#that goes to the ablist people and to you.

[bunnyburrowsys]

its not media literacy to say that suitcase is someone who can't stand up for herself.

knife mistreated (yes, past-tense) everyone. but he has changed. that includes suitcase. she has changed. why in the everloving fuck are you saying knife is a bad person even though he has been called "soft" by trophy and has literally told suitcase "i can't protect you anymore". yeah, knife has his flaws but where have you seen people deny that. people have only been denying that he's a WOMAN BEATER because that is an insane thing to say abt his S1 self. knife was a bully. he'd pick on literally anyone. just because s2 has a darker tone doesn't mean every single other season is some how as mature as s2. s1 had slapstick forgods sake. it doesn't go deeper than that.

please do not slap the misogynistic sticker on every male character you see hit a character that happens to be a woman. it's rlly annoying. like: super annoying. is cheesy now misogynistic because he made fun of microphone? is nickel now misogynistic because he was horrible to suitcase? i think not.

anyway ummmmm byeeee

Fronting: Lollipop [She/He]

knifecase is insane to me. youre going to ship a mentally ill woman who famously has problems standing up for herself with the woman beater who has already failed her twice? Good Grief

HELP NOT THAT TWITTER POST-📻

[dearweirdme]

Since you are upset about how Jkkrs talk about Jk let me ask you this. Do you honestly believe that the way taekookers talk about Jk is any better? When someone reads what taekookers have to say about Jk would they ever get the impression that this is is grown man who has made it clear on several occasions that he has a mind of his own? It’s not just Jk btw because even the way you potray Tae leaves very little to be desired. You constantly potray them as this pitiable duo that have been forced to endure torture and separation from the company even though nothing they have ever said or done has given anyone that idea. Taekook both sit down and have a conversation about being awkward and kinda drifting apart yet you make them out to be some puppets who do anything the company asks of them just because you don’t want to accept the words that come out of their own mouths. Just take a look at the things taekookers have been saying about Jk since AYS was announced. You lot spoke about tired he was up to the point of falling at airports and making it to look like Jk is just so powerless against the company that he cannot even stand up for himself when they mentally and physically abuse him even though he is the same person who spoke about wanting to take on more when his schedules were officially ended. You don’t respect Jungkook either and if you have gone all this while telling yourselves that you do, then that is sad because respecting someone entails listening to them, respecting their choices and opinions but that is not what you taekookers have ever done. How respectful do you think you are being to Jk when you sit here and call him a liar just because he says something that goes against your ship? I also haven’t forgotten all the years taekookers spent calling Jk a cheater, a sellout and someone who was mentally abusive to taehyung. I haven’t forgotten how many taekookers dropped Jk during layover because he apparently didn’t support Tae enough or didn’t stand up for Tae when the company was sabotaging him and letting Jk have all the payola. Where was this sermon then? Where is this sermon when taekookers complain about Jk being “cold” to taehyung or when taekookers complain about Jk not reciprocating Tae’s affections? Are you going to deny that taekookers haven’t done all of these? Jk is just a prop to shippers and nothing more. You think that you are being nicer to him because you package your words nicely but the truth is deep down, many of you don’t see him as a human being but just shipping material and the worst part of it is that, constantly stripping him of his autonomy is all because you need a way to justify your ship. When he does anything that doesn’t make sense the easiest thing you do is act like Jk is some 1 year old who cannot make any decisions for himself and who lets the company treat him like trash. Go through your blogs and read the way you taekookers talk about or potray Jungkook and then tell me if that is what you do when you care about someone. He spent the entire solo era trying to make people to understand that he has a voice and he is very capable of making his own decisions and he reiterated this over and over . When he was asked if the company punished or scolded him for going Live with Tae words were “punish who? Me? At the level that I am”? But not long after that, you lot were back to claiming that the company made him delete his instagram as punishment for going Live and even with AYS, tkkrs act like Jk had no choice and was forced into it even though he has been vocal about how much he loved it. Even now with him openly showing support for NJ amidst everything, he has shown once again that he is and always was in control of his words and actions but you people will be right back to calling him a puppet the moment he does or says something you don’t like. It’s such a pity.

If your side has any sense and empathy left, you would all go and call out that blogger for being ablist on main, because they are doing something that is very wrong and harmful to neurodivergent people everywhere. To point out negative behavior and decide that it’s the neurodivergence speaking, because what other explanation could there be for undesired behavior right?

In stead of calling me out for behavior of tkkrs I have had no say in, or wasn’t even around in fandom for. All of you shouldn’t be so scared to call out your own when they screw up.

I call out my own side when it’s needed. I call out my own side when they talk shit about Jm. You lot are too scared of not falling in line, to even try and do it.. instead you do what you always do.. turn it into a Tkk debate. I pity the lot of you.

[aesterblaster]

In another universe, Kaiser isn't physically abusive to Ness. In another universe, he's much, much more tactful. He gently guides the other player, paying for his therapy and helping him hone his skills as well as his mental fortitude...but he also encourages Ness' unhealthy attatchment to him. He berates him behind closed doors when he sees that Ness is starting to become more at peace, arguing that his meds are messing with his reaction times.

(Quick TW for mental abuse, dogpiling and manipulation)

In another universe Kaiser portrays himself as a true friend, defending Ness from ablist comments. But that doesn't stop him from gossping with the team, telling Noa that Ness shouldn't be allowed to be a main striker because of his mental health issues. It doesn't stop him from forcing Ness to call him Kaiser and thank him constantly for paying for his therapy, driving him from place to place, getting him meals. He calls Ness a spoiled brat when he suggests trying to switch to the Spanish team, asks him if he's just running away because he can't handle the heat.

Kaiser doesn't hit Ness or grab his hair, no, he just corners him in a restaurant after a team dinner. "You know, no one else wants to be your friend. You're getting better but you are far from perfect, you aren't me and you'd just be a pathetic mess in some mental hospital without me. I mold you, I shape you. Remember that." Ness pushes back, in this universe, says "A real friend wouldn't say things like that to me!" In another universe, Ness is the one to spill water on him in rage. He's a star too after all, his therapist has been telling him to stand up for himself. In another universe, Ness pulls Kaiser's hair. Kaiser doesn't fight back, he just smiles sickly as the flash of a camera goes off.

There's no way Spain will take a violent, mentally ill player like him now! Noa handles it, reassures people it was just a small altercation, but the damage is done. Just imagine Ness' devastation when he scores a goal and hears thousands of people screaming that he stole it from Kaiser, that he should be kicked off the team, that he's a horrible person. Social media is worse, his family backing up fake claims about his tendencies in childhood. Kaiser is portrayed as some sort of saint for even tolerating Ness' assists. In another universe, Ness is convinced everyone is right as insults blare down from the stands and he turns around to see Kaiser standing there, smiling. "Well, are you going to fucking play and help me become the icon I deserve to be, or are you just going to stand there you tool?"

In another universe, Kaiser doesn't even need to touch Ness to bring him to his knees.

[catneedssleep]

Cat / Tigers new intro post!??! >:3

☆★☆★☆★

“Down on your knees you just don't look so tall !!!! ”

^ Viking Death March — Billy Talent

more under cut!! ♾️🦋

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Names?

Cat/Tiger (No preference!)

Pronouns?

Any/Fluctuating!! (ask :3

Gender + Sexuality?

Genderfluid/MusicFlux, Xenogender + Omnisexual, Demiaroace, T4T, ND4ND - Transneutral

Uhhh other stuff??

AuDHD ( Autism + ADHD) , Dyslexia, GAD/SAD (Generalized + Social Anxiety disorder) BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder), Depression, Hypersexual

Ik. It's a lot lol

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I'm a Furry, Otherkin andddd therian!! I also fully identify as a mutant :)

List things:3

theriotypes!!

- House Cat (Flame Point Siamese or White Cat

- Tiger (Siberian Tiger or Bengal Tiger !!! I can't exactly tell but it's definitely either one of those:3

- Dog (Samoyed

Otherkin types??? Idk how to name this :'3

- Eye? Eyekin? Just. Eye.

- Devil

- Angel

- Zombie

- Vampire

& A lot more!!!!

:3

Personally, my furry sort of.. Suit? Type? I'm a cat furry lol. my fursona is a shape shifter who takes on a form of a anthropomorphic cat that vaguely looks like the cheshire cat (just barely though. Just the face :3

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More!

Do I have a special interest?

Yes! I have multiple:3

Spooky Month / Candy Dealer / Regretevator / Wallter / Human Anatomy/Psychological stuff that goes on in the brainnn

I also have a lot of hyperfixations and I'm in a lot of fandoms! :D

alright now.... DNI

sigh

- proshippers and darkshippers. Please just dni.

- Endo / Mixed origins / Not Tragumentic (I SPELLED THAT SO WRONG I'M SORRY) “systems”. I will not support you all until there is heavy amount of scientific evidence that you can exist. Please seriously do your research 😞

- anti fur, anti otherkin, anti therian, anti LGBTQ+ ect ect, GO AWAY!!!!!! YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE!!!!!!!!

- other basic dni 💥

- Ablists. Yah.

- rad queer <_<

Interact with literally anything else!!!:3

- people who think you can't heal from paraphernalia/think they're all monsters </3

- I am currently neutral to contradicting identities - it's not my place to police identities and in the end we're all queer so I don't even give a fuck anymore. (That being said I have said some things in the past about good faith/mono mpsec and I was misinformed/misinterpreted things - I apologize HEAVILY.

Unless uh

You suck!

teehee

:3🧪🧪🧪🧪

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Things you might see from me :

Mad Scientist type of vibe‼️

Wallter & Candy Dealer & hh (hhgregg) loving

HEAVY REBLOGGING

random arts/doodles

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Tags you will see from me!!!! (Eventually.

- #catneedssleep

My general tag! I use this whenever I post anything such as art, emojis, random rambles ect

- #science experiment

Art tag!!

- #failed experiment

Silly tag :3 just for shit posts or something of the sorts

- #test tube

Ramble Tag :3

That's all the tags!!!! Yay!!!!

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Buh bai!!!

[just-luxx]

Alright I changed my blog so New Master Post!

Blog rules:

No homophobia/transphobia: Please guys, I am bi and I know what this can do plus LGBTQ+ people did nothing wrong so don't devalue them

And Pro/anti shippers dni (look up both terms)

No racism: Really while I am white I don't think racist jokes are funny, it's really harmful

No ablism: This especially goes for neruo diverangtace as I have pretty mild ADHD so ablist people telling me "well if you just—"

No anti otherkin stuff: pls be nice

Ask box rules:

No NSFW: I'm actually a minor

(Same rules as on my blog)

Now if you're wondering my blog style won't change

And I still do requests but now there are rules:

1.Oc's are fine if you give me a reference

2. Using my art as profile picture is fine just credit me

3.I will not anything draw NSFW, racist, sexist, or any form of hateful or sexual

4. I will draw ship art unless it is probablematic

5. Don't repost my art

6. Don't sell my art

[warhammerthebear]

- Blog Introduction -

- About Me + Blog -

Hello, I'm Warhammer. I am an alter in a DID system. I am strictly anti-endo and will not tolerate them or anyone who goes against my DNI. Even if you're nice.

My blog is most likely going to be centered around cluster B and disabilities. I myself have NPD and am mentally and physically disabled. You may also see my family here.

Main Blog: @thefluffystuffiesystem

- DNI -

Basic DNI: Homophobes, transphobes, ablist, pedos, zoos, racist, etc

Fetishist: Plurality, ddlg/abl/etc, age/petplayers, assault, introjects/fictives, etc

(Pro)endo systems, anti traumagenic systems, transplural, etc

If you believe in cluster disorder abuse

If you support or are radqueer or Trans-IDs

IRL, NSFW, political, and religious blogs

I will block if ignored/blatantly broken!

- GIA -

Singlets

Roleplay accounts

Blank accounts

Reblog accounts

Agere, petre, and syskids (yall are fine. My blog just may be sensitive to you)

Gore blogs

Endo/nontraumagenic neutrals

- DIA -

Traumagenic systems

Trusted/informed singlets

Cluster A + C

Mentally and physically disabled/ill

Trauma survivors of any kind + RAMCOA

syscourse and discourse accounts

Therians, otherkins, and furries

Xeno and neopronoun users + LGBTQIA

People of color

[kropotkins-revenge]

I'm tired of things that grab people's attention.

I think that's one of the huge underlying factors that have led to the way things are now. It's the responsibility of anyone creating anything that it has to really grab your attention. You have to be competitive, right? You're competing with billions of other people, trillions of other things, for people's attention. You have to make sure the thing you create really hooks people, really grabs them by the shoulders and says HEY, LISTEN, LOOK, HEY, HELLO, to grab their attention away from other things. Whether it's by being completely original and unprecedented (which is actually impossible) or by having super high stakes (gritty reboots, blockbuster movies) or by just being nasty or offensive for pure shock value (Marilyn Manson, Game of Thrones, most right-wing comedy), there has to be something that grabs attention.

The result of that is, in my opinion, an increasingly passive audience. No one pays attention anymore, they passively wait for their attention to be grabbed. There's very little critical analysis of anything--stories, real life, statements, paintings, situations, politics, anything. There's no analysis of context or intent or idea vs execution. There's no allowance for subtlety. There's no noticing the layers of things. If someone's attention is on something--and that's a big if--it's "analyzed" instantly in the sense that if they immediately liked it it's good, and if they didn't immediately like it it's bad, and if they immediately hated it it somehow represents the interests of their ideological enemies. And that's with things they do notice. That's things framed in a way that grabs attention.

Things that people create that are complex don't get very much attention at all, because you have to use the old version of the term: paying attention. I thought when I was younger that that phrase was just a random idiom, but as I've gotten older and fucked more things up and learned and relearned and fucked up again--I've realized it's not just a random word, it's literal. Nobody pays attention now--not in the sense that their attention isn't on something, but in the sense that they have no intention or control over where their attention goes. Attention is grabbed, so people passively wait for it to be grabbed; attention should be paid, with people actively choosing what to focus on and engage with it deeply.

And "paid" is right--it takes from you. It takes energy, mental and emotional. It takes effort. It's so much easier to just wait for the next thing to grab your attention rather than put in the effort to be intentional. But it's important, because it's very easy to make something shocking that grabs everyone's attention while you do something dastardly behind the scenes, and it's very easy to miss some very important and wonderful things in life, that are very worth exploring, because they're complicated and hidden and require effort to find out about.

(And in case that sounds ablist, I know attention is hard for certain neurodivergencies. I'm on the spectrum, most of my friends are either on it with me or have ADHD, I know what it's like. I'm not talking about attention in the moment, I'm talking in the general sense about being intentional. We can't all be instantly magnificent at directing our focus, but we can all at least have that intention, whether we ever achieve it or not. Believe it or not the intention alone has a tremendous impact on your life.)

Maybe I'm just an old grumpy fucker, maybe I'm just an asshole, maybe I'm onto something. I don't know. This essay isn't going out of its way to grab attention, so it will probably get very little, which is for the best, because the world doesn't need more cis white men clamoring for attention. But hopefully a few people will engage with this idea and do more with it than I can.

[dodger-chan]

Another old ficlet I found while organizing. This one for the show Peacemaker. I believe the language and tone of the fic are in line with what was in the show. Warning for discussion of animal death, Vigilante being himself, and ablist misuse of the word "psycho."

“This from a guy whose best friend used to beat him up for having a small dick.”

“Peacemaker never beat me up for having a small dick. He beat me up for killing cats. He mocked me for having a small dick. Which doesn’t matter, because my dick is normal sized now.”

The back of the van went silent. Harcout had never been so glad to be the one driving and thus at least partially excused from the conversation.

“Back up one fucking second. Killing cats?” Adebayo’s voice was tight. Harcourt risked a glance away from the road to the woman in the front passenger seat. She was pissed.

“Well, he only caught me the one time, but I interpreted the violence to apply to all of them.” Vigilante didn’t seem to notice the change in atmosphere.

“Just how many cats did you kill?” Smith asked him.

“I wasn’t counting?” Now there was a little hesitation. She guessed he could hear Smith’s disapproval.

“Why were you killing cats?” If she could have safely turned around, Harcourt would have given Economos her most contemptuous stare. Vigilante was a fucking psycho. A history of torturing small animals was the least surprising backstory he could have.

“It’s really obvious when a dog goes missing. Outdoor cats and strays are always getting eaten, though. It’s not nearly as surprising if you don’t find a corpse.”

“That is really not what I meant.” There was a pause where Harcourt briefly hoped they were done with this topic before Economos started to ask, “How-”

“Do not finish that question.” Thankfully, Smith interrupted him. “You do not want to know. Trust me.”

“I suppose I should have expected it when he had a happy dance for killing kids.” She hadn’t thought her low muttering would be heard, but both Vigilante and Smith responded, talking over each other.

“The dance was for getting to use the sniper rifle; it had nothing to do with who the targets were.”

“In fairness, those were aliens disguised as children.”

“We hadn’t told him that yet.”

“Listen, Adrian, as a fur-parent, I need you to know that if anything happens to any of my babies I will find a way to make you suffer. Chris will help me.” Adebayo managed to keep her voice both calm and firm. She really was good at talking to the assets.

“I’m not going to kill your dogs. I stopped killing small animals when I started killing people.” Vigilante sounded almost offended. “Killing people is much more satisfying.”

Harcourt needed a new job.

[boobachu]

(usually) not visibly disabled but I had three family members who were, and how ablist people treat us were different, but the underlining belief that "you should be able to do everything I theoretically could, and if you can't tough shit" goes across ALL handicapped people. Like disability isn't taken seriously BECAUSE disability is seen in contempt.

You don't wish your disability was worse or more visible, you wish your disability was taken seriously. Please stop confusing the two, I guarantee you would not get the support you need JUST by being more severe or more visible. Please listen to visibly disabled people when we tell you it isn't better on our side

[shut-up-rabert]

Being a leftist didn’t make you a model of a person.

You harrass right wing, you push your opinions on them, you don’t hold a rational conversation with them and act like they’re the worst person on earth and actively cyber bully/report them needlessly them without trying to understand where they’re coming from like their viewpoint isn’t valid, or whether they’re actually homophobic, mysogynist, misandrist, racist, ablist, Nazi PoS that you take them for. (Surprise surprise, most younger gen. right wingers don’t)

IF BEING A LEFTIST DIDN’T AUTOMATICALLY MAKE YOU A GOOD PERSON, WHAT MAKES YOU THINK BEING A RIGHTIST MAKES SOMEONE THE INCARNATION OF PURE EVIL?

The same goes for right wing. You guys are nasty to liberals and attack them in a manner that is uncalled for. Acting like only you understand how the world works, like them having an opinion is inherently wrong from the scratch and they only care about agenda. Like a left wing induvidual is only brainwashed and can’t think for self.

IF BEING A CONSERVATIVE DID NOT MAKE YOU RICH IN VALUES OF RESPECTING OTHERS AND FIGHTING FOR WHAT’S RIGHT, WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT A LIBERAL MINDED INDUVIDUAL IS CERTAINL LACKING THEM TOO?

Any induvidual who bullies or is toxic to someone, irrespective of ideologies, is a bad person. Any person who actually does the stuff that I mentioned above (racist, sexist, ablist, communal, etc etc) is a bad person, no doubt. Anyone who’s actually brainwashed by media and can’t draw their own opinions (left or right doesn’t matter) needs help.

BUT, segregating a group of individuals based on where it leans on a political compass or anything else, no matter what you call it, is called discrimination. And if you actually do this shit, you’re part of the problem.

I have my own political bias, but never have I ever said anything horrible to people like a lot of y’all do.

[queerautism]

Hi hope I'm not bothering you just thought I'd ask about this in case you had anything you'd like to share. If not that's fine too and don't feel like you have to respond.

I'm doing an art peice on being semi verbal and not always being able to talk. The background is going to be made up of ablist and not nice things others have said when someone goes nonverbal. I have a few of my own but if anyone would like to share some of theirs too that would be cool since i need quite a lot of them to fill that space and I'm running out of my own. It's not really on a specific condition just anything that makes it difficult for you to talk. I just felt like doing something like this because i have lots of difficulty talking for a number of reasons and i often get very horrible reactions when i can't communicate like others want me to.

I do a lot of art pieces like this about disability and ablism as it's very important to me but usually i can find resources online of "what not to say to people with x disability" written by actually disabled people but i can't seem to find any for being semiverbal.

If you don't feel comfortable sharing or responding that's totally fine, I'm just putting this out there just in case :) hope you have a great day!

I have really bad memory issues and can't think of anything myself, but I'm publishing so others can share. It sounds like a great idea for some art

[clay-mations]

Lemme just say something. If youre gonna say some ablist shit in games or kick someone from a match because theyre not able to complete some components of the game, dont fucking play it.

I was in an Among Us match with this pair of siblings- a sister with her little brother. She explaines before the match that her brother was disables and he couldnt start reactor, calibrate the panel in eletric, or type in chat.

So the game goes on and a body is reported. Someone accused her brother because he walked by the body. Okay, thats fine.

But then the usual "Blues silent. Thats sus."

Once again, his sister explained that he couldnt type in chat to defend himself. People in the game voted and got him kicked from the game.

She called an emergency meeting and asked who voted her brother off, and then the dudes that voted him left.

She asked if her brother could rejoin- and of course I said yes! He was a delight to play with.

After the last match we played, this is what happened.

"We need more people like you"

That sentence alone.

Thats the reason I want to persue the special educations field. There arent enough people like me. There arent enough people who take into consideration other peoples disabilities, who still treat those who have disabilities like an equal not like an inferior, and people who are patient and willing to work with them.

If youre going to play a game, take into consideration of the other players. It can literally make someones day.

[dannyboyzone]

Samuel, if he would have a child

this was not requested, but it's children's day in korea! and who is the most fun to read about if none other than our tiddy king Seungeun! yaaay! Also, I could like, make one of Eli and Yenna, but we all know Eli is the best dad in the lookism world 🖤

꒰ 🍨 ”♡ᵎ꒱ˀˀ ↷ ⋯ Sammy with his child...

baby life

- Samuel isn't the type that necessarily loves kids, however that doesn't mean he necessarily hates them. He wouldn't know how to react if his partner says they are pregnant or want to adopt. - or anything of the sort! - He would react in a polite and pleasant manner, but the heaviness wouldn't shrink in until a few weeks or month.

- Not going to lie, he would prefer a son over a girl. It's not that he is sexist, it's that he is afraid that he would kill whoever hurts his little princess, which would scare and distance her.

- However, he doesn't mind what the end result is, he would just want to be a good parent because he never had an actual good one. You would expect him to have the mentality of 'I suffered, so why shouldn't they?' But he truly doesn't.

- He would absolutely be lost with babies, but would be very willing to learn about how to take care of them. He would surprisingly smile at them a lot, and even speak in a babying voice. Big scary gangster has a heart.

- The crying would sometimes drive him crazy, but he would absolutely never take it out on the baby, just try to learn which cry means what exactly. If it goes on for long, he might as well cry too.

- He would absolutely never trust anyone expect his s/o with holding his baby. That's his baby, whoever hurts it will die. He has set his mind on that long ago, truly. He had a terrible childhood, he won't let that happen to his own kid.

- People are absolutely not allowed to be loud around his baby, or even smoke around them. He would go out of this place to protect them, but maybe be a little tense during it.

- Honestly, when he would be around his family, he would be very very vulnerable. It would be his special safety net, and his weak spot. He wouldn't try to show that though, so people don't hurt his family, he can't let that happen.

- He still wouldn't become a full on softy though, but when he is around his baby? Lord! He has a whole personality change. Samuel who? There is only SuYoung's dad here!

- Ah, did I mention? He would want the baby to have a name that starts with an S. It will either have Seung in it, but even if not that, it will definitely have 'Eun' in it. If that's not an option? Y'all are going to look at baby-name sites at 2 am. The! baby! needs! a! name! that! starts! with! an! S! Seriously, if the child is adopted and has a name already, it will just become their middle name. Samuel will not chill out.

- However, whatever happens, the child will either be his Princess/Prince/Snowflake. He will probably buy a lot of things that will make not only having a baby easier, but having a baby life easier. As in; Both the child and the parents will have it easier.

- Samuel would absolutely love to dress up his baby in ridiculous clothes, like a baby overall with a hoodie, that just makes them look like a big carrot. He would just take pictures of them, but dress them back up in normal baby clothes, to not make the baby uncomfortable.

- What he would love as well is to take pictures with the baby, and record important moments. Like first words, learning, saying first word ect. That baby would probably become the most important person in his life.

- Absolutely not going to lie, Samuel is the kind of person who would love his child(ren) way more than he loves his s/o. Sure, it's great to have a loving s/o, but his son/daughter/child? They are top priority, he is responsible for their birth, and he will make them have the best living experience possible. He isn't going to put them through what he went through.

- I think he would also feel very loved. Especially if the baby falls asleep on his chest or tummy, he would definitely feel like he is a good dad. He would just be proud 'hey! i created that! It's beautiful and lovely!'

- Sammy is also the type of person that would peck his baby since he loves them so much. Please don't think of anything sick though, it's pretty normal and a lot of parents do it. However, if the baby hits him or pushes him away due to uncomfortable, he would of course stop and stay with hugs. It's just that his monkey brain would go 'woah!!!!!!! princess/prince/snowflake!!!!!!!!!!!'

- Talking about hits, babies hit people since they are developing and don't know that it's not fine. Whenever he would get hit by the baby, he would stay totally calm. He would kiss their little hand and kindly say that hitting papa/dad isn't nice. He would find it quite adorable, actually. He would probably have a hard time to not laugh if the baby bites his nose even.

- He would absolutely be the best dad. He would feed the baby, bath the baby, change diapers, cut their nails so they don't scratch themselves! Literally best dad.

- Maybe, if in the future he will be on good terms with Eli, he would even ask for advice. He is a good dad, and that includes admitting that he doesn't know everything, and he needs help.

kiddo big baby life

- Samuel would honestly be the kind of dad other kids are jealous for. They would want a dad like him, you know? But at the same time, they would all respect and fear him because if they hurt his little baby? It won't have a happy end for anyone. Samuel wouldn't need to raise his voice or hand for that to happen.

- Samuel would always prepare bento for his kiddo, and definitely even make them breakfast. No matter how picky they are, he would try to make the food they ask for. However, he would never let them eat in bed, unless they are sick.

- Talking about that, sometimes he would pick up his kid from school earlier than he is supposed to, either because he feels like his kid doesn't want to be there, or just because he wants to make family memories. He would also lie to the teachers.

- Also! 'Hello' and 'Goodbye!' hugs and cheek kisses are a must. Samuel is not an affectionate person, but both him and his kiddo would agree that they should always do that. Also, 'goodnight' and 'good morning' forehead kisses are a must too. He does it because he loves his kid, but also because you can never know when will you see someone for the last time. He would never say that out loud tho.

- He would do it even if he is mad, but when he is mad he would be scary. Not because he would get violent with his kid, but extremely silent. The kind of silence that screams disappointment. Funny thing is though, he would be like that exactly to not turn violent. He doesn't trust himself, so he has to control himself. It wouldn't happen often tho.

- He would be a little strict, but nothing too much. Just general healthy strictness. Like no chocolate after 6pm, limited tv time, children lock on the tv, computer ect. He is protective, but not overwhelming.

- If his kid would as a lot of questions he would be fine with that. He would just look at it as an opportunity to teach them, so he would answer all in an appropriate way. Also, hey, at least he can teach his kid that cheating is disgusting.

- Talking about that, he would be terrified of becoming like his dad. So even if he wouldn't love his s/o after a few years, he would still keep in the relationship and hide his feelings so his baby can grow up in a happy environment. He would never cheat though, so that's that.

- He would still be a good dad though! He would be happy if his child has independence and his own interests. He would let them pick their clothes, but also choose aesthetic matching outfits for them.

- Also, Samuel wouldn't really care what their sexuality, gender, religion, style and thought manners are, as long as they have morals and don't have disrespect in their heart. He values respect a lot.

- Also, he would teach them to be polite because that brings them far in their life. However he would also teach them to never do what they don't want to. Seriously, he would at some point teach his kid to remember the quote that says "The hill that you carry was only supposed to be climbed"

- He would also like, be chill if they fight. Teacher calls in that his kid fought? Cool, he would calmly tell the teacher to watch out properly next time. At home he would ask how they stand and hold their fist while fighting. To teach them how to do it properly.

- He would probably also prefer to have them in a fighting class of some sort. He would list multiple material art styles, explain the rules and ask his kid if they would be fine to go to at least one. It's not that he wants his kid to be violent, but he wants them to be able to protect themselves.

- HEALTH IS TOP PRIORITY!! Sammy is the type of dad you can tell anything to because he won't judge. That includes health and mental health, he would be careful and set up a comfortable mood. He wouldn't be ablist at all and just take care of his kid the way he is supposed to.

- Also, when the kiddo needs to get a shot or their blood taken, he would be next to them, holding their hand. Softly talking to them so they can get through it. He would also praise them, probably buy stickers and ice cream.

- He also absolutely wouldn't mind spending money on his kid. Their room would look like a dream land full of plushies.

- The support in this house would be above the roof. His kid likes painting? There is a whole art room. His kid likes biking? There is a whole biking day each weak.

- He would also help the kiddo study, although he wouldn't always be the best. Samuel didn't get rich by studying after all.

- He would also teach them stranger danger, and have a secret word with them that means 'something is wrong, please come here and help me'.

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- He would probably stop babying his child when they become 14, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't be affectionate! He just wouldn't want to embarrass them.

- Not going to lie, he would hit his kid if they do something big enough to deserve it. For example, if his kid would willingly do drugs - forced is something different - he would definitely hit them. Or if they hide smoking, or smoke in general. It wouldn't be abusive, or a daily thing. He would only use if necessary. He saw how those effect people, and he experienced how bad smoking is, he would have strict rules and he wouldn't let his child go through it. They will either choose the easy way, or the hard way.

- Do not misunderstand though, he won't get mad at every single little mistake. He would be a smart parent, just a little stuck up to his own views. He would tell them that he would rather get a call from them saying they snuck out and need to be picked up than a call from the police that his child is dead or went missing.

- Also, he wouldn't tell them what they should wear or not, but he would always make sure to put something in their bag that they can cover themself up with incase they are around someone that makes them uncomfortable incase their outfit shows skin. The gender wouldn't matter, as he is not sexist.

- He would be supportive with whatever their dream is, but would make sure to tell them that dreams can change and that they should make a back up plan incase it does. He is just realistic.

- Talking about that, he would make sure that his kid has a safe to work at next to him incase they want that. He wouldn't force them, but he would like to be a good role model.

- Funny enough, he would know how dumb teenagers can get. His worst fear would be his kid becoming as dumb as him when he was a teenager. Literally, he knows he made bad decisions and let his worth be measured by others, and he wouldn't want his kid to be like that either.

- He would also be fun though, he is the type of parent you can have inside jokes with. He would sometimes not laugh, as he is used to kids saying dumb stuff, but if it's a good joke he definitely will just have a great time with you.

- He is a proud parent too! Literally, even if his kid is a dumbass or a himbo, he would love them and their achievements whatever those may be.

- Absolutely wouldn't know slang, but would still attempt to joke around and do it. It would be fun because he would use words incorrectly.

- A must is definitely teaching his kid about life. In how to view humans, how to treat them and that he should understand that everyone is different.

- Samuel is the type of dad that knows his kids every interest, but not because he is pushy but because they feel comfortable talking with him. It would make other parents jealous for sure. He doesn't understand though, he thinks it's normal.

- When it comes to dating, he wouldn't be a helicopter parent. However, he would teach his kid to not just trust anyone and choose wisely, also, to always have protection. Let that be pepper spray or condom, it works in different situations. Poor person who dates his kid tho. They would constantly get looks that say 'I am watching you, better be careful.' He wouldn't be watching.

- Well, there would be CCTVs around the house though, so if they come home drunk, or past their bed time he will know. And wait. It's not that he would scold, it's that he would have a serious conversation.

- He would still do fun things with them too though! Like having bike fridays, vacation weekends, movie marathons ect. He would be a mix up a lowkey fucked up parent and a mix of the fun and loving parent that's always there.

Yaaaayyaaay its done! Hopefully, it was enjoyable. I tried to focus on the positive aspects, but still be honest. Of course it's fine if you don't agree with me! Please be understanding if there is a mistake, I made 57 points and my brain felt like it was melting the more I wrote. Thank you for your time! ♡

[littlx-songbxrd]

Wait I hope this doesn't sound too demanding but I seem to remember you said something about seeing the autistic Jaime post I made (well technically the ask I answered) and I was wondering what you thought about it?

I'm asking because for some reason today the autistic Jaime brain rot just won't leave 😂

Im actually so glad you sent this ask I had completley forgot about it BUT I JUST WENT BACK TO READ IT AND I AM DYING AGAIN HOW DO I MARRY A HEADCANON

How do i just *pushes hc into book by pure force of will*

I am now devastated that CC will never have the braincells to add this in BUT ITD BE SO GREAT ITD BE AMAZING ITD BE FUCKING BRILLIANT

HED TOTALLY HAVE TO LEARN TO MASK RIGHT AWAY IN ORDER TO SURVIVE

Something about Jaimes story always seemd so off to me, the image Diego told of his brother versus what he was written as in the book with Dru just got me so confused

The entire thing with Jaime Cristina and Diego just never SIT RIGHT with me but I thought that was jsut CC disregarding her POC characters again

BUT A LOT OF IT CAN BE FITTED TO THE AUTISTIC JAIME HC

By this i am mostly refering to "he seems to be born without a heart" BS

I was so confused but IMAGINE IF JAIME JUST HAD LOW EMPATHY ITD ALL MAKES SENSE HE WOULDNT HAVE A WORD FOR IT PEOPLE WOULDNT UNDERSTAND AND-

*goes insane* THE COMPARISON TO JAIME AND TY

We can FINALLY get some TALK ABOUT how mundane culture AFFECTS SHADOWHUNTERS ALRIGHT

Im just gonna be honest, the latino community can be really ablist

Idk about mexico specifically or what fellow latinxs have to say but for me i was basically taught nothing. I didnt know whay autism was correctly till i came i to this fandom, i didnt have a word for what adhd was until i was like 15 i can go on. So that type of culture mixed with shadowhunter stuff

I can already see how theyd treat him sadly

IT CAN BE SUCH A GOOD COMPARISON TO TY JUST

CAN I REVOKE CC TWP PRIVILEGES TOO??

Cant you just write ty and jaime pls?

[professional-moron]

wanna follow me and you’re unsure if you should?

well here are some things about me!

my name is Nox and i use he/they pronouns (for now i’m still figuring myself out lmao) and i have adhd

so, in no particular order;

(tw: r*pe mention)

i support/believe in/agree with:

the ENTIRE lgbtq+ community

the Black Lives Matter movement

Mulsim Lives Matter

POC Lives Matter

Indigenous peoples land back!

Stop Asian Hate

MMIW

mental illness is REAL

pro-vaccinations (they don’t cause autism or tourette’s; this is a FACT)

NOT GOING TO FUCKING PARTIES DURING A PANDEMIC?!??

neopronouns do not harm the lgbtq+ community you’re just and asshole

pro-choice

systematic racism is real and needs to be stopped

CAPITALISM NEEDS TO BURN

ALL religions/cultures/ethnicities are respected here

men Can be r*ped and we should believe them when they tell us

wearing whatever the fuck you want

adult enjoying kids shows

CLIMATE CHANGE IS REAL

Fucking science?????

FREE PALESTINE/SUDAN/CONGO

i do NOT support/believe in/agree with:

alm (all lives can’t matter until POC lives matter)

transphobes, fuck you

homophobia (unless you are willing to learn and this goes for transphobia too)

pedophiles (deserve to ROT)

autism speaks

sia (she’s ablist)

white supremacy

trump (and his administration)

i will be pinning this and adding to it as i learn and grow :)

please let me know if i missed anything

[ainosukes-sadism]

Okay, there's something we all need to talk about. And that's the "traumatized people are perfect soldiers" stereotype. You know the one. If they were lied to, now they have a perfect sense of who to trust. If they were hit, they have a superhuman pain reflex. That stereotype. But this stereotype does damage in multiple ways.

The first is setting up the assumption that everyone who goes through trauma becomes stronger. That they're strong enough to deal with what they went through without any so-called 'inconvenient' effects. But the fact is that trauma hurts people. They very often have ptsd, a cluster b personality disorder, and/or other trauma-related mental illnesses. This stereotype makes it so that people expect people with trauma to mask their symptoms, otherwise they're just not trying hard enough. Which is false. Trauma related disorders are defense mechanisms, either from your brain assuming you need the same defenses as when you were traumatized, or from your brain trying to process what happened. And there is no reason to be ashamed of them. No matter how much your symptoms may inconvenience someone, you are the one suffering the most, no matter how much ablists may whine.

The second is similar to the first. This is that it completely erases people who become more vulnerable, not less. For example, while a stereotypical person who is manipulated and lied to is expected to be less trusting, and while it can cause that effect, it can also leave a person more naive. The soldier stereotype shames and erases people who leave trauma like this, saying they got the 'wrong symptoms'. However, no type of trauma response is intrinsically 'better' or 'worse' than any other, because the fact is that both are caused by trauma, and comparing symptoms is comparing abuse. When people say that a person's symptoms aren't bad enough, what they're really saying is that they weren't traumatized enough, which is wrong on many levels.

In short, trauma affects people in many different ways, all of which usually hurt the person suffering from trauma much more than it may the people they interact with. People need to understand that not everyone's symptoms will be desirable, or fit with their model.