#repulsed stance

[orientation-archive]

PT/Romance indifferent-repulsed flux/end PT

Romance indifferent-repulsed flux

A label for when you fluctuate between being romance indifferent and romance repulsed.

[dhddmods]

Waveric Attraction Stances!

Waveric Attraction is attraction that is fluid. For example, a person that feels alterous attraction one day, sexual attraction the next day, then later a mix of sensual and platonic attraction, etc.

All four of these use the colors from the waveric flag we made.

Waveric-Favorable

Meaning: A person that enjoys the idea of experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction.

Waveric-Indifferent

Meaning: A person that is neutral to the idea of experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction.

Waveric-Repulsed

Meaning: A person that is disgusted or uncomfortable at the idea of experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction.

Waveric-Ambivalent

Meaning: A person that has complicated opinions about experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction. This may include being fluid between the previous three stances.

[roses-are-repulsed]

You are not "Romance negative" for being romance repulsed. You aren't an oppressor for being romance repulsed. Romance negativity isn't really a thing in the current context that it get used in - your personal feelings about romance does not socially effect those in romantic relationships or with romantic feelings/favorability.

You are not actively hurting anyone by talking about your feelings and experiences. You are not at fault when people decide to take your feels personally and make it about them and their feelings.

There is nothing wrong with you or your feelings. Don't let people silence you because they decided to project their idea of you onto who you are. You are better than they say you are.

[velvetvexations]

Someone made a callout post for me that consists mostly of "she immediately apologized and backed down after I framed an interaction as her flying off the handle over a misinterpretation of one of my posts", which is interesting.

[steampunk-llama]

Genuinely begging people to understand that sex favourability =/= sex positivity, and that sex repulsion =/= sex negativity

Also if we could please leave behind the mindset that asexuality (specifically repulsed aces) = Puritanism in 2024 that'd be wonderful thanks <3

[wayfinderships]

Hmmmm....Romance Repulsed 👍

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

[ID: Five pixel hearts of various flags in order being Romance Favorable, Romance Repulsed, Romance Ambivalent, Romance Indifferent and Romance Averse. End ID]

Wiki user? Romance Averse

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags the rest

[googoothegodofblood]

good morning to hypersexuals, hope youre all doing okay today

[revenant-coining]

Empathy Stances

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requested by @ricocheting

Empathy Stances:

Empathy-Ambivalent: one has mixed or complicated feelings regarding interactions that involve empathy.

Empathy-Averse: one feels repulsed by the idea of personally engaging in interactions that involve empathy.

Empathy-Drained: one feels repulsed by interactions the involve empathy due to trauma or exhaustion.

Empathy-Favorable: one feels favorable towards or enjoys interactions that involve empathy.

Empathy-Indifferent: one has no strong feelings regarding interactions that involve empathy.

Empathy-Oscillating: one’s feelings towards interactions that involve empathy change or fluctuate over time.

Empathy-Repulsed: one feels repulsed by interactions that involve empathy.

@radiomogai , @oneofmanyarchives

[slendistortion]

aroace means you aren’t sexually or romantically attracted to anyone, it can vary tho

iM nOt A pERsOn :)

[alphabetboyluvr]

One trope that you will never write? and one kink you don’t like?

student-teacher/prof, patient-nurse, therapist, intern-ceo

anything with a huge power imbalance, or where someone is in a position of trust and they just totally abuse it. i find it really hard to find anything hot about it 'cause it just pisses me off

im pretty open to most things, but yeah, anything that centres around an abuse of power is a big nope for me

(and i don't like daddy kinks lmaoooo, no shame, just not for me)

[arodata]

We need to bring back sex positivity in the broader self-proclaimed progressive sphere so bad I'm not joking

[rorimoon9597]

I wholeheartedly agree with you. I'm bisexual, and I would HATE for people to argue about whether or not my sexuality is valid. It is valid, and so is anyone, of ANY gender, being aro/ace.

I'm going to write a story about an asexual character I have, and they're a GUY, and he's going to meet MORE aro/ace characters, and no one in his main friend group (which is also his gay brother and ally sister's friend group) is going to make fun of him for it, or question if it's valid for him to be that.

Because I'm a writer, and I can write about shit like this. My hope is to show people that they aren't alone in life, so if I have to write about a character that is sex repulsed? Then so fucking be it. I can write about what I want, and who will stop me?

Anyway, stop being stupid and asking if aro/ace is valid, because it is

can you fucking imagine if there was a poll going around asking if bisexual people were queer??? or trans people even. anything after the G other than A really (and if you say A is for ally I am killing you with a piano).

it would be fucking ridiculous, wouldn't it?

yeah so the "are cishet aromantic men queer" poll should be seen by EVERYONE as fucking ridiculous. because it is. it's not really up for debate.

if someone asked you right now, are lesbians queer, you'd tell them to touch grass. at best. you'd probably ignore them if we're being honest. but suddenly when they ask about aromantic people it's up for debate? or worse you "don't want to get involved"?

aromantic people are queer. whether you like it or not.

[almightybagel]

Touch Stances (not exactly sure where I stand) (also not sure about this title ☹️)

How does one determine where they stand(?) when it comes to the touch stances?

Like I think I'm either touch oscillating or touch ambivalent (I'm not 100% sure)

I am very much uncomfortable with being hugged (or really just touched in general) without warning (which my dad does a lot), and I can't stand touching strangers (the best I can do is a fist bump)

I'm like a cat in the sense that I either have to be the one to initiate the affection or in rare cases it's someone I'm close to that can initiate it (if that makes sense) and even then I rarely initiate affection (physical) at all

[cylaranth]

Aromantic man cannot go in the aromantic tags without being exposed to a show he just can’t stand

[shhhhhiminsidesaitamascloset]

just because it sounds ridiculous to you doesnt make it less valid or less true.

we all go through life living different lives and experiences and having beliefs and values that dont align with other people.

it doesnt make it more or less valid especially when you have a good heart. & a kind and understanding soul.