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swars-is-a-curse · 29 days ago

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guys how do you know if a guy is your frnd or like already friendzoned you

#desi tumblr #desi shit posting #desi tag #desiblr #being desi #oh god swars #this is why i hate men #they make everything so CONFUSING #like bitch

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unclefungusthegoat · 10 months ago

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#sick of this job after one week #they're so stingy and there's so many ridiculously nit-picky rules #my brain can't take it #they make everything so confusing #and there's no acknowledgement of a job well done #this was my second 5am wake up for a 7am start #and the only thing the manager does when she arrives at 2 #is to tell me staff can't use plastic cups and the food fridge is too empty and I'm only allowed to put out one sausage roll at a time #that's the bit that pissed me off today #there were literally 5 of this pastry #and I rotated on time as expected #but I'm only supposed to put one out because they don't sell much #A - why the fuck do we sell them #B - what difference does putting two out instead of one make when there's 5 in the fridge #C - how are they going to sell if there's only ever one out #this job makes me feel stupid and I am NOT inexperienced at ALL in the world of food and beverages

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m4g0hun · 4 months ago

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lost child

#in stars and time #isat #isat spoilers #isat siffrin #in stars and time fanart #isat fanart #i forgot to record the speedpaint :(#whatever im kinda proud if this one #anyone else thinks ab young siffrin right after the island dissappeared arriving in vaugarde with no knowledge of the language #of himself #or of how he ended up there #ever think about how scared and confused they mustve been #how it probably took them years to be able to communicate smoothly and be able to move freely #about how with the island not only did they lose their home and family and friends but also themselves #their personality #their language #EVERYTHING.#god siffrin u make me so sick i cant do this

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cthulhum · 10 months ago

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does anyone realize how crazy it is to have the actor of a mostly headcanoned queer ship say the fans were never crazy and they were right all along after 10+ years of everyone just absolutely going nuts over the said queerbaited ship

#supernatural #dean winchester #spn #destiel #castiel #deancas #misha collins #im 20 i have been Experiencing supernatural and johnlock since i was 12 and merthur since wayy before that i have fought Wars #this is crazy #i love u hannibal i love u 911 (if u make eddie gay)#for the love of god by 'mostly headcanoned' i dont mean that it was never intentional #i am aware that they put the subtext in on purpose #they knew what they were doing #but my focus here is on the actor actually saying it because like #if its not mostly headcanoned then y was the entire cast denying it for years AND YEARS #like do yall not remember what jared and jenesn used to say #there have been many many many instances where the cast has made us feel crazy/stupid for saying anything abt destiel #im just saying TO ME its crazy that actors and creators talk so openly about these things now !!! again i was raised on merlin and sherlock #ok also im confused on the queerbaiting part #everyones saying its queer coding and not queer baiting but cant they be true at the same time ?#im not being dumb on purpose i swear im just confused #like yes dean is very much bi coded and their relationship is queer coded but if the creators deny everything #and we only get a last minute confession after 11 years #that doesnt count as queer baiting ?#someone smart explain this to me 🙏

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happypeachsludgeflower · 5 months ago

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Okay okay okay.. but listen. What if Shen Yuan had a harsher System and was forced to convincingly play Shen Qingqiu, making Luo Binghe detest his existence, but when Luo Binghe returns from the abyss to enact his revenge and has Shen Qingqiu on trial at Huan Hua, unfortunately for everyone (and fortunately for us), they drug Shen Qingqiu with truth serum and accidentally spiral Shen Yuan into fanboy rampage of epic proportions about how great Luo Binghe is.

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kelpermoosee · 22 days ago

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My friend labeled this “toxic aromantic yaoi” and I couldn’t agree more

#kelperambles #toxic to the extreme because Petey’s life has been so shit that he has unknowingly placed romantic love on a pedestal #since it’s seemingly one of the few “good” things in life he has to look forward to (aside fron his kid obv)#but once Petey realizes he doesn’t experience it. he goes cuckoo because like what is he supposed to do now???#and he’s too stubborn to change his perspective on romance so he’s stuck grasping at straws for that sense of “normalcy” that everyone else #seems to easily indulge in. He grieves something he never had #and can only project those same feelings onto dogman because that’s the closest person he has excluding lil petey #when you look at their relationship from an outsider’s POV #they do everything a couple would do right?#they live together. take care of a kid together. and spend a lot of time together.#So of course they’d feel that societal pressure to be in a romantic relationship until they're forced to realize that it’s not for them #my friend even mentioned how much dogman cares about making everyone happy so #“ he probably is confused and sad because he can't give petey the ”right“ kinda love"#AND AUGHHHHHH 😭😭😭😭#dogman #dog man

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thefirstknife · 4 months ago

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More of Eramis experiencing being treated fairly, thinks it's all a heinous trick.

Girl.

Crab confronted with the reality that humans are not all evil, contrary to the indoctrination by the Witness and hundreds of years of animosity between us, ends up confused, convinced this is an elaborate trick to kill her. More at 11.

#destiny 2 #destiny 2 spoilers #revenant #revenant spoilers #eramis #this is the funniest thing they've done #she's so confused #to be clear it makes sense that she doesn't trust us but also the way it's presented it incredibly funny #she's describing it like she's being tortured but she's just being given help and advice and counsel and therapy #like we clearly care for her wellbeing despite everything and she thinks she's about to be executed. help meeee #long post

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tomatoart · 28 days ago

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Bleegeghh teh 11th💉🥫 ft. recent outfitz

#queue are lovely #sonaart #i feel awkward drawing myself as not a small dormouse😭😭😭#my two sides cutegirl and someidiot #happy one year to me today… it’s rlly cool to be able to say that #near 10yrs of my life it’s something I always wanted but never thought I’d ever get to do…im very lucky to be on it but at the same time it #rlly make u think about how unfair it is to have had waited so late in life to get the first bite of one’s own autonomy and personhood #it’s a very precious and confusing thing and im still finding out what it means to be someone #but compensation is my favorite singer gendered me correctly so like 🦀🦀🦀#also yes i still plan on answering everything I’ll be officially off hiatus this week (still haven’t drawn much i need to push myself to be #expected to again lol)#but i stopped my meds so i am in withdrawals so forgive me I am. so so so so so out of my mind HSHDHWHD

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itsriotmotherfuckers · 1 month ago

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Sirius caused the longest hat stall in Hogwarts history when he was sorted, by the way

#it took like 20 - 30 minutes #the hat couldn’t figure out where the bastard should go #he’s cunning enough for slytherin #smart enough for ravenclaw #loyal enough for hufflepuff #brave enough for gryffindor #he genuinely could’ve thrived anywhere #and the hat nearly lost it #plus sirius kept asking questions and shit #kept questioning everything and being weirdly philosophical #sirius: what truly constitutes bravery or kindness? are they measurable traits or more concepts?#sorting hat: stfu and let me think you little shit #at some point dumbledore and minnie are just glancing at each other and sirius/the hat and the rest of the students to be sorted #and they’re completely confused as to how to make this speed up #so everyone else can be sorted #sirius black #marauders era #harry potter marauders #maraudersera #the marauders #the marauders era #mwpp #hp mwpp #mwpp era #marauders #the pin drop moment when the hat said gryffindor #no one knew what to do #the first black to go anywhere other than slytherin #james was the first to start clapping but it was still super tense for the rest of the ceremony #none of the teachers or older students recovered until like 2 weeks later

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star--nymph · 7 months ago

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Vivienne's fear being 'becoming irrelevant' isn't something that's linked explicitly to her pride, no matter what Solas says about her (and the irony of Mr.Pride himself saying that should not be lost on you), it reveals what and who Vivienne truly is.

She's a survivalist.

Because we don't spend as much time in the Free Marches or Orlesian circles, we don't get to experience what being a mage is in these cultures. In Ferelden and Kirkwall, a mage is a lesser being without freedom no matter what they do--but in the Free Marches and Orlais specifically, mages are commodities that are given freedom so long as they play an entertaining enough role. They can explore the world if they have a noble patron, if they catch the right person's eye. They are, in a way, two sides of the same coin--refusing mages agency and forcing them to relay on higher powers. Vivienne lucked out, as sad as it is, when Bastion fell in love with her; she found someone who was contrarian enough to recognize her as a full person and also someone with power that could help her rise through the ranks. This is not to say that Vivienne on her own wasn't an exceedingly talented and intelligent individual--by nineteen she was already the youngest full fledged mage in Circle history and she was skilled enough to make herself an enchanter. But, I can not emphasize this enough, none of that matters if she didn't also play the Game and impress enough people.

Vivienne could have been the most brilliant mage in the history of Thedas and it means nothing if she was overlooked by nobility.

So when Bastion made her his mistress, she gained not just a lover but also a means to an end. Now she can use her magic to protect herself. Now she can roam where she wants and not be question for it because she's Madame Vivienne. Now, she can walk into the Orlasian court and belong there.

And what happens? Celene notices her and makes her the Court Enchanter, a position that has always been the equivalent of a jester. Vivienne took that title, ignored that it was essentially a glorified insult to who she is, and made it a position of power. She made the Court Enchanter into an advisor, a political rank. She had done the impossible and made mages an actual political entity in the Orlasian Court, something that wasn't seen outside of Tervinter (not counting what players can do under very specific conditions if they made mages in DAO and DA2).

All that, however, only continues as long as the court recognizes her as something worth their attention. Vivienne needs to maintain her act as Madame De Fer, The Lady of Iron, the Court Enchanter, The Jewel of the High Court, because the second she just becomes Vivienne, it's over for her. The assassins coming raining in, her name gets devoured by rumors and gossip, and she'll be found dead at bottom of the stair case with a dagger in her back if she's lucky.

So of course when the Circles fall apart during the Rebellion, she clings to that Loyalist Mages to maintain that structure--of course she moves her pieces to the Inquisition, knowing that if the Circle DOES fall, she at least as another place for herself and mages latch onto--of course when she hears that Celene replaced her with a new Court Enchanter that appeared out of no where, she grows to resent Morrigan.

Like, Morrigan literally pops up out of thin air, makes herself invaluable to Celene, and then plants herself in the place Vivienne had to claw her way up to and create so she could survive. Would you not be resentful when your life's work is usurped by some random witch of the wilds because she happened to charm the Empress? Everything Vivienne strived for all whisked away because the court find a gem who glimmers ever so slightly more than Vivienne.

So yes, Vivienne fears becoming irrelevant because the world has made it so that irrelevance for an Orlesian mage means death.

#vivienne making herself into the most beautiful shining gem of the court #making herself razor sharp and blindingly glittering and audacious so everyone HAS to look at her whether she likes it or not #and then when she thinks she can step away and focus on the Inquisition to help her fellow mages here comes Morrigan #who may be just as glittering just as sharp just as beautiful but she does it in a more wild way that the court snaps its head to look at h #and Vivienne fears that she's about to lost everything #and she white knuckles her alliance to the Inquisition like a life line and hope this gamble sees her through #because the alternative is far too horrifying for her to entertain #and do not confuse all of that with Vivienne being selfish because she's NOT Vivienne is not pulling the ladder from other mages #she wants them to have her power but she's aware that if Morrigan pulls HER ladder than it's all over #and really why the fuck are we holding all that against Vivienne when this is how the world made her (a world that is canonically colorist)#so she could live and breath and be seen as equal in some measurement?#I mean if you can sympathize with SOME OTHER MAGES for how they navigate an hostile world I wonder why you can't do the same for Vivienne #unless there's a glaring reason why you wouldn't dare get to know her #writing #vivienne de fer #dragon age #vivienne #dragon age inquisition

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bujlililu · 1 month ago

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Day 8: yearning

#my art #badsansuary #utmv #sans au #killer sans #dust sans #self insert #something something people loving despite the pain #something something you wish you could too #something something you think you do but how can you be sure when you don't feel it #do you think stage 2 killer ever wants to love like everyone else?#but it's easier said than done when it's too painful and confusing to put up with everything that comes along with it #i tried to put some thought behind it all but i'm just making myself look stupid #i'm always so amazed by how some people can write him #like anó #i like the fanon interpretation of him but i do want to make a mix of the two? if that makes any sense

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dreamerdrop · 7 days ago

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honestly, i think one of the reasons i can tolerate julian’s early seasons' behaviour towards jadzia is the way he approaches miles in an almost identical way, being annoyingly persistent, desperate for any chance to spend time alone with them, incredibly uncomfortable moments of trying to get miles to use his first name, etc. etc.

and whether I read that as julian having a similar puppy crush on miles as he does on jadzia or interpret it as a platonic desperation to make friends, either way, it at least tells me that for all julians faults (and boy are there plenty to go around—) he at least… isn’t Like That towards jadzia because she’s a woman, y’know? he’s just Like That with everyone because he’s overenthusiastic and lacking in social graces.

like, his behaviour towards jadzia is super uncomfortable and all, but the fact that he then turns around and acts the exact same way to his middle aged male coworker just… it adds something in context that shifts it from “wow julian is really creepy with women” to “wow julian is an idiot with people” for me.

i mean he is still pretty creepy with women a lot of the time and has obvious issues with toxic masculinity but at least his horrendous ‘wear them down until they say yes’ approach is apparently just the only way he seems to have of getting to know people and making friends.

#star trek #star trek ds9 #julian bashir #stella talks #.also something about how sisko is like ‘well i knew dax when he was an old man’.#.and julian is just like ‘… yes? does that not make her more attractive to you? why not???’#.like other characters consistently are like ‘geez knowing dax when she was a he must be so uncomfortable for you sisko’.#.and then julian is just absolutely confused as to why that would possibly be an issue for anyone ever.#.<- we should talk about how people react to dax and gender whenever someone tries to pull the bigotry free utopia line.#.because clearly transmisogyny is alive and well in the federation even if it’s much more understated now.#.anyway i was playing an old farming/romance game on the 3ds and there’s this one guy in it.#.and i hated him when i played as a girl because he’s always talking about how pretty you are and calling you darling.#.even if you’ve like… just met him. and i was just immediately like ugh nope stay away from me.#.and then i played as a guy. and he… does the… exact same thing…#.and suddenly i… didn’t hate him anymore because oh. that’s just how he talks to people. oh my god.#.i mean that character is also definitely bisexual as well but.#.like i thought he was a misogynistic flirt but. nope. he covers for akwardness in social situations by talking that way.#.and once i had the context of it being a completely gender neutral behaviour with no ulterior motives attached. well.#.it made me recontextualise everything about the character and i realised i actually really liked him.#.and yeah realising that julian just doesn’t know how to make friends except via brute force does make me view him differently.

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just-null · 3 months ago

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there wasn't a slice of life moment with these idiots so i took matters into my own hands... this is my modern au (kimetsu gakuen adjacent?) hence their designs.

[captions i was too lazy to add under the cut]