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seventeendeer · 8 months ago

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I always thought when I found a good relationship of my own I'd stop being such a little hater vis a vis other people's romantic escapades, because surely I was just jealous, right ?? what I really wanted was to be that happy and in love, right ??? no one is that hateful and meanies over something that literally doesn't involve them, right !!!!

unfortunately, good reader,

#deerchatter #im not romance-repulsed unless someone is doing it stupid. unfortunately everyone in the world loves to do it so so stupid #i hate amatonormativity i hate the way it creeps into everything #i hate the uhaul lesbian jokes i hate the rushing into hyper-vulnerable relationships with the first person who volunteers to #hold your heavy heart for you. i know queer loneliness is real but guys for the love of god look after yourselves and remember your friends #the amount of friends i've seen end up in shitty awful situations because they thought they found the love of their life and would never #need anyone or anything else again after two dates is staggering. i'm sorry but it's not magically going to be healthy behavior just becaus #it's gay. take it slow. get to know that person first. hold on to the rest of your social net. christ it can go so wrong otherwise

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