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agenttommykinard · 12 days

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Eddie hate is exhausting tbh, would love not to see it

#at least its tagged????#this is about fics btw #like you do you but eddie is Buck's bestie and he and tommy are friends #tbd #kayla.txt #like not even a buddietommy thing #though I ship them hard #its just not fun to see character bashing #and I already see enough of it in the tag with tommy #like eddie is a great character I love him #being on the sidelines of this fandom and then being in it during the WORST time is wild #like a person is allowed to dislike a character #and Im allowed to complain about that #BUT BE FUCKING NORMAL ABOUT IT #anyways i dont like seeing it in the bucktommy tag

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butchmartyr · 2 months

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Hello, I am a non-binary AMAB (TME?) and I am getting on a bigger effort to be an actual ally to trans women and I have read and listened to a great deal of trans women about various subjects. I am here to ask something: Should I support and be an ally to "baeddels"?

I have been researching about it and apparently it's a derogatory term for transfeminists who talk about their experiences with transmisogyny but it also means trans women who are antagonistic towards transmascs, I don't know which one is true. I would totally support the former but not the latter. I have an hypothesis that the latter does exist but the term has been used too much that people who don't hate transmascs get hit with that. (Sort of like how white libs use "Hotep" against black people.)

There is also the prejudice about people who self-describe as baeddels hate AMAB enbies and I don't know if that's true, because I do want to listen to what these people want to say but I also feel anxious about if they hate people like me or not.

#on the off chance this is somehow real you do not need to identify as amab and its a past tense word #baeddel means ‘girl who’s meanies to (trans) men’ the same way feminazi does #misogynistic exaggeration to complain about women calling out misogyny #additionally #like 70% of ppl who jokingly call themself baeddels are nonbinary #im just gonna pretend the hotep thing isn’t there. lol #tbd

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mamawasatesttube · 1 year

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i keep thinking there are people on here i would love to like. add on discord and actually talk to more. but then i think to myself well i should wait until i can get my meds so im actually feeling better and more up to being social. but at this point that's not happening for another few weeks at the least so uugghghghghhh.

#this is also slightly compounded by this being a sideblog like jskdjs i sure hope people know das me #but. ugh. yeah #debating if id want to make a server in which to lowkey hang out in a group setting or something.#or if i should just keep sitting here with sad wet pathetic beast eyes yearning for the days when i had the energy to talk to people more #like part of me wants to be like so mutuals if we've talked ever and you don't mind me being exhausted and often late to respond...!#bc i DO want to talk to friends and interact and be social. however the horrors (chronic illness) persist #SIGHS. anyway that's what's going on here re me being slow to answer messages and things on occasion + not always participating in stuff #probably tbd? just complaining at this point im a tired little man

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orpheuslament · 3 days

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everything is terrible & i miss my cat 😁👍🏽

#sorry ik im being incredibly annoying just complaining & whining all the time but uh. yeah #tbd

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multiicolor · 2 months

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tired of just dragon rider stories i need more stories where its JUST about the dragon. the main character is a dragon the side character is a dragon and MAYBE also humans but MOSTLY about dragons themselves IM TIRED OF HUMAN MCS

#` ooc || move bitch im 𝙂𝘼𝙔 `#( this isnt about anything specific )#( kinda )#( idk im just thinking abt like. some clock app vids ive seen )#( where its like 'want more dragons??? read my book!!!!!!!! about the human protag and maybe the dragon' )#( and i SCREAAAM )#( BOOO BORING TOMATO )#tbd.#( im complaining bc i would write what i wanna see but )#( i can barely write on my blogs )#( let alone on my own )#( and to fill enough pages for a whole booK??!?!? )#( nah i need someone who isnt a coward to step the FUCK up )

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lighthouseshepard · 2 months

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#uh oh i am #feeling very much not like a real person today #just incredibly anxious for no reason i know of #like my body's still in hyper go mode but i mean #this is my first day off in 5 days so maybe thats in?#like i cant convince myself to relax or that i dont have something im pressed for time to do #and im just so tired #and its creating this weird space where i feel Iike im existing a little to the left of reality #the wind is warm and the sky outside is an expanse of blue with crested clouds but i cant take it in #attention span is all over the place #going from like sad to happy to The Longing to feeling left out of my own life #what the fuck brain can i just have #one normal day when im at home BLEASE #i wanted to write today! but even when im sitting still its like im floating #caspost #tbd #sorry i don't mean to complain i feel like ive been doing that alot lately #i am the captain of the struggle bus and its careening into traffic #my mind has the mouth feel of pop rocks and the look of tv static

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penaltyboxboxbox · 6 months

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#knowing u would be with someone if you werent long distance but you are long distance and thus it will never go anywhere and #your priorities are in totally different places than going over there and seeing if things work so its just. perma caught in #maybe right person and even right time but just wrong place all together . sigh.#tbd im just COMPLAINING !!

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bcneheaded · 22 days

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I'm gonna be honest though yall, I have an extremely hard time coming back here because I genuinely find it really difficult to like... write.. anything? the formatting here really sucks, and the site is overall just difficult to deal with. That and due to Tumblr rpc nature and whatnot, it's jsut hard to get a foothold really, especially after you've been gone for some time, and my nd ass overall just finds the whole Tumblr rpc hard to deal with formatting and energy wise. That being said! I'd yall want tk write on like discord or something or if anyone has literally any better options over Tumblr then my go's please let me know. I'm down for short things, for sure.! But I need, NEED to like... idk.. think/talk dynamics and plots and stuff otherwise it just doesn't really work for me tbh ;~;

#( ooc )#( tbd )#ive been thinking so much of ckming back here soooo so many times but i find it so hard to WANT to be here honestly #for a lot of reasons ! but jm not here to complain or anything like that im just getting it out there #i want to write but i have a lot of difficulty in finding the drive i used to have #esp with rpc culture as it is ?? not that i used to be the most extroverted wildly interactive person around but fhdjajfk yk yk #anyway!!! pleae hmu if you want to do anythjng??? like ill talk plots and what not but pls also keep in mknd #that i also have a 8-5 / 5 day a week job nodnod #so i probably will be pretty spotty activity wise but i really encourage poking for my attention wholeheartedly #but !!! discord is always a thing for mutuals ! fr tho hmu i wanna (KICKS MY FEET) TALK TO YALL (ily and miss u all)#again fjsojg im not tryina sound negative ofc or anything im just sayin yk? nodnodnod #ANYWAY its late and... hm... despite saying all this i might actually TRY to write stuff here... then again also maybe not. find me on #disco if not! or if so its up to you fjfhfjdk im around for a little while longer uwu

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lovinggreeniehours · 2 months

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i might not be remembering correctly but jic: if i had a nickel for every time one of my f/os had a shoehorned love interest named lila i would have 2 nickels. which isn't a lot but

#head in hands. this happens every time #well anyway. i swear ill move on i just need to complain until that happens hfsgkhsgkfsgj #i need to hold five's hand all day about it though #ari.stuffs #tbd tag #<– five and jack #using f/o very loosely by the way im not dating that stupid ass magician :)

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v-arbellanaris · 1 year

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so fuckin late i just found out abt the matt healy nonsense and im fuckin disassociating bro x

#decades of work by grassroots organisers just to get the extremists to look away and pay no mind to queer people #so they can just fucking live. when public canings and beatings and jail time STILL HAPPENS for being queer bc it's listed as a crime #imagine doing that shit in a country where the rec 'treatment' for being gay is conversion therapy #imagine doing that. putting that spotlight on the thousands of people who are just barely surviving by relying on living in the shadows #while they chip away at the social constraints impeding progress bit by bit. imagine doing that. saying that. and then fucking off home #and ignoring all the homophobia and transphobia in YOUR country because it doesn't matter presumably bc its Worse when its nasty brown ppl #going BACK to your own homophobic transphobic country. leaving the thousands of people left exposed by that limelight.#im not even going to touch on ''im taking your money'' and the inherently disgusting colonialist bullshit in that #expecting him to donate to local queer charities is too much when he's a piece of shit #but jfc. and all his fucking insane fans going queer malaysians who have to live w the consequences of matt's actions who complain abt that #are suffering from internalised homophobia & i have no sympathy for you #firstly. queer malaysians saying 'stop - this is not advocacy it's actively threatening us' is not internalised homophobia #secondly. explain why you have no sympathy for queer people with internalised homophobia.#like. explain. as if we weren't all questioning and struggling. as if we come out of the womb just lucky enough to Know without a doubt.#as if we dont exist in societies and families that shape us into something we're not until we can't recognise ourselves #like explain why you have no sympathy for your fellow queers and act like they're the enemy. explain why you're siding with some cishet #trash white man actively endangering brown qpoc in the THOUSANDS in a drunken fit on stage. over the qpoc actually affected by this.#explain it. go on.#fucking sickeningggg it's SICKENING #tbd

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eifri · 1 year

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i wonder where all these notifications are coming f-

#ooc.#tbd //#logs off of my multi after complaining about bots only to see this bs #ok. im normal #anyway repeating the sentiment here i'm off meds and very stressed/sensitive but i should be getting my puppy in under a week on my birthda #sdfsf might also start replaying xvi on new game plus today #im just trying to finish doing everything i can do for my apartment first #and finish ordering all the things i need :whyy:#i tried drilling a hole with a screwdriver and it's so bad i ordered hole filler #that is how my life is goingr n JKFHD #returning a drill i bought secondhand because it isn't working and ordered a new one #but im going to ask if the people assembling the last couple of my furniture things on the 5th can put the anti tip things in my wall #when they are here anyway #i'll need to tidy some more stuff up but just trying to chill and finish ordering stuff for now #i will hopefully be able to write again soon #i keep choking up whenever i think about xvi still

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sanguistra · 7 months

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being a man is so expensive...

#Ooc #Im always expected to pay for everything when im around the women i know. even if im not dating any of them #And im being a bit dramatic when i say “everything”#But i mean for instance #It's the new coworker's birthday today and we all wanted to take her out to lunch #We promised to pay for her #But i know it will be only me paying for her meal #And i could not #Technically.#And im pretty sure most of them wouldn't comment on it #But the expectation is there anyway #Because if i dont do it no one else will #And then it'll be my fault that she has to pay for herself.#So hahaha whatever i guess #I'll just do what im supposed to do ig #There are worse things in the world #$20 extra dollars is fine #im just complaining #Tbd;:

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kikiyo · 1 year

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due to [static noise] i’m in an odd state so i may be a bit chaotic in activity tonight/tomorrow as it eases up!

#will they b constantly online or completely silent who is to say #the mind of ró is a strange little beast #tbd /#this is as much an update as it is me simply complaining #😪 I got awful sleep ln and my body is in this sort of #heightened flight mode status which is hilariously (HaHa) painful in #a strange way! anywho… again partly just being loud about it #bc i find it annoying but also am quite irritable bc of it so im #likely avoiding ooc interactions for just a smidge

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lvsamine · 1 year

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(( EEUUGHHH WHY DOES EATING HAVE TO BE SUCH A CHOOOOORE

I WOULD LITERALLY RATHER DIE THAN EAT THIS SANDWICH RIGHT NOW BUT I HAVENT EATEN OVER SEVEN HOURS SO I GOTTA FINISH IT AAAAAAA ))

#vent //#disordered eating //#im just complaining everything's fine #ooc;#tbd

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starchanged · 8 months

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I don't want to go to work tonight >:/

#✩ ooc ✩#tbd #((it does me i get tomorrow off however #So ill do it but imma bitch about it))#((not really im just gonna mildly complain about it))

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wri0thesley · 2 years

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london is SO inaccessible it makes me feel so frustrated

trying to book hotels for some shows that haz and i are seeing this month. already have to narrow it down to fairly central hotels near a tube station that has disabled access (because so many of them do not), but marking the ‘accessible hotels/facilities for disabled guests’ button makes it go down from like. 250 possibilities to like. 17. and of course if you COULD go up and down stairs (not feasible for us, not possible for haz) you can pay £190 for three nights. if you can’t and you need a lift, obviously you should be paying nearly £700 for the same privileges. UGH.

#sorry im just. im SO >:(#and it makes haz feel bad that we cant get the cheaper ones and its so UNFAIR.#its so expensive to be disabled lmao.#the theatres? wonderful. helpful. lovely.#the hotels? :((((#ableism cw #nat.txt #tbd #sorry i needed to Complain On Main fgbnkjgfjnk #dont get me STARTED about TUBE STATIONS

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