#they would be non-binary transmasc

[zhakyria]

What if....

[radley-writes]

genuinely worries me that some of you think the biggest threat to feminism in 2024 is trans men having words to talk about their lived experience

[soullessjack]

not sure if I’ve ever made a post about this before but the idea of jack being non-binary is truly so perfect for so many reasons. firstly he’s always existed in this taboo gray area between two rigid/opposing binaries (human/angel ; good/evil ; mother/father)

and there’s also some gendering in those binaries if you squint hard enough but I’m not a fervent genderstudiesnatural expert

neither side of these binaries can fully accept that jack is a sum of their parts (for lack of better phrasing); Lucifer and AU Michael both view his humanity as a weakness/malfunction or a phase he’ll mature out of, and several hunters—namely AU Bobby—treat Jack’s angelic heritage like the equivalent of rabies, a ticking time bomb that will inherently and eventually go off. of course everyone can acknowledge that jack is a Nephil in his own right, but he’s still viewed specifically as two halves instead of one Whole being. it’s probably worth adding that he literally will die or become a megalomaniac if he isn’t a mix of his two halves

then, jack is also exceptionally morally gray. frankly the writing of the show doesn’t fully portray this well, and while he does openly position himself as a Good Guy and a Hero and aspire to be such,…. So did the rest of tfw and look at all the shit under their belt. They’re antiheroes at best but that’s another post

in AlCal’s own words:

jack is all-encompassing. he shows various parts of the rigid moral dichotomy—he literally has a penchant for torturing enemies out of sheer hatred for them while being nicknamed ‘sweetheart’—but isn’t really confined to either one (although he does try and fail to confine himself).

lastly, there’s a very common experience among queer autistic people called gender indifference, which is exactly what it sounds like. We just..don’t care about gender. there’s no strong attachment between it and our identity. I know what I am biologically but I literally don’t feel it, so I wouldn’t and haven’t cared if I was misgendered. and I think for jack, someone who deals with the weight of being this archaic nebulous creature while having an extremely new relatively-human body, there would be similar feelings of disconnection and indifference.

also, whenever people ask him what/who he is the answer is literally always “I’m Jack.” like. That’s it. That’s the sum of it. he’s not entirely good or bad or human or archangel; he’s not 100% kelly or Lucifer. he’s just jack :3c

[flwrcrxwnlyon]

hehe, today is Sycamore Sunday? more like It's Sycamore summer

[bulldog-butch]

my tumblr cancelable opinion: (as a trans masc) so many trans mascs on tumblr are afraid to call themselves men because they don’t want to admit that they can be oppressors. especially if they are white

Gonna have to suck on this one like a lozenge

[necroticghost]

my binder finally arrived, it's my first and I guess I suck at putting it on because I hurt my shoulder and my hand. it is my size bcs I measured, I have literally no idea how it happened, it's been hurting the entire day.

update: I went out wearing it for a few hours and I kept having random sharp pains above my stomach kinda and I couldn't breathe properly.

do I size up or is it normal?

[asthedeathoflight]

Its so goofy but also really deeply annoying how people (mostly well meaning cis people but ive seen trans people do this too) have seen that in certain contexts women and men can be exclusionary oversimplifications and have overcorrected to... Never use those terms? Like yes its preferable to say "pregnant people" instead of "pregnant women" because not all pregnant people are women, but i just had to overhear with my own ears someone correct himself from saying women in a very neutral context to saying 'female-identified people.' Like. Female identified people are in fact women. I cant see how female identified people is different from women unless youre trying to include trans women but like. Transphobically. Men and women are in fact still useful terms you shouldn't be avoiding them ALL the time you should just be having like. A little bit of critical thought about what youre saying.

[lejay-the-impossible]

For anyone wandering, having sex with a transmasc non-bibary person is essentially just this:

"Hold on, let me grab my dick real qick-"

*destruction noises in the background*

"Ah, here it is"

[my-chemical-rot]

Full offense but if you ever refer to me by my sex assigned at birth in any capacity, that is misgendering and I will murder you to death with hammers

[lazitoelgato]

I'm feeling conflicted, I always say I don't mind different HC for my idiots but I was wrong, I actually mind.

[birdiebats]

I swear, Insurance companies make an effort to be confusing

[willowsplinters]

3am

I want to dance in a quiet kitchen at 3am with my best friend, because we can't sleep but we don't want to do anything else.

I want to "watch a movie" with you on a rainy day, we both know that we aren't watching the movie but we won't turn it off because it's warm here on the couch, with you.

I want to rush about the house because I woke up late and the dryer never finished and I forgot to feed the cat and I haven't made my coffee yet and I can't find my keys and there you are, standing in the kitchen doorway with a blanket around your shoulders watching me run around like a madman, but I won't care that I'm late because I made sure that I kissed you goodbye.

I want to wipe your tears away when the world gets to you again, because I want to make up for all of the times I wasn't there to do it.

I want my ribs to hurt from laughing because you keep making that face and oh my god I can't breathe from how hard I'm laughing and there's tears in my eyes but I wouldn't trade this moment for the world.

I want to stand with you in the bathroom, holding your hand because after all these years, you still hate needles, but I'll be there telling you that you've got this; you've done this before, you can do it again.

I want to stay in bed with you because it's Saturday, we don't have to do anything today, the curtains are closed, the cat is sitting just past our feet, one of your hands is on my thigh, the other is intertwined with mine between us. I can't see your face but I know that you aren't asleep, I'm warm and I never want to wake up.

I want to stand with you in the corner because there's a lot of people here and it's loud and I'm on my second lemonade and I can feel my shirt tag and my earbuds are in the car and someone else just got here and the music's loud and we've been here for 53 minutes and my phone battery is at 56 percent and it's loud and you just grabbed my hand and we're leaving? oh my god we're leaving, thank you Love.

I want to lay with you on the living room floor on a Thursday evening and I want to whisper to you about my day and I want you to whisper back about yours and then I just want to lazily kiss you because I can and we aren't in a rush and you'd kiss me back because you know it too.

I want to watch you making dinner because you're listening to music and you're having the time of your life singing along and you haven't noticed that I'm watching you so I want to sneak up and give you a hug from behind and I'd scare you in the process but it'd be funny and I'd apologize by kissing you everywhere on your face.

I want to laugh with you, I want to cry with you.

I want to kiss you soft and sweet, hard and fast.

I want to be sick with you, and angry with you.

I want to share our lives.

I want to love you.

I want to love you in this life and every single one before and after.

and I want you to love me too.

I want to dance in a quiet kitchen at 3am with my best friend because we can't sleep but we love each other so it'll be okay.

[rice-ballin]

being transmasc in 2022-2022 and only ever seeing skinny white transguys being able to pass fucked up my body image man

[drawbudd]

(if you've voted, please reblog. Don't vote if you're not applicable to the group this is aimed at, thanks!)

[indigospyder]

I’m super disappointed cause earlier today I learned that an artist whose work I ADORE (they’ve been doing a lot of Gale from BG3, I’m a simple man) is a fan of H*gwarts L*gacy and like. Look if you like the shitty wizard game that fine, whatever. But as a trans man I want you to know I don’t feel comfortable interacting with you!

And no I will not be naming the artist, because while I’m now uncomfortable with them, I’m not the morality police and I don’t think everyone who plays the shitty wizard game is doing it maliciously against trans folks. Doesn’t mean I have to put up with seeing them on my dash tho! 😜

[bisexualalienss]

my mom is such a weirdo. so yesterday she was talking about how transphobic her best friend and her kids were being at dinner a few weeks ago and she was like. how can she be like that when haleigh is *makes a vague gesture*

and then proceeds to be like “how could she be like that when my own daughter…”

like can you not hear yourself. if you know i’m trans (which you are implying), you realize that you’re being transphobic right now right