#stopplayingthevictim

[juscallmetru]

Don't let hard times define who you are keep your head up and push through those moments. Grind despite how you feel trouble don't last always pressure makes diamonds 🙏🏾👑😎💙🏁🤞🏾💪🏾

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[tnargrant]

Your trauma and/or unhappiness doesn't give you a pass. Get it together. #easiersaidthandone #fundamentalattributionerror #fallacy #takeaccountability #noexcuses #takeresponsibility #accountability #youareincontrol #sometimesyouaretheproblem #stopplayingthevictim #youaretheproblem #glitch #glitchart #typography #selfimprovement #psychology https://www.instagram.com/p/CTVOO7VPig-/?utm_medium=tumblr

[thecpdiary]

Why We Shouldn’t Judge Others

We shouldn't judge, instead we should be here to act and support. Living with a disability, over the years, I have been judged and have experienced first hand how being judged can lead to assumptions that are false.

It is important to remember that we’re all different and unless you walk in another person’s shoes, no one can really know what we go through, how we feel. As a society, we make judgments based on how people look, but the more we judge others, the more we’re in fact judging ourselves.

We judge around stereotypes associated with appearance. Deeply ingrained in our culture, we don’t always stop to think. Around disability it’s much harder because we already look and present differently, with no thought to what we may deal with. But we shouldn’t judge because words can hurt.

When we acknowledge someone’s suffering, we stop ourselves from judging. Judging is rectifiable, because it is down to our perceptions and perceptions can always be changed. Judging is about the person judging.

But it is important that if you have to judge, you look at the whole picture so that you are able to make more accurate judgments. Having been written off from an early age, and for those who throughout my life have judged me, given my achievements, they couldn't have been more wrong about me.

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[paraphraze615]

Like, you made an inappropriate comment about his daughter, then instigated beef with him and got slaughtered for it... YOU DID THIS TO YOURSELF!! EMINEM IS KNOWN FOR RUINING RAP CAREERS!!! #MGK #MachineGunKelly #Eminem #EminemMemes #SlimShady #TheRealSlimShady #MGKMemes #RapGod #RapGodEminem #RapDevil #RapDevil😈 #RapBeef #RapBeefs #DontBeAVictim #StopPlayingTheVictim #YouDidItToYourself #YouDidThisToYourself #ItsYourFault #ItsYourOwnFault #StopLyingToYourself #HotelDiablo #WhatWereYouThinking https://www.instagram.com/p/CIcyiZogQqp/?igshid=nqib25upnhuo

[mishnicholls]

5 Ways To Stop Giving Negative People Who Are Controlling Too Much Power In Your Life Why would you even let that happen? Seriously! I don’t care if you’re family, friends or Joe down the road! If you are impacting my life in a low vibe, negative, depressing way the change has to be made! I chose to no longer tolerate people in my life that don’t want to see me successful! Fuck, I want to see you successful so why wouldn’t you lift others! I am in complete control of my life not someone else’s opinion or comments! The thing is. Judgment and Opinions are purely a self reflection of that person! It’s not you they are actually focused on, it’s them & the only way for them to feel better about themselves is to drop all their shit on you! I really want you to embrace & embody It’s your choice! It’s your life You have no idea what tomorrow is going to bring you, I know cliche but the fucking reality! So here are 5 ways to build your resilience muscle and level up your tolerance in life... 1. Guard Your Time. 2. Choose Your Attitude. Spending time with negative people can be the fastest way to ruin a good mood. 3. Refocus Your Thoughts. Negative people often influence what we think about. 4. Choose to Behave Productively. 5. Seek Out Positive People. Notice how none of these tips have anything to do with CHANGING the other person! It’s about you! It’s about your choice! It’s about your life! It’s about your actions! Today is the day, do what you have to do! & Remember, Only you can design your life I choose, Wild & Free Michelle x #bethechange #focusonyou #speakyourtruth #ownyourshit #stopplayingthevictim #getreal #yourchoices #yourlife #onelife #wildandfree #2020 #changes #top5 #bringiton (at Michelle R Nicholls) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6jVuJFBttK/?igshid=1bixm8x7ttaly

[ogabel]

#stopplayin #stopplayingthevictim #manup #dontbeawuss #ogabelquote #ogabel

[msfitnic]

If your life sucks, that means you suck. Lol, just enjoy the journey that life has to offer you. #stopplayingthevictim

[bratty-potatoe]

Me trying to figure out how people get mad and blame other people for what they got THEMSELVES into. Like why help other people if it’s gonna put you in a bad place then get mad when they can’t help you back??? We needed help in the first place what makes you think we have the ABILITY to help you when we couldn’t help ourselves.

[tonydavy]

There's no shortcuts to progression. #YouCantCheatLife #LearnTheHardWay #StopPlayingTheVictim #KushAndWizdom #KushAndWizdomQuotes

[paraphraze615]

Read it again. #OwnUpToYourShit #OwnUpToYourMistakes #IWasWrongAndImSorry #AdmitWhenYoureWrong #StopBeingAVictim #StopPlayingTheVictim #AccountabilityCoaching #AccountabilityPartner #ReadItAgain #ReadThatAgain https://www.instagram.com/p/B4VfJSvADQg/?igshid=upwpe07g6njn

[robdiggity]

#galacticknowledgeguidance #echoyoursound #riseup #stopplayingthevictim #takeaction #selfempowerment #beyourownhero

[ogabel]

#stopplayin #stopplayingthevictim #manup #dontbeawuss #ogabelquote #ogabel

[chroniclesofthecrazies-blog]

Best Valentines Day date ever

So this past Valentines Day my husband took me to lunch after church.  As we waited to be seated along with the many other guest who were out with family and significant others, a man walked in with his daughter.  I couldn’t help but notice them among all the families and couples.  He was a fairly young father, maybe in his 30′s and his daughter must have been about 7 or 8.  It just got me thinking wow this young and attractive guy really is taking his daughter to lunch on Valentines Day?  Let’s be real that is rare and in between especially for a man that I am sure has ladies lining up to be his date.  So we got seated and it so happened that they were in the booth next to us.  I looked over and saw how his daughter sat next to him to color and he was very attentive to her. He did not sit there with her and play on his phone, actually I did not even see him holding a phone at all.  He was probably thinking I was a complete moron as I sat and admired him and his daughter.  I told my husband in Vietnamese, that it was so cute to see such a thing and really surprising. My husband agreed.  I mean for a guy such as him to have probably other options to spend his valentines day, chose to spend it with the one woman who will always be his everything and for him to know and to value that.  It was just down right heartwarming.  A part of me wanted to really go up to him and commend him for being such a great father and putting his daughter first.  I knew though I would totally look like a crazy person.  I saw him look at me a few times, but was thinking maybe it was because i was staring at him, after thinking about it I realized that he was probably looking at me because when I was pointing him out to my husband, he said kind of loudly, “the guy in the true religion jeans?” hahaha. So even though i spoke Vietnamese, I think he knew we were saying something about him.  I did not come up with this thought until a few days later thinking about it.  Then I was like omg this guys must think we are complete asses and talking about him, here i am speaking in Vietnamese (even though everything I said was complimenting) and he obviously knew he was “the guy in the true religion jeans”. It is funny now but I can’t imagine what that man was thinking.  If you ever read this, please know I was not saying anything bad about you.  If anything I have so much respect for you for spending the day with your daughter.  You truly are a great example of what a real father is. Seeing this also got me to thinking about my nieces and nephews and how unfortunate they are to have been dealt the wrong hand when it came to a father.  I thought about how many endless times he would put himself and his relationship with his girlfriend before his children and his relationship with them. If I had a dollar for every time he ask them to think of his happiness and be happy for him with no consideration for their feelings and their happiness.  I remember one time when his daughter who was about 17 at the time was flying home and asked him to pick her up at 11 pm at the airport and he told her that she was asking for too much and he worked it out for one of his workers to pick her up and take her home.  Someone she did not know beyond seeing him in a car with her father.  What man sends some practical stranger to pick up his 17 year old daughter.  Then to ask what am I supposed to do? Leave my girlfriend in the middle of the night to do something for my daughter and then have my girlfriend mad or sad?  Uh..yes jackass that is exactly what you do, because your daughters safety comes before anything and anyone. Yes, dumbass that is exactly what you do because a real father spends every breathe and every moment ensuring that his children are safe and protected. That they are taken care of and healthy.  If your girlfriend gets mad because you have to do something for your child, there is a lot to be said about that person.  There is even more to be said about a father like you who tolerates that and goes along with it.  Then you want to cry about how evil your children are or how disrespectful they are.  You do not deserve their respect.  You do not deserve their consideration and love when you put yourself and your girlfriend before them.  You do not deserve to be their father when you can not protect, love and give to them unconditionally.  You are an ill person who needs some serious help.  You are a hypocrite and a sad excuse for a father. If I had a dollar for every idiotic thing that came out of his mouth I could be a rich woman. The endless lies and the ridiculous cover ups.  The crying wolf and the playing victim.  It gets old and people see through it.  Do not bad mouth your children because they see what you are to blind to see.  Do not think they are of bad character when you are the one lying and deceiving. Do not make yourself out to be the victim and them the abuser, because you just look more idiotic.  Your existence in this world is a tragedy for society. Kelly Clarkson sang it best with her song “Piece by Piece”. Kelly Clarkson said it best when she said, “ But it's more of that thing where you can try your hardest to salvage relationships—and I did—but at the end of the day, if you keep getting hurt by someone because they just don't know how to properly love people, it's just not worth it”.

[juscallmetru]

Stop worrying about the next person the real competiton is yourself either you gone put up or shut up. You versus you give it all you got with no regrets make the younger you proud lets get it 🙏🏾👑😎💙🏁🤞🏾💪🏾

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[beautifulbitterfruit]

goodbye.

I’m done, I’m throwing in the white flag. You’ve managed to wreck me so badly without even trying. Too self involved to understand that those around you are effected. Too much lust for attention that you forgot that others need it too. I’m exhausted, I’m tired. Damnit I’m crying. I’ve given you more thought than you’ve ever given me and frankly you don’t deserve it. I don’t deserve this. I wish you well. I just can’t sit back and watch you go up in flames. It’s not your fault. It’s not mine either. We all have a threshold though, and I reached mine a while ago. Been biting my tongue since then. Been holding my breath. I’m breathing out now. I’m letting got of the rope I’ve be struggling to pass to you; the one you haven’t so much as tried to reach for. I’m breathing out now. I’m exhaling: the bitter, the hurt, the anger, all of it. I’m letting you go. I suggest you do the same. Goodbye.