#shifting from another word

[shiftymimilily]

This, but i'm tagging shifting stuff i've seen from some of my DRs that are shifting-related from the DRs/IRs I've been to. Honestly had to translate some into a more English and adjust it to the context or language here, but it's relatively the same stuff. Also some realities even use completely different shifting terms and phrases even though it's technically the same language (daily english from this period of time in this context) and it's basically here in a different font MANDISWKD- I find it all of it very interesting and would love to see what people think of some of the tags too.

Okay lads put your nichest dr in the tags. Yap to your hearts content. (If it is a fandom please elaborate!) GO!

[sundial-bee-scribbles]

"my education is my highest priority" everything returns to vocaloid

[themthistles]

i think that while micro labels can seem useful and affirming ultimately they're isolating and kind of an obstacle to your understanding of self. that's because you can never find a word specific enough. there will never be a label or two labels or even ten, twenty of them to perfectly capture and describe all of your thoughts, feelings, experiences, preferences, needs, interests, identities, etc. because you learn more and more about yourself every day and then you change and your wants and needs change with you. having to hop between labels, fearing that you don't 'fit' into a label anymore (both in your own and others eyes), worrying how soon your current label will wear out, questioning if you'll ever fully fit a single one. all that causes a lot of uncertainty and anxiety which could be avoided by just picking a more general thing and molding it according to what it means to YOU. because words will always mean different things to different people, you will never be understood immediately and maybe never completely by anyone but yourself and that's fine

[hadesknockedupintheunderworld]

Gotta love how in Archie anti Jules and the biggest shit eating grin while poor baby scourge looked so lonely , puny and neglected.

Yeah poor little guy🥲

[nerosdayinanime]

cant stop thinking of sabito-mitsuri interactions

[sysig]

I also made a card for him (Patreon)

[ministry-of-acid]

It's been a very exciting year trying beers from all the states I visit (Gotta snag one from Idaho! Or maybe some vodka, considering all the potatoes) but now it's time to see what the good folks of Missouri have to offer! I'm not holding out too much hope, probably between like Arizona and Texas in terms of quality but we'll see! Next year I should probably stick to one type, say a hazy ipa or something so I can really compare em cuz no shit I'm gonna like an ale better than a stout no matter what brewery does it. Except maybe like proper brewing in salt lake city all their stuff is so good

[icewindandboringhorror]

Recent game related things .. hrmm...

[daz4i]

the phrase "become myself again" is weird to me

i think. we are always ourselves. sometimes it's painfully clear how you're the same kid you were years ago, in an adult body

but you're also not the same person at all. you're constantly changing

it's not a bad thing. you're not becoming a different person. the self is ever-changing

kinda like how a rock erodes and becomes smooth from water. you are this rock. would you want to pile back rock bits that no longer sit right just so you can be who you were before? you're the same rock, just... more polished. you're different, but you're still you, constantly developing, eroding but becoming nicer to look at and easier to touch, changing but becoming a version of yourself that you’ll eventually have an easier time handling. kinda. yknow?

[itspileofgoodthings]

do y’all wanna know something funny. when I was in England I accidentally stumbled into finding my sister a boyfriend via @ilovevanillatea and her husband and it is something that has been so funny and good.

[cloudiness]

ughhh give me a weekly podcast by Carlos Sainz Jr, one weak it has to be in English, the next one in Italian and then the other one in Spanish. PLS!!!!!

[jarognieva]

I must survive this week I must survive this week I must survive this week

[mastersoftheair]

part of an interview with george webster (from autumn '22) done with HATC Magazine

[hella1975]

bagged a trial shift at a new pub just for my manager to immediately put on facebook if anyone wants an extra shift on wednesday. he knows what im doing

[kohakhearts]

you think youve served your time as the child of parents whose primary method of bonding with each other was screaming and throwing things and then you move into an apartment where your neighbours do the same goddamn thing

[unproduciblesmackdown]

that moment when: everyone's lives are restricted and constricted and these imposed consequences are attributed to anyone's continual individual failures to seek, find, and follow the Correct Path through Life, and so everyone is left on their own to only be seeking & finding these failures as well as the only answer to how their lives can be better....versus Not seeing the world as the free marketplace meritocracy of everyone's personal failures/successes, nor everything in your own life, and thus not forever having to scrutinize Where You Must Be Bringing It Upon Yourself by fucking up or at least failing to do the correct thing, and exist only in perpetual punishment for your ongoing failure and occasional temporary reprieves from it. recognizing everything that wasn't & isn't & wouldn't be [this is because you're bringing it upon yourself] and thus having more capacity & capability to look at the realm of your personal individual self, reality, experiences, life through the perpetual instances of seeking, finding, and following your own needs/wants through one's inherent personhood and exercises of autonomy and recognition of where & when & how one recognizes moments of their existing freely & in more resonant genuine alignment with themself, you know? endless examples to be found in endless fractals of [where & how are people's lives made smaller]. and that of course this doesn't preclude the ability/option at any time to question one's choices, since you'll be able to find more Actual choices available to you (and, also crucially, find more actual choices made by others that are in the pursuit of limiting Yours) to look at, and people getting to exercise their autonomy isn't the same as "everyone doing anything they want regardless of how it affects others" since that [how does it affect others?] element instead being Regarded would be able to lead to recognizing that, in fact, an effect might be the infringement on others' autonomy, hence: There's A Problem....like the ability to just go ham with [questioning???] anything in existence, certainly including oneself, b/c the "norm" is such that rather you're only supposed to be able to question yourself for your failings (or those positioned as less than, thus, beneath you) and not even have the language to express a questioning of aspects of life beyond that b/c stop calling anyone "cis" they're just Normal, Just Be Normal and it would all be fine