#fluid attraction

[dhddmods]

Waveric Attraction Stances!

Waveric Attraction is attraction that is fluid. For example, a person that feels alterous attraction one day, sexual attraction the next day, then later a mix of sensual and platonic attraction, etc.

All four of these use the colors from the waveric flag we made.

Waveric-Favorable

Meaning: A person that enjoys the idea of experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction.

Waveric-Indifferent

Meaning: A person that is neutral to the idea of experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction.

Waveric-Repulsed

Meaning: A person that is disgusted or uncomfortable at the idea of experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction.

Waveric-Ambivalent

Meaning: A person that has complicated opinions about experiencing or being involved in waveric attraction. This may include being fluid between the previous three stances.

[svapacsingulus]

singulussexuality

singulussexuality encompasses a diverse experience, some peoples singulus attraction Is affected by neurodiversity, some people shift almost everyday, while others every 3 months, some people have equally intense or equally weak attractions, while for others, one attraction is stronger/weaker than the other, whatever your experience is, you are valid :)!

[astral-arbour-system]

Can I identify as panflux if the reason is I'm always attracted to all genders, just not always in the same way? For example one day I could be romantically attracted to women, aesthetically attracted to all genders, and sexually attracted to no one, another I could just be a standard pansexual, and another I could be demisexual and panromantic, etc etc.

-Gwen

[orientation-archive]

PT/cinnabaric. Heliodoran. Stripe meanings. HQ downloads (1) (2) (3) (4) (no links)./end PT

Cinnabaric: The juvelic term for an attrafluid person who is both nblnb & wlw, but not nblw or wlnb. They are often (though not always) genderfluid, and their attraction to NBs and women (/and woman-aligned NBs) always feels gay (sapphic for women, enbian for NBs), gai, or otherwise symmaic.

Heliodoran: The juvelic term for an attrafluid person who is both nblnb & mlm, but not nblm or mlnb. They are often (though not always) genderfluid, and their attraction to NBs and men (/and man-aligned NBs) always feels gay (achillean/vincian for men, enbian for NBs), gai, or otherwise symmaic.

Stripe Meanings:

The middle three stripes of either flag are derived from the sapphic and mlm flags, while the purple comes from the enbian flag. The outer two stripes are inspired by the gemstones each term is named for.

HQ Downloads: (1) (2) (3) (4)

(See also: omnigay, omnisymmaic, omnigai, attrafluid, novo-, amplusic, flex-, flexi-, duo-, “circumstantial” genders)

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If you have any problems with either of these terms or flag designs, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋

[inkskinned]

you're grabbing lunch with a nice man and he gives you that strange grimace-smile that's popular right now; an almost sardonic "twist" of his mouth while he looks literally down on you. it looks like he practiced the move as he leans back, arms folded. he just finished reciting the details of NFTs to you and explaining Oppenheimer even though he only watched a youtube about it and hasn't actually seen it. you are at the bottom of your wine glass.

you ask the man across from you if he has siblings, desperately looking for a topic. literally anything else.

he says i don't like small talk. and then he smiles again, watching you.

a few years ago, you probably would have said you're above celebrity gossip, but honestly, you've been kind of enjoying the dumb shit of it these days. with the rest of the earth burning, there's something familiar and banal about dragging ariana grande through the mud. you think about jeanette mccurdy, who has often times gently warned the world she's not as nice as she appears. you liked i'm glad my mom died but it made you cry a lot.

he doesn't like small talk, figure out something to say.

you want to talk about responsibility, and how ariana grande is only like 6 days older than you are - which means she just turned 30 and still dresses and acts like a 13 year old, but like sexy. there's something in there about the whole thing - about insecurity, and never growing up, and being sexualized from a young age.

people have been saying that gay people are groomers. like, that's something that's come back into the public. you have even said yourself that it's just ... easier to date men sometimes. you would identify as whatever the opposite of "heteroflexible" is, but here you are again, across from a man. you like every woman, and 3 people on tv. and not this guy. but you're trying. your mother is worried about you. she thinks it's not okay you're single. and honestly this guy was better before you met, back when you were just texting.

wait, shit. are you doing the same thing as ariana grande? are you looking for male validation in order to appease some internalized promise of heteronormativity? do you conform to the idea that your happiness must result in heterosexuality? do you believe that you can resolve your internal loneliness by being accepted into the patriarchy? is there a reason dating men is easier? why are you so scared of fucking it up with women? why don't you reach out to more of them? you have a good sense of humor and a big ol' brain, you could have done a better job at online dating.

also. jesus christ. why can't you just get a drink with somebody without your internal feminism meter pinging. although - in your favor (and judgement aside) in the case of your ariana grande deposition: you have been in enough therapy you probably wouldn't date anyone who had just broken up with their wife of many years (and who has a young child). you'd be like - maybe take some personal time before you begin this journey. like, grande has been on broadway, you'd think she would have heard of the plot of hamlet.

he leans forward and taps two fingers to the table. "i'm not, like an andrew tate guy," he's saying, "but i do think partnership is about two people knowing their place. i like order."

you knew it was going to be hard. being non-straight in any particular way is like, always hard. these days you kind of like answering the question what's your sexuality? with a shrug and a smile - it's fine - is your most common response. like they asked you how your life is going and not to reveal your identity. you like not being straight. you like kissing girls. some days you know you're into men, and sometimes you're sitting across from a man, and you're thinking about the power of compulsory heterosexuality. are you into men, or are you just into the safety that comes from being seen with them? after all, everyone knows you're failing in life unless you have a husband. it almost feels like a gradebook - people see "straight married" as being "all A's", and anything else even vaguely noncompliant as being ... like you dropped out of the school system. you cannot just ignore years of that kind of conditioning, of course you like attention from men.

"so let's talk boundaries." he orders more wine for you, gesturing with one hand like he's rousing an orchestra. sir, this is a fucking chain restaurant. "I am not gonna date someone who still has male friends. also, i don't care about your little friends, i care about me. whatever stupid girls night things - those are lower priority. if i want you there, you're there."

he wasn't like this over text, right? you wouldn't have been even in the building if he was like this. you squint at him. in another version of yourself, you'd be running. you'd just get up and go. that's what happens on the internet - people get annoyed, and they just leave. you are locked in place, almost frozen. you need to go to the bathroom and text someone to call you so you have an excuse, like it's rude to just-leave. like he already kind of owns you. rudeness implies a power paradigm, though. see, even your social anxiety allows the patriarchy to get to you.

you take a sip of the new glass of wine. maybe this will be a funny story. maybe you can write about it on your blog. maybe you can meet ariana grande and ask her if she just maybe needs to take some time to sit and think about her happiness and how she measures her own success.

is this settling down? is this all that's left in your dating pool? just accepting that someone will eventually love you, and you have to stop being picky about who "makes" you a wife?

you look down to your hand, clutching the knife.

[whump-polls]

interested in some demographics, so

[orientation-archive]

PT/Riveflexible + Lakflexible!!/end PT

Riveflexible + Lakflexible!!

Riveflexible is an orientation in which the individual is rivesexual (having fluid attraction to women) but is flexible in this identity; rarely having fluid attraction to men.

Lakflexible is an orientation in which the individual is laksexual (having fluid attraction to men) but is flexible in this identity; rarely having fluid attraction to women.

[ponochino]

"He could be Patricia, Peter, Polly, or all three at once for all I care." - Benedict

So what I'm hearing is that Benedict would 100% be attracted to a gender fluid person and which means Sophie Beckett could be gender fluid (which could work really well with the double identities in the story line, if done respectfully) and then Bridgerton could explore a whole new facet of being queer beyond just sexuality.

Make it happen.

[andromaqves]

songs for turning; a quarry soundtrack

01. ptolemae - ethel cain (suffer does the wolf, crawling to thee—) 02. feral love - chelsea wolfe (run from the light, your eyes black like an animal—) 03. dangerous - son lux (how am i supposed to run? now— am i supposed to run?) 04. oxytocin - billie eilish (wanna see what you can take— you should really run away!) 05. i feel like a god - deathbyromy (nothing you can do about me, so high that you cannot touch me—) 06. sudden desire - hayley williams (your fingerprints on my skin, a painful reminder—) 07. body mind hell - vtss (ask no questions tell no lies, those hungry eyes are my demise—) 08. choke - royal & the serpent (beg you for mercy 'cause my vision is blurry i'm afraid you could hurt me—) 09. eyes on fire - blue foundation (i won't soothe your pain, i won't ease your strain—) 10. eat me alive - swarm, soundr (and there are no devils in hell, they live in my mind—) 11. pyre - son lux (bring all your things, and we can build a pyre—) 12. i'm not human at all - sleep party people (we're not human at all— we have no heart.) click to listen on spotify.

[dhddmods]

Neuaporine & waveric flags!

We noticed two terms that do not have flags while working on our pride-guide on @dh-dd-hivemind, so we decided to fix that!

(We did not coin these terms. Just the flags for them.)

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Neuaporine: A neugender person that has a gender which is part-neutral, part aporine. It goes along with the terms neuwoman, neuman, neufem, neumasc, neuandrogyne, neumaverique, neuxenine/xeneutrois, and neutherine.

The flag follows the theme of the neuandrogyne flag. It uses the colors of the aporagender flag, while also using the black, green, and white theme seen in the neugender flag.

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Waveric Attraction: Attraction that is fluid. For example, a person that feels queerplatonic attraction one day, romantic attraction the next day, then later a mix of sexual and romantic attraction, etc.

A person that experiences waveric attraction might desire a wavership.

Pink represents romantic and alterous attraction. Orange represents physical (aesthetic, sensual, sexual) attraction. Yellow represents platonic and queerplatonic attraction. Green represents mental or social attraction. Purple represents blended attraction. White represents fluidity. Grey represents a lack of attraction or demi-attraction.

[svapacsingulus]

svapac meaning

singulus visibility, awareness, pride and community.

[the-rorster]

Doing my part in breaking the gender binary by just existing as myself Instead of trying to make it make sense to some people who will never be me. Im a guy. I'm azlian, I'm trisgender, both cis and trans. I'm a lesbian but I'd kiss a guy. I'm pansexual but only in a lesbian way. In a lesboy way sometimes. I love myself and I love the people around me and I don't care if that doesn't make any sense because at the end of the day I'm happy in my identity my attractions are for me

[anticomphet]

“genderfluid transition” tiktoks are so annoying. you’re literally just going from masc to femme. how progressive to say that a woman can’t dress in multiple ways and remain a woman

[fairmerthefarmer]

Dryads

[gayferrari]

Bringing back the horny vibes by saying that some of the drivers this year (and those stupid hot TikTok edits) made me rethink my whole sexuality and I went from being a confident lesbian to “maybe I like 1% of men”

I sit safe in the knowledge that I find them hot in the way a fictional character can be hot... you know that clip of Aragorn opening the doors? That lives in the same space in my brain as Lewis's hands do :3 I'm not gonna fuck you but I want you to get fucked kinda vibes