#surviving divorce

[survivingdivorce]

Hi, my fellow pals of children of divorce. How have you been doing? Have you been eating and sleeping well? Are you doing well? I hope you are.

Did it get better, somehow? Does it ever get better? I hope it did; and continues to always do.

You deserve your own happiness, and your own world. You are free to choose yourself and to become your highest being, your best and kindest version of yourself.

No matter how hard it gets, it always gets easier and better too, somehow... only if you focus on your progress and betterment. Let go of that person of your past. Let go of the ghosts of your past. They don’t have a place in your present life anymore 🤍

(Also, don’t you think we need to stop identifying ourselves as a child of divorce? It sounds weird and the pain is too old for that.)

You are so strong, I hope you know that. And after reading this, I hope you can accept that. Sometimes when you tell yourself that you are strong, or when people tell you that, you don’t believe them or yourself. So I hope you have the courage to believe that you are strong and I am immensely grateful of how strong you are as a person.

Remember, you are never alone. Things happened this way to allow you to become your best self and to send you to places so unimaginably beautiful you could cry just thinking about it. You are loved, without having to ask for anyone’s permission.

You’ll do great.

But most importantly, you’ll be fine.

You’ll be fine.

[superlibranchick65]

If I’m Going To Be Honest

If I’m going to be honest, I stopped writing my blog because I felt I had failed all my followers. My blog was supposed to be about how I was thriving at 50 as I prepared to divorce my high school sweetheart husband. I was healthy, I felt true love for myself. My blogs were fun, I was fun, men were fun, dating was fun…LIFE WAS FUN PERIOD!… until it wasn’t. I thought I had it all figured out, in…

[www40ishandihavetodependonmyself]

If I’m Going To Be Honest

If I’m going to be honest, I stopped writing my blog because I felt I had failed all my followers. My blog was supposed to be about how I was thriving at 50 as I prepared to divorce my high school sweetheart husband. I was healthy, I felt true love for myself. My blogs were fun, I was fun, men were fun, dating was fun…LIFE WAS FUN PERIOD!… until it wasn’t. I thought I had it all figured out, in…

[crumb-crumblet-s-crumbington]

government assigned roomate AU

[jedi-starbird]

fellas. fellas. listen. qui-gon does express affection towards obi-wan, he just does it in the divorced dad way.

that's his love language, despite never having been married, divorced or had a kid.

[hoarder-of-dragons]

[When Aziraphale returns] Aziraphale: Oh Crowley I find that place completely unbearable. No plush armchairs, no old books, no sushi, no music, no plays, no tea, and most importantly, no YOU, Crowley. Oh, what a grave mistake I've made leaving you. It's dreadfully dull there with everything so white. Since I've left, my thoughts have been consumed by you, my dear. It's been a nightmare to endure, and I couldn't stand another second there. Crowley: Crowley: Angel you've been gone for two hours

[murasaki-cha]

You will never understand the impact on the manhwa community this series had at it's prime. It was revolutionary! It was insane! It was ahead of it's time! It's one of those "You had to be there" events!

No because in this manhwa:

The fl and og!fl actually got along and were great friends with no drama

The 2 prince brothers actually cared for each other and there was no fight for the throne

No love triangle between the two princes and the fl just wholesome married couple and siblings in law shenanigans

Great friendships not just for the fl but for the ml too the whole story just screams found family it's not only focused on romance

Fl actually cooperates with ml from the begining and becomes a double spy!

Every character was so interesting and got you intrigued no one was one dimensional every character was well constructed and had a personality

This is a cult manhwa. Everyone who is like me and read it while it was still ongoing from the begining know just how amazing this manhwa was at the time!

[add1ctedt0you]

Canonically speaking, jc' reaction to someone he doesn't like/has strong negative feelings towards, because that person was a jerk to his sister, is to regulate his emotions according to how his sister feels. In a jyl lives au, after wwx's return, canon jc is going to his sister, saying something like: 'while I think we should throw at least a cup of tea at him because he left us you and a-ling like that, it's your choice, jin zixuan was your husband. What are we feeling now, jiejie?'

[ech0fae]

ex wives 🤪

[moongothic]

Seen a few people too many discuss the concept of Dragodile Baby 2 and my hot take is that there's no way in hell Crocodile would ever detransition just to go through nine months of horrible dysphoria again, let alone go through pregnancy ever again (or allow Ivankov to even touch him, what if they died and weren't able to trans Croc's gender again afterwards? Hell naw, ain't worth the risk)

But this leaves an opportunity for a Funnier Option:

Dragon wants another baby? Sure, but it's his turn to carry it >:)

[arrangedaccident]

netflix trying to repurpose their austrian gp footage into norstappen gossip girl arc after following williams around all weekend for the nonexistent sargebon divorce drama

[supernovabyte]

Multishipping in a nutshell

No hate to any ships here btw!!!!

[jonathanbyersphd]

The 16 strength? Like yea, ok sure.

More importantly,

GLUE THAT HOLDS THE BYERS FAMILY TOGETHER. GLUE THAT HOLDS THE BYERS FAMILY TOGETHER. GLUE THAT HOLDS THE BYERS FAMILY TOGETHER.

[actual-changeling]

ohhh yanno...I think sometimes why I get so uncomfortable with meta and theories with GO (specifically in defense of Aziraphale) is that it really starts to resemble pro Christianity rhetoric...and I totally believe that everyone should feel free to believe/not believe in any sort of religion they choose...but it starts to get real uncomfy real fast when I'm reminded of my own christian family and their condemnations of me and the experiences I went through growing up christian and then realizing I didn't believe in any of it...

and for some people maybe that IS why they so staunchly defend Aziraphale, but for me, it's why his actions made me so mad, and why the firm "aziraphale defenders no matter what" lowkey skeeve me out...like that post you said about knowing Aziraphale in real life...yeahhhh no I'd never be friends with him, and maybe that does make me too biased for Crowley, bc I'm imagining myself in his position, bc I HAVE BEEN in that position, but idk I just can't find it in me to defend angel characters or super pro christian type thinking ones when too much of irl has been negatively affected by those types of people. and yeah fiction is not reality but when the premise of GO is a satirical look on religion idk it's just iffy to be so pro angel/heaven imo (obviously this isn't about those who view it with nuance hahaha)

I know what you mean anon, I definitely feel the same.

Seeing people fall into angel good/demon bad without even noticing is... painful, to say the least. Defending all of Aziraphale's actions because he had "good intentions" or "still has faith" or "was traumatized by heaven" is harmful and unhealthy to say the least, and it 100% looks like pro-Christianity rhetoric at times.

We're supposed to look at Aziraphale and see somehow who yes, has good intentions, but has refused to deal with his trauma and problems and ends up making incredibly bad choices as a result. He is supposed to change, so defending his actions is counter-intuitive to the message Neil and Terry want us to receive.

Aziraphale is that kid who tells you sure, it's fine to no believe in God, but you will go to hell and suffer forever, who tells you everyone just needs to "try harder" and that "poor people have mor opportunities" (I still cannot process that he canonically says and believes that), who tells you that you can be gay, but don't be it in front of the children or any people.

Aziraphale is the guy who refuses to deal with his internalized homophobia and asks his queer friends to go back into the closet because he cannot deal with seeing queer people be happy while he is stuck in self-induced misery.

There are reasons why so many people are uncomfortable with his behaviour and ideologies—and you are supposed to be.

[giaaaaaaaaaaaaahnna13]

[murasaki-cha]

Remember when manhwa artists would sometimes give their fl's alice in wonderlamd inspired dresses?

I miss this why did they stop bring it back it was so cute