#so proud!! he was amazing
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As a reminder that good exists out there, a coworker recently confessed to me that he found out his child is questioning their identity (kid's gender redacted for this post). The kid is keeping it from him, so he can't say anything to them or show that he knows, but he's doing his best to get mentally prepared and educated so that he'll be ready whenever his kid does feel comfortable enough come to him.
For context, this guy is a big, bulky middle aged dude who loves sports and typical outdoor "manly" activities. As his coworker and friend, I know he's a kind and sweet teddy bear of a person, but his kid probably views him as a stern, authoritarian figure, the way most teenagers view their parents. His family lives in a conservative area, so I'm sure between that, their dad's looks and interests, and the fact that their dad is a Figure of Authority, the kid is worried that they won't be accepted.
But you know what? When he found out about his kid, the first thing he did was reach out to his closest queer friend and ask for resources for parents of questioning children. His biggest fears are that his kid will be bullied or discriminated against and won't feel comfortable enough to be themself. His second action was to find himself a mentor in another parent who went the same situation (kid coming out in a conservative town). The other person is preparing him for some of the struggles his kid may face and the fights he may need to take on as a parent to make sure his kid is safe and treated well.
Something I want to emphasize for people focused on language as the primary method of allyship is that when we spoke, he used some outdated terms and thoughts about gender and sexuality. That does not make him bad. These were the terms and thinking used about questioning teenagers when he was growing up and he never needed to learn more current ones. But now that he does have that need, he's throwing himself in head first because that's his kid and he's darn well going to make sure that his kid feels welcomed and has a safe place to be themselves even if they never come out to him.
#I'm so proud and happy for my coworker and I've been trying to figure out how to let him know how amazing I think he is#what gets me the most is that he's keeping this super down low to avoid giving any hints to his kid#he has a lot of queer friends so he already is known as an ally but there's always a chance it will be different if it's family#and he took that chance and crumpled it up into a ball and slam dunked it into the garbage for three points#and decided that even if his kid wants to hide it from him for the rest of his life he will still do what he can to make their life better#pflag#parents doing their best#parenting win#good news#allyship
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I love Raph and haven’t said that enough so to be more specific I love that Raph is a soft boy who loves bear plushies, a gross boy who eats an assortment of things that are definitely better left alone, a smart boy who is more than capable of taking down villains through planning and fortitude alike, a strong boy who is dedicated to training his muscles and fighting prowess, a teenage boy who loves his brothers but is more than happy to tease and roughhouse with them, an angry boy who sometimes lets his anger take a hold of him to cover the fear, a gentle boy who is generous with hugs and affirmations to those he loves, a capable boy who takes on more than should ever be expected of a teenager, a good boy who just wants to be a hero and slowly comes to realize the cost of that duty, a good boy who has no reservations about putting himself in the way of harm coming to his family, a good boy who’s a great brother and son and person and deserves only the best the world has to offer.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt raph#rise raph#he’s so wonderful frfr#my poor boy is traumatized but still so proud of what they accomplished because they’re HEROES#what started as something fun - Saturday morning cartoon-like heroes vs villains esque - soon becomes his calling#and he loses himself a little along the way#because the world is TERRIFYING now#if they don’t do something about the bad things in the world then worse things will come#and Raph CARES too much to let it happen#even at the expense of his own happiness and youth#and he luckily reigns back that fear - knowing his family is there to keep an eye out with him#and he finally lets himself be a kid again#he’s very well rounded and his flaws are so good because (like the others) they are ALSO his strengths#I like how it’s softly implied that bears are his fav animal too bc that’s cute af#headcanon that he likes them so much because a stuffed bear was the first toy splinter managed to get Raph#but yeah one of my favorite things about tmnt is that the characters are well rounded and rottmnt exemplifies that immensely#with raph being no exception!!#amazing big brother and character#there’s a REASON in my tmnt main character tierlist he’s S tier!!!!#hot take but in terms of who should be leader I think it should be less who’s the better leader-#-and more who’s the better leader FOR THIS SPECIFIC MISSION#bc all four can be great leaders fight me on that#APRIL can as well 100%#doesn’t need a designated leader for them to succeed#they just need ~communication~#one of my favorite things tying Raph and Leo together is that they both *hide*#I’ve talked about Leo’s many masks a lot but Raph has one too#and it’s the mask of a hero - the mask of the protector
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i hope pedro knows or at least has some idea of how many people are so fucking proud of him. he's made incredible strides in his career and he deserves every second of the overdue recognition he is now receiving. there's no doubt that this has been his year, with huge shows on two of the biggest streaming platforms right now. i wholeheartedly believe he will get his roses and sweep those awards when the time is right.
#pedro pascal golden globe winner in our hearts#ugh#i am just so fucking proud of him#he has no idea who I am#but he has just made so many amazing moves in his career#and now he's getting the proper recognition for it#and he's still so humble as I ever#I COULD GO ON FOREVER#pedro pascal#golden globes
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his smile could cure the world ♡ [for @morshiberna ♡]
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#btsedit#btsgif#jimin#park jimin#bangtan#bts#mine#mine:gifs#mine:pjm#comp#userdimple#annietrack#rjshope#userpat#raplineuser#this coloring is all over the place dkfjfkfgjfkkhj but it doesn't matter because#IT'S MY BABY'S BIRTHDAY!!!!#HAPPY BIRTHDAY DARLING I HOPE YOU HAVE THE MOST WONDERFUL DAY <333#wishing you so much happiness and love and luck and fulfilled dreams and laughter and comfort and warmth#i can't believe how grown you are where has time gone :(#thank you for always being so lovely and kind#and for all the giggles and love#and also for letting me vent frustrations and matching my energy djgjfghjkffjfg#you're really just like our jiminie it makes so much sense he's your bias <3#my wish is that life lights your path with the brightest sunlight#and that you always know how amazing you are#how strong and resilient you are#and that you are capable of achieving anything you want#i'm proud of you and you should be too <3#happy birthday sweetheart 🥹💗
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sending zayn so much love and strength and hugs for having such a good start to the tour. i truly can not fathom what he must be going through rn because. he hasn't been on stage in nearly a decade now and he has spoken about the anxiety surrounding performing and for him to finally find a space where he can pace through live performances at his own level makes me feel so immensely proud of him. the last time he was on stage, he had four others backing him, supporting him and helping soothe his anxiety. and now one of them is gone. and like. it took him around eight years to be able to look back at his time in 1d fondly, to be able to embrace the band days and get nostalgic about the songs he made as part of the band. and now two days ago he was there when they buried liam. and to go through such monumental change and to still power through and perform. god he truly is one of the strongest people ever. i am always proud of him and he will always be such a shining star in our lives
#zeestar#yeah. i honestly can't even imagine how he did it but i'm so proud#i'm so glad he has khai now because if she's the reason he was about to heal from his 1d trauma and perform again then#he truly is such an amazing dad
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i put my hand near my mouth so i know i'm still breathing
#another tuxedomoon inspired comic !!!!!!!! (the audience is unfazed)#this is after the 5th moon incident#in the 2 years of vash being eric and wolfwood being vash-less#eriks** tf was that autocorrect#also i think he had absolutely not good sex in order to forget abt vash#painful and miserable yk#hence the 'boys buying boys/pleasure bringing pain is all the same' lines#im especially proud of this composition#and it's based on one of my favourite songs so it deserves the best art (or as good as i can yk)#the song is called 'desire' by tuxedomoon#and it has a minute long monologue that i know by heart bc it's amazing#and its very vashwood coded too#anyway#trigun#vashwood#my art#nicholas d. wolfwood#vash the stampede#trigun fanart#trigun maximum#tuxedomoon#Spotify
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absolutely glorious
you can’t see him but Ted is worshipping at AM’s feet
+ bonus for @moonalchemy the fatal frame fit
#there were so many requests for AM in a dress#you guys are amazing for that#I’m proud of this outfit#he’s so fancy#AM#evil computer#i have no mouth and i must scream#ihnmaims#am ihnmaims#my art
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Colin Bridgerton being a dramatic king is *chefs kiss* Like, YAS KING, feel your emotions and process them fully so you can grow into a wonderful man who is completely devoted to his wife.
#mel talks#colin bridgerton#polin#colin x penelope#bridgerton#baby boi is doing amazing#be dramatic#we love a man who has emotions#im so proud#fight me if you disagree#especially since he’s basically only in his early 20s#baby boi is more emotionally rounded than grown ass 40 year old men#:’))))))
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Etoiles just announced that will be doing a virtual tour of the Louvre LIVE with famous vlogger and YouTuber Léna Situation this Saturday on January 13!
Not only are Etoiles' virtual museum tours always very educational and interesting, but he also says it's been his dream to visit the Louvre for a long time. He's very excited to explore it with chat, and he says he hopes that international viewers will also be able to watch and enjoy the stream with the help of subtitles, since he knows not everyone has the opportunity to see the Louvre and it's a once in a lifetime experience.
Be sure to watch the tour live this Saturday, January 13 at 8:30pm (~11:30am PST / 2:30pm EST).
Translation (courtesy of @EtoilesUpdate):
YES YES YES, We’re there SATURDAY, one of my life’s dreams since SO LONG, THE LOUVRE ! I’m putting together an exceptional visit of @.MuseeLouvre with this MYTHICAL establishment just for us with Phillipe our always incredible speaker !! @.lenasituations will also be there and is SO excited to come, I think that she’ll be an exceptional guest who’ll know to ask the right questions! It’s this Saturday at 20h30, it’ll be a big week on my channel, I’m expecting you guys motivated 🥰
#Etoiles#IRL#SO PROUD OF HIM!!! He says this has been his dream for so long :')#That's amazing#I really hope I can watch it#January 7 2024#Tumblr took an HOUR TO UPLOAD THIS FRICKIN VIDEO#I'm so salty
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OKAY BUT DO YOU KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THE PJO BOOKS ARE cuz I really hope that this tv series becomes a jumping off point for kids with ADHD and dyslexia and other ND stuff to finally find a book series they love, not just because I loved it myself but because ND kids deserve to fall in love with books!!!
My brother is a genius, super smart guy I am so proud of him every single day, but he was always so behind in school because his dyslexia went undiagnosed for ages (my whole family’s dyslexic but his is the worst case by far) and compared to me who was a complete book worm my whole life, he had NOTHING to love in books because every time he read them, he just struggled over and over again. He had given up on books, learning, everything because no books spoke to him and made him WANT to keep trying. Jump cut to me introducing him to the PJO book series!! I was probably ranting about them because I was just an AuDHD girlie hyperfixating and I don’t even remember how I convinced him to read it but you know what happened when DID start reading it??? HE NEVER STOPPED! THAT HAD NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE AND IT WAS SO EXCITING FOR MY FAMILY (MY MOM IS LITERALLY A READING SPECIALIST FOR KIDS SHE WAS SO FUCKING STOKED) THAT THEY GOT HIM THE PJO BOX SET FOR CHRISTMAS AND THAT IS THE MOST WELL-LOVED, YELLOW-PAGED, FALLING APART AT THE SEAMS BOX SET IN OUR HOUSE FULL OF BOOKS BECAUSE MY BROTHER AND I KEEP READING THEM!!!!
I WANT THE SAME FOR THIS NEW GENERATION OF KIDS!! I WANT SOME OF THESE GEN ALPHA BABIES TO STUMBLE UPON THE SHOW, WATCH IT, PICK UP THE BOOKS, AND HAVE A COME TO JESUS MOMENT JUST LIKE MY BROTHER DID BECAUSE THAT’S WHY THEY’RE SO IMPORTANT!!! BECAUSE THERE IS A BOOK SERIES (SEVERAL EVEN) THAT SPEAKS SO WELL TO THE KIDS THAT HAVE GIVEN UP ON LISTENING
anyway here’s to the anniversary of getting our PJO box set, Merry Christmas :)
#my brother is an AMAZING architect student now#I’m so fucking proud of him#I also helped him proofread his college essay about how much he loves the PJO books#gen alpha is going to have such an amazing book series to read#percy jackson#percy jackson and the olympians#percy jackon and the olympians#pjo#percy jackson the lightning thief#percy jackson tv show#pjo disney+#pjo tv show#pjo fandom#pjo hoo toa#pjo series#pjoverse
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episode 16 was wild
Like, that was the best episode this far
but also WHAT THE FUCK!!!
#danganronpa despair time#drdt#ace markey#arturo giles#teruko tawaki#whit young#guys that episode was insane#I legit screamed for Levi when he got shot#Like#this episode made me scream so much#And aces execution was so freaking CREATIVE#Also Arturo getting character development my beloved#Proud to say I never hated him#But like whit#Whit what the FUCK was that#Is he good??#Yk I wasn’t thinking he was the mastermind until after this episode…#I just can’t believe ace is actually dead#Like it still feels so surreal to me#And the ace voice actor??#He KILLED it with his performance#Like ace definitely shot up as one of my favorites after this#Teruko’s voice actor slayed as always.#But yeah the episode was amazing#Hope the dev and everyone involved takes a nice long break#levi fontana#almost forgot to tag him 😭
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dk theater+ photoshoot behind
bonus: the cause of my insanity
#dokyeom#seventeen#svtcreations#17net#forsvt#svtsource#userngocchi#sonafied#homerunj#heymax#alitracks#userbexrex#usermery#usersemily#usernaya#emification#userzyx#dk looks absolutely amazing in this photoshoot! he was so smiley and adorable! literally the sunshine of my life! he deserves the world🥹#the coloring is hmmmmm today...not super proud but i spent too much time on them not to post (the bonus? don't even ask😭)#*mine
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#persona 4#p4#persona 4 golden#p4g#hanamura yosuke#yosuke hanamura#narukami yu#yu narukami#tatsumi kanji#kanji tatsumi#souyo#feeling flustered yosuke?#honestly on the one hand it feels yosuke panicked because “oh no the gay allegations how could i beat them!”#(awfully actually)#but on the other it feels like he was also just getting flustered when a sincere answer was directed at him#look its a theme with him if you tell him nice things about him he panicks and immediately tries to play it down#yosuke you ARE a catch and you might be joking here but you ARE dependable and good looking and im glad you recognised that here#yu not getting why yosuke looks proud because doesn't yosuke already know hes a good catch and is amazing and indeed all that#it's canon my uncle at atlus told me so#he's good with his queue
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David serving attitude and sass at Proud Nerd Con last weekend.
#david tennant#soft scottish hipster gigolo#proud nerd con 2024#god he is gorgeous here#far too much attractiveness in one person#yet more serving and slaying than any of us can rightfully handle#love seeing him become so much more comfortable in his own skin#and those long legs#this man is a bi disaster and i love him#amazing#the androgynous beauty of David Tennant
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"I truly put everything into this role." -2022
(Wonderland magazine autumn/fall)
"So thank you for seeing him for all he is. He was a joy to bring to life." -2023
(Nicholas' Instagram post)
#im so proud of him#he proved the haters wrong#he did amazing#nicholas galitzine#red white and royal blue#rwrb#rwrb movie#firstprince#henry fox mountchristen windsor#alex claremont diaz#taylor zakhar perez
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04.11.24 (SEA vs SJS): a very tired JOEY DACCORD accepts his three stars of the year & fan-favorite awards at the end of the last home game of the season
#kraken lb#joey daccord#seattle kraken#krakenblr#krakenedit#hockeyedit#hockeyblr#nhl#nhledit#ice hockey#my stuff#my gifs#my hockey gifs#i'm so so sad we lost this one. utterly painful to watch#i hate seeing joey sad#but i'm really proud of him#he absolutely has earned all of the recognition he's got 100 times over#my love for hockey started with seeing him play in cv & he means so so much to me. so much.#i just hope he knows how much ppl adore him both up there and down with the birds bc he is so so loved. he's done amazing#wow! if anyone irl read what i say in these tags they'd think i was a homeofseckshual! (i am) anyway goodnight#bwehhhhhhh.#wehhhhhh
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