#that is unfair like come one
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
Text
me: i wont!! get discoraged!!! from making art!!!!
someone: heres a doodle i made with my non dominant hand c:
me: ........... man
#my posts#.... ill. try to still not get discoraged but like fuck this lmao#i was doing some art and now im worried of opening the file fhsugfusag#like i already am not exactly too proud but im also trying to see where it goes#but now im like :/ so yeah im worried of opening it and looking and seeing it worse than it actually is diughsg#why is this my favorite thing to do to the point if i become unable to do it i feel very bad and still getting to that point is very easy#that is unfair like come one
0 notes
Text
I've said this before but valjean's view of the bishop throughout the book gets me so bad because like. he knew him for what, a day maybe? and it absolutely had a vast & profound & positive impact on him. but then he goes on to spend the whole book comparing himself to his idealized vision of the bishop & finding himself wanting & feeling guilty and miserable about every petty or selfish thought that crosses his mind. but it's so fucked up because like we as the readers know the bishop better! we've read the whole first book and we know he came from a privileged & wealthy background, that he was a rake when he was young, it wasn't til he was in his 40s or 50s to have some sort of change of heart & become a priest (a similar age to valjean when he met him!), that he has moments that seriously shake him, that he has some dubious politics left over, that he still has moments of pettiness he has to work through on the page (his initial approach to the member of the convention, e.g.). and also he's just kind of a weird old guy (affectionate). and like this is not to criticize the bishop, I think he's a genuinely really good guy, just that while the bishop has a realistic view of himself & his past ("he described himself with a smile, an ex-sinner,"), valjean is not getting any of this except maybe like. what would be mentioned in the newspaper when the bishop died. so his whole view of him is of this one shining moment where he changed his life and he feels he doesn't live up to that. which is sad! because the bishop understood him more than he realized & wouldn't have wanted him to feel that way
#haven't edited this post so hopefully it makes sense#there is also something to be said for the other way that i think valjean comparing himself to the bishop unfavorably is unfair because#like the bishop is very much coming from a place of privilege & respect & authority not just in his background but in his current position#which is not to devalue any of his truly good work ofc!! but just that in many ways it's Easier to be good & charitable & humble & kind etc#if you're coming from a place of security y'know? <- and this is something the narrative of the book gets even if jvj doesn't#thoughts#les mis#anyways this is one of the reasons why the bishop sections are important & any abridgement would make the text poorer
573 notes
·
View notes
Text
Just a girl who wants to be her mother’s daughter in the ways that matter
#Such a tenacious go getter & the smartest woman ik#Has NEVER looked back at a man twice. Knows she’s beautiful & that attention is guaranteed. Never desperate for male validation ever#The best fashion sense ik. She’s the epitome of classic & vintage#Doesn’t gaf what others are doing / is always tunnel visioned on her own goals#A mega workaholic and like. Maybe I’d rather balance but still she’s still an overachiever#I feel im becoming more and more like her by the day but still I have some work to do#Need to be more focused & to stop entertaining little boys fr#I just want to move w the unshackling confidence & elegance she seems to emanate effortlessly#I swear that woman was born that way!!!! So unfair for the rest of us mortals#Why does no one talk about the psychological torture that comes w having a naturally gorgeous genius mother#I’m dying over here I just wanna be like her but im pushing that boulder up the hill all the time#Meanwhile she’s always just On#HOW#Just an eldest daughter having a crisis about her mother who is also#The eldest daughter out of her and her two brothers#I need to journal about this I need to meditate#How to manufacture the drive that your mother was simply endowed with at birth#Not even joking I just got off my internship and now im sitting on a swing under the late May sun having a crisis about this
250 notes
·
View notes
Text
seriously though, can we stop associating redemption with forgiveness? redemption isn't about being forgiven, it's about trying to do better and be better, even if you're not forgiven.
sometimes you make mistakes that people can't forgive and that's okay. the important thing is to remind yourself that you're on the right path, and you're going to be a better person regardless of whether they want to forgive you or not. that's their decision and they're entitled to it.
sometimes people forgive you and sometimes they don't. but you shouldn't stop working towards being better just because someone refused to forgive you. because you shouldn't be trying to fix your mistakes solely because you want that person to forgive you, you should be fixing them because it's the right thing to do.
#talking about fiction mostly but it applies irl too#so many fictional redemption arcs are so hyperfocused on forgiveness#and it just comes off as unfair and unrealistic especially if the character being redeemed is like an abuser or a war criminal#no one is irredeemable but some people are unforgivable#and that's okay!#make your characters unforgivable#redemption arc#writing problems
466 notes
·
View notes
Text
(because I couldn't resist. y'all know I'm a polygun girlie at heart.) a softer trigun
#A softer trigun#a softer trigun outtakes#polygun#trigun#look I just know that they got silly that night#they're already so silly but this particular scene comes for Every Single Time#honestly unfair of them to have it occur RIGHT after wolfwood says ''...there you go smiling again. it looks good on you!'' to vash.#as if I can just handle that double whambampow combo no sweat#as if I'm not lying on the floor of my airbnb unable to be normal about them as I strangle the air in front of me#POLYAMRY COULD HAVE FUCKING SAVED THEM.#...I THINK. PERSONALLY.#fuck man.#just take it#i think I like this one a little more than the ''actual'' AST number 21#but the line up was majorly lacking in insurance lesbians and I felt the need to remedy that#(and also use that goofy picture of them staring into the well bucket because. come on.)#adorable#Trigun 1998#Trigun anime#trigun 98
73 notes
·
View notes
Text
Parmi les gens qui se découvrent une descence j'avais pas compté sur Morano mais très bien madame ok à ce stade on va pas cracher dessus
#french politics#upthebaguette#every time I open the news something unexpected comes up#I mean this one is not bad just unexpected#like because of the situation in my circonscription I am going to vote right but Morano can vote left#unfair
70 notes
·
View notes
Text
i think theres a conversation to be had about how taash's story explores gender roles and transness in ways that could be seen as reductive but if your take away is "they could've given us a butch lesbian and instead we get THIS" about a canon nonbinary character i simply don't want to hear anything else you have to say about it
#can nb's have anything lmao....................#the problem isn't that taash is nb instead of a butch lesbian#and if you think it is please stay away from me#datv#anyway i think their story could have been handled better with regard to gender but i think some people are being unfair about it too tbqh#yes equating Non Femininity to automatically be nb is a little silly#many women hate wearing dresses and presenting feminine and that doesn't take away their womanhood at all nor does it make them nb#bc gender roles are nonsense#but hear me out .#sometimes when youre nb that IS the first hint you get that something is not aligning somewhere#and thats also valid !!!! just saying!!!!!!!!!#there are many different experiences out there and they don't necessarily negate anyone elses#also futher more yes you can love to wear dresses and be feminine and still nb#like i agreee that they presented it in a quick and surface level way and that comes with its own problems too#but again. AGAIN. this is ONE CHARACTER'S experience. let them have it. and let those of us who relate to them have it too.
39 notes
·
View notes
Text
.
#us election venting beware:#i am actually a bit annoyed at all the people that told me i was just being pessimistic and it's not healthy to think the worst of people#when yet again we have proven the worst of people wins#and even if it doesn't win (it will) it is still so significantly mobilized and out there#like i know it's not helpful. but i TOLD YOU. everyone thought it wouldn't happen and it DID.#just like nobody thought it would happen THEN and i was apparently the only one around me who saw it coming.#now can we PLEASE take this problem SERIOUSLY and get off our fucking asses and admit it's fucked out there??#the core of our system is bad. it is rotting and the proof is in this joke of an election#so can every white liberal get off my ass for 'bringing down the vibe' or whatever?#you people have been LAZY for a long time. you have been comfortable and unmotivated and been doing NOTHING.#quit focusing on doing your best by voting and get the fuck out there and disrupt. radicalize!#'common sense' is not enough and it never was#i hate to say it but believing the best in the masses in this deeply racist country will disappoint you every time#and i can't believe so many people fell for it again!!!!#i know it's unfair but#i'm finding it really difficult to sympathize with people in my community who are sad and disappointed#when i watched you do NOTHING for YEARS#(not for the people that are actively in danger. my heart breaks for you. i will not stop fighting for you. you didn't deserve this.)#i have never believed that people are fundamentally good and i'm sorry if that's mean but it's just not true#people are fundamentally neutral and you have to WORK to push them towards 'good'#and for too long the pushing has been going in the other direction. but 'pushing' at all is uncouth to you people i guess#get over your decorum. get over your morals that mean nothing. no one else is playing by your rules. DO something. CARE MORE.#sorry. i'm angry. i am filled with rage. and it is mostly directed towards the white intellectual elite.#to anyone who is blindingly furious i see you and i am with you lmao.#to anyone that wants to say 'i told you so' you are so valid.#we keep going.#futhermore: 'it's only four years. we'll recover.' BITCH#ONLY four years? that's four years of DAMAGE that will really hurt people in the meantime#and set up a whole host of problems for the future! the courts my god.#four years of bullshit policy and shit we will have to spend years untangling just to get back to even thinking about making any progress
26 notes
·
View notes
Text
i'm not american but the condescending reaction everyone in the rest of the world has to shit like this has got to be so exhausting to endure
#like i'm sure most people living in the usa know it's shit. they don't need you smugly telling them that#especially coming from countries with their own far right surges like.... look within first#idk maybe i'm just too on my period it just seems unfair to laugh at them for living in a horrible situation like that#i was talking to one of the american women in work and she was like 'i don't want to talk to non americans about this today'#because they're all too condescending like fair enough girl!
20 notes
·
View notes
Text
"I have tabulated your shooting accuracy, your target success rate today was at 53%. Well below your average."
So, how we feelin' burnt out, ex-gifted children who lost the skill they built their whole idea of self and self worth upon?
#cause me?#I feel like I've been punched right in the gut#with my favourite character too?#come on so unfair#getting personal on main#apparently lmao#this feels like a fate worse than death for him too like#my bad batch blorbos cannot catch a break Ever#2 out of 3 dead#one losing his identity and visibly not coping well with it#tbb crosshair#the bad batch#crosshair#the bad batch spoilers#the bad batch season 3#tbb spoilers#star wars the bad batch#sw tbb#bad batch crosshair#tbb season 3 spoilers#tbb season 3
88 notes
·
View notes
Text
rip ethoslab you would have loved dti lana lore 😭🙏
#i just think the way u have to figure everything out on ur own and really go searching for the answers would appeal to him#like the way he's always saying he doesn't do like tutorials he likes to find things out through gameplay#plus also it's So fun imagining him playing dti#i think he would be so annoyed at the unfair voting and every time an “i joined late” player wins#“oh come onnn guys” he whines at his computer as he gets tenth place for the fifth time in a row#joel is watching very amused knowing that he voted etho one star just to get this reaction#oh god i want to make a fic now#the voices are getting louder#stay in the box NO#nya talks#hermitblr#trafficblr#ethoslab#etho#dti
30 notes
·
View notes
Photo
I imagine a lot of Hawke's birthdays played out something like this. It's not fair, having a father who is a mage, and he won't even fulfill your one wish of being turned into a dragon :( Every year the anniversary rolls around I'm left absolutely baffled by how I've managed to keep this up all these years. Thank you for staying with me, for joining along the way, for your support, and for the laughs we've had!
If you want to support me, or just want to see more stuff that I do, there’s Patreon and society6. Or just reblog, comment and tag it with something fun, that helps too.
#champions and heroes#Dragon Age 2#malcolm hawke#Hawke#d#Leandra Hawke#12th anniversary#it's baffling tbh#it doesn't feel like 12 years#and no one has turned me into a dragon yet either#which is also super unfair#come on Malcolm#get on it
218 notes
·
View notes
Text
Sorry for going quiet, been busy- here’s some art I did today
#bloo’s art :)#badboyhalo fanart#badboyhalo#ghost ur#qsmp ghosted#ghostiesona#I haven’t played hollow knight in a hot minute- and today’s stream made me wanna play it again#I love that bbh is trying new games too#and I did hear what happened on the qsmp#I hope pomme’s admin can come back- that was so unfair#also the French need to be treated better- cause WTFF#I did see quackity’s response too#and I didn’t like the fact that people kinda forced him to make a statement about wil-#he should’ve gotten time to collect himself first too yk? will was his friend too- and we don’t know what happens bye#but yeah#I hope the qsmp takes a set back and fixes everything first before reopening#also I will never forgive the admin who thought that creating drama by using the CCs-#they’re literally the reason why I feel scared to be on Twitter as a ghostie#also how unfair for the CCs- the ones who were discouraged or the ones who literally can’t join back cause of ‘lore reasons’#hollow knight
44 notes
·
View notes
Text
love the idea of no superheroes knowing batman's identity but still all knowing alfred. they've all seen him, all know he's bruce wayne's butler. he refuses a codename and a mask. but nobody puts the pieces together because they all know enough of brucie wayne to never believe he's batman. they also think brucie has no idea that his butler is secretly batman's boss. so funny to me.
#they also think brucie has no idea that his kids are vigilantes#because obviously alfred recruited the batkids and tricked bruce into adopting them to give them a cover#they kinda feel bad for brucie but he seems happy enough#and what he doesn't know can't hurt him#one time someone tries to talk to batman about how it's kind of unfair to bruce#and batman goes off about how much he hates brucie and that he deserves to be tricked#there's a rant about billionaires that sounds like it comes straight from oliver#bruce wayne#batman#alfred pennyworth
12 notes
·
View notes
Text
You've got to be effing joking
#the way martin's talking about this is almost like he's certain come 2026 max will go to merc and kick out george#Nico at least said some sense and said George is one of the best qualifiers out there and Kimi will find it hard to beat him#what is this#this is most unfair on Kimi most of all#also they misquoted nico on that he's just saying George has to show he can soundly beat Kimi (when asked about what is expected)#f1#kimi antonelli#george russell#mercedes#sky sports f1#my post#martin brundle#nico rosberg#italian gp 2024#monza 2024
17 notes
·
View notes
Text
i think it should be possible to scream without making any noise or disturbing anyone or inviting any questions . just sometimes . as a treat .
#hhhhHHHGHGHHHHHH#jay screams into the void#(deeply personal rant incoming feel free to ignore)#a friend of mine has just been undiagnosed with bpd which . lovely for them but it sure as fuck invites a Lot of questions#suddenly a great deal of previous shitty behaviour that was excused on the basis of bpd has a lot more to answer for#(obligatory I Know BPD Isn't An Excuse To Treat People Like Shit . im aware . i have bpd myself and i have v high standards re my behaviour)#(however allowances were made bc they were unmedicated & out of therapy through no fault of their own)#(and our whole group has enough experience with untreated mental illness to understand that it can make u a bitch sometimes)#but yeah no there have been a LOT of instances of b&w thinking + manipulation + unfair judgement + high emotion + snap reactions#and every situation Could be explained by untreated bpd and the bad times have never been prolonged or often enough to outweigh the good#but Hoo Boy if that wasn't bpd then what the FUCK was it#like either the new psychiatrist is wrong (possible but i seem to be the only one questioning it) or they're just Like That#and again . not enough to outweigh their numerous positive and loveable traits#but the whole group has been destabilised on a number of occasions due to their actions during a bad spell#and i'm really not sure Any Other Explanation is enough to justify that#ah well . this seems like the kind of thing that will eventually come up during a sleepover heart to heart#but rn i'm stuck in a bubble of MAJOR rsd & brainfuck abt it . which is unfortunate bc now is exactly the time i Don't need brainfuck#anyways ✨ goodnight tumblrinas i am . kind of hoping nobody read this bc i fear i sound like a bitch#i am genuinely happy for their undiagnosis it seems to have put many things into perspective for them & theyre v happy about it#i'm just . uncomfy w some aspects of it that i have only been halfway brave enough to discuss with them personally#That's One To Bring Up With My Therapist In A Few Weeks#Bit Of A Shame I'm No Longer In Therapy And Now Have Only 2 Quarterly Reviews Left Before I'm Discharged From The Service
14 notes
·
View notes