#this is a very queer wedding
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okay now please doodle Charles and Edwin’s wedding. Also love your art it’s so cute and loveable in a way
Sherwani for Charles and morning dress for Edwin, yay
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And you get a little headcanon/concept
At some point during their friendship, way before Port Townsend, Charles mentioned the tradition of wearing gold at weddings. He did so in a sad sort of way, as he had seen the pictures from his parents wedding, and knew her mum had not been allowed to wear a lehenga nor many gold accessories.
Maybe, as these things are meant to bring happiness to the couple, he mentions that as a child he believed his parents marriage would have been happier if she wore those things.
Edwin starts to collect gold items. He doesn't analyze the reason, but if a case offers gold as payment? Edwin is taking it. Charles thinks nothing of it, it's just one of Edwin's quirks.
After his revelations in Port Townsend, Edwin will eventually realize a few things regarding his gold rush.
And they will have a lot of gold jewlery for their wedding day!
#ask ask ask#dead boy detectives#dbda#payneland#edwin x charles#alright so i knew i wanted charles in a sherwani though i did not know the name#to make things easier for myself i decided he's punjabi#that being said he is biracial so i didn't know if should incorporate something from his british heritage as well#i decided that meh the ceremony will be british enough#also i added some details#to both his and edwin's outfit#that are not very traditionally masculine#this is a very queer wedding#i was so scared of this request people you have no idea#thank you girlfriend for dealing with me rambling about it
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OMG IT'S HAPPENING
EVERYBODY CALM
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Edit: He's posting all parts as we speak, watch for his updates, as I don't think I'll be able to post all the screenshots.
And the screenshots of the first post for whoever can't access below
#I'M SCREAMING#Also omg they're using the H word#Hell#deeki deke#cuphead#the cuphead show#a very devil wedding#cupheadtwt#Or it was something like that#devildice#technically#I'll take it#I'm happy#Everyone (queer) is here!#cuphead devil#cuphead henchman#cuphead stickler#cuphead mailman#my beloved#cuphead and mugman#elder kettle#king dice#cuphead king dice#Any other tags I need to add?#Also- You notice how it seems they didn't use a pronoun for Mailman#Slay
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Growing up I really loved fashion, but it would SERIOUSLY bother me whenever the bride wore anything other than a white dress, because in my mind there was no reason to get married other than wearing a wedding dress... and it STILL took me years to realize I was aro/ace 😅
#aromantic#aro#Aro ace#asexual#Ace#queer#lgbtq#gay#weddings#as someone with a very longstanding love of Desi bridal couture/culture#I have to add that this 100% excludes every culture where white dresses aren't the norm
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I've decided if I ever get married I'm not having a first dance but a first fight which will be a
Sword fight
It will be a cheeky, fun, mildly risqué choreographed sword fight that will end in a ridiculous kiss.
And obviously we will have to quote Road to El Dorado.
#honestly sword fights are very fitting for a queer wedding#ive already choreographed some of it#now i just need to find someone to marry#but we can just have a wedding and not really be married#lesbian#wlw#women loving women#queer#lgbtq plus#lgbtq community#lgbtqia#aroace#road to el dorado#sword#sword fighting#sword fight#wedding#marriage#first dance
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Thinking about trans men who still treasure their wedding photos, where they're wearing the big white dress from before they realized they were trans, and still feel only love and happiness looking at them, because of what the day and the dress meant in the moment, rather than discomfort or dysphoria.
And I cannot decide on a perfect character to apply this to because it's such a specific relationship to one's gender, but. Anakin is usually a decent bet.
#trans anakin skywalker#anakin skywalker#gender#queer stuff#trans headcanons#star wars#phoenix talks#anakin is very gender#weddings#anidala
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anyway i spent too much time reading offbe/at wedding and now i’m involuntarily scripting out my online cancellation in a universe where i for some reason send in our wedding to them to profile but get called out for asking them not to refer to it or us as “queer” anywhere in the article
#i just don’t like that term very much. i intuitively feel that if considering oneself queer but not gay is permissible the inverse should#be as well. but as we know that is not the current state of the art.#box opener#offbeat wedding content is a beautiful 50/50 split of things i can theoretically appreciate but don’t want#and things i would find so painfully awkward to be near that i can’t finish the article.#which is real reading catnip.#for me. a hater of varied tastes and long standing.#however one of my objections was that having your ‘subtle’ lord of the rings touch be ‘one dessert to rule them all’#as a sign on the catering table#is terrible and makes no sense. because first of all it’s not even slightly subtle#but second of all. why would desserts be the one ring. are they scarce and a major cause of conflict? do they corrupt your ability#to feel a full range of emotions and empathy? are they possessed???#i just don’t think they thought it through.
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losing my mind over every tiny scrap of yuri HELP ME!?!?!?! SJSBSKSNSKS????
HELP YES I WATCHED THAT ONE THIS MORNING AND WAS LIKE “oh I’ll have to tell aria to revisit this one specifically they’ll go crazy.”
i just know Mai went home and followed a few Takeda stan accounts on Twitter..
#the yuri in j//k is few and far between but when it’s there it’s Good#wish M//ki and N//bara had more overtly queer moments together#their dynamic from what i remember can very validly be interpreted as platonic which is great and fine#but…… i want them holding hands…………#gege please let my girlbosses be wed in spring#reapers collective <3#the yuri chronicles
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seeing everyone else tell horror stories about what the holidays are going to be like w their family and feeling the joy only ever growing that i dont speak to my mom anymore LOL
#i miss my brothers something awful tho#but the middle one called my wedding an abomination and argued w me about the anti-gay sentiments in the bible and when they were added#so until he gets his head out of his ass oh well#hope the youngest is doing okay bc he has off the charts autistic queer vibes. hope hes doing okay fr#no way to contact him#its very sad
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#You know the kind friendship where the vibe is “exes who never got over each other but will also never get back together”#despite never having dated?#And you know that thing where the two of you slow dance together at a straight friend’s wedding#and it just makes you realize how many tender little queer experiences you’ve denied yourself?#And you know that thing where you’re driving home from work and the sun is setting earlier and earlier#and the evening weather is getting cooler and cooler#and you realize that at some point Spotify shifted from your carefully curated New Wave nonsense to “last dance at prom” tunes#and you feel simultaneously very full and very empty#and you know that tomorrow you’ll be donning your worksona once more#for your corporate mandated mid-year review (to check in on Career Growth and Development!)#and you will resist the urge to tell your boss that you cannot think of anything on earth that matters less?#ANYWAY#wishing a very happy Monday to all who celebrate
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you know i'm all for slow burn and eddie having time to figure himself out and buck having a happy relationship with tommy for the whole season 7 and beyond but. how are going to explain the family feud thing then, huh?
#literally can't stop thinking about this mysterious family feud episode#like the possibility of queer eddie in s7 is real but i can't imagine how they can do it properly and not rushed when one episode is for th#wedding another one is for bobby so we have three episodes left. anything is possible ofc but. very intrigued and excited anyway#911 abc#buck and eddie
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Not speculating on a real person, but what if, yknow?
#personal#there is this girl i went to high school with#very nice and cool and sweet and pretty#and mormon#but like also a little bit emo????#she listens to twenty one pilots and paramore and she dyes her hair red and purple and platinum blonde#cam and i kinda maybe think she might be queer????#i know i always say you dont get to speculate about the sexuality of strangers on the internet#but this girl is not a stranger and also id never question her about it but i would be willing to listen if she were questioning#and wanted to talk#i am trying to very slowly become friends with her#i mean we definitely knew each other in high school and we were both in theatre and choir so we did hang out#but we're not friends to the point where wed like invite each other to our birthday parties or anything#trying to get closer purely so she has someone very queer to talk to if she ever feels the need#and if not then shes still cool and fun to be around so ill still get a friend out of the endeavor#we're both going to see hozier on friday#but i dont wanna necessarily ask to meet up bc i have a GA ticket and idk what kind of ticket she has#and id hate for it to be a worse one than mine and we have to separate#and also i dont have a ride and wouldnt want to impose myself upon her
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Queer weddings are so iconic like the one I just went to had a guest who did their testosterone injection in front everyone
#It was also a friends are family wedding#and it was one of the only events where I had no anxiety and was very comfortable even around complete strangers#just you wait esp if you’re a queer teen bc it does get better in your 20s#I’ve only been to catholic or Christian weddings and this was absolutely amazing oh my god I hope I get to attend more weddings like this
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the utter disconnect of me posting the sad protest pages of 'A Collection of Queer Photography by Jonathan Byers' while I am actively writing a wedding is so funny to me xp
#rrposts#a collection of queer photography by jonathan byers#im living my best life in 1992#screaming and crying as i describe loving images#then turning around to be like#'oh yeah i have to make everyone sad lol'#i am already working on page 134-135 so its gonna be a while before we get there#but i am very excited#it will not be the last illegal wedding I'm writing
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i was coming up with wedding plans for my stuffed animals ain't nobody got time for that
“You never pretended to be a bride when you were a little girl?” No???? Like literally never?
#that should have been a clue that i'd be a fic writer lol#i made dramatic storylines with my stuffies#literally married two of them together#complete with a sewed wedding dress and bridesmaid dresses#(my grandma helped)#i was a very creative child hehe#arospec#queer#lgbtq+
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she's singing in another room and my dog is asleep at my feet. my grandma asked me why i haven't found a man yet and i laughed. oh, you know. i like my house clean.
my girlfriend is also my man is also "my partner" if i'm in a professional setting. yesterday we went to a ren faire and a man mimed at me - you're together? and at my delighted nod, his baffled, you're gay? made me laugh. a woman with rainbow hair said i love the two of you together. you're both so beautiful it's absurd.
my dad introduced my partner as my "..... friend. or whatever" the other day. he knows we're dating. in the same way, i was never able to get my sister's husband to stop saying that's gay like it's 2008. he still uses the word fa***t, and my sister's defense of him has always been well, he's just kidding.
my lover and i dance to old music in a tiny kitchen. we judge new music together and take food critique very seriously. we watch love is blind before we fall asleep and agree that if they had a queer season, it would be bloody but also make for excellent tv. of fucking course queer people would know someone for only 2 weeks and agree to get married. what are you saying.
at a bar with friends, a man puts his hand on my wrist. got a boyfriend? and yes, i do have a boyfriend, she's amazing. i am texting her while i wander around a gas station named after geese. i am visiting a swing state for a wedding. in the candy aisle i overhear: she's actually like a lesbian it's disgusting. two teenage girls with packaged sandwiches in their hands, giggling. no literally, like. i'm not, like. okay with her being there while we're all, like, naked and changing.
my girlfriend and i tailgate, drink gin and cider out of cups. from the frat group beside us, a man corrects himself with one of his friends: bro, i mean, nonbinary entity, and it makes everyone around him laugh, myself included. he razzes his friend the same way i would have killed for at 19 years old - like nothing happened, he continues: you apply sunscreen like an alien. he does a little sassy (and fairly accurate) dance interpretation of the motion. his friend is laughing so hard they're crying.
i am lucky, i live in a safe neighborhood in a safe state. my masc passenger princess comes up from DC. i drive her for an hour to where all the leaves are a violent arrangement of color. we walk along the trails, letting autumn into our blood. in this part of the state, there's a lot of pickup trucks and trump signs. when we chastely kiss before getting into the car, i accidentally make eye contact with a woman holding her child's wrist. she looks disgusted. she looks fucking pissed.
two hours later my girl and i are eating dinner on a patio, soaking in the last warmth of new england sun before the chill of winter sets in. we are giggling and trying to talk through plastic vampire teeth. at another table, i see a young woman sit up straighter. i watch her watch us. she blushes and takes her partner's hand from across the table. shy, like the taste of evening has just become something deeper.
it's worth it for this moment, i think. my lover is still humming the same song she's been singing for four days straight and i don't want to kill her for it. her guitar is beside my bed. her toothbrush is in my bathroom. in a few moments i will make us lunch. we are lucky enough to have found each other. it is lucky enough to be in love.
#writeblr#wlw#i often think about like.....#being happy in a gay relationship is sometimes so odd#bc u can forget how stupid ppl are.#bc ur so USED to being gay. and u forget other people GENUINELY ARE homophobic#so it's like. girl pardon?????#but also there are moments where it's like. ohhh the kids are alright#like watching someone razz someone else.... so fucking wholesome#“lemme get this bitche's pronouns before i make gentle fun of them” .... i would have KILLED for that.#THAT is how u know ur accepted#not just tolerated#..... when ppl are like. sure ur nonbinary congrats but WHAT is this fucking sunscreen application#ps idk if "razz'' is a real word but someone asked what it means -#i've always heard it as being a term for 'gentle & friendly teasing'' which like#i personally notice more from my guy friends but is like - when a person isn't#LIKE ACTUALLY teasing u (it's nothing personal/mean) they're just laughing w/you about something#my friends often put on a little voice and call me an anemic little bitch#like 'ooooo the anemic little bitch is cold??? does she need a mouse blanket#bc she's SOOOO SMALL AND ANEMIC???''#and it doesn't hurt my feelings (it makes me laugh very hard) bc 1. i actually called MYSELF that first#and 2. i'm not sensitive about it!!!#a proper razz is when you are ALSO in on the joke - i ALSO think it's funny#for some people i personally find that when they razz u it's when they love u -#they've noticed something genuine about u and love u enough that u know they're not being mean#this is cultural and personality based of course but i'm hispanic#if someone isn't making fun of me it means they hate me . obviously.
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I'm being selected to potentially be the community organizer for my towns queer youth program!!!!!!!!
#i find out wed or thur if i get it#very exciting!!! 35 an hour and i get to make my own our and i get to help queer kids not be afriad so much!#dream opportunity FUCK i hope i get this
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