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I have a weird dream where Seiji make appearance at Love Choriss arc, he showing off his (2D) girlfriend and made fun of Gintoki, what do you think?
YESYESYESYESYESYES EXCELLENT DREAM. I THINK YOU HAVE THE GIFT OF DIVINATION MY DEAR
#he's cranking the heat all the way up to FLAME gintoki#prob doesnt even have to say anything just a telling pause then a 'heh' to grate gintoki's nerves n' theyre off fightin the good fight#seiji's pinko is seiko. he boasts about how she's the most beautful gal in the tournament#and then you look and see that she looks exactly like the pinko-fied version of him#talk about a narc#seiko runs away while seiji's distracted with gintoki. bawling about how awful of a master he is#now its gintoki's turn to flame the hell outta seiji#the 3Ds don't want you and now even the 2Ds
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I love talking about myself.
You ask me questions about myself? I could spend literal hours happily talking about me.
#actually mentally ill#actually osdd#did osdd#mental illness#actually aspd#actually npd#npd#actuallynpd#narcissistic personality disorder#actually narcissistic#actually antisocial#narc abuse isn’t real#i am my own favourite topic#npd safe#npd culture is#npd things#cluster b#clusterb#cluster b personality disorder#npd posting#myself#mental health#i love talking about myself#talking about myself
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Being a narcissist is bizarre because every so often you see someone talking about what it supposedly feels like to be abused by a narcissist and then they describe... what it feels like to be a fucking narcissist
#'you feel great when they treat you well and awful when they dont' yeah thats what variable self esteem in npd feels like#not saying thats exclusive to npd but it does drive home the point that narc abuse belivers dont understand what theyre talking about#narcissistic soliloquizing#actually npd#npd safe#actually narcissistic
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I've read a few fics where Something Happens (Tim accidentally kills someone) and Tim calls one of his older brothers and they come and help him cover up/hide a body but like,, if Damian killed someone (accidentally or otherwise) Tim would not even hesitate that body is already melting in acid. He has crime scene cleaners on retainer and enough blackmail that they'll never say anything.
Tim has like 7 contingency plans for this Exact problem and he is going to do his big brotherly duty of helping his younger sibling cover up a mistake/laps of judgement.
And Damian is waiting for the other shoe to drop bc this is the perfect time for Timothy to oust him. He broke father's rule and now he'll be sent back
But Tim continues to say nothing and eventually even corners Damian and is like "bestie you gotta c h i l l they know somethings up I can't keep using puberty as an excuse for you" and Damian is like "why wouldn't you use this opportunity to prove you're the better son. To finally get me out of the house and claim your place is the heir" and Tim is like "uh im your older brother this is my job" and Damian is like "it is an older brother's job to help hide their younger sibling's murders??" And Tim is like "yeah absolutely except don't go to Dick or Jason only go to me or maybe Cass if I'm not around I think Dick would have a conniption and we don't want Jason to relapse"
#ted talks#batfam#Tim's idolized version of an older brother is someone who helps you with everything#and takes the fall for you and covers for you from your parents and that's all he wanted growing up#The stress of lying to their father and having to deal with a dead body would be too much for Dick#He could do it but he'd get some early grey hairs for his troubles#the man is stressed enough as is#tim drake#damian wayne#batman#via quadrant advisor:#if any of the other siblings found out they really would be like “you hid a dead body?????? without ME?????????”#Like especially Dick#everybody's like “DONT TELL DICK ABOUT THIS” (because the fact that we arent telling bruce goes unsaid)#and then Dick is like “👉👈 you dont trust me? Your big brother? 🥺 idk why everyone thinks I'm a narc”#quadrantadvisor
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in a very silly goofy mood rn
#saw#saw 4#saw 5#my edit#peter strahm#allison kerry#mark hoffman#hoffstrahm#coffinshipping#hoffkerry#hoffkerry but platonic#hoffkerry lives in my mind free#kerry is 100% mark's narc fp change my mind#hoffkerry dynamic is big scary muzzled dog and the sweetest girl who will stand up for each other#please talk to me about hoffkerry
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What I am liking about TROP this season is that threaded within the storylines of a fantasy show, there are little messages that feel very current.
Take Celebrimbor, for example. Pretty much every modern educated person can relate to being ambitious on some level, and forgetting what truly matters. We see it happening in the show to Celebrimbor. He is a generally kind, capable elf, with a perfectly good life going on in his beautiful city with his happy people, but he is running after the mirage of outdoing Feanor’s legacy. Feanor did something great with the Silmarils, sure, but his actions later brought terrible grief to the elves. But all Celebrimbor can focus on is the fact that he did something memorable, and that Celebrimbor himself must live up to that. He focused on his own insecurities instead of celebrating his wins, and those insecurities were exploited by Sauron to use him and destroy him and his city.
Young professionals in particular see this happening to them far too often, having to hustle like crazy, asked to live up to nearly unattainable standards, and being forced to lose sight of who they are as people and why their gentler, finer qualities matter. Their insecurities are repeatedly exploited by malicious bosses in their work life, and by toxic relatives and friends and partners in their personal life. I see Celebrimbor as a cautionary tale for these people, including myself.
#the rings of power#celebrimbor#charles edwards#eregion#next time i’m gonna talk about narc abuse as brought to you by trop
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Have been actively resisting re-reading lionheart lately because my reading list is sooooo long and reading time is soooooo limited, so I was extremely excited to learn about M+G Readings! I’ve listened all yesterday evening while doing chores, and I keep finding myself going back to Hermione having to pretend Draco, Harry, and Ron are girls when discussing her friends with her family. I can’t help but wonder if she made up just really horrible feminine versions of their names to help keep her from slipping up??
On the same note, it has been so much fun to go back to book one just to see how much your babies have grown and matured! They were all such little shits (affectionately) except for our sweet harry, of course.
Hello! Yes! M+G's podfic is a superlative piece of fanwork and the talent involved is off the charts. As someone with zero experience in the field of audio mixing, the whole process reads like magic to me.
The elder Mrs. Granger (not to be confused with her daughter-in-law, Dr. Granger) is, of course, always delighted to hear about her granddaughter's various adventures with Harriet, Veronica, and Darcy.
#there's a fic in there somewhere about ol' nanna granger getting suspicious of how often 'darcy' comes up in conversation#and has this deep soul-searching arc where she talks to her husband like... well... we always knew that hermione...#wasn't...quite... like.... the other girls.......#and then after some Personal Growth Moments she sits down with hermione's parents and is like. i want you to know.#that jonathan and i love hermione unconditionally.#[drs. granger: uh. okay]#and we don't care if she's a homosexual.#[drs. granger: WHAT]#and then after an explosive conversation where they hammer out what's going on and also update some terminology#the drs. granger figure out that hermione's been talking about her big fat crush on a (BOY) classmate#around a woman who believes that she goes to an all girls' school#but they don't wanna narc on their daughter so they're like. well um. we haven't talked to her about it :)#anyway in a different world draco visits the grangers over summer 1995#and hermione sees her grandma and just bluescreens and introduces him as 'darcy'#to which nanna - whose eyesight is Not Great but clocks blonde hair and a sort of butch suit situation - goes 'ah! you're the lesbian?'#and draco bluescreens so hard he misses hermione having a nuclear meltdown in her parents' foyer#and fin.
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Two-faced
#beep boop#my art#vox hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel vox#vox#cat vox#npd#actually npd#sketch#For friends who see this (am not putting this in the main thing bc it Vox and i want ppl to b able to reblog it about hazbin vox an go ooh#hes so evil ooh)#But its not meant to be like the friedly bit is a lie and the grumpy bit is real#hes being honest in both cases#hes having narc rage that he knows is illogical so even if hes grumpy and annoyed#it really IS no problem and he DOES love you#hes just also AUGH the world. not catering to me always? fuck my gay baka life#i hope this doesnt make anyone less comfortable talking to me i am just like! showing emotions i have being honest and stuff#not really a vent bc im not upset about it i just think its interesting#and fits vox's presenting tv persona thing he does#but really yall can tell me anything or if you have an issue even if i have narc emotions and feel annoyed or angry#its just a feeling.#Really its no problem at all.
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Ok I wanted to come out and say this but
Yes Alastor is a narcissist. He is incredibly npd (narcissistic personality disorder) coded and I love him for it
However can you guys please stop calling him narcissist without really knowing what npd is? Because I know most of you looked at alastor, saw he had a very high opinion of himself and hes a bad person and labeled him a narcissist based on that
Please do more research into npd and, if you can, speak with people who have npd themselves before slapping narcissist on whatever you like. It is not a fun little character trait, it is a mental illness
Thank you
#idm if anyone dms me about npd if you want to talk#because i do have npd and i relate to alastor quite a bit in quite a few ways#and id be glad to explain why yes he has npd and this is what npd is to anyone#also please dont preach narc abuse to me thats just incredibly ableist lol#or tell me about how all narcs are bad people#you can ask but dont be rude about it#hazbin alastor#hazbin hotel#hazbin#hh#alastor the radio demon#the radio demon#hellaverse#vivziepop#npd#actually npd#narcissistic personality disorder
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narc abuse truthers are so funny because ..why would someone who thinks they're better than everyone else decide to waste their time on someone they view as inferior. like i promise you someone who thinks they're better than you isn't going to be putting their effort into manipulating you for no reason ffs XD
#talking a bit more about how narc abuse truthers view npd#not like getting into all the intricacies of a disorder lol#npd#npd safe#narcissistic personality disorder#narc abuse isn't real
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Scientists need to study why a bisexual character's arc ends with either death or getting a gay partner lmao.
#literally just finished reading a comic where a bisexual mans arc ends with him getting a gay boyfriend#why is it... that gay characters can date other gay characters. but bisexual characters dont end up with other bisexuals?#ive actually had someone argue with me that a bisexual dating a gay character makes the relationship ''purer"#yes... they were delusional... and yes. this came from a bubbline shipper back in the day#this phenomenon is really strange and I do think it loops back to people viewing BI4BI relationships as ''not queer enough''#whatever the fuck that means#that's just a ''progressive'' way of saying:#''this fiction is bad because it talks about an experience I have no frame of reference for''#that's literally what it is but the anonymous narcs always try to make sexuality into a morality issue#bisexuals dont choose who we fall in love with Debra because sexuality isn't a choice#non bisexuals act like we can just turn our sexuality on and off like we're lightbulbs or something
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I really do believe that there are no bad kids, only good kids having a hard time.
That doesn't mean I didn't frogmarch two neighbor kids out of my yard about thirteen milliseconds after they (meanly) dumped dirt on my (younger, smaller) daughter's head. (And I know it was mean because one kid said he didn't want the other to do it to him.... and then goaded him to dump it on my kid instead.)
#i talked myself out of narcing to their parents#because the natural consequence played out#“if you can't be kind you can't play here and we'll try again another time”#but I'm hopping mad about it#and thus bitching about it on the internet#mama things#blog things
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How about... whatever you're willing to reveal about your relationship with Cooler, I'd like to ask about that. What WAS your relationship like in the past? It seemed pretty hostile, for lack of a better word.
It was complicated.
I used to assume he despised me on principle--or, at the very least, I comfortably ignored the elephant in the room. Now that we've started talking again, much has come out on both sides, none of which any of you deserve to know about.
I'll say the royal family was dysfunctional, and leave it at that.
#((cold expertly and purposefullly alienated them against each other for years))#((the moment frieza was born they were competing against each other for his love and attention))#((mostly attention))#((after cooler left frieza was fed stories about how incompetent and/or dangerous he was))#((and how he shouldn't be trusted/was trying to hurt them intentionally etc))#((narc parents amiright))#((they didn't get along well after frieza was old enough to parrot his father and butted heads a lot))#((didn't know how to talk or connect with one another for a long long time))#((or want to frankly))#text response
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ngl lie i completely resent the internet obsession with the burden of the eldest daughter and glass child syndrome because ik that's how my sister sees herself, completely ignoring the fact that she was the golden child and was never abused like i was. which was where my health problems started but in her mind she will always be the victim. it's all about money and the fact that i never killed myself like she wanted will always piss her off because i dared to stay alive in such pathetic state and then have my dad pay for trauma therapy oh that's too much for her. and i know she will never grow up enough to realize it wasn't my fault, because she was taught to always see me as the scapegoat and everything wrong. she'll never put that resentment anywhere but me.
#and maybe she'd be a little sad now if i died but ik she'd mostly be happy because there would be no one else to talk about other than her#she's just a narc like my dads ex wife
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Anyway, these guys are the version of Dracfield I'm the most deranged about, because reasons:
#it's the visual contrast#it's the yearning#it's renfield quoting blake when he's talking about dracula#it's dracula actually loving him in his own narc eldritch way#renfield#dracula#dracfield#count dracula 1977
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Constantly thinking abour karen wheeler btw but in a way that makes everyone here super madsies
#my problem is that when ppl say they like their female characters problematic they mean#'i want them to have flaws that i can blame on the nearest male character' and tbh thatd so boring and also. pretty infantilizing?#tbh to the point where its like do you guys even get karens character or. anyways.#like So Many Thoughts#like shes either the narc emotionally abusive mother or a victimized angel 🥺🥺🥺 neither of which is true btw#im so pretentious i like to think that i get where karen fits in the fabric of st's themes#i think positioning her as a 'freak' kind of defeats that? bc karen to me always seemed like the opposite#shes attrative skinny formerly a cheerleader charismatic white and suburban. shes literally a white boomer named karen.#all of that is complicated by the fact that shes also a woman who was raised in the veryyy conservativ era of the 50s#shes very much someone who is smart but also follows the tides and only really rebels when its the popular counter culture to do#like her at the pool in s3 with all her other housewife friends#and its like so easy to get what ppl say about her mothering skills but it often gets pushed into very black and white discourse#like karen obviously cares about her kids but its a case of actions mattering more than words and performance#like karen will TELL mike that she wants him to talk to her and shell hug him when shes supposed to (performance) but when mike had symptoms#of ptsd? karen punishes him. but also ptsd was not super well known back then#but what im saying is that karen PERFORMS but is she actually a safe person to go to? i think thats what her arc is about#like thats why the mikekaren hug at the end of s4 was important bc not only does she hug him hut she also makes it clear she doesnt want to#lose him#its that reassurance after a traumatizing event from a parent that kids and teens need!#i think karen does what she thinks she is supposed to do but also i think shes the typical white boomer who lacks a lot of self awareness#in how she treats ppl#doesnt make her a bad person. honestly i think shes a good person#i think when all characters are humanized and flawed what separates a good person from a bad person in st#is whether they like to inflict pain (like brenner) or if theyre just a flawed human beings (good but nuanced)#girl whos been thinking abt karen all day <- me
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