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i-may-be-an-emu · 1 year ago

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Gender Envy

#it's just been one of those days yk #tw gender dysphoria #ftm #ftm dysphoria #ftm gender envy #pretty much everything found on pintrest or reddit #apart from the trans flag #found that on wiki lol #transgender #trans #these are just things that give me gender envy #they aren't inherintly “guy things”#I just feel like for me I could do them if i were cis #and i probably will do them #but hey #i guess i'll have to just wait and see #eyestrain cw #I want to look like this so bad

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coloradosnumber1dad · 4 months ago

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when bitches bring up Donnie Darko and now everyone knows you’re autistic 😔

#donnie darko #jake gyllenhaal #donnie darko 2001 #donnie darko movie #donnie darko x reader #favorite movies #movies #best movie ever #autism things #Im extremely autistic about stuff #especially Donnie darko idk #it’s just such a good movie and Jake Gyllenhaal gives me gender envy #i want to be Pilot Kelson and Donnie Darko

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cool-ultrakill-url · 6 months ago

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At this point I think my ideal gender presentation would be to look transfem butch-esque. Idk is that weird to say lol? Asking for y'all's point of view on this.

I don't wanna demean transfem transitions since, well, this is a transmasc speaking here. I just really like how a lot of more androgynous transfem people look. Like the general silhouette, the way clothes fit on them, the way they do makeup (if they wear any) and how their hair looks when they've just grown it out. It looks really cool to me. I'm an androgyne/multigender/??? and the fem part of me aches to look like That. I would be so much more comfortable with the Woman™ side of my gender if I did...

#I'm not talking about like. feminine trans women just starting on their transition #Though you all look awesome too!!!!! That's just not the specific presentation that gives me envy lol #Also I don't want to imply all transfems look androgynous for obvious reasons #My brain only goes ''Woahhh...'' when they're like obviously fucking with gender..#Wearing a she/her pin with unshaved stubble and a biker jacket. That sorta thing #Idk. (kicks rock) Lmk what y'all think #transfem #transgender #trans #transfeminine #brain slop

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quillkiller · 11 months ago

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thinking about them..

#(effiebarty)#thinking about sugar mommy effie and pretty little thing barty #thinking about barty reading aloud to effie when they’re taking a bath #her scratching his scalp #thinking about effie buying rare book editions for him #giving him his own space in her library #thinking about effie cooking for barty and him absolutely not helping but hanging off of her the entire time like a piece of jewelery #thinking about him setting the table and doing the dishes #thinking about him lounging around in her house with boxers and a crop top that says ’i love milfs’#thinking about effie taking barty shopping and him playing dress up for her #thinking about him kneeling infront of effie as a sign of devotion #im so weak for them…#barty in effiebarty is just me projecting my gender envy and attraction for older Tall women #effie is taller than barty btw #they have matching robes #she feeds him chocolate dipped strawberries in the bathtub and he licks her fingers #she washes him in the shower #THEM…..#him sitting on the kitchen island dangling his legs trying to look seductive while effie makes breakfast #effiebarty #effie potter #barty crouch jr

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hermanunworthy · 1 year ago

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i want the same kinda genderfuckity energy that hermie has. the RANGE of this guy. dorky awkward nerd to sassy girly bitch to silly devious creature. i like to think of his gender as "genderfluid but in a fake way" and tbh me too

#copying from my insta story again lol #but do u get what i mean #like treating gender just like a fun little show to put on and not a real thing #this stupid theater kid gives me such bad gender envy i am shaking him like a ragdoll #hermie the unworthy #dndads #siren says

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unproduciblesmackdown · 3 months ago

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omgg lol [guy who won't stop going "more like scapeGOATED" voice] now hold! on!! lmao [same guy just saw encanto voice] Hold on!!!

#& [it might be 5am but i'll still see if i can draw some] trackpad homemade reacts. inhales & hands to head/face x9 then walking off #site giving pretty random Suggested assortment there where i was like oh right sure. prob not tumblr keywords captures lmaooo #(plus happened to have it open in firefox) but my god Not the scapegoated literal seers lmfao. whoooo. my god #also it was just really good anyways like right nice. damn #the (queerrr) seerrr the perceiverrr the truth tellerrr the ruinerrr the scapegoat be-errr the internalizerrr the neurodivergerrr #& now i Know there is 0% chance ppl weren't putting ''always a gay cousin or it's you (avuncular edition)'' in that thing #family tree design not even leaving space for the hypothetical kids of this relative we mostly pretend is nonexistent hmm #also that necessarily. it's giving all intents & purposes Disability abt a dozen ways & it's saying [accept that] vs [we'd better fix him]#you don't cite said [it's giving disability] as part of the We All Hate The Horrible Little Freak scapegoating justification & then be like #''actually we don't have to do that anymore b/c he's sooo normal :)'' or not if you're serious about [don't scapegoat your family] anyways #which like oh ok they Are serious so The Weirdo's scapegoating / casting out / lack of support Isn't justified #so he's still weird & you just gotta get over that b/c otherwise. bye. having a natural rat affinity is such a slay btw #& we've all been there like ''you NEVER want two scapegoats talking it's Over if they do'' + littlest kid is like um. they're the best #plankton voice Correct! inhale i'm so impressed like. getting to go ''finally someone Normal'' (serious abt letting someone Be Weird(tm))#which also always counts as like mm hard time suggesting someone's Not queer & also autistic for a start lmao. an award #adding in suggested layers like talking to oneself; talking Oddly / w difficulty; physical uncoordination; rituals ; acting; animal friend #the layer of ''& all that's fine? like?'' again rather than him ever suppressing or even changing it so far as it's suggested #besides that it's observed as Weird like but so? or else what? nonrhetorical: hostility / rescinded support & driving someone off is what?#& that Truth like the [worse treatment / exclusion / scapegoat] oft recipe for someone giving the support they're not getting themself #again Never let the [ppl both experiencing this] talk oh it's So over. or the child who's all i like family support & kindness actuallyy...#obviously also like the complete opposite of billions. knowing what they're about & letting this Just As Beloved crucial guy be So Weird #but billions Also [hmm feels right for our scapegoated guy to Perceive / Tell Truths / openly want/need & then be hurt] now get his ass #anyway [guy who could always go way on could go way on but only has thirty tags & it's 6am & i still mean to try some drawing] voice #remarkable amt of So True & ''it feels like ppl on the same page w/exactly what they're doing are all behind this''#remarkable amount of concentrated My God That Is So A Slay located in bruno all at once. what a gift #sticking to ''sometimes someone In Your Group is Weird. Disabled. deal'' firmly enough there's no ;) oh u can bet we'll Fix Him in the end #everyone always assumes the worst so....me when i'm [always as a kid yearning for Living In Secret Passages]. emile gtmpota?#oh congrats to whatever rando who will be having his dramatic gay reunion w/bruno just out of frame obviously. i perceive #now imagine if That rando was....emile gtmpota! what a crossover event. haunting4haunting. do i have enough tags for this lmao. yea #& having 1 more tag to say: as though the [endless serving] isn't enough bruno's also as close to gender envy as it gets. incl rats; sure

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ashes-onthewind · 21 days ago

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Ash. Ash we might be getting another friend to watch godkiller rpg :3

YOOOOOO!!!!!

also i just met someone today who's heard of it.... screaming

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sanguinewolves · 1 year ago

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yk what would be great. being able to know like objectively and definitely what you were feeling at any given time

#like.#i would love to be able to just be completely certain abt stuff #like ‘i definitely have a crush on my friend’ or ‘my friend definitely gives me gender envy’ or ‘i definitely have a squish on them’ etc #hate hate loathe detest not knowing exactly what i feel abt sth #all those like queer books where they have like their little relationships with all the blurred lines and its like in between platonic #and romantic or like its its own third thing?#thats great. thats lovely for them #but me personally #i want to know What I Am Feeling #not a vent #rambling

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eolewyn1010 · 1 year ago

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I see your true colors shining through, I see your true colors, and that's why I love you...~

Yeah, I know, Pride Month is already half over, but anyway. This is obviously a rather personal post; I know labels can be important to other people. It's just, I'm at a point where anything more specific than queer doesn't quite cut it, so it's like whatever. I dunno shit.

Also, I wanted to draw rainbow squiggles :3

#Happy Pride y'all 🌈#feeling queer about this #I'm a person with a severe case of gender non-phoria living in a world where most of my friends have gender envy #and keep telling me 'this is so gender' and 'I want their gender' and I. Just. Don't. Get it.#so. I guess *perhaps* female? perhaps not? *maybe* aro? *somewhere* on the ace spectrum? how tf would I know??#there are changes I want but mainly things I couldn't give less of a fuck about #and I hate feeling Lacking(TM) bc I have zero desire to dress in a more interesting way or experiment with make-up #or cut my hair #or wear this or that jewelry #just as I don't wanna be told that I'm Less Than(TM) for not trying to find out if I like people That Way #siblings under the rainbow #my drawing

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windor-truffle · 10 months ago

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Adding Richard to the list of characters whose hair I love to draw, alongside Mikleo and Archie Dandelion

#i 💜 bishie hair it's so floofy!!!!!!!!!#they give me gender envy even tho my hair is lowkey like that already #so maybe it's just more like gender affirmation #but it's not about gender either it's just presentation. is presentation affirmation a thing?#dolphin noises #most of the dolphin noises i make while drawing said hair involve chanting the words 'prettyboy' rapidly #which is actually a reference to youtuber CallMeKevins LP of a wrestling game where he made a custom character whose name was Pretty Boy(x4)#oh god adhd im shutting up now

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yikes-ajax · 1 year ago

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Was stimming so hard I genuinely worried I managed to break my own neck for a second