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Hi Rain, I hope all is well.

About this ask:

https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/778183114622124032/i-am-curious-what-makes-you-think-they-are-still

You answered in details and eloquently, thank you for that patience because I will not be. I am getting more and more irritated about this "where is the proof of they are still together/1?11/1?1!!" mentality.

1- TK don’t have to prove anything to anyone.

2- They are in military service for more that a year now and in addition to daily difficulties in there, they have to deal with different problems outside when they couldn’t do much about those (such as JK’s security leak) so they have many other things to deal in life atm than to provide you any proof about their relationship, anon.

3- They provided enough "proof" until they entered the military service, including Tae literally announced in his 60+ million follower account that how beautiful JK is. But oh yeah, that is counted as fan service right? Or was that suspicious because it was so in your face, so clear? A relationship should be secret then? Do you want proof or do want them to be hidden anon?

4- Or people still question and disregard JK going to Hawaii with all kind of stupid mental gymnastics, brushing it off as friend visiting a friend or even JK went there by mistake or smt but the moment JK brings his ass to a concert is Seoul, it is enough proof that he is dating one of the members?

5- If one wants to doubt them, it doesn’t matter what "proof" we or TK provides, there will always be a "counter" proof about them dating someone else, no matter how speculative those are, there will be people ready to believe it. They might make out on stage and people would go "omg this is not Tae, this is Winter, making out with Jk but they make her look like Tae with AI…"

6- At the end of the day, we believe in a relationship which we will never fully know and personally involved in (thank god) so it is also more of a faith. Either you believe that they are together with everything we have seen until now… or not. And if you don’t, then move on instead of asking people to show you some "proof". No one has to make anyone believe in anything, especially a queer couple’s relationship in a homophonic country.

7- But I will tell you what convince me that they are not together or are with sb else: the moment Tae officially acknowledge that person in his social media accounts... I am not even expecting "so pretty I could die" level but a serious acknowledgment or JK participates with his significant other in a movie premiere or smt on that level then I will accept it and move on. See anon, I can be much more easily convinced than you. Because I can recognize "commitment" when I see one.

Sorry, you don’t have to share and answer this but I needed to rant because I have had enough of those "show me the proof" squads. I am in this fandom since 2017 and there were times we had NOTHING but blind faith to these two so 2023 was a heaven, the best proof of their established relationship but that was not enough apparently. So I am totally convinced that no proof will be enough to convince these people until TK come out (which is very unlikely) and even still then, it will not be enough…

Hi anon!

Oh, absolutely feel free to rant away like this!

I don’t mind asks like that in general. It allows me to elaborate on what I feel is a beautiful connection between two persons. What I don’t like is the constant doubting about Jk’s feelings towards Tae. The man is pretty obvious through his actions and behavior, so I always question where anon’s get their information from when they talk about Jk being distant or awkward or annoyed. He’s not those things. I swear the oddest ask I have ever gotten (and believe me I’ve gotten weird ones) was a recent one from an anon claiming they are a Taekooker but they wanted me to show proof of Jk admiring Tae for anything else but his handsome face…. 🤯.

My biggest reason for believing they’re probably together is the way I interpret their interactions and looks. I am absolutely able to build a case using logic, like we all are and have done repeatedly, but what drew me in and what I feel is the strongest argument even if people are able to dismiss it easily… is how Tae and Jk act when they’re together. It’s certain looks.

I agree with all your points. People need to recognize that members including Tae and Jk probably separate their private lives from their public ones pretty strongly. They blend those lines for us on occasion, which is when we’re able to deduce some things.. but to expect Tkk proof when they’re enlisted is wild. To ever expect proof is wild. We get what we get, and yeah for me that’s always been enough.

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It’s always the hands..

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If TK are together, how come Tae had to tell Jk he was in Hawaii? JK didn't know??

Please don’t send me copy pastes.

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Embarrassing tkkr confession! I remember I heard a leaked/shortened version of My Universe with Coldplay before it came out and I SWEAR I only heard Tae and Jungkook. And then the actual song came out and the part from the leak now had RM's voice and then eventually Jimin.

Ngl I was sooo disappointed because me and my dumb ass was hoping for a TK subunit (STILL AM!!) And to end this random message, if we don't get a flipping TK-only song or project before I perish, I will forever haunt all of Hybe from my grave. Also all the homophobes & bigots. 🥰 Just saying.

Okay that's all. Have a lovely day! 😂

Hi anon!

Omg did it leak!? I wasn’t around back then so I have no clue about this.

Never lose hope though! You never know what will happen. I’ll gladly help you haunt the baddies though 😂.

You have a lovely day too!

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‘Its time to accept that the lack of a docu is a consequence of taehyungs decisions (If he really wanted a docu, he could have planned it).’

This makes me so mad, because it’s victim blaming. There is no way Tae or the company didn’t know we wanted a documentary. We have literally seen how they monitor fandom. Had Tae not mentioned anything I might’ve been open to him not having wanted to do a documentary, but he literally told us now that he would do it. Are we truly going to believe they came up with the idea of a documentary for other members but not for Tae? Get your head out of the sand please.

Taehyung went to mhj Team for his First album. Maybe ist just standard for the bh team to plan a docu and to record everything.

Since newjeans also don't release docus its likely that their team doesnt plan for this.

Its time to accept that the lack of a docu is a consequence of taehyungs decisions (If he really wanted a docu, he could have planned it).

Good thing is that tae now knows that people would ilke to see it, so chances are high that he will release sth for his future projects

Sure.......

Except no.

Plenty of footage from the behind scenes of the music videos definitely exists because he made a music video out of it. So he and Ador are of the mind to record this stuff and filming did in fact happen.

A documentary is just contemporary footage interspliced with more recent reflection talking heads. They can shove them in the Hybe dance practice room with the curtains drawn and ask them about the album.

What it's actually time to do is to stick to facts and stop perpetuating OT7 gaslighting excuses. Enough was filmed to allow this documentary. A decision was made not to expand on it.

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Ok but anon isn’t just making up assumptions about Jk not knowing that Tae was in Hawaii. I am guessing they think so because of what Tae himself said in that post. In the post he said he called Jk and said he was in Hawaii. Why would he have to call Jk to tell him he was in Hawaii if Jk already knew he was there?

Just a few days ago, when someone brought up the fact that Tae didn’t seem to know about Jk’s travel plans for the AYS shoots either you said you don’t think they always necessarily know every nitty gritty detail about “work” plans and we know Hawaii was work and not leisure for Tae so why is it impossible to think that Jk probably didn’t know just the same way Tae probably didn’t because they were work schedules? At the end of the day we don’t live under their beds and we definitely don’t know what they know or don’t know. The only way we get an idea of what they know if by listening to what they tell us and sometimes watching their actions and body language and in this case, as well as the case of Tae probably not knowing about Jk’s AYS trips, we got to that conclusion because of the things they themselves said. Yes they may have been together before and they hang out but that doesn’t mean they will know about all the details. I mean we speculate that they might call or text each other a lot but what exactly do they really text or call each other and say when based on what Tae said a lot in 2023, he always got to find out about a lot of Jungkook’s schedules via a groupchat and not from his frequent conversations with him? Yes there is the element of them probably telling white lies here and there for the purpose of their privacy but some of these things don’t expose them in any way if they tell the truth about them right? Like how could it possibly affect Tae or Jungkook to say they already knew about a trip or schedule from each other? Why would Tae word things the way he did implying that he only informed Jk about him being in Hawaii at that point if Jk already knew? What’s the point?

Hi anon!

So, I am absolutely not on the side of fandom that takes everything they say literally. I know that’s offensive to a lot, but imo that’s just not the way things work. There’s the element of them being entertainers, there’s the factor of them wanting to keep certain things private, and in Tae and Jk’s case I believe they’re also closeted.

Like I already say in another post, I’m even open to Tae’s words about learning about Jeju from the groupapp being false for the sake of it fitting more in the ‘guest’ scenario. It’s not always about ‘something affecting Jk and Tae’s hidden relationship’ but in official content I feel it’s much more about a certain storyline that’s deemed interesting. The ITS talk for example was completely unnecessary and imo not how Tae and Jk communicate in real life, it created a desired storyline though.

All of that doesn’t however apply to Tae’s mention of Jk in Hawaii. What it was most likely like is that they were on the phone or texting and Tae just said.. alright I miss you, why don’t you come also? And Jk went. The posting of those pictures a year or so later was a different situation. Imo it was Tae wanting to let us know Jk went to Hawaii for him. He wanted to shine extra light on Jk’s gesture. Just like Tae talked about Jk directing him during Layover recording. He wants to shine extra light on how amazing Jk is. I see it as a hyperbole. That is the point of Tae’s wording.

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If TK are together, how come Tae had to tell Jk he was in Hawaii? JK didn't know??

Do I think Tae and Jk just saw each other before Tae’s planned Hawaii shoot and somehow Jk didn’t know Tae went to Hawaii? No. They don’t just sit and stare at each other when they meet anon. All this.. ‘but shouldn’t they know this or that’ is pretty silly if you consider the many times they met and the way we’ve seen how they keep in contact via facetime and texting.

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Hi Rain!

Have you had a chance to watch Jhope's concert clips? If not, please do watch, He is killing it 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Wish i could get some tickets but wasn't able to. The way he has intertwined his skills as a rapper/vocalist and dancer is really shining in the tour. The dance crew he has is amazing as well. Jhope is an insane stage performer and so are the BTS members. Waiting to see All 7 back together and create magic on stage like they always do. 💜

Mona Lisa is currently on loop for me I love it so much!! The choreo is 🔥😘

Anyways just wanted to share some Hobi appreciation even if this is a Tkk blog 😁

Hi anon!

Hobi is amazing!!!!

I haven’t been able to see much at all 😭 (crazy busy atm… I am so done), but what I have seen was 🔥. He looks so good! I’m gonna try and watch some more as soon as I get the chance. I really like his new songs as well.

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“If I ask him something he’ll do it” is an insane thing to say 😭 it just describes their level of trust, intimacy and bond so so well and how it differentiates between them and the other members 🥹

https://x.com/tkk_pics/status/1903039742230532117?s=46&t=VGR0B9a59mdmL-KO7fDdLg

And JK does - it really is his love language 🙏🏼

Hi anon!

‘Jk.. I’m in Hawaii… I miss you…’

These two 🥰

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The most boyfriend…

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https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/778457225558720512/for-some-reason-jns-latest-tiktok-appeared-on-my?source=share

Who are we to feel offended on his behalf when he was the one who chose to walk hand in hand with her? I am pretty sure he was already aware of the aftermath of that walk, he still did it. And even though that walk couldn't have seemed faker if they tried, it'll still be the most concrete proof of taennie for their shippers (and jkkrs). He'll always be a part of the long list of her flings and her fans will keep on talking about them till eternity coz who wouldn't want to brag that their idol dated kim taehyung 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Hi anon!

The delusional Taennies in my inbox alone is reason enough for me to be annoyed by this constant linking him to her.. believe me.

Aside from that, you’re making a lot of assumptions and you don’t have a lot of empathy. You don’t know if this was Tae’s choice. And if it was indeed his choice, how fair of a choice was it? You don’t know it it went the way it was sold to him.

I personally think he absolutely hated doing that walk. I think if it was a choice it was an unfair one and he was pushed into it.

For anyone wanting to read more on this please go through my tags.

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