#there is no shame in it!!!
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
thatdemiboymess · 2 months ago
Text
Hey. Hey, listen to me. There's no shame if you want plastic surgery or any other cosmetic procedure. Do you hear me? It's your body, and it is your choice, and if you want to change the way you look for any reason then that is up to you. Your body. Your choice. Ok?
2 notes · View notes
leresq · 1 month ago
Text
"gee I wonder how I will transfer this information reliably across long distances"
the trustworthy telecommunications dish:
Tumblr media
65K notes · View notes
rhinco · 6 months ago
Text
"scythes are impractical as a weapon" ok but does anything else have the Cunt. i think not
61K notes · View notes
clickityweasel · 3 months ago
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
had a real life "and everybody clapped" moment and im still reeling. spent the rest of the ride comparing butterfly pics with the old lady next to me trying to identify it
41K notes · View notes
grungekitty-77 · 8 months ago
Text
Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
81K notes · View notes
catgirlcadaver · 8 months ago
Text
yeah Romeo and Juliet suuucks they should’ve both survived at the end and lived happily ever after instead. but of course the writer kills them both off for shock value.
73K notes · View notes
bibleofficial · 2 months ago
Text
41K notes · View notes
hiroshotreplica · 10 months ago
Text
idk if im actually bi or nit but i have an 8 am class tomorrow cant worry about that
Tumblr media
99K notes · View notes
bookshelfdreams · 10 months ago
Text
Tumblr media
x
70K notes · View notes
poorly-drawn-mdzs · 8 months ago
Text
Tumblr media
The math just adds up!
44K notes · View notes
doccywhomst · 11 months ago
Text
Tumblr media
57K notes · View notes
fromdarzaitoleeza · 1 year ago
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media
{Words by Anaïs Nin, from The Diary Of Anais Nin, Vol. 4 (1944-1947) / Cynthia Cruz from diagnosis,The glimmering room}
92K notes · View notes
diezmil10000 · 9 months ago
Text
Tumblr media
el alcohol quita la vergüenza
30K notes · View notes
rhinco · 5 months ago
Text
inventing some new EVIL tone tags
/pr = pressuring you
/m = mad at you
/f = forcing you to do this at gunpoint
/nj = not joking i want to kill you for real
27K notes · View notes
stil-lindigo · 7 months ago
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
lead balloon (the tumblr post that saved me)
if this comic resonated with you, it would mean the world to me if you donated to this palestinian family's escape fund.
--
no creative notes because this isn't that kind of comic.
I know I don’t owe any of you anything but I still felt compelled to write about my long term absence. And I feel far enough away from the dangerous spot I was in to be able to make this comic. I have a therapist now, and she agreed that making this could be a very cathartic gesture, and the start of properly leaving these thoughts behind me. I am still, at seemingly random times, blindsided by fleeting desires to kill myself. They’re always passing urges, but it’s disarming, and uncomfortable. I worry sometimes that my brain’s spent so long thinking only about suicide that it’s forgotten how to think about anything else. Like, now that I've opened that door for myself, I'll never be able to fully shut it again. But I’m trying my best to encourage my mind in other directions. We'll see how that goes.
I am still donating all proceeds from my store to Palestinian causes. So far, I've donated over $15K, not including donations coming from my own pocket or the fundraising streams which jointly raised around $10K. In the time since I made my initial post about where this money would be going, the focus has shifted from aid organisations to directly donating to escape funds.
If you'd like to do the same, you can look at Operation Olive Branch, which hosts hundreds of Palestinian escape funds or donate to Safebow, which has helped facilitate the safe crossing and securing of important medical procedures for over 150 at-risk palestinians since the beginning of the genocide.
25K notes · View notes