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drumbot brian and sex and romance-repulsed aroace please!
sex and romance repulsed aroace flag colorpicked from drumbot brian!
i hope i did the flag justice! original flag under cut for those who don't know it. thank you for the ask!
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Sex and Romance repulsed
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By the way "some aroace people still date and have sex" and "it's weird how internet spaces makes every single aroace character romance and sex favourable" can and should co-exist. Sincerely, an aroace person
#Aromantic#Asexual#Aroace#Hazard Hollers#This is coming from someone who is romance and sex repulsed
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shout out to repulsed aces and aros who have no safe spaces in fandom because it's just everywhere you turn and it's in all the fanarts and all the fanfics and all the posts except for like ... 5% TOPS.
shout out for enduring the horrors every day for the few rare posts that have nothing to do with sex or romance
#repulsed aroace#romance repulsed#sex repulsed#apothiaroace#apothisexual#apothiromantic#aroace#aromantic#asexual#aro#ace#arospec#aromantic spectrum#asexual spectrum#acespec#fandom#fandom rants#asexual rants#aromantic rants
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If I ever make a book it's going to be so painfully aromantic and asexual that any allos reading will die from a heart attack because of the lack of romance and sex
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I'm actually not particularly fond of the romance/sex-favorable/neutral/repulsed division as, like, a permanent identity for me because somedays I'm frolicking in romance and smut & other days I want to explode the world if I see ppl even mention a ship at all. I think it's good for a lot of people, but it doesn't really work for me unless I'm feeling repulsed or neutral or favorable
Edit: Everyone who saw this that was wondering if there was a word for this: I've been informed about the term sex/romance-ambivalent. I suggest searching it up. Thank you to the people who mentioned it, but please stop trying to label me. Whether I decide to personally use it as a label is up to me.
#aromantic#aro#asexual#ace#aroace#my posts#personal#lgbtqia+#if I had to pick I'd say repulsed since that best describes my feelings with IRL sex/romance but it still depends
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Accept and support repulsed people or die by my blade
#text#aspec#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aplatonic#aroace#sex repulsed#romance repulsed#platorepulsed#touch repulsed#any other a-attractions and repulsed ppl are included too#i just don't know them all im sorry
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People treat characters being AroAce like they're being forced to eat vegetables despite the fact that a character being aspec instantly makes them 300% more cool and interesting.
#Aromantic#Asexual#Aroace#I'm sorry but romance and sex repulsed AroAce is the coolest thing a character can be#Aspec#Aspectrum#asexual spectrum#aromantic spectrum
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Here's me begging people again to learn the difference because I've been seeing more and more people confuse these terms when discussing some things in the ace community:
Sex-Favorable - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being fine and even enthusiastic in engaging in sex and other sexual acts. Often confused by some as Sex-Positivity.
Sex-Positive - A moral or political position that refers to a positive outlook on sex as something positive and something that should not be shamed for any consenting persons regardless of their own personal feelings towards sexual acts on themselves.
Sex-Indifferent - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being indifferent in engaging in sex and other sexual acts.
Sex-Neutral - A moral or political position that refers to an indifferent outlook on sex. They may not have strong feelings about it one way or another.
Sex-Averse - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being averse in engaging in sex and other sexual acts. Often confused by some as sex-repulsion.
Sex-Repulsed - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being repulsed or disgusted by thoughts or material related to sex. This has no bearing on their own political/moral position on sex. Often confused by some as Sex-Aversion or even Sex-Negativity.
Sex-Negative - A moral or political position that refers to a negative view on sex as something negative and something that should be forbidden and only be a means of procreation. Some people who are sex-negative may only view it as a way to procreate so people who engage in the activity without any plans of procreation (and especially members of the queer community) may be deemed as immoral or even evil.
If we're going to have proper discussions of these things, please please please can we use the proper terms. I need to stop feeling fight or flight whenever I see someone trying to vent about "some rude sex-positive aces" or see someone proclaim that they're "sex-negative" like I'm serious. I keep on having to double-take whenever I have to read posts and discussions because of this.
#mayaposts#ace#asexual#actually asexual#sex favorable#sex indifferent#sex averse#sex repulsed#sex positive#sex neutral#sex negative#honestly same thing goes for the romance variants like seriously please these words have previous meanings and if you don't want to be#misunderstood or accidentally look like you're being awful maybe it's best to learn and use proper terms
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Had a bit of a "community heartbreak" last week, yet another one in a life-long series (though it'd been a while), so I malfunctioned for some days, took exactly one painkiller, and then finally tried to make sense of stuff that hurt me over the years and that I kept being clueless to for a ridiculous amount of time, so that maybe, hopefully, it could save some people in cases similar to mine some confusion and hurt
#no one can know i don't like sex#vent art#sex repulsed#romance repulsed#aroace#my art#nonburger#other reasons why i can't function in fandom spaces for shit include me being 30+ and me having been bullied as a kid#which confirms i'm not made to fit in groups©#maybe? idk#anyway
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Velvette: Vox, you need to stop being so obsessed over the radio demon. He doesn’t care.
Vox: *sweating* I’m NOT in love with the radio demon
Velvette:
Velvette: I didn’t say “love”
Velvette: But that certainly explains all the “A+V” in hearts everywhere.
Vox: it sTANDS FOR ANGST AND VIOLENCE
Velvette: Mmhmm, and the shrine?
Vox, hurriedly tearing everything down: ITS A MURDER BOARD
#hazbin hotel#vox hazbin hotel#vox#hazbin hotel velvette#velvette hazbin hotel#velvette#the vees#radiostatic#tv or radio#staticradio#(one sided my beloved cause I feel Al is hardcore romance/sex repulsed/indifferent)
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can we just all collectively agree that it is okay for aroace characters not to date or have sex if they clearly show no interest in it or repulsion?
can we respect that and not ship them?
or are yall too deep into amatonormativity…???
#this is so targeted#yelena belova in specific since the fandom cannot let her go just cause shes attractive like get a life#fuck amatonormativity#fuck aphobia#fuck aphobes#aspec#arospec#acespec#asexuality#aromanticism#asexual#ace#aromantic#aro#aroace#aro pride#ace pride#non partnering aro#sex repulsed#romance repulsed
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me currently:
“i want people to have crushes on me so badly because i thrive on external validation and im super insecure so i really really want people to have crushes on me”
also me, being aroace and sex/romance-repulsed (if someone has a crush on me):
“pleasepleasepleaseplease nobody have a crush on me and ESPECIALLY DONT TELL ME because then i have to reject you and i hate rejecting people and then i’ll probably have to come out to avoid hurting anyone because i overthink everything ahahahha”
#i hope someone finds this relatable (aka hopefully it isnt just me but i also hope other people don’t have to go through internal conflict)#because this is me all the time#aroace#asexual#aromantic#aro#ace#aromantic asexual#asexual aromantic#aromanticism#asexuality#crushes#romance repulsed#sex repulsed#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtqplus#lgbtqia+#rare times when astra actually tags things?? whaaaaat?? 😦
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Being repulsed is really fucking weird. Not wanting to see people kiss, being uncomfortable when witnessing romantic displays, that's all associated with childishness. I've genuinely thought there was something wrong with me or that I was a bad friend for not wanting to hear about my friend's new boyfriend for hours. Or that not liking to see my friend and her girlfriend kiss meant I was jealous somehow.
It's very alienating and othering and simply confusing because most of us go through this for years before discovering there's a word for it and other people feel this way.
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I bring a certain repulsed aroace vibe to the fandom that most people don't appreciate
#it is a constant struggle#the people hate my ideas#but it only fuels me#aroace#repulsed aroace#romance repulsed#sex repulsed#apothiromantic#apothisexual#aroace spec#aroace spectrum#aromantic spectrum#aromantics#aromanticism#aromantic#arospec#aro#acespec#ace#asexual spectrum#asexuality spectrum#asexual#asexuality
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You don't need to be in a romantic relationship or having sex to be queer. You are not required to partake in amatonormativity just to be seen as "Queer enough" You are queer enough as is. You repulsion is Queer enough. The only person who can decide if you're queer or not is you.
#text#romance repulsed#sex repulsed#rose repulsed#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aroace#pride#positivity#queer
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