#this is kind of a personal vent

[lazylittledragon]

so uhhhhhhhh. not to be cryptic and bitchy on main but congratulations to everyone in my messages for like 5 months on being right i guess

[ataudcanela]

[thedevilundercover]

I think Tim would be a little uncomfortable talking about himself to other people and that pisses people off for some reason.

People throw around words like unaffectionate and robotic at him but he really loves them. He just can’t tell them or behave “affectionately”

Someone in the family probably has had a fight with him or something (bc when the fuck are they not fighting) and they yell at him for not caring about anyone and he just like breaks down

He wants to yell at them that he loves everyone so fucking much that it hurts and he’d given up so much for the rest of them, put up with so much shit, but when he opens his mouth, the right words never come out and he just fucks everything up when it comes to emotions so he just… doesn’t talk about it.

A large part of being toxically independent/being surrounded by an environment that romanticises being really independent from a young age, sometimes, is compartmentalising your trauma and therefore your emotions.

Also, he gives off “ableist parents never let me get a diagnosis so I’m always struggling but I’ve always been held up to neurotypical standards” vibes

[cgspart]

just a little vent art of how I've been feeling but make it Viktor instead

[whathethriller]

So I've been a little busy working on this little comic for two weeks now. it's currently a wip right now, but it's going along smoothly. Anyways, this kind of a "personal project?" Not sure how I would word it, but it's personal to me, to say the least.

And what better way to express my personal issues is by using my favorite/comfort character. Hehehe...

(By the way, it will have captions)

[lelarmoyante]

not again. for the love of FUCK dont put me through unrequited love again.

[phoenixyfriend]

I understand that American versions of world cuisines are valid artforms and cultures in their own right. I truly do. There is nothing about immigrant culture cuisines that make them less worthy of respect than the original.

That said, if we could please stop treating avocado as a default ingredient in sushi, I would be so grateful. It can be there! In some dishes! Just not almost all of them! It shouldn't be a common as the rice itself.

Please, I'm begging the Japanese restaurants of the United States to be a bit more discerning with how many dishes get avocado. I'm drowning here.

[candyredbloodshed]

[obsob]

hi im curious

i hve an insane like to reblog ratio on a lot of my art and i just can never get my head around it . girls did u know if u see smth u like u can reblog and tag it and then you can find it easily forever

[still-a-morosexual-help]

Working an actual corporate job (ew) for over half a year now has made me realise there are 3 types of '42 Year Old Man'

• 42 year old man who hates everything about you, from your mere presence to everything you represent, from the way you talk to the way you dress to the exact shape of your earlobes and makes sure to let you know all this in excruciating detail under the guise of "constructive criticism"

• 42 year old man who sees you as the equivalent of his child. Can be weirdly endearing and sweet and all the nice things but also extremely frustrating when you need him to 'please get this done, we have a deadline that we won't be able to meet if you don't finish your part of it' and all he sees is a toddler squawking at him

• 42 year old man who has somehow elevated you to the position of some higher being so when you do or say or feel anything entirely normal that normal human beings do or say or feel like anxiety or memory issues or uncomfortableness at being explicitly sexualized like you're an unfeeling fictional character he will argue that 'no actually you do not feel these things' because that breaks his image of you as the manic pixie dream girl of well his dreams

Do all men go temporarily insane at this age or am i just really unlucky

[mewguca]

relatable sibling comic

what do i tag this with its literally just a thing that happened to me and my sibling represented by looks to the moon and five pebbles again. also i hate having heart problems. the doodles look pretty nice though at least yay ❤️

[mcsiggy]

Stuff I did when I was in middle school around the mid 2000's.

[casuallyobssessed]

Y'all have got to start interacting with people's content if you want to see more of it.

I'm not saying this because I'm not grateful for those who do (every single one of you is so appreciated), but I'm saying it because I'm witnessing wonderful creators losing the will to make their art and writing.

Of course, creating should be about making things for yourself, but it's always encouraging to have a reblog, kudos, like, or comment. Our community is in a lull right now, and it's so important that if you enjoy something, TELL the creator!

Be excellent to each other 🫶🏻

[queenlucythevaliant]

Just to clarify my thoughts (since I've had a number of people ask me about it) re: Job and cursing God. There's a big difference between cursing God as used in Scripture and how we generally would think of cursing at God today.

Cursing someone, in the Bible, has a lot of depth to it. It's not just saying "screw you " in anger, it's got a sense of forsakenness to it. It's the opposite of a blessing, a removal of blessing. If the blessing is presence, your face shining on the person you're blessing, then a curse is absence. In some translations, Job's wife tells him to "renounce God and die," which I honestly think makes a lot more sense to modern ears.

Job says a lot of unpleasant things to and about God in his anger and grief. So do the Psalmists. A number of the Prophets. So can we. God can take it if we come to him with honest expressions of our emotion, including those not-so-nice ones directed at him. I don't think there's anything wrong with getting mad at God and saying, "How dare you, you bastard" when you suffer unjustly. You can say much worse, I think, without sinning, though I don't feel particularly inclined to give examples. But as long as it's an honest expression of your heart, I think you're doing exactly what prayer is for. You're presenting him your heart with an open hand. He can use that. Opposite of love is not hate but indifference, etc.

Job doesn't renounce God. Neither should we. But I think when you're truly suffering, you're gonna have those feelings toward God either way. He'd rather you address them with him directly than try to avoid them. Cursing at God in the modern sense is actually a great way to keep the relationship strong and not end up cursing/renouncing him in the Biblical sense.

[bitepronecreature]

I think part of my problem with relationships is that I cannot for the life of me differentiate my emotions between them. Platonic and romantic partners relationships to me get the same depth of intimacy and if it can't then I have pretty low desire to interact with them, or lose interest entirely.

[smiggles]

I dont know if this makes sense but

Im an artist who creates art for other artists

And when I see non artists speak about art it gives me pure rage

Because they don't understand it on the level that an artist would. Most the time non artists consume art

They don't see it the way a creator does

Turning ppls work into memes without their consent

Making rude comments

Using it for their dnd shit

Et cetera

Lame!!