issues or whatever? and for the love of god if we have to argue can we STOP misgendering and degendering each other mid-argument.

like. at the end of the day this is all trivial shit because In Real Life we’re being targeted by horribly cruel legislation and social movements. it’s like we’re in a burning house and i’m watching my brother and sister argue over black mold. like yes that’s a problem but i think !!!! we should focus on putting out the fire !!!! like i live in texas. lawmakers have been trying to pass anti-trans bills here for ages, and a couple of them have gone through! i remember being sat down in gsa in my freshman year of high school and having the club sponsors tell us that if a bill that was up for ratification mandating that teachers out their students to their parents was passed that they would do everything in their power to keep us safe. i have to be careful about how i dress when i go to certain places. and i’m not even someone who’s transitioning medically— lord knows what kind of bullshit hurdles people on hrt have to go through to get it. and we’re arguing over what we want to call our oppression? we’re all facing transphobia at the end of the day can we PLEASE fix that instead of dividing ourselves into little easy-to-eliminate factions please and thank you

[protective-potato]

Getting good gender vibes from my tits jiggling as i brush my teeth ngl

[dreamyintersexouppy]

“all these INSUFFERABLE TRANNIES words are so poorly defined, i, the clever nonbinary intersex person, know so much better and i say the words are defined like this and that definition is bad” hey i wanna bash my head against a wall, our language accounts for nonbinary people, you just ignored that fact. our language includes intersex people, you are ignorant to how it does. you are confused about wether or not you’re tma or tme? here’s two simple questions, did society assign you male, either at birth or later in life? and are you not in fact male and perhaps closer to being a woman or even nonbinary? if you answered no to either congratulations you’re fucking tme, it’s literally so fucking simple. and your “exempt” status only means “transmisogyny never hurts me ever” if you willfully ignore our words. the exempt is meaning you are exempt as a TARGET of transmisogyny, not it’s effects. as an intersection of systems of oppressions it will hurt people, fucking duh, but we know the target and it’s not ill defined, attempting to claim as such is attempting to redefine transfeminine people out of existence and i have to patience for you