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🚨 Don’t Say He ‘Preyed’ on Her When She Was Just a ‘Little Girl’ at 18—

She Can Vote and Send Men to War

🔥 The Hypocrisy of Infantilizing Women When It’s Convenient

We need to have a serious f*cking conversation about the double standards of female agency.

One minute, an 18-year-old woman is a ‘strong, independent queen’ who can vote, drive, get an abortion, take out massive student loans, and send men her age to die in war.

The next minute?

She gets into a relationship with an older man.

She regrets it, or society doesn’t approve.

And suddenly, she’s a helpless, innocent ‘little girl’ who was ‘preyed upon.’

You don’t get to play “capable adult” when it’s convenient and “child victim” when it’s not.

📌 Pick a Lane: Are 18-Year-Old Women Adults or Not?

🔹 If an 18-year-old woman is old enough to vote on foreign policy, she’s old enough to pick who she f*cks. 🔹 If she can legally sign a contract, she can choose a relationship. 🔹 If she can be trusted with making life-altering choices like abortion or transitioning, she can decide who she dates. 🔹 If men her age are expected to “man up” and go die in war, she’s expected to “woman up” and own her decisions.

But instead? Society lets women pretend they’re fully functional adults until accountability knocks—then suddenly, they were ‘just little girls’ being manipulated.

No. If you’re old enough to decide a man’s fate at the ballot box, you’re old enough to own your f*cking choices in bed.

🚨 The ‘Preyed On’ Myth: Stop Turning Women Into Perpetual Victims

You know who actually gets preyed on?

12-year-olds getting groomed online.

Underage girls forced into relationships by actual predators.

Kids who don’t have the ability to legally or mentally consent.

You know who doesn’t? 18-year-olds making choices, then regretting them later.

You weren’t “preyed on” if you dated a 30-year-old at 18.

You weren’t “groomed” just because your older boyfriend had more life experience.

You weren’t “manipulated” just because you didn’t like how the relationship ended.

Being naive isn’t the same as being a victim. Bad choices aren’t the same as being preyed on.

🔥 FINAL VERDICT: Women Can’t Demand Full Autonomy While Crying ‘Preyed On’ for Bad Dating Choices

If you’re an adult when you want to be, you’re an adult ALL THE TIME.

If you can send a man to war, you can handle your own dating life.

If you f*ck up, own it—don’t play the ‘poor little girl’ card.

Because either women are adults with agency, or they aren’t. Pick one.

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[booksonthet]

#ToughTruths on the T today. @deirdre.maloney shares her tips for happiness in this handy little book. Let us know if you find it with #booksonthet . . . #lifelessons #happiness #happinesslessons #sharinggboomsigreads #bookstagram #booksofinstagram #instabooks https://www.instagram.com/p/BriMGsKHyui/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=jhkthc0c1igs

[diaoman2]

Know the difference: love vs attachment. If she is vindictive after a fallout, she never loved you. You were a means to an end. #sheneverlovedyou #truelovedoesntexist #meanstoanend #toughtruth #parasitic https://www.instagram.com/p/CPCUy80NIy0/?utm_medium=tumblr

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[waiting-till-im-okay]

Forever People

Everyone has them. Those people you look at and know that 15 years later you will love just as much.

In my case I have no romantic version, but I did meet on at the age of 10. She’s my best friend. We go to different schools now but whenever we meet up we can just cuddle and say nothing or talk about anything. They are rare and when you find one you should hold on tight.

And after 4 years at my current school, I’ve realised, I don’t have any forever people there. I struggled with that for a really long time. I wondered ,what was wrong with me? Why can I not find people that mutually want to spend as much time with me as I do with them.

My tumblr is all about how I hope things are better when I get to college. I know that whole “If you never stop thinking about how good things could be in the future you’ll never truly be happy” but I like to think to myself “ This can’t be as good as it gets” . It truly can’t that bad that I hope to one day be surrounded by people who support me and want me around. Not people who seem to think my every comment is irrelevant, unwanted but occasionally comical.

So yeah this is my first post . I want this tumblr to be a digital scrapbook of my journey to a better time.

~Honey

[itsfreespiritposts-blog]

Second Choice

I guess becoming 2nd priority or second choice sucks. First he tells you that you're the only one, that you're his number one girl, but he still picks his friends over spending time with you. He puts his other female friends before you and he would move mountains to spend time with them. I guess that's when you know that your not as important as thought. That's when you know that 2nd best and 2nd choice is what your ever going to be. I felt like we were closer when we were best friends. When we were bestfriends I didn't need to worry, I just constantly reminded myself that his not mine. And now that he is, I feel like we're further apart.

But I'm still here, waiting for when they leave, and when his all alone. He'll come back and I'm not sure if I'll be sticking around long enough to welcome him back.

[healstephenmunson]

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[moun7ain]

What if the illegals left?

Somebody really did their homework on this one. Best on the subject to present date. What if 20 Million Illegal Aliens Vacated America? I, Tina Griego, journalist for the Denver Rocky Mountain News wrote a column titled, "Mexican Visitor's Lament." I interviewed Mexican journalist Evangelina Hernandez while visiting Denver last week. Hernandez said, "Illegal aliens pay rent, buy groceries, buy clothes. What happens to your country's economy if 20 million people go away?" Hmmm, I thought, what would happen? So I did my due diligence, buried my nose as a reporter into the FACTS I found below. It's a good question... it deserves an honest answer. Over 80% of Americans demand secured borders and illegal migration stopped. But what would happen if all 20 million or more vacated America? The answers I found may surprise you! In California, if 3.5 million illegal aliens moved back to Mexico, it would leave an extra $10.2 billion to spend on overloaded school systems, bankrupt hospitals and overrun prisons. It would leave highways cleaner, safer and less congested. Everyone could understand one another as English became the dominant language again. In Colorado, 500,000 illegal migrants, plus their 300,000 kids and grandchilds would move back "home," mostly to Mexico. That would save Colorado an estimated $2 billion (other experts say $7 billion) annually in taxes that pay for schooling, medical, social-services and incarceration costs. It means 12,000 gang members would vanish out of Denver alone. Colorado would save more than $20 million in prison costs, and the terror that those 7,300 alien criminals set upon local citizens. Denver Officer Don Young and hundreds of Colorado victims would not have suffered death, accidents, rapes and other crimes by illegals. Denver Public Schools would not suffer a 67% dropout/flunk rate because of thousands of illegal alien students speaking 41 different languages. At least 200,000 vehicles would vanish from our gridlocked cities in Colorado. Denver's 4% unem ployment rate would vanish as our working poor would gain jobs at a living wage. In Florida, 1.5 million illegals would return the Sunshine State back to America, the rule of law, and English. In Chicago, Illinois, 2.1 million illegals would free up hospitals, schools, prisons and highways for a safer, cleaner and more crime-free experience. If 20 million illegal aliens returned 'home,' the U.S. Economy would return to the rule of law. Employers would hire legal American citizens at a living wage. Everyone would pay their fair share of taxes because they wouldn't be working off the books. That would result in an additional $401 billion in IRS income taxes collected annually, and an equal amount for local, state and city coffers. No more push '1' for Spanish or '2' for English. No more confusion in American schools that now must contend with over 100 languages that degrade the educational system for American kids. Our overcrowded schools would lose more than two million illegal alien kids at a cost of billions in ESL and free breakfasts and lunches. We would lose 500,000 illegal criminal alien inmates at a cost of more than $1.6 billion annually. That includes 15,000 MS-13 gang members who distribute $130 billion in drugs annually would vacate our country. In cities like L.A., 20,000 members of the '18th Street Gang' would vanish from our nation. No more Mexican forgery gangs for ID theft from Americans! No more foreign rapists and child molesters! Losing more than 20 million people would clear up our crowded highways and gridlock. Cleaner air and less drinking and driving American deaths by illegal aliens! America's economy is drained. Taxpayers are harmed. Employers get rich. Over $80 billion annually wouldn't return to the aliens' home countries by cash transfers. Illegal migrants earned half that money untaxed, which further drains America 's economy which currently suffers an $8.7 trillion debt. $8.7 trillion debt!!! At least 400,000 anchor babies would not be born in our country, costing us $109 billion per year per cycle. At least 86 hospitals in California, Georgia and Florida would still be operating instead of being bankrupt out of existence because illegals pay nothing via the EMTOLA Act. Americans wouldn't suffer thousands of TB and hepatitis cases rampant in our country - brought in by illegals unscreened at our borders. Our cities would see 20 million less people driving, polluting and grid locking our cities. It would also put the 'progressives' on the horns of a dilemma; illegal aliens and their families cause 11% of our greenhouse gases. Over one million of Mexico's poorest citizens now live inside and along our border from Brownsville, Texas, to San Diego, California, in what the New York Times called, 'colonias' or new neighborhoods. Trouble is, those living areas resemble Bombay and Calcutta where grinding poverty, filth, diseases, drugs, crimes, no sanitation and worse. They live without sewage, clean water, streets, roads, electricity, or any kind of sanitation. The New York Times reported them to be America's new 'Third World' inside our own country. Within 20 years, at their current growth rate, they expect 20 million residents of those colonials. (I've seen them personally in Texas and Arizona; it's sickening beyond anything you can imagine.) By enforcing our laws, we could repatriate them back to Mexico. We should invite 20 million aliens to go home, fix their own countries and/or make a better life in Mexico. We already invite a million people into our country legally annually, more than all other countries combined. We cannot and must not allow anarchy at our borders, more anarchy within our borders and growing lawlessness at every level in our nation. It's time to stand up for our country, our culture, our civilization and our way of life. Interesting Statistics! Here are 14 reasons illegal aliens should vacate America, and I hope they are forwarded over and over again until they are read so many times that the reader gets sick of reading them: 1. $14 billion to $22 billion dollars are spent each year on welfare to illegal aliens (that's Billion with a 'B') 3. $7.5 billion dollars are spent each year on Medicaid for illegal aliens. 4. $12 billion dollars are spent each year on primary and secondary school education for children here illegally and they still cannot speak a word of English! 5. $27 billion dollars are spent each year for education for the American-born children of illegal aliens, known as anchor babies. 6. $3 Million Dollars 'PER DAY' is spent to incarcerate illegal aliens. That's $1.2 Billion a year. 7. 28% percent of all federal prison inmates are illegal aliens. 8. $190 billion dollars are spent each year on illegal aliens for welfare & social services by the American taxpayers. 9. $200 billion dollars per year in suppressed American wages are caused by the illegal aliens. 10. The illegal aliens in the United States have a crime rate that's two and a half times that of white non-illegal aliens. In particular, their children, are going to make a huge additional crime problem in t he US. 11. During the year 2005, there were 8 to 10 MILLION illegal aliens that crossed our southern border with as many as 19,500 illegal aliens from other terrorist countries. Over 10,000 of those were middle-eastern terrorists. Millions of pounds of drugs, cocaine, meth, heroin, crack, guns, and marijuana crossed into the U.S. from the southern border. 12. The National Policy Institute, estimates that the total cost of mass deportation would be between $206 and $230 billion, or an average cost of between $41 and $46 billion annually over a five year period. 13. In 2006, illegal aliens sent home $65 BILLION in remittances back to their countries of origin, to their families and friends. 14. The dark side of illegal immigration: Nearly one million sex crimes are committed by illegal immigrants in the United States! Total cost a whopping $538.3 BILLION DOLLARS A YEAR !

[booksonthet]

#ToughTruths on the T today. @deirdre.maloney shares her tips for happiness in this handy little book. Let us know if you find it with #booksonthet . . . #lifelessons #happiness #happinesslessons #sharinggboomsigreads #bookstagram #booksofinstagram #instabooks https://www.instagram.com/p/BriMGsKHyui/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=b164v8p6t9ke

[toughtruth4u]

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Kindly watch and share, thanks and God bless. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbACeQKN4tk&ab_channel=ToughTruth

[toughtruth4u]

Kindly watch and share, thanks and God bless. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZjLfReI4gQ&ab_channel=ToughTruth

[toughtruth4u]

Kindly click on the link to watch the video in its entirety. Thanks and God bless. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbACeQKN4tk&ab_channel=ToughTruth