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🚨 Don’t Say He ‘Preyed’ on Her When She Was Just a ‘Little Girl’ at 18—

She Can Vote and Send Men to War

🔥 The Hypocrisy of Infantilizing Women When It’s Convenient

We need to have a serious f*cking conversation about the double standards of female agency.

One minute, an 18-year-old woman is a ‘strong, independent queen’ who can vote, drive, get an abortion, take out massive student loans, and send men her age to die in war.

The next minute?

She gets into a relationship with an older man.

She regrets it, or society doesn’t approve.

And suddenly, she’s a helpless, innocent ‘little girl’ who was ‘preyed upon.’

You don’t get to play “capable adult” when it’s convenient and “child victim” when it’s not.

📌 Pick a Lane: Are 18-Year-Old Women Adults or Not?

🔹 If an 18-year-old woman is old enough to vote on foreign policy, she’s old enough to pick who she f*cks. 🔹 If she can legally sign a contract, she can choose a relationship. 🔹 If she can be trusted with making life-altering choices like abortion or transitioning, she can decide who she dates. 🔹 If men her age are expected to “man up” and go die in war, she’s expected to “woman up” and own her decisions.

But instead? Society lets women pretend they’re fully functional adults until accountability knocks—then suddenly, they were ‘just little girls’ being manipulated.

No. If you’re old enough to decide a man’s fate at the ballot box, you’re old enough to own your f*cking choices in bed.

🚨 The ‘Preyed On’ Myth: Stop Turning Women Into Perpetual Victims

You know who actually gets preyed on?

12-year-olds getting groomed online.

Underage girls forced into relationships by actual predators.

Kids who don’t have the ability to legally or mentally consent.

You know who doesn’t? 18-year-olds making choices, then regretting them later.

You weren’t “preyed on” if you dated a 30-year-old at 18.

You weren’t “groomed” just because your older boyfriend had more life experience.

You weren’t “manipulated” just because you didn’t like how the relationship ended.

Being naive isn’t the same as being a victim. Bad choices aren’t the same as being preyed on.

🔥 FINAL VERDICT: Women Can’t Demand Full Autonomy While Crying ‘Preyed On’ for Bad Dating Choices

If you’re an adult when you want to be, you’re an adult ALL THE TIME.

If you can send a man to war, you can handle your own dating life.

If you f*ck up, own it—don’t play the ‘poor little girl’ card.

Because either women are adults with agency, or they aren’t. Pick one.

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[diaoman2]

Know the difference: love vs attachment. If she is vindictive after a fallout, she never loved you. You were a means to an end. #sheneverlovedyou #truelovedoesntexist #meanstoanend #toughtruth #parasitic https://www.instagram.com/p/CPCUy80NIy0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[booksonthet]

#ToughTruths on the T today. @deirdre.maloney shares her tips for happiness in this handy little book. Let us know if you find it with #booksonthet . . . #lifelessons #happiness #happinesslessons #sharinggboomsigreads #bookstagram #booksofinstagram #instabooks https://www.instagram.com/p/BriMGsKHyui/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=jhkthc0c1igs

[toughtruth4u]

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[waiting-till-im-okay]

Forever People

Everyone has them. Those people you look at and know that 15 years later you will love just as much.

In my case I have no romantic version, but I did meet on at the age of 10. She’s my best friend. We go to different schools now but whenever we meet up we can just cuddle and say nothing or talk about anything. They are rare and when you find one you should hold on tight.

And after 4 years at my current school, I’ve realised, I don’t have any forever people there. I struggled with that for a really long time. I wondered ,what was wrong with me? Why can I not find people that mutually want to spend as much time with me as I do with them.

My tumblr is all about how I hope things are better when I get to college. I know that whole “If you never stop thinking about how good things could be in the future you’ll never truly be happy” but I like to think to myself “ This can’t be as good as it gets” . It truly can’t that bad that I hope to one day be surrounded by people who support me and want me around. Not people who seem to think my every comment is irrelevant, unwanted but occasionally comical.

So yeah this is my first post . I want this tumblr to be a digital scrapbook of my journey to a better time.

~Honey

[itsfreespiritposts-blog]

Second Choice

I guess becoming 2nd priority or second choice sucks. First he tells you that you're the only one, that you're his number one girl, but he still picks his friends over spending time with you. He puts his other female friends before you and he would move mountains to spend time with them. I guess that's when you know that your not as important as thought. That's when you know that 2nd best and 2nd choice is what your ever going to be. I felt like we were closer when we were best friends. When we were bestfriends I didn't need to worry, I just constantly reminded myself that his not mine. And now that he is, I feel like we're further apart.

But I'm still here, waiting for when they leave, and when his all alone. He'll come back and I'm not sure if I'll be sticking around long enough to welcome him back.

[healstephenmunson]

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[danielle7910]

#toughtruth #namaste #positiveenergy #peaceandlove✌❤ (at Hunger Games)

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[toughtruth4u]

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[toughtruth4u]

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[toughtruth4u]

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