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anyone else have multiple traumatic memories associated specifically with holidays/family vacations? because that is a topic I never see discussed in all the So You Had A Shitty Childhood, Now What? self-help books i've been reading. but for me, it was a significant thing. and the more i think about it the more it seems like this would be an (unfortunately) common experience. would be grateful to hear if this matches other peoples' experiences...
#not a shitpost#serious post#ask to tag#tw trauma#cptsd#c-ptsd#and if so we should TALK about it#because it means there are a whole group of survivors out there whose mental health regularly worsens during holidays#like i know i am most certainly not the only person who feels an undefined Dread hanging over christmas/my birthday/july 4 etc#bc too many shitty things happened during those times and now my brain is hypervigilant bc traditionally these are the Danger Times#and this seems like it would be particularly common for survivors of abusive/dysfunctional households (aka most people with c-ptsd)#because holidays/vacations typically mean 1) the whole family is together/being forced to interact#2) and undergoing external stressors e.g. travel/relatives aka 'outsiders' visiting/routines & coping mechanisms being interrupted etc#3) there is social pressure for this to be a Fun Family Bonding Experience which only highlights the cracks in the foundation#and exposes the common Everything Is Fine/We Are A Happy Family lie#4) the cognitive dissonance of feeling tired/anxious/stressed/afraid during a time when you are 'supposed' to be Making Good Memories#and then everyone is angry/tired/anxious/triggered and things boil over and something or someone goes Very Wrong#weird that i'm posting this in october when halloween is...sort of the ONLY holiday i have only good and happy feelings towards#i got lucky there#also i have positive feelings towards Labor Day but that's for socialist reasons
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lavendarneverlands · 4 months ago
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put 5 songs you listen to, post it, then send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers <333
Thank you so much lovely🫶🫶🫶
Oh goodness this is a hard question because I like way too many songs😂 though I am a huge Swiftie & since I’ve on my TOG binge have been listening to a lot of fan playlists so let’s let my history decide🤣 these have been in a heavy rotation:
“Who’s Afraid of Little Old Me?” by Taylor Swift
“Red Wine Supernova” by Chappell Roan
“Please Please Please” by Sabrina Carpenter
“Blonde” by Maisie Peters
“Can’t Catch Me Now” by Olivia Rodrigo
@impossibelle @iwantavaldezinator @idfendyr @shadowhunters77 @archerons-elain @cheap-spirits @maevecrom @endlessdaydream @somethingsomewhereanywhere @korepio
p.s. as always, no pressure tags :-) 💕
(Heads up for some tags: this is my main account, the side-blog ur probably used to seeing (as I’m more active) is @acourtofquestions I have a terrible habit of mixing up pages/conversations; so if ur going “who tagged me?” it’s just me lol)
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hamletthedane · 1 year ago
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yokyoaaa · 1 year ago
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Dear kirby fandom, today I bring you
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Have fun ‼️
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metashard · 3 months ago
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Guess who I collected yesterday
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sleepymoonlady · 2 days ago
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Roevember Day 12: Free Day: Family
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Some people are unfortunate enough to not have a loving family. Despite all of the hardship in their life, this, at least, has never been an issue for Rose.
Bonus close-ups under the cut :)
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alexxcatboy · 7 months ago
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hai.... pls draw Norm Allen bein gay pls pls
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idk what ur wantin from me but i would've drawn him shirtless tits out slicked up in oil smoochin up on me(n) if this was twitter dot com
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amethyst-halo · 4 months ago
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gripping my thighs i need people to be normal about young brozone for five minutes.
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paperbackfable · 4 months ago
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Erend: they don't Id me at the liquor store anymore because they see the light has left my eyes
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Erend: We're playing Scrabble. It's a nightmare.
Alva: Scrabble? Scrabble's great.
Erend: Not when you're playing with Zo, it's not. They put words like "ephemeral" and I put "dog".
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Varl: You're ignoring all your problems.
Aloy: I know.
Varl: You also know it's an unhealthy coping mechanism?
Aloy: I'm ignoring that fact as well.
Varl:
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Zo: In your opinion, what's the height of stupidity?
Aloy: turning to Sylens How tall are you?
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Aloy: You lying, cheating, piece of shit!
Sylens: Oh yeah? You're the idiot who thinks you can get away with everything you do. WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD.
Aloy: I'm leaving you, and I'm TAKING BETA WITH ME!
Varl, picking up the strike board: I think we're gonna stop playing now.
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Aloy: Want do you want to be for "Halloween"?
Beta: Loved.
Aloy: Don't do this.
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Sylens: I will not stand to be disrespected like this!
Aloy: Then sit.
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Alva: Imagine if someone handed you a box full of all the things you lost throughout your life...
Zo: It would be nice to have my sense of purpose back.
Aloy: Oh wow, my childhood innocence! Thank you for finding this.
Beta: My will to live! I haven't seen this in years.
Erend: I knew I lost that potential somewhere.
Varl: Mental stability, my old friend!
Alva: Ancestors, could you guys lighten up a little?
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Varl: What do you think Kotallo will do for a distraction?
Aloy: Probably, like, whistle or throw a rock. That's what I would do.
Building explodes and several car alarms go off
Aloy: ...or they could do that.
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OK THAT'S ENOUGH I SHOULD PROABLY STOP NOW BYE
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wohthatwas · 3 months ago
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Stares blankly @ season 4, Well thats fake! anytways welcome to I draw five but headcannons I built up over many years. hes a menace to his siblings.
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daffi-990 · 10 months ago
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Tease Tidbit Tuesday
Tagged by @disasterbuckdiaz. Thank you lovely 😘 xx
Coming at you with more from when your heart releases, you won’t fall to pieces aka the Eddie breakdown fic (from Buck’s POV). I’m having a wonderful time writing this fic .. especially the Taylor/Buck breakup which I wasn’t expecting to dive into so much, but the story wanted to take me there so I followed.
Prev snippet here
“I’m sorry.”
He doesn’t know what else to say, doesn’t know that there is anything else to say. He is sorry. Not for loving Eddie, he’ll never be sorry for that, but he is sorry he stayed even after figuring out his feelings. It wasn’t fair to Taylor, or to himself.
Taylor wipes at her eyes as she swallows thickly. “Me too.”
Buck doesn’t know what she’s apologising for. Maybe for also staying when she figured out Buck would never, could never, love her, not fully. Not when his heart beats to the rhythm of Eddie Eddie Eddie.
“You should go. Best not keep your family waiting.”
He doesn’t know if she meant it as one last dig, a finger in the bullet wound she’d left earlier, but all it comes across as is resigned, defeated. She knows when Eddie calls, Buck will come running, that not even 30 ft of mud will keep him from trying to get to him. And she knows why.
There’s nothing else he can say to her, thinks that even if there were, she probably doesn’t want to hear it right now. Maybe when their wounds aren’t so fresh, when they’ve had a chance to hide away and lick them clean, they can try and talk.
No pressure tagging: @hippolotamus @thewolvesof1998 @jamespearce9-1-1 @watchyourbuck @puppyboybuckley @spotsandsocks @monsterrae1 @lover-of-mine @wikiangela @wildlife4life @weewootruck @exhuastedpigeon @elvensorceress @eddiebabygirldiaz @evanbegins @rainbow-nerdss @rewritetheending @the-likesofus @theotherbuckley @try-set-me-on-fire @princessfbi @athenagranted @sibylsleaves @shitouttabuck @shortsighted-owl @devirnis @fortheloveofbuddie @fiona-fififi @fcntasmas @glorious-spoon @giddyupbuck @honestlydarkprincess @housewifebuck @hoodie-buck @homerforsure @jeeyuns @jesuisici33 @ladydorian05 @loserdiaz @captain-hen @clusterbuck @bekkachaos @nmcggg @steadfastsaturnsrings @malewifediaz @spagheddiediaz @tizniz @mellaithwen @missmagooglie and anyone else who wants to share ☺️
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rinisdrawing · 2 years ago
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freddy fazbear’s mega pizzaplex: ultimate speedrun challenge
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ikishima · 7 months ago
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My #1 advice for people moving out is to NOT buy nonstick cookware... not only is the lifespan of nonstick a MAXIMUM of 7 years (usually more like 2-5 years) but teflon, aka Polytetrafluoroethylene-- the plastic coating that makes the cookware nonstick, infuses microplastics into your food.
New cookware sets can cost hundreds of dollars so my advice is to look for 100% stainless steel cookware in thrift stores. Safer, cheaper, & instead of needing to replace every 2-7 years they can potentially last you the entire rest of your life AND they won't start shedding plastic into your food
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faleach · 8 months ago
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been reading jerry shirleys book and this is what ive taken away from it so far
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emiplayzmc · 3 months ago
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Uhhhhhhh have a meme I spent *checks IbisPaint time* nearly 13 hours on that's basically what my Seek the Truth / Delay the Inevitable AU is (aka my main four Addis)
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Also second and third versions for vaguely lore-dropping on Broadcast and Target :)
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Not too happy with Target but it's FINEEEE
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stellawolfearts · 1 year ago
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take an oc wip. cause. yeah.....
:3
Orpheus-He/Him (the one with purple horns)
Soleil-She/her (curly red hair)
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