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toxic stew is a great ship name but consider
suspicious stew
bc minecraft reference
(srry if this is rude)
No you're fine I love this lmao
This is making me have so many thoughts and I can't decide so I'll leave it to a poll
Should suspicious stew be EVERYONE x Steve or should that be toxic stew?
Whichever one wins for EVERYONE x Steve I'm using the other for Withy x Endy x Steve
#glacier rambles#glacier answers#randomnerd737#icy asks#wistim#what if steve talked in minecraft#pstl#press start to laugh#toxic stew#suspicious stew
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I’ve mentioned on my priv twt that Zoro calls Sanji “廚子” (chu zi) in the Chinese translation and that somehow sounds… romantic? “Cook” or コック in English/Japanese sounds like just your average nickname among dudebros but 廚子 sounds like something you’d call your wife (if you’re some grumpy old man). Maybe it’s coz Chinese people have a habit of calling their spouses insulting nicknames (see: 臭婆娘、老婆子 which are just variations of “old hag”😭), so we can’t help but interpret zosan as some boomer “ol’ ball and chain” couple
#it’s always funny seeing westerners view sanji’s attitute towards zoro or men in general as toxic bc he’s verbally mean#but he’s the epitome of a Chinese parent who gives you food while insulting you#him and zoro are exactly how the average old Chinese couple act#maybe that’s why zosan is so popular in China/east Asia#zosan#ramblings#stew watches op
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killer (2025). directed by me 😏
+ other art of jonah and hyeon-u under the cut



#oc#artists on tumblr#original character#art#digital art#mlm#toxic yaoi#i kid but QLSJKD not too far off... they've been stewing in my head for 3 years now#hyeon-u is giving NOTHING#i actually did enjoy making that poster thingy#SoundCloud
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#capybara#capybaras#capybaras at work#capybarasatwork#comic#comics#fml#funny#lol#office life#work life#corporate life#corporate hell#corporate humour#corporate humor#potatoes#mash em boil em stick em in a stew#toxic work culture#toxic work environment#toxic workplace#work hell#office hell#work memes#work mood#office memes#office mood#work humor#work humour#office humour#office humor
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twitter has poisoned this fandom i fear ... we used to be a community..
#rambling in the tags#i know many people here are twitter refugees#many of whom never experienced spnblr in its true prime#save us 2014 tumblr save us#there is so much spn fandom infighting now i cant#ppl used to be annoying and hateful way back when too but omg.... we used to be a community#like now its samgirls dont like deangirls (which??? are we not on the same side here???)#its deans a horrible evil person this well sams a toxic person that and destihellers and wincesties cant just get along#or just enjoy each others content#like i HATE THAT !! i hate the dean hate from samgirls i always despised the sam hate back in the day from mainly destiel shippers#(which ive seen WAY LESS sam hate since ive come back recently its mostly DEAN hate whether its wincest or destiel shippers)#and people werent calling each other disgusting freaks for shipping one thing or another#destihelllers have always been annoygin that much i will say but seriouslu#we used to be a FAMILY#now its whos character/ship the most valid/morally “correct” wars#i love that a lot of thoughts and opinions and ships and things have matured so much since 2014#truly its beautiful how much more detailed and nuanced the thoughts and ideas and opinions on the show are now that weve had like 10 years#to think and stew over this stuff#but theres just so much like. fighting and arguing#the spn empire has fallen in on itself#shouldnt be surprising#which im not really surprised just sad and idealistic#nostalgic for the days when we all loved all the characters and i didnt have to see “takes”#thanks a lot twitter.com#spn#ham.txt
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If Adora and Catra both did crap to hurt each other then why do I never see comics abt Adora feeling like crap and feeling bad for hurting Catra
#salt salt salt#old draft post that i had stewing in here#even fandom knows. they KNOW. that c//a is not an equal relatioship.#equal c//a would have these two ALWAYS arguing back and forth with each other about things from the past. possibly working them out togethe#equal c//a FANON would naturally reflect this following that same logic#so why is it when we see the premises of “Adora has to apologize to Catra now” its the same tired old...#“Im sorry i left you in the Horde”#and nothing else.#“im sorry that your feelings were hurt and im sorry that you had no influence over me at that time... Im sorry that you're STILL mad at me”#she's not apologizing over something that she is genuinely sorry about#she's apologizing in these fanon works as a means to placate catra (and fans' warped reality of what this relationship actually is)#it's a shitty vaguely disguised way to “equalize” c//a and make it so that they BOTH look like awful people#when obviously this is not the case because the narrative itself doesn't think Adora is wrong for leaving the Horde!#even if these two were “equally bad” to each other. why ship them then. really. seriously. i get the rhetoric of “ooh toxic spicy ship” but#if they're really SO “toxic and spicy” where is the part where they're BOTH toxic? BOTH bad for each other?#it's not a toxic relationship if ONE side is toxic. thats called an abusive relationship. anyway. im done now. good night.#whoops! tag rant
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S&S Dipplins
Hi I've been going insane over your fic for the last week (possibly longer I'm terrible at keeping track of time) and I just had a random thought from the last chapter;
Was briar even there?? Or was she just a hallucination?? Bc kieran says 'but he was alone in this hallway since the start' and that's getting my silly little theory brain going that maaaybe she wasn't even there and pecharunt just made him think she was
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#im so sorry dear reader I am so happy you support and enjoy my work I just cannot answer this directly without spoiling LOOOOOL#so I hope you like to stew with things#all in due time <333#my fics#dipplinshipping#kieran x juliana pokemon#kieran pokemon#juliana pokemon#juliana x kieran pokemon#kieran x juliana#juliana x kieran#briar pokemon#toxic chain pokemon#kieran toxic chain
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The defense/reason Utena is lesbian because of her having heavy trauma related with various men is a biphobic statement and completely ignores that bi women can and do face abuse from various men in their lives as well but we aren't ready to talk bout that yet I think!
#candyredtext#been stewing on this forever but last night w girls talking bout utena discourse#n how like no one seems 2 fucking understand the show and its characters n themes#abysmal#anyway anthy n utena are the bi/lesbian couple for the toxic yuri square.#right along with bubblegum/marceline#anyway tho let me also say cus ik the reading on this site is piss poor#but u can hc utena as a lesbian thats fine#but trying to say she is canonically / heavily coded to be lesbian due to her trauma around men is#ignoring the bi women who also have trauma with men as well#like hell im a bi woman with trauma related to men - some similar to Utena.#my two bi friends with similar issues also v much see themselves in Utena and her experiences#utena can be lesbian. she could be bi. but her trauma w men doesn't define one or the other solidly#does that make sense? i hope so.#anyway
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anyway i need to hang out with my brother again he is the one person who i am pretty sure knows literally everything about me so he's the only person i trust that i can absolutely not disappoint. nothing i can do could be worse than the sum of everything i've been doing to that poor man (and him to me) the past 19 years
#especially now that im back into literally the only interest we actually share on a deep enough level to enjoy it together LOL#i mean we were also both into hannibal but thats just not an enjoyable show to watch together its too much effort#but wow that time we read das boot slash fanfic on the bus together that was awesome#and the time we wrote fanfic together lol LITERALLY WHY DID WE STOP#he has only gotten cooler and more comfortable with his gayness since then we need to write fanfic again ‼️#anyway i feel sorry for every person in my life but i dont think anyone ill ever know could ever have as close a relationship to me as him#were platonic soulmates lol but like not in the spiritual sense bc its pretty obvious that its not some supernatural bond#its juuuust shared trauma haha and the fact that our trauma is so complex and layered that only we will ever truly understand each other#there has been a really rough patch where we practically did not talk for 4... 5? whole years im serious. maybe on the weekends sometimes#while we were stewing in our own shit. but now were inseperable i think it actually pisses off the rest of our family because every time#theres some event where we meet again (we live like 5 hours apart) we only hang around for like an hour before we get in his car#and drive somewhere and hang out there for the rest of the day and night and only return at like 3am drunk#in a sense i guess were catching up on all the missed time#to be honest we both had some horrible shit going on in our heads me with the transgenderism and toxic relationship#him with his anger issues and (what he calls) psychopathy. like ill say this much he was not a good person as a child he was a devil#he was quite literally what some describe as born evil like u know those satans spawns kids that cut off babys fingers and dissect rabbits#all that yk. and i was his first and most frequent victim due to availability lol and my parents did not know any of it and if they did#they ignored it. so yeah u can imagine the relationship was a little strained and for a long time i lived in fear of him#also due to all the death threats and attempts on my life HAHA its kinda funny because i can say all this all detached now#but i think to anyone else this sounds mad as hell. like im not talking roughhousing or being mad at each other#he was always scarily calm and hyperintelligent he was actually diagnosed with some form of like super high intelligence that#makes kids capable of being really manipulative and thats what he used at every turn. everything was always calculated that was scary#if he was nice to me i would question if he was trying to lure me somewhere to hurt me yk?#anyway. sometimes those old thoughts come back when were hanging out alone but mostly i know hes changed and worked on himself#sorry oversharing oh wow
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I am a toxic stew shopper all the way.
Stevehero is really good too though
#glacier rambles#endy x withy x steve#pstl#press start to laugh#wistim#what if steve talked in minecraft#my multishipper heart loves the dynamics between everyone#i think the only ones i would personally not like are steve x alex and endy x jebs#but no judgement if you do like them /gen#toxic stew#<- endy x withy x steve ship name
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The Online Fandom 7 Deadly Sins
sloth: complaining about how no one writes the tropes or pairings you like and bashing what's already out there, while refusing to create anything you desire yourself
greed: zine and other finance-related scandals with zero remorse for those negatively affected
gluttony: spending rent money on merch, experiencing buyer's remorse, then repeating the same process next month
wrath: anon hate over literally everything under the sun, even harassing official writers and threatening them if they don't make your ship canon
pride: devaluing other's characterizations and ships to praise yours as better, whether through a canon perspective or a moral perspective, when neither matter in the long run when it comes to your own enjoyment
envy: trash talking others' fandom creations or saying you won't bother creating anything because it'll never be as good as them
lust: fighting over who tops or bottoms because of your personal preferences when one, both, or neither could happen, especially when most of these characters never even kiss canonically nor have most people fighting done any of these things irl themselves
#parker says things#i'm not exempt I've definitely done a few of the things listed#especially pride and envy god those really go hand in hand and it's sad#but seriously...guys does any of this matter in the long run#just have fun#if someone is having fun in a way that clashes with your own type of enjoyment just hit da bricks!#that guy's got horns! well not gonna ruin my day!#live like Yusuke guys#i've been afk because I'm dealing with some intense depression but fandom has actively hurt more than helped me#and I know plenty of ppl myself included think discussion of meta is enjoyable but I think things reach a point where it's only stewing#the inherent focus on adhering to a singular strict perspective is toxic to ourselves in the long run#have fun! be self indulgent#almost everything posted is gonna be ooc to some people even if it's 100 percent accurate to others#and just in general idk I think we should focus on fandom as a sense of fun instead of a marketing ploy#most of us are not here to make fanart or writing a career#I'm not really a community person and I've learned that the hard way over a decade and more#but i just hope people will find what sparks joy and enjoy themselves again#I don't think I'll be active in fandoms much anymore as I focus more on my personal life and recover from some things#but I wish everyone much love and hope for the best for people#even if we've had some bad interactions I do not wish ill upon anyone#i got off topic but these tags are just me saying I'll stick to lurking publicly and replying to my DMs and writing in private#will still post some things to my AO3!! maybe#anyways tag yourself I'm a recovering glutton/envy
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your blog confuses me somewhat but i support it.
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#ooc: the blog stemmed from satirizing disinformation and behaviors that are normalized but really shouldnt be#such as mislabeling mild inconveniences as trauma. oversharing trauma. sharing intimate details about your system.#ignoring or twisting diagnostic features of CDDs#it became a bit more laughing at syscourse on both sides#endos pro endos and pro self dx focusing so much on validation that they bastardize what little is known about DID#anti endos twisting aspects of diagnostics and parroting people who think DID is real to invalidate others who may actually have a CDD#the internet and systemhood are not a good mix in my opinion. people are coming to these communities and never learning about diagnostics#never learning to use critical thinking or to ask questions#never learning about comorbidity and differentials that make “real DID” look different than what DID alone is#I'm here having laughs about every side being toxic and problematic because if i dont i will isolate and stew in hatred#and i have much love and appreciation that ppl on both sides of syscourse are getting a kick out of the extremes i make here#idk how much longer I'll keep up with doing this blog because I've lost respect for some of the anti endos i respected and agreed with#and its made me not eager to keep engaging with ANY part of sysblr#its fun but its also a reminder how lonely it actually feels to have a dissociative disorder and how anyone can be bullshitting#because this is the internet home of disinformation#i didnt mean to ramble so much. i hope you enjoy my time here friend#will fix the one tag when im on PC but#*parrot people who think DID ISN'T real
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I only come on tumblr when I'm at the very end of my rope and barely hanging on by a quickly disintegrating thread and I don't know what that tells you about me
#boygenius#lah posting#I took the drugs again#I'm worse but better#I will not stagnate#i have therapy tomorrow#it's gonna be another one of those times when I spend the whole time crying#I don't have anyone anymore that i can rely on to hold space for me when I cry#i can hold space for my own emotions now thank you very much#i'm extremely proud of that fact because six months ago that hill felt absolutely insurmountable#but it really helps when there's occasionally someone else to help with that#sorrow shared is half the sorrow and joy shared is double joy#and all that#but i'm really scared for how this is going to end#i'm in really fucking deep at this point#and it's only getting deeper#i don't want to lose my person or the farm or our plans for the future#but it can't go on like this#no matter what i do#and i can't make him realise and i can't do it for him#but i'm afraid that instead of facing the music and turning shit around he's going to choose a much worse way of dealing with things#If this ends i don't think i could ever date again#i know that's dramatic but i'm being very serious about this#i keep thinking i'm dating someone completely different each time but then every time without fail after a year or two#they get into a deep funk and can't seem to do anything but stew and complain and be mean and ruin any chance of being in a good mood#every single time to the point where i wonder if that's just what happens to people who date me#and i can't stand it because while i'm far from toxic positivity i take pride in choosing to not behave like that when things dont go my wa#but i can't risk letting this keep happening again. I genuinely think i can now be happier loving myself than i'd ever be trusting romance.#I've come so far in my healing and I can't keep letting people derail me who have no idea how to self-regulate or have self-compassion#I'm getting sick again. I can feel it happening in my body
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See I think the problem with stuff like Twilight, 50 Shades, The Notebook, etc is that I would be so much more in favor of these toxic, codependent relationships if both parties put equal effort into being horrible people. They’re all one-sided, you have one person who absolutely sucks as a person and then you have a long-suffering saint enduring the other’s abuse.
Heathcliff and Catherine are so perfect as a couple because they are both terrible people. Their romance is so sexy and compelling because they both suck. I so badly wanted them to be together and ruin each other’s lives not out of spite for them but because it just would have been such a narratively satisfying trainwreck. Those two hugged and kissed while ripping each other’s hair out and squeezing tight enough to leave bruises, it was awesome.
We need more romance like that. No one is doing it like them.
#oh yeah i saw the notebook and i hated it#that man did everything for her what did she do?#she did fuckall.#meanwhile heath and cathy BOTH did fuckall#i can't even complain that cathy married edgar instead cause like#soon as heath heard her say she would he just dipped? didn't even TRY to convince her otherwise?#they BOTH married someone else just to use and abuse them#they BOTH refused to confront their own feelings and just stewed in resentment#so they BOTH effectively made each other miserable and forced others to be collateral damage to that#i'm proud of them. we love a couple who puts in equal work into a toxic relationship!
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Her love, her jealousy, the never-dying pain always preying on her heart-strings . . . , her keen sense of the humiliation which had come home to her, were all rising fiercely, bubbling up with fiery heat.
Ellen Wood, from East Lynne
#boiling point#resentment#toxic emotions#jealousy#heartsick#love sick#perpetual torment#suffering#emotions#ready to explode#quotes#lit#words#excerpts#quote#literature#classics#stewing#ellen wood#east lynne
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I do genuinely wonder how much of this is related to students not actually reading (or not finishing) books that were assigned in school, too. Like, if you only read the first five chapters of Gatsby and then get behind on your reading because you have a history project or the big game or an after school job or you just don't want to read, yeah, the major themes of the book are going to fall really flat to you. Even if you learn what the ending is, not experiencing the build up to it and seeing how unhappy all those characters are really dampens its impact. As a former English teacher teaching literature in schools often feels like a damned-if-you-do damned-if-you-don't situation, because you literally don't have enough school hours to read most books out loud in class together (which I think is necessary for many students) but in assigning reading for homework (which you need to do in order to not, as a colleague of mine used to do, spend from November to April the same book until every child loathed it with the entirity of their souls) you're going to lose any kid who struggles with reading on their own (or who struggles with comprehension when reading without check-ins/discussion.)
I don't know what the solution is (only read short novels? Do more early reading intervention with all children so by the time they get to high school they actually know how to not just decode but fully understand the text the read? Make English class longer??-- I quit teaching largely because of the institutional refusal to ever make changes that benefit children, don't ask me) but, as with many things, it's hard not to place some of the blame on the continued defunding of education and all its knock-on effects.

#to say nothing of the fact that you don't actually need to know how to teach reading to be licensed to teach English in the higher grades#or that there's a higher-than-in-other-subjects tendency for teachers in english lit to be people who love their subject matter but not kid#which i attribute to the lack of 'english lit' jobs that aren't teaching-adjacent#so all of this adds up to a toxic stew of like. Not enough time to read! Students can't read well and you never learned how to help!#Your colleagues are of no help because they think the literature is ~magic~ and should speak for itself! Your district has no money!#Half the books you have are a moth-eaten 1979 edition! Kids are wildly over-taxed and overburdened and overscheduled!#Your district decreed 'no controversial books' and is making you hand white-out every instance of the n-word in To Kill A Mockingbird!#it's. It's bad
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