#that’s terrible

[frogaroundandfindout]

(Nightwing Vol.1. #3 of 4)

[wavesoutbeingtossed]

Because I know few people will see this and it’s getting late and the dash is crazy

Just a reminder that a certain someone (like someones in the past) also chose a public kind of life. To the supernova extreme that Taylor’s is, no, but this is the industry they chose as their vocation too, and this is the partner they chose to love from the outset.

Does that mean this someone deserves hate or harassment from her fans? No. Even if he had done something truly heinous which there is no indication of yet. But to also act as if he or any of her past partners are shrinking violets plucked out of obscurity as truly private citizens and her fame was a noose around their necks is completely disingenuous. These are not accountants or teachers or doctors who relinquished privacy upon meeting her. These are professionals in the entertainment industry who are seeking a level of public life to further their careers, in the sense that they have work in film and music and modeling and sponsorships and public appearances in service of those careers. Should commenters online be civil to any of these subjects when interacting with them? Absolutely. But let’s not pretend they haven’t chosen part of this life, and a certain public life would be an expectation of any they chose.

To act like Taylor’s dedication if not outright embracing of some of these aspects for her own career is a loaded gun is hurtful to her. (And to women in general in the industry.) I said this the other night, but Taylor has been mega-famous for over a decade; even if she were in a lull post-1989, that was still more attention than any human will ever experience in their lifetime. Choosing to jump into a relationship with her is an inherent acceptance of that, and forcing her hand in an effort to remove that — the intensity of which she for the most part has no control over — is unfair, and no wonder she’s pissed if it came down to that. I used an analogy that it’s like choosing to date someone with kids: they’re a package deal and by choosing them, you’re also accepting the full package. If you can’t handle it at that point of your life, the greatest kindness you can offer is to move on gracefully before everyone gets more hurt. Taylor’s life is no mystery in this respect, and choosing to date her but reject the core parts of what make her her — the appearances, the performances, the collaboration, the constant churn of projects to keep the creative juices flowing, etc. — truly could be death by a thousand cuts. Especially if for every inch she gave the person took a mile.

What I’m trying to say is: people shouldn’t be flooding these subjects’ social media accounts and dragging them, or harassing them on the street or whatnot. But, these are all grown ass men. Part of them (yes, even that one) want parts of this kind of life. If not, they would stick to plays in the west end or truly indie flicks, and not starring in leading roles in hyped tv shows or chasing after Hollywood movies with Oscar-darling directors. Or attending promotional events or participating in ad campaigns. They have agents and publicists and managers and all the trappings of celebrity. Everyone deserves their privacy absolutely, and I certainly sympathize with that level of intrusion because it seems unbearable to a dull normal like me. But, the parts that are a fundamental foundation of your career — performing, networking, supporting each other at events — shouldn’t be weaponized against Taylor because she’s at least honest about wanting it. We really don’t need to be protecting these men for the things Taylor is villainized for. These men may not admit it, but they chose to do the same kinds of events Taylor does, albeit on a much smaller scale.

I’m not saying it isn’t awkward that Taylor may be airing some dirty laundry in her upcoming music. But, for all we know, she may have reason to be pissed. And again: this isn’t new behaviour for Taylor. She’s always written music about her life. If someone isn’t comfortable with that from the outset, maybe they should have rethought their motivations. I don’t want to make assumptions, but thoughts are definitely thinking.

In short, stop babying men who choose this life to take down the women who embrace it.

[oxpogues4lifexo]

apparently they cut ties not quite sure about all the tea but word is whatever situation they had is over only a matter of time for the unfollowings

YAYYY

Sorry umm oh no that’s so sad..

Hm OH WELL 🤭

Thank you for the explanation anon 🫶🏻

[offended-dot-png]

When are we gonna admit that Cameron’s backstory is actually very depressing

[collapsethevillain]

Ah yes comedy of life.

[genshin-obsessed]

https://www.tumblr.com/genshin-obsessed/739577750576349184/someone-please-put-me-to-bed-i-cant-keep-staying

girl i’ve been staying up until 5 am 3+ nights in a row now…

😭😭😭 THAT’LL BE ME IN A FEW DAYS NO I DONT WANNA GO THRU THAT AGAIN! I MISS WAKING UP AT 8AM

[melodiousoblivionao3]

That looked more like the Greek tragedy A than the 3 letter one but damn either way…I cannot believe it. There’s no way she went out like this. First her exit from USWNT and then this? Terrible.

[literatureandshit]

she deep in that dough 😭 arm DEEP in that DOUGH

[byelacey]

thinking about my dog and how he makes sure i get my daily mental health outings

[ace-of-arthropods]

the autism spectrum or something idk

[krembruleed]

astarion is cheating

[myclericalromance]

i went to a tiny counterserve diner once and accidentally poured sugar instead of salt all over my hashbrowns and was eating them sadly anyways. the waitress took them away and started making me another one and I tried to protest, but she just snorted and said "we're not catholic here". now every time i'm doing something painful out of obligation i think about how that is not repenting, this body is not a catholic establishment, there is no nobility in suffering.

[scorndotexe]

i can't lie to you i loveee bad endings sometimes. what if nothing worked out. what if the characters gave into their worst instincts. what if they became worse. what if there's truly no hope left. what will they do out of desperation? who will they become as their worst selves?

[ozziyo]

Tis but thy name that is my enemy.

[stealthrockdamage]

her cock was an undersea fiber optic cable and Brother i was a hungry shark

[collapsethevillain]

I made jokes about the amount of plans for artworks I have on every other social media I swear

But god I’m looking at myself in the mirror like can you just be normal please