#soon = when he pisses me off

[jungkoode]

kiki honestly just do your thing, like fr if people can’t separate fiction from reality that’s a THEM problem and not yours. i get it, you’re worried about how people might take it, but like… you’re gonna burn out if you keep stressing over this kinda stuff. and we NEED you to finish these stories so pls don’t go phoenix on us and combust ok??? and look, we all know it’s a jungkook fanfic. this man is about to be 28, he’s literally written songs about sex, and you think he’s worried about fanart of him naked? like no. and if someone does get pressed, that’s on them, not you. he’s a public figure, they ALL know their sex appeal, and we know it too. it’s not like we’re objectifying them in a gross way, it’s just… they’re desirable? talented, hardworking, stupidly good-looking, successful, all of it. it’s natural to wanna read fanfic or see a spicy drawing of them bc duh. women deserve to explore their sexuality too, and at least we’re doing it through art and fics, not out here being creepy and catcalling everything that moves like dudes do. you’re fine kiks, seriously, just do what makes you happy bc we’re all here for it.

Okay, FIRST OF ALL, anon, you just unlocked a new level of reassurance I didn’t know I needed—thank you. Like, when I tell you my heart physically unclenched reading this?? You’re so right, and I’m so dumb for stressing this much (pls don’t combust from secondhand stress; I’m trying my best). You’ve got me feeling like I just went to fanfic therapy, honestly.

Second of all, the way you articulated that women exploring their sexuality through art and writing is a million times healthier than the walking catcalls most men embody?? Revolutionary. Groundbreaking. And yeah, Jungkook’s out here with his sexy little tattoos and thirst-trap Calvin Klein ads—he KNOWS. He’s not gonna cry himself to sleep because someone drew him wrecking someone’s life (in a consensual, fictional way, obvs).

You’re so right, though. I need to chill before I mentally yeet myself into burnout. No phoenix flames over here, I promise. I’m too invested in making sure Y/N gets her redemption arc and Jungkook stops being emotionally constipated to quit now.

TL;DR: You’re my new life coach, and you’re invited to my chaotic mental breakdown party anytime. Thank you for being here and for GETTING IT. Let’s do this. <3

[shedontlovehuhself]

Misha: gets praised(again) or acknowledged for continuing to be the most vocal destiel and gay Cas supporter of the Cast.

Hellers on Tumblr: "how can I make this about Jensen?"

[cowboy-robooty]

MORE SHIT FROM MY 2pTALIA MADNESS. this one was me playing with physical manga screentones again... too bad i made the drawing supar small like a dumbass. U.S. quarter for scale

[the-way-astray]

okay fintan fans need to stop acting like making alt accounts to vote gethen was a significant factor in his winning

[andragoras-in-vanity]

im distraught, my rook has elgar'nans vallaslin.....

[3moe5me]

you know Wat... my other bbc ghosts fandom complaint post reached a lot of people so I'm going to do it again because I have another qualm I want to raise with the people.

I think one of the most pressing examples of this fandom's misogyny is the juxtaposition between how Havers is treated by the fans and how the female side characters are treated by the fans. before I go into this bear in mind I'm mostly on about the fans of the show on other platforms, I don't know much about what the Ghosts fanbase is like here but there's no character limit so here is where I'll yap.

take a look at how people talk about Havers. his less than two minutes of screentime has granted him a large fanbase, ample fanfiction, and a plethora of fanart. then take a look at how characters like Annie and even Eleanor are treated. they have far more screentime and development than Havers and yet... next to nothing for them. the fans ignore them entirely save for a couple of people with sense.

the reasons why are obvious. A) Havers is the love interest of the most popular character- the Captain and B) Havers is a man while Annie and Eleanor are women.

when it comes to Eleanor specifically you could argue that people don't like her because she was a dick to Kitty, but that argument falls through entirely when you realise that if Eleanor were a man people would be downplaying her actions and probably going on about some "guys hear me out...".

the simple reason that a lot of people are not ready to accept is that the reason why the female side characters have nowhere near as much popularity as Havers is because of misogyny. people want to prioritise their white boy yaoi above all else. I would even go as far as to argue that a good portion of the fandom prioritises Havers over the MAIN female characters in the show!

now of course there will be the people that hit me with the "well if you're so disappointed then go make your own fan content🙄" which is an argument I see ALL THE TIME whenever fandom misogyny is brought up. the point is you have to question WHY the women have less fan content in the first place. it's not because the fans of the female characters are "less dedicated" or whatever, it's because the female characters are overlooked by default by a good number of fans for the sake of the men- some of which have absolutely zero development or character to speak of, that the fan content that IS made for the women is completely overshadowed.

I will end this by saying that I don't think that fans of Havers are "bad people" or whatever. I think it's fine if you're compelled by the Captain's backstory and, as a result, take a liking to Havers. it's simply a pattern that I've noticed that even the most bare bones blokes receive more love than the women.

I ALSO don't want people hopping in my replies and reblogs on about some "well we're not OBLIGATED to make fanworks about the women🙄🙄". I never said you were. but maybe look inside of yourself and examine why you're so opposed to caring about the women as much as you do the men.

[sleazyjanet]

"i hope nate returns to his old self" what old self? do you want him to be the sweet but unassuming, shy guy, is that what you want? because there's no old self for nate to go back to. he's growing as a person into a better version of himself that's neither past nor present and yet both altogether. traces of the old self mixing with the new and creating something better, someone confident and smart and sweet. someone who will be ready to make amends, likely, while hopefully also staying independent.

so he won't be "coming back", returning to anything. that would suck.

[britneyshakespeare]

you know what i realized

is giving

[arolesbianism]

I've been doing a casual second lob corp playthrough for fun and one thing that I've really come to adore is how the different success rates can paint a pretty cool image of how work with it looks like at different levels of each work type and while I think it's kind of sad that base game you can't see the work percentages I also think it in a way adds a fun game of is this marginally harder at level five than four or is my guy just being bad at their job

[6-2-ansalewitofhate]

i have many thoughts abt gabriel but my brain is mush rn.

[zomgirl9]

i hear the ice cream truck I’m getting my purse I’ll be right back Reznov don’t disappear into your numbers

[vernard]

i truly will never ever understand joker fans who woobify him to hell and back . Like atp you arent even liking the joker thats a whole new character

[possum-tooth]

seeing a lot of breakup things when my bf and i havent talked in over an hour <3

[sillyfudgemonkeys]

Sounds like you've got a right bitch of a co-worker based on those post tags lol

ajfksdljf TT0TT Oh that was like my 3rd version of a post I made. I had to talk myself down and censor myself akljsdflkfa orz

But yes he really is. I cannot stress it enough that everyone hates his guts and he's created such a hostile work environment.

[izzy-b-hands]

If I don't find a new job before September, it's gonna be 9 straight weeks of polls starting in September, every weekend of September and October (including the weekend of Housemate's bday, and the weekend leading up to Election Day)

In addition, no cancels or sick days will be allowed for that period of time. Any cancels or sick call outs will result in disciplinary actions up to a fast tracked firing (to be fair they didn't say this exactly, but the Implication in this part of the email is quite strong lmao.)

Anyone wanna hire me on to do literally anything? Dig holes? Clean your house? Shine your shoes? Feed your cat/dog/fish/cow/etc? Stare at a pot of boiling water for your dinner? Paint your living room then stand there and watch the paint dry then repaint it a different colour and watch it dry again? Anything at all, anything you want, anything-

[running-in-the-dark]

oh great, I fell asleep again. except I had really horrible nightmares. and then got woken up by the doorbell, because a guy was here for the internet cables. i had just woken up and I was told before that they wouldn't need anything from us, so I was really confused. and he was the first rude one of all the people I've had to deal with since we moved in. I have literally nothing at all to do with any of this, I just live here 😭😭😭