#romanticizing everything

[onceifixmehesgonnamissme]

[wormfood2001]

me

[thedeadpoetshadow]

He's the only reason why I'm living again

he is like the desert after the rain. - Anii

[dontsugarcoatme-baby]

[minimallycreative]

i should go to bed

thinking about the silly little guys in my computer instead

its fine its the weekend

[sasukesofficiallawyer]

how to stop romanticizing my trauma no glue no borax

[rustbeltjessie]

That night, I had two opposite—but equally intense—impulses. One of them was to get fucking wasted. To get as wasted as I would have in those “singing along to ‘Sally MacLennane’ in the pub” days; to get so plowed all the stuff that Shane’s death brought up for me would sink beneath a stream of whiskey. The other was to not drink, at all; to not only stay sober that night but to never touch a drop of booze again. Because of Shane’s life-long struggles with addiction, because of so many of my beloveds’ struggles with addiction, because of my own struggles with addiction—my own affinity for hurling [myself] toward oblivion in the back of some grim and sticky dive, as Amanda Petrusich put it in her wonderful tribute to Shane. —from "That night, Rain Street went on for miles."

The newest installment of my newsletter is about Shane MacGowan/The Pogues, punk/poetry, addiction, and romanticizing things that are 'bad,' amongst other things. I've been working on this one for a month, and I'm glad it's finally out in the world.

[pastel-charm-14]

how to romanticize your life - a series - post 4 - romanticizing your routines

who says routines have to be boring? it's time to infuse a little romance and magic into your daily rituals. so without further ado: here are some tips to help you romanticize your routines and turn the ordinary into something extraordinary!

set the mood. create a cozy atmosphere with soft lighting, scented candles, and your favorite playlist in the background.

savor the moment. slow down and take your time with each task. whether it's brewing a cup of tea, taking a shower, or making your bed, savor the sensations and appreciate the simple pleasures of life.

treat yourself to little luxuries that make you feel pampered and special, like using fancy bath products, wearing silky pajamas, or indulging in a decadent dessert.

make your routines meaningful and intentional. set an intention for the day, practice gratitude, or reflect on your goals and aspirations while you go about your tasks.

incorporate elements of nature into your routines, whether it's bringing fresh flowers into your home, taking a walk outside, or enjoying your meals al fresco.

engage all your senses as you go through your routines. savor the aroma of freshly brewed coffee, listen to soothing music, feel the warmth of the sun on your skin, and admire the beauty of your surroundings.

cultivate mindfulness. be fully present in the moment and focus on the task at hand. let go of distractions and worries, and immerse yourself in the here and now.

appreciate the small moments of beauty and joy that arise throughout your day, whether it's a colorful sunrise, a friendly smile, or a delicious meal.

acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. take pride in your efforts and reward yourself for a job well done.

note: not gonna lie having two series' going at once is kinda hard to keep up with. but i'm doin it XD it's finals week so i have so much going on :(

[imaprettygirl]

Poses I would love to recreate with my (future) roommates loll ♡

[the-monologues]

I used to sleep to run away from reality, but now you have started haunting me in my dreams.

[notawisewriter]

[ghost in the walls]: notawisewriter

[library-archives]

{𝙼𝚢 𝚗𝚊𝚖𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚁𝚘𝚠𝚊𝚗

{𝙸’𝚖 𝚊𝚕𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚊𝚗 𝚊𝚍𝚞𝚕𝚝

{𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚊𝚊𝚌𝚌𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚝 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚋𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚢 𝚋𝚎 𝚍𝚊𝚛𝚔 𝚊𝚌𝚊𝚍𝚎𝚖𝚒𝚊/𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚊𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚝𝚒𝚌

☽ 𝙸𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚍𝚘𝚗’𝚝 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎 𝚖𝚢 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚟𝚎

☽ 𝙽𝚘 𝚙𝚑𝚘𝚝𝚘𝚜/𝚊𝚛𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚖𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚞𝚗𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚍 𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚎

{𝙼𝚢 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚜 𝚒𝚗𝚌𝚕𝚞𝚍𝚎:

♡︎ 𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚢𝚙𝚎𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚖𝚞𝚜𝚒𝚌

♡︎ 𝚃𝚅 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚠𝚜/𝚖𝚘𝚟𝚒𝚎𝚜 (𝟿𝟷𝟷, 𝙶𝚛𝚊𝚟𝚒𝚝𝚢 𝚏𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚜, 𝚃𝙿𝙾𝙱𝙰𝚆𝙵, 𝚎𝚝𝚌,.)

♡︎ 𝙲𝚕𝚘𝚠𝚗𝚜

♡︎ 𝙸𝚗���𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚜

♡︎ 𝙾𝚕𝚍 𝚍𝚘𝚕𝚕𝚜

♡︎ 𝙾𝚍𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚜

{𝙳𝚘𝚗’𝚝 𝚋𝚎 𝚠𝚎𝚒𝚛𝚍

[dazzlgrl]

i want people to romanticize their own upbringings!! like we could have so many more niche aesthetics and ways to relate to each other if we created our own aesthetics. im gonna try to do that on my blog

[koorb]

flower

[cillianmurphyslover]

forcing myself to fight the bed rot and start waking up early again. just so i can appreciate the little things like hearing the birds in the morning, feeling the temperature rise as the sun gets higher and more intense, eating fruit in the mornings and watching my local weather guy. i didn’t appreciate these things when i had to do it every day, but something abt waking up at noon is so jarring. i hate feeling like everyone has gotten started without me and im just left to catch up.

[itwov]

You're still the oxygen i breathe,

I see your face when i close my eyes.

It's torturous.

Tonight is gonna be the lonliest.

🖤

THE LONLIEST, Mäneskin