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an INFOHAZARD is information that hurts you to know, or that is dangerous to know
a COGNITOHAZARD is something dangerous to your mind, something that makes you think differently or hurts your ability to think
a MEME is an idea that spreads itself or encourages its own spread
those are not synonyms! if there's a word which makes an anvil drop on your foot if you think it, that is an infohazard but not a cognitohazard. if being near an orb makes you start thinking about sandwiches constantly, the orb is cognitohazardous but not infohazardous; knowing about the orb is not dangerous. Neither of them are memetic.
If an idea affects you via you learning or hearing it, and hurts or modifies your thinking, and then forces you to spread it, then it is a memetic, infohazardous cognitohazard. but most examples of any one category aren't all three
#“not gonna say it again”#i feel like I've already seen this post? but if it does exist i can't find it#so I've (re)created it#scp foundation#memetics#yes i made these definitions up no words don't actually have Real Meanings#you should use these definitions not because they're Correct but because these are the definitions that make these words most useful
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Hi! Hope you're doing well! I just wanted to check in and see if there is an ETA on epubs for anyone who's ordered them recently - I ordered epubs of both Fox's Tongue and Kirin's Bone, and The Skin Stealer's Son on the 31st of May but haven't gotten them yet. No pressure! I totally understand if you're just inundated with orders or busy, I was just curious 🤗 Anyway, thank you so much, hope everything is going good!
Very very soon! I ran into some issues with a corrupted file, which meant I had to go back to the version before that, which didn't have the final typo fixes because of course it didn't so I've been cleaning those up all week, blerg. I'm 90% done now--hoping to finalize the epub tomorrow and start getting them out the day after, assuming my computer doesn't eat things again. Since I'm now compulsively saving to three locations every few hours that should hopefully not be an issue again.
Sorry for the delay, and thank you for your support!
#fox's tongue and kirin's bone#Me staring at the file equivalent of Died And Came Back Wrong: haha I'm in trouble#On the bright side I've really learned to streamline the whole book creation process since the first book#So getting the epub created is going to be a matter of minutes once I finish re-doing these edits#Baby is asleep on my arm time to try and weasel out from under her to work on it again
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was inspired by a multiple people but especially @sqrkyclean to make a fursona who is ready for the beach!! they're a shark dog hybrid and they do deliveries of all sorts, from food to mail to groceries to medicine! they have a passion for fashion, secretly they want to learn to play volleyball or tennis but they're too shy to join a team, and they can also make a pretty good cocktail! their flower motif is supposed to be reminiscent of the humble rhododendron :) edit: unsure if it'll stick but i'm tentatively naming them Rhodie!
#fursona#furry#my post#my art#sorry that it's so low res and that it's not signed i've been art blocked and terrified to#create for a while now and i'm clinging onto this sudden massive hit of inspiration for dear life!!!!!!!#technically their main form is actually those water footballs the fabric kind#with the spongey insides and the swimsuit material outsides!! they can change this at will though i think#was also thinking of bacardi for a name for them as well but i didn't wanna step on my inspirations toes!#maybe their full name is rhodie bacardi?
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...am I just losing my mind or did yer icon become evil? I don't remember that BeAst behind Boe
yuuuump always been behind me
#ask#anon#pazuzu's just been there since the beginning#mainly because my avatar use to be of 2D in front of the d-sides album cover. or atleast one of the covers#and i had a lot of transparent edits of 2D over that cover#but when i had Boe made. i put him over it instead and i just kinda kept it like that cause i thought the colours together were really nice#as for the blurry swirls. i just like doing simple effects in paintdotnet#i don't really imagine them as much besides the blurriness of the minds eye. like this is how you'd see the inside of my brain maybe.#or not really my brain. boes minds eye maybe.#i don't know if i have a ''lore explanation'' for pazuzu in Boe's life in limbo/hell#or specifically in relation to Boe i mean#i'd still like to actually visualize what limbo looks like. or specifically the area in limbo in which Boe lives#which is just an old manor in the middle of nowhere. with old computer crts and keyboards in the mud of his back yard#dark purplish skies with maybe blueish roaming fields with no horizon#i do have a map file of me trying to create what i imagine to be Boes house but i've only blocked out his porch#i've got a loose idea of what the layout of his house's interior is like but nothing solid honestly#the reason he lives in an old manor is due to mystery case files: ravenhearst. inspiration-wise#use to play that growing up from bigfishgames. fucking love the look of that manor and the intense mess that resides within#i think i also think about the Gorillaz' o green world phase where they had kong studio's absolutely trashed with junk and shit#did actually buy MCF Ravenhearst the other day actually. specifically for higher res ref images of rooms#played a little of it the other day but i was so tired for most of that day so i didnt play for long#anyway. thank you for the ask anon :) yeah he's always been there. pazuzu kinda just blends into the background i think
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Voted for Bumble bc of course but also if you think Alex would not pspsps Bumble you are wrong. If they could communicate they would go to therapy together /s
If then could communicate they would go to therapy together
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Kyle/Green Lantern resurrects her but then he becomes convinced that she's not the same person she was before the incident, OR SOMETHING SOMETHING Black Lanterns aren't ACTUALLY bad they're just misunderstood Grim Reaper types, in either case Alex ends up breaking it off with Kyle because they've become very different people.
And then Bumble's there
And then they go to therapy or Alex adopts Bumble, and then uhhh Bumble's like one of the superpets. Like Krypto the Superdog. Free premise go forth and play with it if ur a DC fan
#bone babble#Again I don't actually know a lot about the DC universe besides what my friend tells me#But also from reading into the Black Lanterns having them be evil sound like a WHOLE wasted opportunity#Lanterns are supposed to be emotions yeah? so why the hell are we downplaying the emotion of GRIEF?#There's a whole lot you could do with that actually. Death doesn't deserve to just be a villain of the week#And hell. You could explore some WILD emotions here about Alex becoming so much more than Kyle's tragedy#Can I still mourn you when you aren't dead?#What does it mean for me that the worst thing that ever happened to me has become an opportunity for her?#And... does this make me selfish for not being happy for her?#For not trying to understand the person she has become? for only thinking of how this impacts myself#RE: THIS IS NOT A DIG AT DC FANS#BUT I want to share that like... a reason I've kinda had a hard time getting into comics is because like... really interesting premises--#like that often get turned into Monster-of-the-Week struggles for the heroes to punch into submission#I've probably just seen really bad summaries or not found the editions that would appeal to me specifically#But it's kinda why the only DC hero I'm really interested in is Superman#Because a lot of his thing is that he's a good GUY#And that creates a lot of interesting moral questions#Like YES he's a good guy. YES he has no ulterior motive. But what if he DID?-- how can EVERYONE ELSE in the universe truly know that-#for sure?#And that's cool and I really like the snippets I've seen especially between him and batman#But anyway. so much fridging and misogyny in the world of comics has kinda turned me away from getting into it#because. VERY often. Misogyny can be... *tied* to a bit of a lack of imagination. Or empathy on behalf of a particular writer#RE: There is good stuff in DC PLEASE understand im not trying to be insulting
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Not to continue my recent trend of oversharing on tumblr dot com, but I am very much struggling not to feel like I'm doing everything in my entire life wrong at present
#normal things to think after your doctor tells you you need to get a blood test re-taken bc you mistimed your dose#I'm just. I'm tired man.#I've been putting off a phone call for two months#i spend every day lately torn between do I need to go to hospital or am I just unfit and anxious#I rot and decay when left alone but also people are Too Much#I want to Create but I can't get started and when I do I'm just so disappointed with whatever I make#I'm exhausted but I'm awake at 4am bc if i go to sleep tomorrow will start and I'll have to do this all again#and I need so fucking badly for someone to just crush me so hard in a really long hug until my bones realign#and i need to find past me shake her by the shoulders and yell “you're fine! you'll be fine! cut your hair! eat your greens!#take up swimming and also some new pronouns! no one else will respect em but they're for YOU and so is the health stuff#please for the love of fucking god just look after yourself better than i did!“#there's toooooo many fuckin holes in this sinking ship#I need a full body MOT and then to be cradled against the chest of a large gentle man for 12-36 hours#mr. bees speaks
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i wonder if there's the potential for a solution to the doxxing fucking over marginalized people specifically thing and/or the some people only being able/knowing where to engage with community online thing if we we were able to like. weaponize the relative lack of actual anonymity in the opposite direction.
like for one thing, instead of doxxing just resulting in problems from others in person, using that information to actively support the person instead, and for another for the other potentially more targeted use of the internet to find people to engage with in person (although that one you'd have to be even more careful about in case it worked in the opposite direction. I'm just thinking it would be nice to have something more structured/widespread than happening to find out your internet friends are in your local area, that could potentially be used to circumvent people not meeting in third spaces/other issues people have initially finding local community in person.)
It would be nice if instead of exclusively finding offline solutions/telling people how to be more careful we could also use what's often part of the problem to our advantage when it does happen. Like, having a way to address it that isn't only preventative.
#no idea whether it's actually practical im essentially just thinking outloud#if we could have another pokemon go thing where people have the opportunity to#encounter each other on a friendly basis in person because of their phones that would also be nice#idk how you'd do some of this in a way that's actually 'safe' though#mypost#the doxxing response thing would have to be either like. a general cultural shift which is probably very unlikely#or a targeted attempt to support people affected that extends to their local area#and the other would kind of just require people to be fine with telling people online roughly where they are it seems like#unless there's some additional vetting process or something you could use first#which would obviously have a bunch of risks + more for some people than others#but like. part of my personal situation re online safety#is that a. i've already been on here and posting shit since i was a younger teen#and it would be practically impossible to make my normal social media doxx-proof to begin with#and b. none of my political opinions or me being trans or anything are exactly a secret in person#so anything someone could try to harass me with in person would either be trying to just like. embarass me in general i guess (useless)#telling people something they already know (also useless)#lying (could cause mostly temporary problems with the wrong person at most)#swatting (okay yeah this one could cause problems if they're stupid enough#to fall for it but also i don't really think there's anything to be done about it)#or other threats to my physical safety (people can do that anyway considering how outwardly visible i am about my#opinions/being trans/etc + that would require them to be in my phsyical proximity as well)#so basically my threat model for internet security is way more lax on General Social Media than a lot of people would think it should be#and i've used the same url for events i've attended in person#but considering that people could definitely find me if they really wanted one way or the other + there's nothing really. secret? on here.#like. there's stuff i wouldn't randomly bring up in conversation but none of this is something i'm actively hiding really#and then if there's something i do want to use the internet for but want to keep Secret secret from my irl identity#that's just a whole different account that i'm creating#tldr you can't realistically intimidate me by threatening to reveal information that's already public knowledge#i guess maybe once i move i'll have to reconsider whether i want to try a new threat model since some of the infomation people would be abl#to get easily would be outdated but i also almost prefer it to stay mostly a moot point so people can't effectively use it as leverage
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What Do I Ship?
Don't mistake this for a tolerance or tier list. I will read and write ships that aren't even on this list, or write ships from the secondary list sometimes, this is just to give you a general sense of the stuff I mainly support/think about and in what capacity. Might be updated periodically. Ranting and comments in the tags.
Re: the Mokuba ships, I only ship them in non-problematic ways, where either the Kaiba brothers are ageswapped, making Mokuba the same age as the rest of the main cast, or where they only get together far post-canon where Mokuba's an adult. We cool? Cool.
Primary Ships
(things I can/want to create content for; this does not include every ship I've ever written, just the ones I care about/are currently engaged in writing/plan to write multiple fics for, or ships I just stan in a way that I know it'll never end)
Euroshipping (Kaiba x Ryou)
Puppyshipping (Joey x Kaiba)
Mumbleshipping (Kaiba x Ryou x Duke)
Teaseshipping (Joey x Ryou x Kaiba)
Snareshipping (Joey x Duke)
Trustshipping (Kaiba x Ishizu)
Polarshipping (Joey x Mai)
Blueshipping (Kisara x Kaiba)
Mizushipping (Kisara x Priest Seto)
Minorshipping (Ryou x Duke)
Mastershipping (Duke x Kaiba)
Puffshipping (Joey x Ryou)
Sweetshipping (Ryou x Mokuba)
Wintershipping (Mokuba x Amane)
Rollshipping (Duke x Ryou x Joey)
Secondary Ships
(things I will read but I don't write {much, or anymore, in some cases} for one reason or other)
Wishshipping (Joey x Yugi)
Powershipping (Kaiba x Marik)
Graceshipping (Ishizu x Ryou)
Doubtshipping (Kaiba x Ryou x Marik)
Petshipping (Duke x Kaiba x Joey)
Axisshipping (Kaiba x Siegfried)
Angstshipping (Ryou x Marik)
Irateshipping (Marik x Joey)
Buddyshipping (Joey x Tristan)
Heartshipping (Yugi x Ryou)
Fragileshipping (Yami Yugi x Ryou)
Changeshipping (Duke x Marik)
Logicshipping (Priest Seto x Priestess Isis)
Gemshipping (Ryou x Thief King Bakura)
Thiefshipping (Yami Bakura x Marik)
Candleshipping (Kaiba x Ryou x Yami Bakura)
Antagoshipping (Kaiba x Yami Bakura)
Corruptshipping (Priest Seto x Thief King Bakura)
Stoicshipping (Kaiba x Priest Seto)
Shimmershipping (Duke x Mokuba)
Guardshipping (Kaiba x Roland)
Senetshipping (Ishizu x Duke)
Angelicshipping (Ryou x Rafael)
Mercuryshipping (Kisara x Kaiba x Ishizu)
Entrepreneurshipping (Duke x Kaiba x Siegfried)
Unnamed (Aigami x Marik x Yami Bakura)
Scholarshipping (Kaiba x Ishizu x Ryou)
There's also plenty of random unnamed poly ships that I want to play around with in one-shots, usually a combo of my top six fave characters.
#rose talks#my ships#ship list#creating this post just to link to it in my pinned post. don't mind me.#i might add a third section called “i just think they're neat”#what happened with thiefshipping is that I worked really hard on a one-shot for it and was pretty proud of it#but then it got like no attention and i figured my characterization must have been way off#so i didn't try to write it again after that#i wrote a lot of Marik one-shots a long time ago but I don't think my characterization of him was actually that good#that's why i haven't really written him outside of Rock Bottom in a long time#if you put kaiba ryou duke joey marik in a jar and jumble them all up and pour 2 or 3 of them out. i ship anything that comes out.#almost the same if you replace marik with ishizu but i don't see her and joey working out (unless maybe to gang up on kaiba)#currently intrigued by the idea of kaiba/ryou/ishizu and i would call that scholarshipping if the name wasn't already taken#also just discovered mercuryshipping and i think that would be so fascinating#i think guardshipping can easily be problematic but it doesn't have to be. i think it can be kinda sweet if done right.#re: the mokuba ships i've had someone tell me that shipping child characters with anyone is gross EVEN IF you age them up and um no#every adult ever is an aged-up child. that's how life works.#i'm so much more interested in mokuba as an adult than as a child anyways. just purely from a character perspective#because damn. who knows what this boy will become. ya know? it's about the potential
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Finally fixed my tablet driver issue!!!!!!!!!! Now what fucking else will blow up before I get to draw again,
#just me rambling#i SHOULD be good#the fix for my cs6 suite seem to still hold (ty again ♥)#PS and AE seem alive#just need to re-import my usual brushes (of which i almost only use one)#the upside is ive never seen PS be so damn fast in my whole life before#on this computer i barely double click the logo that BOOM it's there. unbelievable#anyway ghbgh once everything is properly set. this is going to be the most comfortable creating experience i've ever had i think#just working on maya has been a breeze these days on this beast#which is saying smth with how infamous it is for freezing and crashing and for basic tools to somehow be unpossibly heavy to load
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i am SO fucking exhausted by mainstream media opinions lately and i don't understand why they're frequently SO different from my own? like i genuinely don't think i am approaching anything from that unique of a perspective as a viewer? maybe it's just that i'm too easy to please when it comes to stories or something but like. how is the mainstream, widely accepted consensus on yellowjackets season 2 is that it's "bad" and "doesn't work as a season" and is "riddled with problems." literally what the fuck are you talking about. this is the most fun i have had watching television uhhhhh literally Ever? you're telling me people hated Burial? how? why? like i don't...i just don't GET it. and i'm not playing dumb for kicks here im like genuinely honest to god confused. that was the single best episode of television I've ever watched in my life. like i get that people have different opinions about things and that's fine but HOW am i in the minority here what am i missing
#most of the critiques I've seen are that it 'focused on the adults too much' and was 'too weird' re: mistys sequence#like??? that was clearly supposed to be funny and campy and silly and artistic and a twin peaks homage?#and the 'focusing on the adults' i... i mean i guess some people are just here for the '96 mystery#and are completely uninterested in the psychological effects it had on all the characters?#i guess some people don't?? care??? about watching them wrestle with that trauma and go on to try to have lives#after something like that?#but like. that's the entire point of the show though. if you hate that why are you watching it every week#with enough investment to like. blog about it and put energy into writing whole ass thinkpieces#so much of media criticism these days boil down into 'i wish this show was Not the show that it is'#'i wish it was this other show that im writing with my twitter mutuals'#and like that's fine and fun and cool and valid and that's what fic is for! but a show isnt BAD for committing to itself and its own vision#like. there is something sooo sexy abt a piece of media that is so wholly itself that you have to meet it where it is#and judge it by its own metric#it creates a whole new unique lens for each and every thing you love! quit comparing apples and oranges!#it's SO fucking fun analyzing different pieces of media through the lens of their own little world and conventions#and guiding principles and plot pacing and what they choose to emphasize and their genre conventions and etc etc#it's FUN! and not to sound like a pretentious film bro dipshit but like why does it seem like this is a dying art these days#'s2 is boring' THEY. THEY ATE A PERSON. ARE WE WATCHING THE SAME THING
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hi oomfs. I have a question for those of u who know what it's like to be really like. very. suicidal ... what has stopped u from dying thus far?
#for context if u dont already read my depressing ass text posts: i have suicidal thoughts pretty often and two (2) times i have seriously#planned to off myself . but im still here mainly bc the first time i was treated for severe depression and an*rexia and got a bit of hope#and the second time. well thats now actually#I've been contemplating dying in the summer for the past couple months and it sounds insane bc well. it is death right#and thats pretty final#but i might not do it out of fear or out of desperation for a better life and hope of re-creating myself#idk i just want to know how people who understand this in some capacity think#so yeah. do tell me on anon or in the comments if u feel comfortable#z.post#ed ment
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#WARNING: LOTS OF TAGS. Expand at your own discretion#Re: being the 'first' to make S-A--o (don't want to trip the tags) fanart#I don't know if I was the first to make CONTENT for them though#Back in like 2015??? ish? there was a thread on BMGs forums literally just called Town of Salem Shipping Thread#I think it eventually got shortened to Town of Shipping but like the point was#There were a SURPRISING amount of people participating before I ever did#If my memory serves me right I think BioRaccoon wrote a short fic about the ship#Which was really good btw#I wonder how all of them are doing now. It's been a long time since I've seen or thought about them#There's so many phases that I went through back then and the community had shifted a lot#From the forums to Skype to Chatzy (I believe that was the order?)#And then to Tumblr when the first askblog was created. I was part of the first wave!#I don't think the first blogs are around anymore but iirc the earliest ones were retri/jester/witch/SK/BM.#I ran the witch blog. Her name was Mel#P sure the blog name was 'witchingmywaydowntown' which is hilarious but also incredibly long winded#I don't really remember the other blog urls but I think they were like#undexdgrxves (retri)#I don't remember jester's lol sorry Jett#anthrocide (SK)#ask-the-bm (BM. ofc)#It was crazy. The community was really tiny then and we had a separate slew of OCs beyond the askblog#Chatzy roleplay man. That shit was crazy#Anyways I am so sorry for making my tags so long#talkingautumn
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I posted 1,793 times in 2022
That's 179 more posts than 2021!
118 posts created (7%)
1,675 posts reblogged (93%)
Blogs I reblogged the most:
@zenathered
@asleepinawell
@rivensbane
@riinoaheartilly
@gobbie-boom
I tagged 1,783 of my posts in 2022
Only 1% of my posts had no tags
#ffxiv - 1,195 posts
#ffxiv art - 456 posts
#ffxiv spoilers - 341 posts
#endwalker spoilers - 174 posts
#ffvii - 142 posts
#shameless reblog - 97 posts
#team turtle - 58 posts
#tifa lockhart - 56 posts
#our patron saint of fisticuffs - 53 posts
#nier automata - 46 posts
Longest Tag: 140 characters
#then it dawned on me that final fantasy just did that adskfjh just start with a whole new world and characters and i laugh about it even now
My Top Posts in 2022:
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#I feel guilty about 3 being a screencap from a twitter post but people NEEDED to be aware of kermit tonberry#also I could've done so much more but work is just HURRRGH so I'll just hold a thumbs up laying on my couch atm#also I could be ashamed that I reblog myself but I've made a lot of gif sets over the years so I treat them like seinfeld re-runs#And pay CLOSE ATTENTION to the people I reblog from they're great#I relied on them a lot since I didn't have the time to create like I wanted to it was gifsets or reblog fuel for things I like#I muscle handshake all of you know that I love you all#also there are so many more that didn't make this compiled list that I absolutely love#tumblr's really great for just seeing creativity#especially if you're into ffxiv or anything really
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Screenshot of a Facebook comment by Haldir Tleilaxian. It reads:
I once ran a VtM game. One dude signed up. I explained the setting, available clans: the game took place in Kazakhstan, modern days, explained the political powers, which clans controlled what. He said he understood everything. Then sends me his character - an elf druid.
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Imagine a person who only consumes Batman-related media. That is, they only watch movies and TV shows that have Batman in them, only read books that are novelisations of Batman media, only play licensed Batman video games, and so forth. This is not so absurd an idea; Batman-related media is sufficiently popular, varied and widespread that restricting one's media consumption in this way is completely feasible. However, I trust we can agree that if you actually do this, you will be left with very strange ideas about what popular media looks like.
The next step in this analogy is undestanding that if the only tabletop RPG you're acquainted with is Dungeons & Dragons, you have the same grasp of the tabletop roleplaying hobby as our hypothetical Batman Guy has of popular media.
#Don't get me wrong#I love D&D#I'm part of a campaign right now#Half of my OCs started as D&D characters#but yeah there's just so much more to RPGs#and all of the different rule sets are interesting#I played VtM myself#both with the rocks-papers-scissors and the deck-of-cards mechanics#I've tried a variation of Laser and Feelings where your character has a target number#that you try to roll over or under depending on the situation#I ran both Blades in the Dark and Scum & Villainy which include your home base as a sort of extra character for the party#and ways for you to 'pass down' the base to future characters as a way to re-spec#I've tried You Awaken In A Strange Place which is all sorts of odd and kooky#but probably the hardest game to play when your playgroup isn't the GREATEST at improv....#We just started up World Wide Wrestling which is a wacky RPG where you're pro wrestlers#and the wrestling promotion is essentially its own character (much like the home base for BitD or S&V)#I've also combined the RPG Gravity RIP (basically F-Zero) with S&V to create a space sport in-universe#My hubby started up a play-by-post original game based in the X-Men universe back when message boards (outside of reddit) were still popula#There's also solo RPGs to try out#If D&D is not your thing try a different TTRPG#If D&D IS your thing look for other fantasy RPGs to branch out into#so many possibilities#LycoRogue's added two cents in the tags#includes image#includes image ID#includes image description#described#TT RPGs#reblog
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as kids who love horror and like theatre enough to repeated do that, brooke rodgers & zeke matthews getting to do that true combo event: i mean, trick-or-treat / becostumed halloween larping of course, but also putting together &/or putting on any event wherein there's Decorating an Environment to be hallowscary....making some form of haunted house walkthrough deal, manning your own trick-or-treat stop and making it into an Experience for anyone, throwing a halloween party that is Not a winetasting vibe Yes babadooks Absolutely going all-in on the Theme beyond just "idk have a costume Maybe"
#it's a Performance it's perchance building a Set and a bit of a Show#and it's just fun lol. i mean i've hardly gotten to do anything like that much at all#but as a [i too always loved horror and theatre] myself....always figured doing so would be a really great time#and hugely appreciated being someone on the other end of that kind of Experience. thanks for going ham halloween decorating...#from the end of the driveway to the porch lol#being a kid like knowing Of the supposed fate of All like ''idk you get married. have a career. have a house. have a family(tm)''#like uhhhhhhhhhhhhh sounds fake. and it was.#but re: the tall tale of home ownership destiny that got thee most thought like ooh there's Anything to that though#b/c you could decorate individual rooms with atmospheric as hell specific Themes. you could create a Halloween Experience lol.#you could have secret passages like clue....just the usual intended aspirations and visions i'm sure#goosebumps the musical#gtmpota#murder mystery parties....horror aficionado Adjacent & certainly theatrical
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Yeah what? You've been really clear that NEITHER is the wife, because they're both cis men. And I agree that people can get a little weirdly hung up on one of them being the woman, somehow, which feels different from exploring "feminine" qualities either or both might have.
Thank you, and yeah. It does feel like a pretty selective and bad faith reading of what I've written, and I kinda suspect from how they've written what they have that they might be an anon who's sent me a few asks now? Which leaves me a little bemused that anyone might follow this blog that specifically for haterism given I'm pretty under the radar in this fandom, haha.
#i have BEEN a bnf before i never want to be again and i am deliberately trying not to be in this fandom in any way that creates discourse#i'm just here in my little sandbox#barely using main tags outside of reblogs#and writing some fics haha#but look idk#the whiff of an accusation of racism gets so weaponised in fandom#and i think at least some of the time it relies on the idea that being called racist is enough to either 'expose' someone#or rely on white people to get so uncomfortable as to shut down a conversation (which we do!)#the fandom i was a bnf in - it was DEFINITELY a factor#so i've had a number of these conversations before in fandom spaces but also like#i live in melbourne which is one of the most multicultural and diverse cities in the world#and i work in the arts#i think conversations about race with my friends and co-workers and clients and writers i work with - many of whom aren't white#come up every day for me#i can of course never know their experiences and i know I have my own racial biases i am consciously addressing#but honestly i don't feel that uncomfortable talking about race anymore because i am literally having these convos all the time irl#so yeah i guess re: that anon i really am happy to both hear you and talk about it?#but at the same time asks like that...#look i try to take it in good faith instead of bad
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