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'i hate that jason todd isnt there much in batfamily fics and that he deserves to not be sidelined in batfam stuff and yall are horrible for not doing so and i hate it'
WELL I personally think that jason todd isn't sidelined ENOUGH. like lets be real right now. canon jason todd has done a lot of bullshit to the batfam as red hood, and the fact that the so much of the fandom is completely chill with knowing the existence of this and still saying it's okay is just straight up disturbing.
i personally think we don't actually have enough tim and dick content without jason butting in every single time as this perfect brother he was literally never in canon. Let's be fr rn bc jason todd needs to make up for a lot of shit before the batfam would be comfortable with him, actually trust him, because he's done a lot of shit.
go have your fun with fanon jason, but don't claim that it's actually canon jason you're talking about. fanon jason who's actually done nothing wrong can be chill in life (and by actually done nothing wrong i mean actually done nothing and not that his actions were just swept away as small little things) but canon jason?
and to say that fanfics and canon should have jason and dick being a dynamic and closeness like dick and damian is wild lmaoo. like damian has not done half the utter bullshit jason has done to dick and people dick cares about, and like despite previous comics having dick almost adopt jason, taking their current canon characters and taking in their ages that's um.... not good? like the fandom parentifying dick with damian is a popular trope, and given that dick did almost adopt damian okayyy but like, the only time dick actually almost adopted jason was when they had a proper age difference.
like saying that dick should've had that parent child dynamic when jason was robin and even after is wild, bc in comic canon at this point dick is like, max four to five years older. and wanting him to be a parental figure to jason is such sad parentifying like what the hell? dick grayson does not need to be parentified, and especially not to red hood.
So, I'm just gonna end this with saying that jason todd has way too much attention in batfam fics as this saintly character (as much as a murderer can be a saint in a fandom that is completely okay with killing people) that loves his brothers, would never harm them and is extremely gentle and also actually cares for their well being and general autonomy and comes up with good decisions that when contested always prove he's right.
Like some of you guys are like jason should go back to being a villain and then turn around and write him as the best guy ever. Bro.
#anti jason todd#jason todd critical#anti red hood#which is another thing ill probably write#but personally ive never grown up in a place like crime alley so im just gonna write about the kiling thing and not the mob thing#bc like no idea how that works#just dont think senseless violence would help#bc yeah fr all abuse victims just want to see someone extremely angry going around beating people up and shouting#personally i dont think i would like it#anyway please stop parentifying dick omfg let that man live#the batfam shouldnt have to trust jason todd#they really shouldn't have too and its stupid that people expect them to welcome back with jason with like... smiles...#and even worse if they expect the batfam to apologise for stopping jason from doing his red hoood thing like no-#anyways i will always be#red hood critical#batfam#dc batfamily#anti batfanon#dick grayson
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the cape the leggings the bob the effortless way she became asian for purposes of the show..... caitlyn come pick up your PhD diploma in servitude from the cuntversity of piltover


#mine#im not saying they shouldnt make her asian im saying some other girls dont racebend this well sjskks#caitlyn kiramman#i should apologise to yall about the things im gonna say about this woman this month
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i think the moment i fundamentally lost all respect for s2 was when they treated that pathetic "sorry about your leg" as though it was a good enough apology for everything
#been thinking a lot about my position with the show recently#and how. everything they had going on should have let ed apologise properly#for their relationship to move on from this. in some capacity#and the narrative didnt let them#and i suppose. i refuse to believe thats a reasonable choice for the story#it should have been better. it deserved to be better. ed and izzy deserved to have more#nyxtalks#ofmd critical#< for blacklists#idk its a hard place to stand. because thats what the story Did. but it shouldnt have. i believe in my whole heart there was a better story#somewhere in there. no matter what you think about where their story should have gone. they deserved better#and ive been thinking about it. it ripples back#i found e5 pretty ok at the time. but for me. all of this ruins it#what was the point of eds story if he is just forgiven without effort?#he deserves the chance to earn true forgiveness. not just 'yeah this shit happens and we have to move on'#or whatever it was the crew said#the point of that is they deserve more#and ed should have been allowed to give them more
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Neo Trio in the Super Mario Brothers Super Show
(They are ready for adventure and remarkable feats)
#epithet erased#epithet erased where they shouldnt be#molly blyndeff#pheonica fleecity#trixie roughouse#neo trio#it was really hard to find any good screenshots so i apologise if its looke really bad
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I want the cowboys to kiss already!!!!
this is killing me bitch so do i 😔😔 fighting for my life to write this In Order and not just skip like 20 chapters and get them to fuck
#listen its not MY fault i made myself write some stupidly long thing#it Is my fault and im fine with that#LMFAO no anyway im getting my act together atm...trying to write consistently#but warning im gonna be REALLY busy over the next few months because i have Big Life Events etc etc#so like. maybe i shouldnt have chosen to write something chaptered when im about to do this WHATEVER#point is im apologising for taking ages between chapters and also just warning u#ALSO IT LITERALLY#KILLS METHAT#PEOPLE ACTUALLYTIHNK ABOUT THIS FIC ???#anyway anon please SO DO I#i cant Wait for them to stop ebign so fucking lame#im saying this like i cant just change it right now#ANYWAY#i love u i hope ur day is going well#asks#anon#deus in absentia#blah blah!#not 75 stuff
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nothing breaks my heart more than the realisation that mike was probably one of the most kindest scout leaders the sc ever had.
#out of.#not to cry on main but ... he DESERVED NONE OF THIS#he's actively the first person to tell erwin that sending kids out to fight an expedition straight up is a reckless decision#and shouldnt be happenin#despite their earlier introduction he also had so much respect and always helped levi out ...#he doesnt push erwin to explain his theory even though he knows hes lying to him#the aot constantly has him looking out for u as a new recruit and demanding you stand back#he apologised to levi before erwin did for the day he recruited levi and his friends and i say that earnestly#he takes the time in the middle of a fight to inspire someone else who isnt himself ...#mike was always people > everything else. he had such a strong belief in seeing humanity survive#and thats why survivor mike breaks my heart. bc so little believe in his words in turn.
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ykw actually I am angry + disappointed w them. I've been pushing how I feel aside and trying to make it my own fault so it's all contained but I think theyve just been mean. and they really should know me better ik I try to pretend I don't expect more from them so I feel less hurt when they do things that upset me but we've been friends for years by this point. like come on.
#just got home and went to put my shit away but my flatmate was in the kitchen and i got suddenly so mad i had to walk back out#not going to do or say anything while im this upset. i need to be a lot calmer before i can even be in the same room as her#like okay. so originally it was just the two of them getting drinks and theyd rather it was just them bc i dont drink. thats cool#it wouldve been difficult for me to join them after work bc travel. and ik theyd done this before just the 2 of them and had fun#i can fully respect that its why i said no and stuck by that decision when she asked again#but to not mention she was taking the day off work and btw i just found out that BOTH of our other old flatmates joined in too#to not mention that they were travelling that entire distance and that it wasnt just drinks it was a whole day out together#thats just mean. why wouldnt you tell me that why did none of them say anything.#and the fact they did the exact same fucking thing last weekend too i didnt know about that at all#like i need to stop trying to justify it. im allowed to feel unwanted and excluded bc thats exactly what theyre doing.#im tired of feeling like other people dont want me around. i know i can be difficult and annoying sometimes. but im really not that bad#and we're meant to be friends!!!!!! like youre supposed to like your friends. and want to spend time with them. or at least i do#and yeah everyones annoying sometimes thats just part of being alive ur supposed to tolerate it if ur friends#im allowed to want to feel like im wanted. im allowed to want ppl to care abt me. that shouldnt be too much to ask for#but the overwhelming message im getting at the moment is they dont want me around. and when i am around them i feel like they dont listen#to me and that they dont really care how i feel unless it directly involves them or theyre responsible for it#i feel like they dont see me as a real person that exists. only a version they have in their heads and they base all their assumptions and#decisions off that version instead of directly communicating with me. and constantly avoid me under the guise of 'giving me space'#when im upset or having a difficult time and most need support from other people. i just feel really unseen#and ik that part of how i feel IS exacerbated by insecurity and depression. like they do care to some degree#but also a lot of it is evidenced in the way they act towards me. mainly my roommate bc shes the person i interact with most#and personally i find the most direct ways of showing u care abt someone are showing up for them. and making them feel seen#and maybe not everyone feels the same way. but thats how it works for me anyway#so to repeatedly exclude me and avoid acknowledging that ive been having a difficult time is the opposite of that to me#which is the point im trying to arrive at... sorry ik ive probably said similar things repeatedly the last few weeks but i feel like its#crystallising a bit like this is the core reason why im so sensitive and reactive atm and why i got so upset by it#idk. not tonight bc im still very emotionally raw but maybe tomorrow if im calmer i should explain that i was upset + why to her#i avoid doing that so often when im upset bc i dont think theres much point in having a conversation abt it unless u expect some kind of#resolution from it. or if you want an apology but idrc abt being apologised to the crucial thing is what theyre going to do different#and i love her but shes very resistant to changing her behaviour bc of other ppl being upset by it. and like i said before she has
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You know what if me and my ex never end up in bed together again im going to be thoroughly suprised
#we almost allready have#had i been just slightly less drunk we would have#but no he had to take note that i was almost out of it#and he still apologised for Him being to drunk the next day#and that he shouldnt have made advances#fuck why does he have to be so nice
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☾, ❀ and ✓ please!!!
☾ : favourite word from your language
not something I have ever thought about tbh, but to go simply I'll say "beau" because it's untranslatable to english. it can mean pretty, beautiful, good-looking, nice, handsome, good, lovely, great, moving (like if something is poetic or romantic or has certain feelings attached to it, you could say "c'est beau". like a dramatic but really beautiful act of love, or something)... but none of these words really capture what it means to me. in some cases it's better to have more specific words, but it's not beau or belle.
❀ : which language(s) would you like to speak fluently?
I'm ok at spanish while writing, but I'm very slow at speaking it, and I haven't put enough effort into becoming better at it. so definitely that. I want to learn dutch, and romanian, irish, a slavic language cuz those are so interesting, portuguese, croatian ... as to whether I will get fluent in any of these, probably no, but I don't think being good at 2 and a half languages is enough for me 😓
✓ : funniest word in your language
FRENCH PPL HAVE SO MANY FUNNY WORDS that are "old" which makes it sound really funny when used. like péquenot. I can't think of any other atm. but for "common" words I'll say bonhomme is always funny, because it's associated (how I use it) with cartoon characters (like if you were older you would say "regarder les bonhommes" for watching cartoons), or stickmen are bonhommes allumette, so calling someone that as an insult is like saying, you are very simple-minded, you're like a cartoon character. (sidenote: bonhomie is defined as "simplicity in the manners, associated with goodheartedness) but the word itself is good. again hard to translate. love it tho
#speak your language day#alek lore™#mailbox#sorry this is very wall of text. actually I shouldnt apologise. I love talking
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chat rlly sorry for the random outbursts lately lots of shit happened
Kai went dormant for a bit (probably from stress or smth? idk) and he's the main driver for us so Makarov stepped up and kept us in check while I (Ashe) was co piloting and having a mental breakdown :D
also we split a new alter (Vee) and she's like... rlly violent and hateful, like Jasper but a bit more.... murder-ey
anyhoo this is jst an apology for everything that happened and to anyone we offended it was jst a bit of a rough patch
#-Ashe#ik i shouldnt be apologising bc it was out of our control but i feel like i couldve done more than just panic and cry#its times like these where we find value in Makarov#bro was a lifesaver ngl#pdid#osdd#actually pdid#partial did
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me watching people follow me off the back of my tsc posts knowing damn well that i’m back on my witherward bullshit again and that i’m going to be nonstop ollivan sims posting for the next few weeks
#in my defence both my pinned and my url are witherward references. i shouldnt apologise for who i am. AND YET!!#i think the eliot/ollivan shipping has sent me off the deep end#i’m thinking about rereading just for additional inspiration. what is wrong with me i have university work to do
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if i ramble about ocs dont look at me
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Okay, y'all can come at me or don't come at me, atp I don't give a shit.
Guys please stop hating Lando in my asks, yes sure he could have been a bit of an asshole. But it was his win, as much as it was Oscar's, a bit of rudeness is to be expected. He was put under the spotlight at the last moment, and blamed for McLaren's shitty strategy, manipulated. This was no one's but McLaren's fault, so stop pointing fingers at either of the drivers. This is a sport, arguments, disagreements are to be expected, it's a part of it. And if you can't handle it, feel free to leave. Oscar shouldn't have to apologise for winning, and neither should Lando be blamed. This was supposed to be the happiest day of Oscar's life, and it is currently being overshadowed by McLaren's shitty decisions.
If you have rude shit to say about either of them, this is not the place. Thankyou. Lots of love<3
#mcfuckup#stop blaming the fucking drivers#he shouldn't have to apologise for winning#lando shouldnt have to be called childish.
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My ability to ruin everyone's evening is truly astounding. Sixty seconds and I've managed to both really hurt my mother, really piss her off, ruin the good mood for everyone, and make myself feel like shit for it all.
#i might have told her i thought we'd already established i dont want to live here but im stuck here with nowhere else to go#so now i need to work out how to apologise to her without it being awkward#its true but its cruel and i shouldnt have said it
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Me since yesterday sometimes feeling like I'm on a hair trigger: everybody hates me, I hate everybody, everything and everyone is soooo annoying, why are they talking to me ughhh, I'm so alone, so fucking tired, nobody wants to be my friend, what am I even DOING??? Etc etc.
Me an hour ago: ...waaaait something feels a bit sus *checks app* ahhhh yeah lollllll it all makes sense now I don't REALLY feel like that *instant relief and huge reduction in overwhelming emotional BS* 🤷🏽♀️ like now that I'm reminded why....I'm suddenly way more fine

#legit gets me every time#im like WHY THE FUCK AM I FEELING SO MUCH#checks app#also so unrelated but theyre a weird scratching/rustling sound i can here while im in my room#and i cant pinpoint where its coming from 😭 its not fun#hahahahhaa yeahhh why didnt i think of that#🤦🏽♀️#period#these things suck#i once got my period the day after my cousins wedding#and let me tell you....the day before was NOT fun#i was so emotional about everything#someone trying to do my hair? me: 😭😩😒#that time of the month#menstruation#what other tags are there for this idk#many emotions#most of them unwanted and unasked for lol#my post#letusrollon post#i like that i no longer have to date my posts in the tags#btw i did apologise at the wedding a few hours later when i realised why i was feeling so overwhelmed lol#this is how it goes for me#shouldnt need to be said but ill say it anyway...not everyone is the same!!!!#also unrelated but there's a weird scratching/rustling sound i can hear when im in my room now#and i cant pinpoint where its coming from 😭 not fun
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#really thought itd be over with by now ngl#i cant believe the manager has given him a bollocking and he still hasnt fucking apologised#im trying not to worry too much about it cause its officially not my problem anymore#and not something thats on me to fix (which it shouldnt really have been in the first place but i digress)#but yknow. at this point all i want is the fucking apology#i dont even wanna be friends no more i just want him to fucking apologise#and he cant even give me that 😭#i still dont think im being unreasonable if this happened to one of my friends id be ready to fucking kill him#...is it petty of me to hope his gf dumps him#like idk her but she deserves better tbh#ellies shitchats
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