#this is also for aros

[aizawas-upper-left-wisdom-tooth]

Hey guys, I don't know which one of us(if any) needs to hear this, but:

UNDERSTAND THAT PEOPLE WHO AREN'T ASEXUAL REQUIRE SEX!(Obviously, w/exceptions, but that's besides the point)

I just heard a reddit story where the wife found out she couldn't have kids, so she cut off all sex from the marriage. EVEN AFTER THE HUSBAND TRIED TO TALK TO HER AND SEEK COUNSELING/COMPROMISE!

THEN SHE GOT MAD AT HIM WHEN HE FOLLOWED HER "ADVICE" TO "GET IT" ELSEWHERE!

Just as much as our Asexuality matters, others Sexuality ALSO MATTERS!

For anyone who is looking into relationships, please understand that you might need to reach a compromise with your partner(s). This goes for everything, not just bedroom activities, but for this post I'm focusing on the bedroom!

"But they're perfect for me besides this-" Okay. So? Suddenly their opinions/feelings on sex doesn't matter?

Relationships of all kinds take compromise and communication! And sometimes, no matter how badly you want it to be otherwise.... Sometimes you're not a good fit.

TALK to each other! LISTEN to each other! And remember to know where, not only your boundaries are, but theirs also.

[sadiewayne]

*screams*

HAPPY FUCKING PRIDE

ASEXUAL AND AROMANTIC PEOPLE EXIST AND ARE PART OF THE COMMUNITY

NOW GO BE MENACES TO SOCIETY

[my-chemical-ratz]

HAPPY ACE WEEK FUCKERS

[the-nefarious-vampire]

as an aroace, im particularly dangerous, because i wont fuck or marry. i only know how to kill.

[maple-and-pie]

Pride Eeveelutions!

Edit: now as stickers!

[notherpuppet]

Sloppy comic based on me and my friends conversation on my bday last week 😝🥳 this is pretty much verbatim hahaha

[stiffyck]

Good luck during pride month to all the aroaces who are gonna be blasted with "love is love" everywhere

Edit:

This post includes aplatonic people, loveless aros and any other people who fall anywhere on the aro and ace spectrum.

Stop saying "but theres platonic love and familial love-"

[amalgamezz]

ALT

[pigswithwings]

If you don't feel interested in romance, don't often have crushes, or dislike the idea of romance in general, I have news for you: Rare Sierra Nevada Red Fox Spotted In Southern Sierra Area For First Time In Nearly A Century

[infiniteorangethethird]

sure "romantic" isn't the only type of love but also "love" isn't the only type of positive feeling. So maybe stop insisting everyone needs love to be happy and accept that loveless ppl exist? Pretty please?

[aromantic-diaries]

"this character is autistic coded so headcanoning them as aro/ace is wrong because you're reinforcing the idea that autistic people are incapable of having romantic or sexual relationships" DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY ASPEC PEOPLE ARE ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM

[jupiter-nwn]

yeag

[shmaroace]

good queer representation does not require romance

[ale-arro]

been going a little bit insane about this sentence from Ace by Angela Chen for the past week

[pepsicandle]

yes asexuals can fuck but we need to not forget that allos can possibly not fuck ? entirely too many times I hear people saying "lol you're probably ace" to people that are literally just celibate . like guys . please . stop acting like the asexual = no sex i thought we were far past that guys

theres so many reasons to be celibate from religious to health (both physical and mental) and all the way to just not wanting to and it can very much have nothing to do with attraction

(not to mention it feels weird to see as a celibate aroallo but that's a separate topic)

[maple-and-pie]

Oops! All Eons