#selfdeveloped

[thingsdavidlikes]

The Shadow Of January (on Explore 1/31/2024) by Leka Hasselind 岭影人

[linus-malmqvist]

Analog photodump from recent times LA and gothenburg

[marketingsentimental]

[nenelonomh]

of course everything is falling apart, your new life will cost you your old one

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[echoesofphilip]

[jade-detached]

"𝓜𝔂 𝓑𝓸𝓭𝔂 𝓖𝓸𝓪𝓵𝓼"

"𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕'𝒔 𝒅𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒅𝒐𝒏𝒆. 𝑩𝒖𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑭𝒖𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒅𝒐 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓."

-𝑹𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒆 𝑨𝒉𝒅𝒊𝒆𝒉, 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑾𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑫𝒂𝒘𝒏

𝑾𝒉𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕,

𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘣𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘰𝘯 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧, 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢 𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘮 𝘬𝘪𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘢 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘨𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘴𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘵 𝘶𝘱𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘩 𝘰𝘧 𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴,

𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘫𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘯𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘸 𝘧𝘰𝘤𝘶𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭

𝘉𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦.

[ultrxlight]

why i am starting to hate watching self improvement youtubers

self improvement has been the trend lately everyone hopping with advice on how to change your life n all

the problem is no matter how much advice they give

their experience and environment will never be like yours

they are giving advice based on what THEY went through

and you guys dont have the same purpose

sometimes the advice they give is the last thing that you need to hear

its not about storing and grabbing as much advice as possible that will make you successful

but rather adapting to your environment and circumstances so well

and to master it and become well adapted you gotta be mindful and focus on your life

even animals adapt to their environments and thats why even bears come in many colours depending on which habitat they live and how they can survive better

white bears are white to camouflage

if we replaced white bears with pandas they wont last for over 2 weeks

imagine pandas sitting and watching white bears talking and taking advice

i know thats the most random example ever

but i had to bring a real example from the real world

most of the time its about being focused on your own path and thriving at it instead of looking at others

personally i wouldnt take advice from a random person on the internet who probably finished their whole academic career years ago

and is going through different circumstances than i am

yknow what is true power is now a days ? something that will get you ahead of 99% of the world

ITS FOCUS

no one is focused anymore

everyone is overstimulated

wasting their life away

just being focused on your own self will get you ahead in life

[memoriesndew]

challenges & more 100 days of productivity april challenge towards easter camp out (teco) getting better challange weight loss. lock in.

asks & others dew asks

dumps dewy dumps monthly dumps my fav youtubers and few others you should know things I care about 🎀 daily dump

dew goals content creation: youtube notion template creation further education then 𝒃𝒖𝒊𝒍𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒚 𝒓𝒆𝒃𝒓𝒂𝒏𝒅

(inspired by nenelonomh)

[inikumi]

Jalan cerita

Ternyata memasang bounderies atau batasan itu penting sekali. Memberanikan diri untuk speak up dan menerima apapun penolakan itu jauh lebih melegakan daripada bermain atas asumsi kita sendiri.

Batasan itu akhirnya memberiku pelajaran untuk melepaskan sesuatu yang memang tidak “satu” dengan tujuanku.

Sederhana. Hanya perlu menyampaikan tujuan kita. Respon dia yang akan menentukan bagaimana kita bertindak setelahnya.

Aku kembali belajar. Berkali-kali belajar, berkali-kali aku berdoa, berkali-kali juga kesempatan itu ada. Aku tidak tahu, apakah dia sudah menemukan lebih dulu atau aku yang akan menemukan lebih dulu.

Pada akhirnya apapun keputusan Allaah, aku merelakan seutuhnya perasaan ini terhadapnya. Terhadap ketentuan-Nya.

[maslimanny]

When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate.

And when life is bitter, say thank you and grow...!!

[adiyo]

Filling Your Cup: Small Acts for Self-Development and Mental Wellness

It’s easy to feel drained by the day-to-day hustle, but I’ve found that the little things can make the biggest difference when it comes to self-development and mental wellness. Recently, I’ve been focusing on filling my cup by intentionally incorporating small acts into my routine—whether it's taking a 10-minute break to meditate, reading a chapter from an inspiring book, or simply going on a walk to clear my mind.

These small moments of peace add up, making me feel more grounded and centered. The best part? They remind me that self-care doesn’t have to be complicated or time-consuming. It’s about showing up for yourself in the simplest of ways, little by little, every day.

Sometimes, it’s as easy as writing down three things I’m grateful for or setting a mini goal for the day that focuses on something positive—anything that pushes me towards growth while helping me maintain balance. These small acts might seem insignificant in the moment, but they truly add up over time, creating a foundation for better mental health and self-confidence.

So here’s to filling our cups, not all at once, but drop by drop.

[nenelonomh]

setting boundaries

identify your limits: understand what you are comfortable with and what you are not. this includes physical, emotional, and mental boundaries.

communicate clearly: express your boundaries to others in a straightforward and respectful manner. use “i” statements to convey your needs without blaming or criticizing.

be consistent: enforce your boundaries consistently. if you let others cross your boundaries without consequence, it can undermine your efforts.

practice self-awareness: regularly check in with yourself to ensure your boundaries are still serving you well. adjust them as needed based on your experiences and feelings.

respect others’ boundaries: just as you set your own boundaries, be mindful and respectful of the boundaries set by others. this mutual respect fosters healthier relationships.

seek support: if you’re struggling to set or maintain boundaries, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor. they can provide guidance and strategies tailored to your situation.

be patient: setting boundaries can be challenging, especially if you’re not used to it. give yourself time to practice and improve your boundary-setting skills.

use assertive communication: being assertive means expressing your needs and rights while respecting others. it’s a balanced approach that helps you maintain your boundaries without being aggressive.

❤️nene

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

Stay Safe Online

[achilles22hector]

— The 33 Strategies of War, Robert Greene

The 33 Strategies of War is a military history and personal development book. It was written by American author Robert Greene in 2006. It is composed of discussions and examples of offensive and defensive strategies from a wide variety of people and conditions, applying them to social conflicts such as family quarrels and business negotiations.