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Hey. Hey, listen to me. There's no shame if you want plastic surgery or any other cosmetic procedure. Do you hear me? It's your body, and it is your choice, and if you want to change the way you look for any reason then that is up to you. Your body. Your choice. Ok?
#fae irl#bodily autonomy#plastic surgery#cosmetic surgery#i am strictly pro plastic surgery and pro cosmetic surgery because what other people do with their bodies is their choice#plus who am i to tell the cancer survivor or a trans person not to get the breast augmentation??? the bottom surgery???#who would i be to tell the burn victim not to get their face reconstructed??? hm???#who am i to tell the person who thinks theyd look better with a differently shaped nose not to get the procedure they want???#no one. thats who.#you want bigger or smaller breasts? go for it!!! it is your body!!! i want you to like it and feel comfortable in it!!!#and if that means getting some kinda top surgery then go for it!!!#you want a penis??? or a bigger penis??? smaller??? go!!! it is your choice!!!#you think itd be so super cool to get circular implants on your head or to get your scalera tattooed??? cool!!!#i sincerely hope you fall in love with the results!!!#you want a bigger/smaller ass??? cool i hope you can get that lined up for you!!!#your body your choice means YOUR BODY YOUR CHOICE!!!!#i just want people to like how they look and to feel comfortable in their bodies and the fact that there are surgeries to make that happen#is so absolutely amazing and wonderful and cool and awesome and im so sincerely happy for the people who get to have those procedures done!#there is no shame in it!!!#shape your body to reflect yourself all you want!!! that is your right!!!
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In case you were wondering why Spotify Wrapped sucks balls this year, and more importantly doesn't have any genre data:
Can you hear the sound of bells? That's because they're clowns. 🤡 🛎
#This is embarrassing. Shame on them.#Laying off workers and discovering you can't just do their work without them.#Clowns fr.#Spotify wrapped#Spotify
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"gee I wonder how I will transfer this information reliably across long distances"
the trustworthy telecommunications dish:
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"scythes are impractical as a weapon" ok but does anything else have the Cunt. i think not
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had a real life "and everybody clapped" moment and im still reeling. spent the rest of the ride comparing butterfly pics with the old lady next to me trying to identify it
#this was a little while ago and im. why do these things happen to me#clickity autobio#autobio comic#comics#u will notice my bag disappears halfway thru this comic#this is bc i put it and my coat on the goddamn floor of the tube#so i could jump around like a ninny without smacking anyone in the face#hall of shame
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✦ Pebble ✦
#obliterate your significant other with this one simple move#pet rock acquired#own art#own characters#CanisAlbus#art#artists on tumblr#Vasco#Machete#anthro#scenthound#sighthound#dogs#canine#animals#modern au#actually I was just really itching to draw some hands#a lot of the time my pieces are physically so small I can't quite fit in as much detail as I'd like#paw pads are usually the first to go#which is a terrible shame
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#kit rambles#supernatural#spn#destiel#destiel confession#spn 15x18#despair#november 5th#feat emma#hall of shame#1k#20k#25k
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Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
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#stream#i’m a peace sign but if my hands r full smile & nod but if they’re being a dick or i’m jwalking it’s the scuttle of shame
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idk if im actually bi or nit but i have an 8 am class tomorrow cant worry about that
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The math just adds up!
#dungeon meshi#falin touden#marcille donato#farcille#I always loved how chapter 27 ends with them both so bloody and 28 starts with them in the bath.#not just because of how iconic the bathtub moment is but because you know they had to scrap off so much gore first.#I think everyone in the party took a very long and methodical bath but Falin was basically *all* blood*.#Being covered in blood is one of those 'just girly things' that women deserve to stop being shamed about.#I just don't think Chilchuck is progressive enough. He probably made them take a bath first B*/#Okay jestering aside I want to just highlight -#The magnitude of Marcille's joy at seeing her dearest friend again! Of holding her and sharing her presence in the same room!#Something about this reunion feels like a beautiful dream you are afraid of waking up from...
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#i’ve been thinking abt that cringe post#i think the latent feelings behind ‘cringe’ are shame and sometimes envy/bitterness#same vibes as when six year olds say ‘those toys are for babies’ if they’ve been shamed for their age by older kids#anyway. i think part of the healing process is realizing that shame puts you at war with yourself bc part of yourself is a social being!#and that part of you wants community and acceptance (maybe love). shame is the absence of acceptance#unlearning shame means learning self-love and gaining the confidence to find your people#jerma#cw jerma#(someone asked me to tag lol)
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#fool me once shame on you#fool me twice shame on me#fool me six times i think there's rot at the core of the industry#dead boy detectives#the acolyte#ofmd#1899
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inventing some new EVIL tone tags
/pr = pressuring you
/m = mad at you
/f = forcing you to do this at gunpoint
/nj = not joking i want to kill you for real
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