#like 70% of ppl who jokingly call themself baeddels are nonbinary

[butchmartyr]

Hello, I am a non-binary AMAB (TME?) and I am getting on a bigger effort to be an actual ally to trans women and I have read and listened to a great deal of trans women about various subjects. I am here to ask something: Should I support and be an ally to "baeddels"?

I have been researching about it and apparently it's a derogatory term for transfeminists who talk about their experiences with transmisogyny but it also means trans women who are antagonistic towards transmascs, I don't know which one is true. I would totally support the former but not the latter. I have an hypothesis that the latter does exist but the term has been used too much that people who don't hate transmascs get hit with that. (Sort of like how white libs use "Hotep" against black people.)

There is also the prejudice about people who self-describe as baeddels hate AMAB enbies and I don't know if that's true, because I do want to listen to what these people want to say but I also feel anxious about if they hate people like me or not.