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jobsbuster · 5 months

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tizzymcwizzy · 4 months

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these are my final illustrations for a writing/research class and my topic was on hustle culture and the romanticization of overworking,,

it's okay to be kind to yourself!! your value doesn't come from how productive you are, i promise, you get to determine your own worth, and sometimes it's just not worth hurting yourself to achieve your goals

#it's something i struggle with still #but learning self compassion and to prioritize your health over work is a valuable skill #blah blah blah i can harp on this forever anyway #tw eyestrain #eyestrain #my art #illustration #artists on tumblr #art

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kindnessoverperfection · 2 months

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ADHD really does put everything at equal levels of importance, huh? Like I'll have an email I need to write that'll take maybe 10 minutes, and getting that done will alleviate 6 months of stress. Then I'll notice a sock on the floor I need to put away. Then I'll get the strong conviction that it's up to me to cure cancer. And my brain will tell me that I need to do all of them at once, start and finish them all in the time span of 0 seconds, and my executive dysfunction will throw up its hands and do none of the above.

#adhd #actuallyadhd #executive dysfunction #examples were courtesy of my partner. it made me laugh so hard because i've never heard anything more accurate #i'll read stuff like ''adhd makes it difficult to prioritize things!'' and i never paid that much attention because i was like #''i can easily sort things into categories. it's just the doing them that's the issue.''#but then i realized. that the REASON doing things is an issue is because it's not happening at the conscious logical level #it's happening at a nearly-subconscious rapid fire in-the-moment response time #i've been working a lot on my adhd these past few months & have also been meditating a lot lately and it's been making my awareness more an #more broad and precise #and at this point i'm wondering if this is straight up the cause of my adhd. the brain putting absolutely everything at the same ''URGENT #URGENT URGENT'' level. since i can't do everything in the world at the same time at infinite speed and perfection #i'm thrown into ''freeze mode''. and that's also why we've learned to weaponize fear against ourself as a motivator. because it forces the #task we're trying to do into front view. makes it take priority over everything else we're scared of not doing.#we've been working on a lot of useful coping skills. haven't entirely figured out how to manage this yet but the awareness itself has #been very useful.

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eff-plays · 1 year

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"Durge and Astarion are canon your honor!"

Well canon Durge is a white male dragonborn sorcerer and yet y'all are making cute little drow girlies and sexy little tiefling twinks to get at that extra content so what's the truth?

Oh that your personal preferences are somehow more canon than someone else's because the devs didn't have enough time to write extra content for every companion, leaving an unfair and imbalanced emphasis on the one character that did get extra content? That you feel your choices are validated because they're reinforced by poor planning/game design? Hmm. Hmm. Hmmmm 🤔

#bg3 #bg3 fandom critical #btw i have every iteration of durge x astarion blacklisted because of these sorts of girlies #'my already popular ship is actually canon because the writers felt the need to prioritize the wants of his obnoxious fanbase #instead of spreading the effort evenly!' is not the win you think it is #personally i'd give up all of durge x astarion content for more just REGULAR wyll content like it's unbelievable #more KARLACH and maybe an ending that isn't so fucking SHIT for her??#fuck man even minthara??#astarion girlies get a single critical thinking skill fr fr #also noah fence but 'uwu durge and astarion are narrative foils' is such a braindead take #cuz durge just has the same narrative of breaking free of a higher power that manipulates them as the REST OF THE COMPANIONS #literally none of them are more uwu canon than the others #the only reason you think that is because someone else did the thinking for you and put it in the game and spelled it out for you

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roseluwakcoffee · 1 year

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Sometimes I think I write Kyoko too much like a cold, hard detective for being a literal teenager/young adult, but then I remember at the age of 13 years old she canonically doused herself in vodka and threatened to light herself on fire if the killer didn’t reveal themselves

#ig this is what early childhood trauma does to u #no seriously tho every time i remember dr kirigiri exists i get whiplash #'kyoko doesn't have issues'#this girl randomly asked yui if it was weird to prioritize detective work over her mom's death within days of meeting her #and then says she'd feel empty inside if she thought otherwise #not only does she have clear issues she also lacks social skills in most capacities and i love her for it #dr1 #dr kirigiri #kyoko kirigiri

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yugiohz · 11 months

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this is the gay ninja who unwound his body to fix bakugo’s petty heart I cannot believe this happened my silly academia is well and alive

#the way I woudlnt do that for an annoying ass 17yo boy no offense…#tbh it doesn’t even make sense for wxegeshot to do this like WHY would a TOP hero prioritize some kid in training #like what does he know about bakugo’s skills!!!!#Then again he would have died for real if edgeshot hadn’t done this ugh he’s so selfless mashallah #wait I forgot that’s his boyfriend’s protege ofc he feels responsible for him

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carnivalcarriondiscarded · 11 months

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How does Barnaby meet Howdy in your modern human au? :0

oh, the entire "neighborhood" became friends in either middle or high school (except Eddie oopsies). Howdy ran a little 'underground market' (aka he sold stuff out of his locker or at his house, the goods varied) and Barnaby would often buy school supplies or, every so often, a cheat sheet from him. once or twice weed as well. but yeah they were also classmates a few times.

Howdy found Barnaby hilarious, Barnaby found Howdy to be excellent company, boom friends for life. Howdy didn't have many actual friends - just acquaintances and regulars, so Barnaby was his first real pal, and the "neighborhood" his first friend group! and only, technically

#and later on! lovers for life! also friends still just with an Added Facet!#but yeah in my mind howdy was socially adept just. bad at making friends #he prioritized The Grind and yk. could and Would scam his 'customers'#he tried to scam barnaby once but barnaby fully saw through him #and called him out on his bullshit in funny enough of a way that howdy wasnt insulted at all #Boom instant respect! barnaby is like the one guy howdy wouldnt scam from then on #rambles from the bog #wh modern human au #howdy has a lot of Lore in my mind...#reasons why hes so shrewd and finance-oriented!#why he speaks with a transatlantic accent despite being a 90s kid! etc!#listen i gotta find a way to realistically explain everyone's quirks and skills and traits in this au #since theyre People living Human Lives and not. puppets. artificially created characters

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scribefindegil · 1 year

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saw a deeply rancid take this morning about how amatonormativity isn’t real (especially in slash fandom contexts, lol) because all mainstream media focuses on platonic relationships so what do we even want. and was tempted to write a big thing breaking down the various prejudices at play in the way society (and thus the media reflecting it) refuses to treat women and queer people and other minorities as Real People deserving of stories, and how this leads to all this media focused on men whose only meaningful relationships are with other men in a way that does nothing but support amatonormativity along with every other status-quo bigotry. but actually i think this sums it up:

Mainstream Media to Aros (& those who believe in their beliefs): You’re platonic because you value friendship. I’m platonic because I hate everyone who isn’t a cishet white man. We are not the same.

#i get that if you are using zero critical thinking skills #it can look like mainstream media loves platonic relationships #(between men)#but it does not #it's just forced itself into that corner because it thinks that men are the only people who can be protagonists #and of course gay people can't be protagonists either #so the people who are allowed to have Rich Inner Lives and Emotions do that with each other #but if you look at any relationship outside of that framework #women who are friends #men and women who are friends #queer people who are friends #family members who are friends #you will immediately see the way that these are de-prioritized in favor of sex & romance #sometimes one bigotry will mask another under certain circumstances #that doesn't mean that the one being masked has ceased to exist

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sakitenmaenjoyer · 11 months

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it's so funny how everyone brings up that tsukasa starved himself for a role, but nobody brings up the fact that he

1) ate the day of the audition to be in top form

2) went out to eat with wxs in part 2 of his card story

#txt #tsukasa tenma #i dont wanna say it wasnt angst tho. bc the first part of his card story was saki and toya worrying about him 💀#and in universe wxs was concerned #but 1) rui trusted tsukasa not to push himself too much/said he'd put a stop to it if it was detrimental #2) tsukasa didnt do that bc of self hatred. he clearly did not like starving himself 💀 dude ordered a steak the moment he could #granted i think tsukasa should keep pushing himself until something goes wrong (but wxs/an adult figure steers him in the right path)#colopale do you hear me #tsukasa has Some self preservations skills atm but if he were to risk his health again ...and it has worse results....#well that could be interesting. but i do think it would lead to a friendly 'woof yeah maybe that wasnt the best' conclusion #as opposed to him prioritizing roles being portrayed as a bad thing #canon talk

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autisticlancemcclain · 1 year

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smth came up fic postponed till tmrw sorry guys

#i know i’ve been finally getting my steak back that’s my bad 😭😭 i have poor time management skills #sigh #but i am prioritizing quality over quantity so

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npd-jesus · 6 months

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I could start a conversation on how a good deal of personality disorders seem to arise from a child being unable to grow out of their childish worldview due to an unsafe environment, but I'm not sure if Tumblr is ready for that

#a child's fear is comparible to the level paranoia works at #a child is not capable of prioritizing others #children don't have emotional regulation skills. etc #and this is not me calling people with personality disorders childish. more like... stunted development. its what it feels like at times #I feel like my personal growth was stunted. and now my brain isnt as elastic anymore its old and stubborn #eh.... no theres a worthwhile conversation to be had here there really is. but im putting a pin in it for now

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petorahs · 7 months

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my dudes i just had another idea for a ScarVio comic art thing thats also just fanservicey to me in particular... but it involves me drawing two more ideas i had before so now i Have to draw it all to fruition helpp. just when i thought the brainrot receded..

#if my art looks wonky its cuz i prioritize completing things and executing ideas #over visual appeal now 😂 i have too many fandoms too many ideas #also drawing fast is a skill i wanna improve cause i do be a full timer actually #anyways yea.... i cant wait to see what i cook up #frankly im terrified of my own power #i rly just black out for 3 hrs or something and come out with banger stuff #aishi.txt #ideas over visual appeal in art is still foreign to me cause i also want to let ppl know...#that i CAN draw good LMAO but i havent done a full piece in aaaages 😭#last was for a commission #my need to let ppl know i can draw good is bc i Do want to get commissions but 😔 not like i get any opportunities for that lately too lol #so im taking the downtime in commission orders to do whatever the hell i want. for now #btw me getting thru my backlog also involves all those other previous fandoms like prsna and stuff...#truly am living up to that multifandom moniker. i think. i mean im trying to

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dazzlerazz · 9 months

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Edelgard is a beast I love her so much

#razz plays feh #I don't use armored units and sorta put them away #high defense is good but I prioritize movement over defense #'can this unit get away when low health' is what I go for #and with this edelgard skill she gets the best of both worlds with excellent movement and good defense!#so glad I chose her as my free summon #otherwise I'd have chosen dimitri #I'm not saying dimitri is less strong cuz I literally have no frame of reference for him #just saying that I'd have picked him otherwise

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mejomonster · 7 months

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I would like. To be in mutual love