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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#lan xichen#Ring ring! It's your judgment call! None of the lan brothers are there to pick it up!#Lan Xichen is so openly like 'I trust Jin Guangyao so much! Our bond is so deep! I believe in him like you believe in wwx!'#The tension! I remember not knowing how this would go because woagh the red flags for betrayal were so strong here.#Now I have spoiler brain so I mostly see the heartbreak coming but I still remember the anxiety of thinking lxc would betray lwj.#The way LXC compares his relationship to JGY is so funny to me. They aren't technically canon but...like....come on.#LXC *also* lets on that he knows LWJ has feelings for WWX. The implications are the loudest subtext I have seen.#Personally I see it as romantically one-sided on LXCs side. I think JGY knows and LXC denies his heart.#I think the tragedy is that JGY can't move past his need to make everything a game of chess to see LXC as more than an oppertunity#Here's the bigger tragedy: The one time he followed his heart...it led him to Qin-Su. Whom he loved dearly!#but...oh god was that ever a massive disaster that must have been internalized as 'following my heart is a mistake I can never make again.'#Ah - Happy Puffy Sleeves WWX debut day! We finally made it!#I'm personally a fan of the happy accident of WWX having white sleeves for this arc B*)
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I will never be able to do the sunset scene justice. I will never be able to recreate the most beautiful, romantic confession, character growth showing, most heart-pouring-out mushy bits you ever did see in a githyanki. Because I.
Am a fool.
Who really wanted a dialogue option asking if keeping an illithid in the squad was gonna be a deal-breaker with this relationship.
Probably woulda ruined the tender moment pitching the piña colada friendship there.
....100% it would.
#baldur's gate 3#bg3 spoilers#bg3#bg3 fanart#bg3 comic#lae'zel#greygold#babe's taking that protective love language very seriously#But seriously every conversation with lae'zel during act 3 felt like I was one wrong dialogue option away with her breaking up with me#The dawning horror when you realize the sole joy of your life is trying to befriend your brain-eating mortal enemy#The dawning horror when you realize you've placed all your joy in an optimistically delusional fool#This is probably validating Lae'zel's fear of sharing her heart#because she placed her heart in Greyg and Greyg is now cowabungaing off a cliff into redeem-the-irredeemable-or-die-trying-ville#I'm so sorry Lae'zel kladjfkdjf#remember when I said relationships can get bumpy~?
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for something as trivial and simple those feelings sure are hard to get rid of
also made a gif a version for fun + alt version with no tears under the cut
the gif is in very low resolution...this is a feature (i could make it bigger but that would require saving each frame individually and than glueing it all together. also i feel like low resolution suits it better. aesthetically and fits the mood)
#hs#homestuck#dirk strider#eye strain#probably? if you think i should tag something else let me know!!#anyway hooray its time for rambling in the tags#so uhhh heres the teæ i've been sick for like a week and you know how it is when suddenly your throat becomes the main gunk warehouse#and you can't breathe lol. wish i could just pull it out. anywaaayy this is basically a vent piece for me being sick lol#also i could draw remotively the same thing with kris deltarune. oh how easy it is to project having a cold#though i have been also experiencing troubles with feelings recently as well....how fitting for dirk#speaking of the man himself (enough of me) his relationship with his own Heart...is peculiar to say the least#the thing i love about alphakids is that despite being so feral they were. so relatable. i cannot stress this enough how unwell they are an#and how they represented being a teen so well. yeah being 15 years old makes that to you#imagine being an emotional mess and trying to fit the 'norm' and act normal about your friends so youre not offputting#and then you fall in love with you friend and your ai clone falls in love with him too looool noone makes out of this one alive#uhh literally. godtiering stuff and dying remember#and speaking of it. tw for suicidal talk for the rest of tags#do you ever think dirk was suicidal. of course the part of when he teleports his head to jake was totally planned and he knew he would ->#wake up as dreamself but. don't you think the moment he cut his head off was sort of. cathartic. how much did he hate his own guts#beheading himself not only for the plan...but also because he thought he 'deserved' it#also wow he is a Prince and was literally beheaded don't you think its funny hahaa#sigh poor thing#this has ended on a not the very pleasant note hm#also fckkkkkk i didn't draw anything with rose/mary for the lesbian visabilty week#(putting the slash because tumblr search system has a dumb gag with showing you posts that contain the tag inside the other tag.#and i don't want this post to show up for the ros/mary fans because it's not!!!! its rose's father emotional crisis post!!!!)#update YOOOO WHAT THE HELL THE GIF HAS EVEN LESS PIXELS THEN I PLANNED fantastic#this your breakfast now tumblr. enjoy your crunchy flakes of dirks meltdown. mwah
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I understand the idea of Leah like not hanging out with Elliott if you go out with her but I also hate the very idea with a passion because WHY CAN THERE BE NO FRIENDS ? Their friendship dynamic is so nice to think about why do I have to ruin it just to go out with the pretty artist lady??
#Also if I remember right she cuts him off when you hit SIX hearts with her ??#YOURE NOT EVEN TOGETHER AT THAT POINT#all of the pairs should be allowed to hang out while in a relationship let them be 3d characters im begging you#stardew valley#sdv#sdv leah#sdv elliot#sdv elliott
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i am wide awake thinking about that post canon jb au again when I should be sleeping …!!! such is the nature of the jbrainrot…
#the whole setting is jb hanging out in the rock post war#and tyrion became lord of the westerlands / the rock is his but he’s off doing stuff in kingslanding and jaime is just filling in for him#atm . but after tyrion comes back his original plan WAS he’ll get married to brienne right away and they can move back to tarth or be#travelling hedge knights together or whatever brienne wants to do he’s down for it. but the important thing is that he wants to stay with#her .. so he’s using the time they have together currently to court her bc she deserves that at least !!#so jaime goes off trying to court and woo brienne but she just thinks they’re hanging out bc they got relatively close in the war#so jaime being touchy feely isn’t anything new. jaime making innuendos and being kinda flirty isn’t anything new either#but this time he means it LOL he’s like I want to kiss you SO badly and brienne will be like lol silly jaime (:#I was also thinking they’d help rebuild lannisport just bc it’s a time for healing now and it would be good for the people to get to know#jaime and the lannisters in general bc of how they would just used to sit high above the rock looking down on everyone#but now jaime is like. actively helping and being known and being with the people rather than just being that absent distant lord#also he’s thinking he might as well try and foster some relationship with the commoners to his house bc it’s for tyrion anyway#so he’s off doing that and brienne is tagging along bc she does not want to go home yet#she wants to stay with him and she’s helping out as an excuse to stay a little longer but she doesn’t exactly want to leave him#but how do you tell someone that and ignore the big glaring part that she’s actually in love with him and the fact that they both survived#the war is getting her hopeful???? u want her to admit that?? like a normal person??? no..!!#so she’s just staying and helping out bc a) it’s the sensible thing to do b) so she can bask on the sun that is Jaime Lannister#for like a few more days. weeks. maybe a month bc the weather is soooo bad in the stormlands rn 🙄😳#anyway jb hanging out! and everything is going well and good but jaime is now getting popular w the people and he’s also looking quite#rugged and handsome post war now that he’s thirty flirty and thriving and he also has a new scar across his lip that makes his#smirks even more ! rogueish … ! and he looks quite nice with the greying hair 👀 so now there’s gossips around him#not to mention he’s single too and I think if you were one of the heroes who helped win the war they’ll forget the kingslaying#man with no honor business so lo and behold brienne eavesdrops a group of ladies bc she’s a chismosa at heart and they’re talking about a#potential marriage for a lord lannister (!!!) and there’s going to be a big tourney held in Kingslanding for it (!!!)#and brienne remembers jaime mentioning the ought to go to Kingslanding in the next few weeks (!!!) and now she’s remembering jaime IS a#lord though not theee lord of the westerlands STILL a lord from one of the seven houses and he’s single and very eligible for marriage rn#and now she’s realising everything is returning back the way it was before the war where society rules matters and she has her own role as#now the evenstar bc rip selwyn and jaime has his own role too and the court is a whole different battlefield#one that she isn’t equipped in and even though she had found some new confidence in herself bc killing a bunch of ice invisible zombies#with your own magic sword will do that for you she doesn’t think (and she’s being objective not negative) she stands a chance in THAT
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1x09 The Green Council / 2x01 A Son For A Son
Aegon & Jacaerys confronted with an impossible situation, and reflexively hiding in their mother’s neck like children
#hotdedit#jacegon#rhaenicent#aligon#jacenyra#hotd spoilers#mothers and sons#rani graphics#mother alyssa dolorosa#the beating of your heart is making me bleed from within#listen those relationship tags are there For Me#i can’t remember if i have a foursome tag. i should.#this is impossible to show over screencaps but it’s crazy to me#if u gif feel free to steal this akskdjd#but send it to me or tag me in it!!
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Ouhhhh friendship I love friendship……..
#I’m reading volumes 14-16 of the ouran manga OOUGHHH MY HEART#I love this weird little friend group so much its unreal#like u have this charming sweeps you off your feet prince but he’s actually a huge lovable idiot with a kind heart and his friends#who are all misfits that he reached out to and drew in because of his kindness and own weirdness like that shits TIGHT BRO#and the trauma part where he has some deep seated issues with love bc he thinks that itll break a family apart like with his mom#how his family isnt allowed to be together because his mom and dad fell in love and how he says he wants to build a big house#so that way one day everyone will get along as a family like. all he wants is not to lose everyone and the only way to do that is#by maintaining a certain order.. he both wants a complete family so bad and doesnt want anything to sour between anyone#so he assigns each of his friends a family role based on how he sees them and YEAH its mostly played for giggles and tamakis#already weird so its his way of showing theyre close to him but. god damn this boy has LAYERS#it also feels kinda meta towards how found family tends to get thrown around to assign characters as 'siblings' or family roles instead of#using it to describe characters who are close enough to be each others family. cuz tamakis doing that EXACT THING in a way tht#ties in with his character and i have to say its fascinating using that within the story itself and its completely plausible#theres a lot of things i can say about ouran that are good bad and questionable but. god i love it when characters are niceys to each other#i remember i really liked the mall episode bc kyoya and haruhi got to spend time together and their relationship isnt very close#but it was really nice to see their personalities bounce off each other. i think i also wouldve liked to see haruhi alone with kaoru#i also firmly believe all of the hosts are at least a little in love with haruhi and this can be anything like endearing romantic cuz like#who DOESNT love haruhi. kyoya i think would want to study her under a microscope like his fascination with her draws him in#but im fucking obsessed with whatever haruhi and tamaki have going on because YES hes obsessed with her YES he jumps at the chance to#put her in a cute costume but haruhi? she just fucking goes with it because she knows hes fun to be around even if hes a little wacky abt i#theyre all so. NNGGHHHH#ouran#ohshc#yapping
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i was on the most random nostalgia kick and rewatched the prince of egypt yesterday and let me just say... that movie is truly one of the greatest animated films of all time.
#it's sooo good#i'm not religious but i enjoyed it from start to finish#i used to be christian (not my fault‚ raised that way) and even though i left the faith a long time ago biblical stories still fascinate me#like they're so interesting when you look at them as simply ancient mythology#and one thing i really appreciate about the prince of egypt is that they don't shove any religious message down your throat#the focus is on moses and ramses's relationship#and... wow. i did not remember it being that deep. i was NOT expecting to get so invested in their tragedy#i really liked the sort of grey area they both fell into and how they weren't just starkly good and evil#like ramses being the way he is because of what his father drilled into him‚ his fear of being the “weak link” and dooming his empire#and ofc moses unleashing the plagues and even allowing ramses's son to die in order to free his people#but i loved how they showed he was torn up about it because yeah! the egyptians were his people too!#and i loved how ramses didn't immediately hate him when the plagues began! he still loved him and saw him as a brother‚ however misguided!#but then moses proved he was willing to do anything for the hebrews' freedom. only then was their relationship beyond saving#this movie made my heart hurt a little. the deteriorating relationship of two brothers at the centre of it all... god#i have so many thoughts and feelings#it's so good. and ofc the animation is stunning. it's definitely a favourite of mine#some things from your childhood hit different when you revisit them as an adult because man i did not grasp all these layers as a kid#text#personal#misc
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if i see one more person say that helena didn't take chris she's just being a loving grandmother i'm going to kick a man
#i dont know which man but i will find one#911 spoilers //#because thats not what is happening at all !!!!!!#she's enabling this 14 year olds behavior which is just going to turn him into eddie#and eddie has been doing everything in his power for 7 seasons to make sure he's NOT going to be eddie#so :)#but when your child wont talk to you and your parents solution is to just take him and not try to help mend that relationship at all#hm doesn't seem too helpful and loving to me#like people have to remember the context !!!!!!!!!!! she didn't just take him out of the goodness of her heart she's been wanting to do thi#to eddie since before they moved to LA#fuck you and fuck off <3#wish i could shut up abt this but its genuinely such a fascinating storyline#i'm just Sad
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A friendly reminder :
Those who love u -
Would never talk behind ur back.
Would never be disrespectful towards ur family.
Would never probe into ur personal space.
Would never use ur triggers against u.. just to provoke u.
Would never encourage people to be disrespectful towards u.. just to get a reaction out of u.
Would never criticize u.
Would never treat u like an option.
Would never criticize ur ideas or opinions.
Would never use ur mental illness as a way to further control / gaslight u.
Would never make u question ur worth.
Stop making excuses for those who hurt you. Start being gentle with yourself.
End of discussion.
#relationship#friendly reminder#a friendly reminder#daily reminder#reminder#remember#self awareness#self help#self esteem#self care#self love#fyi#for your information#for you#note to self#self improvement#self respect#self compassion#relationship tips#healing#healing journey#healingjourney#self healing#healer#heart#❤️#♥️#heartbroken#soft heart#spilled heart
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I think Lexaeus and Zexion's relationship is mutually beneficial and they're both aware of it. Zexion reaps a lot more obvious benefits (protection, a listening ear, an extra set of hands), but in my mind the reason why Lexaeus protects Zexion in the first place is because of the immense guilt he feels for not being able to save anyone in his first life.
Zexion lets Lexaeus use him as a means of assuaging that guilt, and Lexaeus lets Zexion use him for... basically everything. And they do really care about each other but Nobodies are so fucking bad at recognizing that they're even capable of caring about anything so they both think they're just using each other like they're two separate kingdoms with a trade agreement or something and not close colleagues
#kingdom hearts#lexaeus#zexion#this is what my pinned post is for! dont tag as ship pleaseeeee#also @ lexaeus so you realized nothing was truly upheld on your watch#and dedicated yourself to protecting one specific person in order to cling onto your hollow pride? ok knight of despair#remember when I said ienzo probably thinks people using each other is a normal part of any relationship#yeah#zexienzo posting never ends huh#kh headcanons#me post
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I recently found out people ship Cassandra with Apollo.
My initial reaction was...
Just tan their hides. You know what happened to her because the the bastard, don't you?..
Then, I was overwhelmed by morbid curiosity, and checked AO3. People are writing rape fics about them. ...Why?..
Could I ever see Cassandra x Apollo?.. I don't know, maybe. But, definitely not the nonsense I mentioned. Dubcon at most. I guess, he might somehow coerce her into sleeping with him, and later rescue her from the fall of Troy, because she's pregnant with his child, or something (Zeus would be pissed, I'm fine with that).
Sounds like an intriguing story, with a lot of morally questionable elements. I can imagine Apollo confiding in Artemis, wondering why his wife is so upset. She'd just go "are you serious rn?.. -_-".
...What, you're surprised I'm among those I wish to hide with a broom? Don't be. It happens quite often, actually.
#greek mythology#greek myth fandom#apollo#cassandra#apollo x cassandra#diary pages#thoughts#greek gods#this is such a fucked up pairing#in the iliad you like apollo then remember what he did cassandra#i don't blame her for rejecting his advances he's an entitled fboy with nine girlfriends and she wanted to remain chaste#the way he responded is very cruel honestly cassandra's story breaks my heart#of course i'm discussinv them as characters not religious figures#apollo can be such a creep#greek myth fanfic#fanfiction ideas#what the hell i have a hundred epics in my wips already including one with apollo#but i SHOULD put this aside the “Apollo coerces Cassandra then saves her because she's pregnant”#it's dark but also very intriguing to explore... it isn't supposed to be hot really well maybe later#dionysus married ariadne why can't apollo marry cassandra#she wouldn't want to marry him but what other choice would she have#their further relationship just seems so fascinating#yeah apollo would be confused why she's upset - he'd get her being upset about the fall of troy but not why she's upset with him#but as gods do he'd imagine she should be happy about getting rescued by him#why am i doing this to myself (and cassandra)#i suppose... i just want a better ending for cassandra (back to the fic idea) which this would be even though she'd have to deal with apollo#side note imagine the “pairing” in disney's hercules it would be hilarious#cassandra confronting hercules about his creepy older cousin trying to hit on her#or icarus trying to ask apollo if she'll go out with him and apollo replying “if you have my luck she'll just throw a shoe at your face”#she should take out a restraining order also
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i think "its only weird if you make it weird" is one of the number one sentences jamie and marcy say to each other
90% of the time its jamie asking "is this weird" though bc hes just a big idiot
#was remembering the comic i did w them... wahhh#they STILL break my heart#✖ ooc.#romance is dead and i killed it im turning all your romantic relationships into undefinable ones#oop! there goes another one! ohhh and another. woops! uh oh!#never stop thinking abt how jamie and marcy would be DESECRATED if this thing had a fandom KJNDFSN
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I always thought when I found a good relationship of my own I'd stop being such a little hater vis a vis other people's romantic escapades, because surely I was just jealous, right ?? what I really wanted was to be that happy and in love, right ??? no one is that hateful and meanies over something that literally doesn't involve them, right !!!!
unfortunately, good reader,
#deerchatter#im not romance-repulsed unless someone is doing it stupid. unfortunately everyone in the world loves to do it so so stupid#i hate amatonormativity i hate the way it creeps into everything#i hate the uhaul lesbian jokes i hate the rushing into hyper-vulnerable relationships with the first person who volunteers to#hold your heavy heart for you. i know queer loneliness is real but guys for the love of god look after yourselves and remember your friends#the amount of friends i've seen end up in shitty awful situations because they thought they found the love of their life and would never#need anyone or anything else again after two dates is staggering. i'm sorry but it's not magically going to be healthy behavior just becaus#it's gay. take it slow. get to know that person first. hold on to the rest of your social net. christ it can go so wrong otherwise
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i have a bit of a situation these days and it's driving me crazy, i have nobody to talk to or ask for advice so i am venting here, hope that's okay.
i am a 19 year old lesbian and my whole love life has been filled with girls. a month ago, i met a guy and started having feelings for him. the first time i ever noticed that i liked girls was so painful and unusual for me, it was very hard to get through. i managed to get through it but i am having the same struggle all over again. i identified myself as a lesbian for so long, this feels awfully confusing and complicated. i have no idea how to explain it to my friends because they all know that i'm not into guys. i still don't feel any type of sexual attraction towards guys, even the one that i have feelings for. the making out part is fine for me but i have no desire of having sex. he is completely okay with it and loves me the way i am, which makes me very happy. however, i am having a conflict in my head. i still am not attracted to men but i am currently involved with one?! this is hard for me to process, let alone telling people about it.
i feel stuck and i need opinions, i'd appreciate it a lot. <3
i mean the simple answer is to sit down and really think about if youre comfortable being bi, darlin.
#listen im not super like. experienced. with non-butchfemme aligned lesbians or. struggling? with labels? so much#ive never gone through that pain. i am lacking critical applicable experience on that front#so all i can really think of is consider what about this guy makes you feel comfortable loving him and what makes that different from your#relationships w girls. what makes women different. what makes him different.#do you WANT to fuck this guy. are you uncomfortable and wish you werent? are you neutral and just dont feel it?#also like. consider. what this situation is giving you and him. emotionally/physically. if its something you desire going forward.#something that helps me sort stuff out is like. can i imagine myself married to this person. every day. forever. which is drastic but helps#n just. keep reminding yourself. your label is an entirely neutral beast. its Just a word for you to communicate what You are experiencing#she speaks#asks#anon#and like. bless your heart. remember youre 19 and you get to just do whatever feels right. keep yourself safe and build your own comfort
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#positive reinforcement#positive quotes#words of affirmation#don’t stop praying#love#heart posture#open heart#healingjourney#mercy#relationships quotes#bible#hebrew bible#psalm 116#bible journaling#meditation#love is#yahweh#christianity#Old Testament#self discipline#rest#no worries#power in remembering#psalms#king david#tumblr fyp#write your story
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